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with relationships you're frustrated, irritated or confused on what to do. Doktor Bologna will give you some guidance and if you got a money question or you want to know, how do I get out a debt? How do I begin to build wealth. What are some things you can do to help yourself? Well guess what I'm gonna try to help you there as well follows social. You can find John Bologna at John Bologna on Facebook Youtube Instagram. You can find this show at M C show, and I don't yet we also have a Youtube group that is alive. We and fiery as well and so find a sinister questions oh sure, we'd love to talk with you, we're gonna get the phone line. We ve got a joke in Seattle, Joseph How can John and I help you I have a question about in love, I am also outlaws which want to recall about. Are we gonna? Do Switzerland of go ahead?

this became? The trees were very excited about battleground yeah, but they have. The crucial question is about enlargement over give tee. Specifically when they are deeply in debt with with Canada, a big hole. With a little shovel and it gets more frustrating them they give and just as we can see what is doing to their future, if there's something that we can do that guy just shut up and try to be appreciative and show them? We appreciate that, even though we are not pleased with with death on the right Are there any grandkids involved there? We just had a first outbreak already congrats. So what Jimmy Example. What are some gives their given. You. So this is kind of little things like here, the baby, all data

my father or little things like that at Christmas, it usually about eight hundred thousand dollars, just in case some things we need, but we never saving up for or whether it blew kitchen able well, how do you know how were you aware of their financial situation? They're pretty open about it, so we hear about it. So what? What? What do you feel guilty when you get these gifts mean to you? Do you feel tell me what you're what you're working through? I guess, what in the regional asking that is put their math aside these gifts or do some to you? What is it Yeah, I guess I guess I'm really thought about. Where are you because you said you you alluding to guilt. Yeah you're,

moving to the EU that that, because you said they don't really not in a situation that give it and my question would be sweet. I think it's it's just that we we can see there are hurting themselves their future and let you know we're going to feel responsible because we will have had you know x, amount of dollars worth of worth of with that that that their say what was the game changing moment? Were you Joseph, when you saw money a little bit different and realise that what your friend, what what was it? Wasn't it I want to make over was the show what cause you to open your eyes. I think it was it little money make over gifted down to your laws. We have not had you talk to them about money at all. We we ve talked to him, but it's kind of a well, but

That is something that we are working on and right denounce. The path of Joseph you're in laws are grown. Ups. And they can do what they want to. An ear and a unique moment to decide whether this is you being a grown up. You're a new dad now this is the rest of your life. Your fully in grown up mode. Now you and your wife, to decide a you value relations. Yep over be right down. Value. Acceptance of a guest is complicit. And no one's gonna be able to do the math for you, but you and your wife young enough to make their value statement together and you cannot recognise it. Some parents realize man we didn't say I love you enough. We We have some sort of built in parent gift along the way and the way going to feel good about ourselves, enforced by grandkids gifts, ruminant overdue Christmas, and is that right

technically nor the Spirit and a heart behind it. I get it. I understand, and I'm not gonna, be somebody up over that, but the day man. You only run the risk of my opinion crystal memory. Only run the risk of my opinion of alienating you're in law s. Gonna love, you that's exactly right. Here's the bottom! Why you have kids and you ve got him laws. You know how grandparents are with with Grandpapa right. You can't stop that train. No, ok, you get throw chopped had locked mess around with that what they can do, Josephine we can do is say, hey mom and dad. We she drew you knows stuff, doesn't it love brass? Here's a copy of it! Toto Money make overbook as we really want you to have a financial future along with us, but here's the deal only spend a hundred dollars on us it right now what you do with and babies is your business, but just only give about give em a limit. You know now they choose like you said to follow that so be it, but they can also she's not or they could say, hate grandparents, economic pillars,

the grandkids. I like this. This fearless do no gifts. This year was right. Which other ever gonna reading out loud and how awkward and comfortable it's gonna be. We're gonna tell each other that we love each other. Chris, laugh in here now going into a feeling that I have been a lonely. Seven have ADA, We're going to tell each other how much we love each other. We're gonna show it we're gonna ruin. Do a activity Christmas when I do activity birthday, and you led by their gifts anymore now, and then you offer that as an extension to them, you know what we ve just hit on the bottom line of having a conversation, the enlarged no longer allow it to be the secret frustration or secret awkwardness. Let's be open not to have a conversation with a threat and express look, and I can only change my gift. Giving behaviour, not so maybe I'm and encouraged and moving forward. I cannot control over grown ups round alone. I may especially not your insight outlaws now. Don't do it

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you to send a man? That's exactly what you ve done right now. Baloney is out pacing me in the quest. He has come again on a wolf and you're gonna get their careers but its work, and I hope I am not hey. I'm learning contentment, but I'm gonna give you this question drawn. This is from David, and this is from the Rams baby steps community by the way It noted that community exist. If you are working any of the baby steps or if you ve done it all, you ve got opportunity to plug in and have community. You can check that out a deeper antsy dot com. But this question comes from David. He says schools, warming to go back isolated house. Does this effect children's to health. This has been a big, so schools are right. Now or in a no win situation, and I'm calling it a no win, a no blame, it just is and so kind through all the silliness. There is no question. Kids. They called the nerd word as the co regulate. Kids do not

The ability to stand on their own two feet with identity with am I say, am, I loved. They are always ping pong in off the people in their in their world. Ok, that's why? Having parents who look their kids in the eye and talk to them and read to them and walk with an illicit and so important. These kids are getting feedback from the environment. This is gonna, be tough for kids, This is really gonna, be tough. Going back and How to talk to a teacher with a mask on is gonna be hard. Dont know a way around that cause. You kids, are also carriers of cover, depending on where you listen. What what new source you doing? What dogma and listen to it just gonna be hearts Schools are. Gonna have to be hyper, intentional. Listening about eye contact about journaling talking through things with their kids and they're. Gonna have to be, Protection by helping parents have tools to process the school day when they go home, but that's a good point and I'm here's the thing

you cannot pass on, would you dont possess, etc, as though, as apparent, I think, is also important to realize hey. How have you been approach in this global situation? You know how have you been talking about it outwardly and I think its import John to also have age or appropriate conversations with these young people absolutely pretending. It exist now: creed, tension in your home and kids are the best about feeling tension and look in the mirror and saying it must be my fault because they call regular himself there always looking. So if they feel distance from apparent that kid says it's my fault, what I, I do to screw this up. What did I do to make my parents I wanna talk to me about my friends: are my teacher, and so it's always communicating in the in the most age appropriate, but intentional with kids, that this is a message. Situation. We love you. I love you, I love you and show it show it show it show it obscure David. Thank you. So much rhythm underline again. If you all are out there, You ve got a question: fine, John on social media. At John Bologna. You can find me at Chris

Hogan. Three. Sixty we'd love to talk to you, we're gonna, get back to the votes again. I want to give me the number triple eight eight to five five, two to five again, that's eighty, eight eight to five five, two to five call us. I know you all have questions and are things. You'd love, some guidance on we'd love to help you mix up. We got, Actually we're gonna go down to Florida and Fort Myers, Ashley can John, and I help you. Hi. How are you guys it's a pleasure to talk to you? What are you very very much like you could call it My husband and I have been in business for about a year, but we want to make sure were scaling our business correctly. I'm a little background. Currently, my husband works full time. Under somebody for a detail, company I'm at a dealership and that's basically what we face the business offer of hoping in the future.

To you now manage contracts with fewer showed that cause in centres to line their day to day and war. At the point where our side huh, is actually making more than the whole time and before coded. We actually went out to their frank dealerships did they heard. This is what we do. This is our price infrastructure structure. These are the problems that we can call for. You but we have not received any call back I got my bigger question is how do we better approach by central clients to get the yes so use lit and you ve met with provided them the priceless, and then you went back in your weight November. Call you yeah! Well, you forgot the next step see as well. This is like tennis, you ever play tennis, yeah, ok, so

the ball, is in your court. What do you have to do gotta hit and then I had it where. Actually come up baby work with me here. Ok, I get it back to you prepares the deal. You hit the ball their court by giving them the priceless right and data. Hit back? So what are you gonna? Do you got you gotta go find the ball, so I would just say pick up the phone proactively call them and follow up make them till. You know- and this is a very difficult thing because we are so sensitive nowadays were we rationalize in our heads- that all they must not want to do business with us. They didn't call so they didn't. They don't like me they don't like my business and that's not true call them. People are busy, things, are buzz and ring and ending and get on the phone get in touch with the general manager. Whoever that decision makers talk with them about the priceless asked them for their business. Ok That proactive this. It's going to feel weird. Ok,

of train many salespeople over over the years. That's going to feel weird you're thinking, you're bothering them you're, not what you're doing I've a level of persistent, so you can serve them. So what I urge you to do, is all the people you the thing to make a call list, call them if they dont return. Your call, go see them. Ok do be proactive enough. That tell you know, and even if they till you know, I want you to hear this phrase. Is gonna change your world when you No, I want you to hear not yet because that's really what it boils down to they don't know, they need you yet so I'm gonna be persists that I'm going to stay on the forefront of our minds. I'm gonna be proactive because my product and service has value, and I think, if you do, that, it'll help your business stand apart. So you said something Chris that I haven't thought about for a minute. So there's this there's this nerd word and a nerd concept in psychology called fundamental attribution here. That's when I get in site your head and decide for myself

Why you did what you just did right right. So in a sales word world, I put my my pricing on your table, I say here's my value and I walk away. You know call me, then I get to do so. To get in your head and say we didn't not call. Because you're a loser in your an idiot and says a stupid business and what a failure and more on you are, or I can just go, not back on the door and say he had written a pricing list off our things go. What a waste of energy the time we spend in other people's heads, that's right! Well and other psychological phrase on that is it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy Now you didn't get the business because you already expected not to cause already and you told me I think at this as cause I'm an idiot, that's right, and then I become an idiot, that's right! So it it's! One of those things were again, don't assume it'll do Kids, are not new with you with your spouse to work, that's right, call them and make them say hey. You know what right we're good. We don't need it not so can you know what I appreciate you let,

no that I want to follow up with you, a couple weeks and just to check in and so just be bear with me here, I know what we can do for you and I know you'll love it, but to some chicken with you ever We examined the email you touch based, but if you ever need me call me a lot going, courageous that that you, saving up for yourself in your what you're not doing this just taken the status quo. How much do we walk through a decrease in just hit nonsense you? How much I want you're a day, just adjutant. What other people are saying in to me and why they're saying it? It's not real. No, it's not The thinking about me, but he's probably think it about China to closer business because covert we're busy their peers eager busy. Unfortunately, I think you know you could on this before that voice. In back of our heads some may can be. It can be an encouraging thing, or you can be a limited and the threat the danger of it his job? There's nobody even knows you're tellin yourself that just pipes in all day pipes unfiltered, it really is, and so I think we get to choose the track. I know it

so I want you to choose some positive, encouraging words for yourself that word about what the world a sand. You would you think about you and I want you to play that track time and time again. Remember you can't if you will for Mamma, told me that a long time for this is that they bring, I heard,

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Deloney and we are excited to be back with you and want you to know. If you got a question, want you to call us that number to call us eight hundred and eighty eight, eight hundred and twenty five five thousand two hundred and twenty five again, that's eight hundred and eighty eight two hundred and fifty five two hundred and twenty five the day blinds com you can find out for yourself. Why blinds dot com is the number one online retailers custom window covering you get free samples, free ship, and with the new promos they run every month, you'll save even more f. You are. Measuring challenge. Like me, you screwed up high but often back to him and they won't do full refund. You can use a promo code Ramsay to get the best deal rules interest. Directions apply! Aren't here we go today's comes from Jack in California, he visits they Ramsay dot com to ask the following: how I deal with burn out from work and debt, I'm our only income my wife is a stay at home, mom due to depression,

and anxiety issues, not her work, I find myself to be exhausted and check hang out mentally at work at home. Do too stress of the debt any advice we appreciated who there's a lot and end only catch one things as my wife is a stay at home. Wife due to depression. Anxiety stressed in oh mom was a different, didn't think so, a couple of things here, Chris Another, let me your wisdom, dealing with work and burn out just being exhausted work, debt all the responsibilities. Also, I can hear in this question. I love my wife man. Not doing good. She stayed at home too this. Just a lot in council We call it leakage, which means you can do with it or it will deal with you run, it usually find its way out. I know it's a gross metaphor. It will fall to deal with you and will find its way out in real inopportune times and so Jack. This is

moment when you reach out to a pastor when you reach out to a professional counselor and you sit down and talk about you are personally struggling with what are your debts? That's what we have your peace university on there There's a schedule plan their work, you didn't contact with our good friend, can com and to find out what your work situation, fine professionals, fine experts and you feel and get some connection there. This Thing is owing to reach out to stay at home, wife who are struggling with, oppression and anxieties is not allow her to work. I don't like that language No other unsound controversial. I don't like it when people take on depression and anxiety as an identity. As a way of being as a future. A future prediction of the weather life is gonna. Roll out These are responses. Is your biological responses, their personal boxes to challenges that you can overcome, but you gotta put in the hard work depression in anxiety or

Diseases and they are not. Identities worked John you actually on an article on that's Andy. Ramsay dot com wrote something on her. To deal with anxiety, listen the times we live in right now there ain't, here. How tough strong you are emotionally. We all have period of some serious anxiety. My I walked in today and said today's bit knots in TAT took Mister Christopher Hoagie, right next to me right. If you are not feeling anxious, you should probably bushes for some stuff right, you know what do you do. Usually allow you feel it you gotta get connected. Ok, you got acknowledge it. You ve got to sit down with your loved ones, whether that's your husband Jack here, whether that community that you can be vulnerable with and you gotta start being open and you ve got it side. I dont want this be the rest of my life gotcha and when you that decision in depression makes it hard right. Depression simply means what

going on your life. Is your fault and it's gonna, be this way forever? What happened to you is your fault. It's always gonna be this way, and I want to tell folks who are struggling, that's a lie. He's not true, and there are professionals there are many healthcare there's there are physicians, are folks who can help you get from where you are too, where you gonna go that idea want someone to be resigned to this issue, which is always gonna be well. So that's the reality on the anxiety, the depression in reaching out getting some help, as doctored only just described. Don't stay Do it yourself, because the council ready to get plugged into your church, and I will tell you this jack when it comes to the dollar amount. You didn't in debt overnight, and so your gonna, get out of that overnight. So dont have an unrealistic expect. In amity right now. I could do a whole segment on that unrealistic expectations. What they can do is to feed you from it. Were you ever get started? You can pay off this. You can get this thing done. I'm gonna tell you right now. You gotta do is get plugin, we ve got the right. Plus free trial going on right now, everybody's going through some tough times,

People are hurting? John Maxwell says changes, inevitable growth is optional, and so what we to do is say never again. Never again, I'm gonna put self in this situation. I am, I gonna, feel like this emotionally. When it comes to money Gonna, lose sleep, worrying about an x y, see debt or bill. I'm gonna get away. The plant is actually gonna work, and so we ve lost to do this. All new ICT membership that gives you are best money back, you can learn through all nine lessons of financial bees. University are proven land a win with money. That's not even debatable you can budget with premium features of every dollar, and you can also track your progress with the new baby steps app. You can start your free, Ramsay plus trial right now. All you have to do is take this step You never again have to walk the crisis without having confidence. So here's what you do you can do this and to get your for

wow. I want you to Ramsay plus text. The word trial, T r, L, two three three, seven, eight, nine that's tax we're trying to three three? Seven, eight, nine and you can get plugged in an ability, John, only do you have an opportunity to have access to community, because your in with other people, I think isolation is one of the most dangerous things that we have going on right. Now you ve got the anxiety you ve got the stress intention, but the eye, Relations not being able to be connected with people is real. I think that chiefly the chief, enemy of our time is loneliness and that's pre covered man that was going on before covert when you look the diseases of despair, the the average lifespan, the? U S going down yet again. Are lonely ourselves to death You mean diseases of despair. What are those it is

organ diseases, addictions? What is it addiction? Organ diseases, suicide! It's this idea that I don't belong, I'm stuck here by myself. Every alarm we have in our brains are going off Saint Connect. Can that cannot connect in air thing in our world saying it's all about you just get your friends on your little digital box. You don't need to go to church you don't need to be involved in four. Eight drafters, collective media stuff just go in your room, shut the door near all you need, and that is a fundamental Miss truth. It's a lie: skill, honest man, and then you end up with an over addicted overs. Bent over exhausted system Eddie man and then something comes along like covert and just throws arranged in the middle than ask our track and all the cars pilot behind. What did you get this almost political or whatever justification? isolate right, as we ve been told, stay home state

no do x y, see here right now you not achieved the chief demon right now as other people, so how being made out to look that's right area, but all, but as from raw you know is: is that little kid gonna make me sick? Is my neighbour gonna make me sick that woman walk in Bamiyan sidewalk, so weird living in a spun out exhausted moment when you feel Exhausted I love what Jack asks yearbook. A country. Can your monies within this ed today, when you win find yourself exhausted when you find yourself with people that you love and used for checking not mentally that's a big signal. The indigo. Sit down with somebody sit down the professional, find a past or find a friend. You can on the board and say I'm gettin uncertainty on the edge of a God intentionally reconnect now and the key word in bed is intentional and I think it's of reaching out being clear. I listen a question and on social and I'm glad somebody reached out geared Maloney one

your mouth cloning, but here the as this one says, I'm twenty three years old I make between eighty and a hundred thousand a year depending on the matter. We're gonna have made a huge mistake, bought a super expensive truck with a high interest rate Irene. I made a mistake. I want to take action to get more. About the situation? I oh get this sixty two thousand dollars on the wrong. Goodness, gracious there It is forty, five thousand. What would be my best route to get a cheaper vehicle well, Daniel? The first round is a that trade in values trade area. I want you to look to see what the sale operators, if you can sell us bad war for closer to fifty to fifty five. Now you just need rich load to get yourself out of that payment. Listen what's done it

but now you can get it fixed, keep pushing brother by the State Board and ride it. If you have to that matter, just get this payment audio like this. There has been a real pleasure Lord ruin resulted in hosting along with me this hours, Doktor John, the lonely, and I want to tell you something. If we have had subdued calls already. The social media, has done an amazing job, you all are fired the questions, whether it's from our Ramsay baby steps community, whether

It's wrong. Job alone is twitter or my instagram gonna Twitter. You ok, I've got to grim, ok, MA am twitters. I get up on a hill out here this year we allowed that's, as that is not yet on the start. We just talk to you about the internet not long ago, so just hush minute, but listen. You can find it. Just then a set of questions are you can make it easy? Do it at Ramses showing you can directed? One of us we're going back to the violence. Suzanne is out in LAS Vegas to say, and how can we help you today? I could say that Turkey is such a pleasure to be key. Both will take It's an honor to talk to you to thank you. So I have a question about baby step for I'm going to be thirty three next month and I'm getting ready to be able to start maybe set for bread and I'm very computers, company answers that traditional for one k, I called the Roth irate and

My understanding is very limited about this, but I do in financial peace, universities. I have my box, I'm kind of China through our these eyes, the investment of actions of where the money is? Nothing really tells me boys, the mutual find or email like, I can see a growth in income pointed a growth, but I dont see aggressive growth or international. They don't really understand that after on- and I also have a question about with the work you re, the fifteen. Son of my income. Should I be putting aside roughly make about sixty thousand the ear and might be, and then I also get paid overtime and bonus, and that fluctuates based on workload, though I was just you. Sixty thousand days were now just for a whole numbers. I was thinking, you know, since the wrought iron I believe in twenty twenty six thousand back contribution. Should I be doing that six thousand,

accept my army and the remaining five percent of my coming into the traditional Bora one. Here, how should I worked out? Ok, here's the deal with this issue. I am proud of you because you have definitely dug in and you're starting to get away for this, and I agree there so many terms and the financial world. Does your company offer you a match? They appear so kind of life. One fell bad, you fifty cents on the dollar, six percent, and so You said the company offers a traditional for one k and also a Roth Eirik. I want to clarify something you mean they offer a traditional for one k and Roth for one day Was I ok? I want you to double check. Then, because if it's a for one k, that's the round, I want you to go. Ok awry, simply means it's after tax dollars, a regular, more

one case pre tax dollars, so the regular money you put before when K when get ready to pull it out at fifty nine and a half you're gonna have to pay taxes on it. Ok, but with a rod for one k because its after tax dollars, it's all gonna grow tax free so here's the reality. If you have the Roth option as a Roth for o one k, that's the router can go now. I've got a free, investing at my website, Chris Oaken, three sixty dot com, that'll breakdown, kind of all the resting terms as well as the asset classes of the neutral thoughts. So dude. I want you to go there. Chris Oaken, three sixty dot com, but then here the other thing, if they dont have a wrathful, when K, what I want you to do is invest up to the match. Then go from the match overdue.

Roth, I array, that's probably not gonna get get you to fifteen percent, then you would go back to your for one cave for the additional. So the key, as is that I want to get to that fifteen percent and you're right looking at the gross not neutral bonds different names under different for one case, they're gonna be called different things, so here the beauty of it. You don't have to go it alone. All you have to do is reach out to a smart Vesta pro bring in your information from your forward Kay sit down with them and they will help you identify how to invest the way we talk about those asset classes and keep you on your way, so you don't have to do it alone, and so Susan, again go to Chris three sixty dot com. You can get that investing guide and then reach out of also got a dream team button website that allow you to fund a smart best approach and get you on your way. I'm proud of you, I'm proud of you for growing your knowledge, I'm proud of you!

seeing your dreams of what it is. You want to accomplish and you're pushing forward. So that's faint! Thank you very much. I'm gonna keep on the phone. I've got the cabin on Allied Kevin. What's your question for doctored Aloni all right So I have more of a family question in a financial one. First of our huge fans of the plan so we are trying to navigate some family thing. So my wife and I got married couple years ago and her family s. Recent her mom specifically is enabler and it's become pretty hard. So her sister, who said, he lived in the house, a very fluid job and just met this guy is thirty. Six you dont have a job. A granite he's got some health issues, but there too, other factors there. So we decided to speak out. You know we were looking in the Bible and just felt like a you know. The problem could say something about the situation, because we than to a life of poverty. That's not confer anybody.

Just don't want someone at one that way. That has a way out of that. You know through a little bit of time. They want to get married, really quick. They been dating for five months. Already ready to married so we're just trying to figure out my guess what that looks like How do we respond in love? We wouldn't talk to her about it and she attacked us. Billy and then brought her mother into it and her mother now won't let it go at her mothers very angry. I made that clear and now we're just gonna at a point where they text thus college, just not sure where from here sit down and eat? You had. This was pretty easy yeah? Can you and your wife can decide? We don't want to do Thanks you having in Christmas with her side of the family anymore,. You can decide. I don't wanna, be in relationship with them anymore or yeah can decide. I wouldn't I wouldn't have got married life. I wouldn't have been a relationship like that, but we're gonna do

to love and relationship. That's it relationship or be right and I would even if you say that we'll be right, I'm going to question you on who invited unit. Conversation, why do you even get a vote into what year sister in law future relations, man, that's just as asking for them Complex most most non relational way of doing life and so that, if it is She comes to you and says: hey Man, a given Do you think I should marry this guy? Then you got an invitation to speak till that moment comes man letter I do. Let's ride choose I guess the question now. Is we ve done that thing right and so now like ok, we're gonna back off when I see the way the law at this point, but they want stop now another frustrated. They wanna currently talk to our sitting on it yes, so can you do in a column in com? Phone and say hey: here's the deal. An opinion on this and you didn't?

write me to speak on this, and I spoke and I'm sorry. And call your mother in law and say I injected into your life you're a grown up and for summaries and me and my wife at alone, you're trying to do what we thought was best. You didn't ask our opinion. You don't need our opinion and we gave it to you anyway. We call him division and I'm sorry. How can we We support of. How can we be more relational or colombo, say here we think are idiots would want you do with your until you get your lives right and you and your wife. Off into the woods together. That's great! If that's the way you want to do it, but that's the binary choice. You have right now call Hey you know what we spoke of. We should now have sorry or forget you guys around Ok, here's the deal! I want to ask you this, because you can call and you can reach out you can apologize yet you cannot make them accepted. Absolutely not now, that's foster.

It's so per frustrated, because if I'm reaching out to try to trot out poligized I'd leave would like to hear. Thank you you're forgiven. All's, well that how Laurel works, but you know the way the world does. Work was a is. If you scroll down your phone, theirs is dope little button called block, and so, if someone text in you and you don't want to go down a push to lower at button and they won't contact you anymore, and so, if you don't want The way people are talking only on social media on cellphone turn it off turn it off. You're. In control of that year. Control, whether they're, gonna, like you or not, whether they want to your friend and hang out or not, but I think this is a great moment for Heaven and his wife in their young marriage to say we ve got opinions

but we also want relationship where you have to tell me how to do that. Pigs. I need to figure out how to block you, unless the near so guy had for all you all taken the time to call in. We appreciate you doctor D. I love harassing them love his heart. Love is mindset in his focus. I want to thank producer, James style, to social producer, Kelly Daniel, and I want to thank all of you for tuning in all. We ve had a blast. This is the day browsing show hey, it's Kelly, assessing producer and vote for the day. France's shit. If you would like to do your temporary screen live on the show, make sure you visit, Dave, Ramsay, dot com, slash, show reddish. We would love for you to come to national. Tell Dave your story

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