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From the headquarters of Ramsay Solutions broadcasting from our car rental studios, it's the Rams regime that is down issues of mortgage has taken the place of the Bmw, those simple I'm, they rams euros. Doktor John Bologna Ramsay Personality showing author owing to the Doktor John Bologna, show very exploding popular potash there. You go check it out. You don't want to miss it talks about mental health there and boundaries in relationships and anxiety, and how do we get along with other things that people know how to do in our culture anymore? So we'll talk here with you about them and about your money in your life, the phone numbers AAA eight to five. Five two to five Brendan is with us in Kansas City. I brendan our? U unjust!
Thank you for asking your dinner,
big fan of the show in the baby steps were, unfortunately not
I'm calling today Morbid John Sector, which ok.
Joey brief arms, though my sister was going to the moors.
So you let her and move in with us
that was pretty badly is used. The substance abuse issues and that we can
and I learned that a few times, and eventually we either the choice is going to be having to help or somewhere else to live.
such eventually had came back for a month or so relapse and
I told her she had to undergo. Ah, though her son,
being with us, she's was almost for about a week and now she's living in meat without alongside you living in a house that was to have been
so that's gonna, where I met through, kicked out of one house under the other one.
essentially I do stop terrible to she had nowhere to go in this vote,
good, let her living not how things were done, working on it and older. But ah
that's not work either. He asked.
Everything that is doing and what she would she abusing worker substance
Alcohol is. Why do you what happened with rehab.
She went through a thirty day like impatient programme
She got back. She didn't
too many of their advised. The other issues for legal aid is about earth. You follow
today, then she didn't really achieve they all right on our own. For a few weeks, then just started again
She ok with her son. Staying with you guys
yeah yeah. We argue that the urban policy is he's thirteen years.
That's right! Only a break
It actually use every day,
through that guy's gonna uncle loves him. He's got him on that loves him right here more here,
strolled up. She don't know how to do it.
But she does love it so much
How can we help me? Am I just is it
guilty like. I should be helping her more doing more for her, but at the same time like like shit,
having herself. But why should I
the delicate enabling,
The thing you to be there for her under struggling with
I hope, the note a fortune. I do more or the other,
really, you may be sure heard her sons got a roof over his head and a family that loves him in some sort of structure. Boundaries is a
a generational.
shifting gift guy
You have given her opportunity and another opportunity, an opportunity
he's gonna be what you in your wife, defined by help, but at the end
the day. She's gonna have to come to the conclusion that she's going.
have to get help
The part of the programmes, change your life and ultimately decide every day for the rest were led to she's. Gonna remained sober, and you can't do that. You can't me
That happened for her. That's a decision that she's gonna have to come to on route.
Unfortunately, most of the time people have to find themselves with no other place to go right at heart and its heartbreaking.
but the end of the day. You can end up drowning yourself in your family, trying to solve somebody else's problem that you can't solve yeah and that's not you
bill guilt about that, like us, should should do more for her yeah. I
Annabel ease them happy at you, you ve.
May have already done too much. Ok,
Oh here's. What John said he should define help. So this
just regular got talk, cause I'll, have the letters after my name. He does, but in
blurs all of us. Are enablers sometimes
and an enabler is someone who is a very nice sweet person. Like you compassionate,
and all of us have. Some of that, even me
you got a lot and I have the ability to go there, but what
happens is where you cross the line it from helping
from loving someone well too,
being in enabler, meaning you're. Giving a drunk drink is the classic line right. Where you can
that line is where you defined help wrong.
and when you perhaps that lanyard it when you say I'm defining help as I'm now participating in the crazy
sitting in the crazy
rather than pushing
against the crazy
and so when you allow,
create a situation where she can continue in this you're participating in the crazy. That's helping
finding help wrong. I'm exchange. Yeah yeah, though, is so
one of the goals of the and a negative default can be tit cut off.
all talk until you fixed
You can't talk to us. You can see anybody and what
often say as addiction is a communication issue amiss
it's a connection issue right. The delay.
It connects the people who try to solve that connected through addiction. So here's a great example: I'm gonna make sure your son always has a roof over his head when given structure would take care of him.
I'm gonna be at cracker Beryl every Saturday morning at nine o clock and I'm gonna pay for your breakfast I'd love to see you
July. One rent stopped from us your
I have to go, get a job and decide you wanna get well
you're doing there is. I guess you don't love me, you don't care about me. No, I do love you. I love you so much. I am not going to create a situation where you can stay drunk all the time, but I'm not I'm not gonna. Among a threatening. My relationship with you, I'm gonna keep shown up a cracker brown and keep take care of your kid
I'm in a cover the costs.
at every time.
Junior, my sister, you can tell me so great historian, they're gonna, make me laugh at any time. You call me off age, you attract, but were not
going to pay for you to be in a situation that allows you to continue to be a drunk because that's not
helping you and I love you too much to participate in your crazy
in the moment you get out rehab and you say: I'm ready. I'm gonna buy a meeting some adieu, my thirty days in a row I'll betcha,
with your oh, my clapping. When you get your coin
be telling you how great you are a motel, your son, and what you love me and I'm not gonna. Shame you, when you mess up, unlike under any of that mobile,
before you. I love you, but I'm not
to support you. While you run the habit of the abyss
Is she but not your biggest benefactor? That's your lunch,
tough love. No, that's just love does love and hay,
Unfortunately, for you, there is no easy way through this. Yes, opponents Gobi heartbreaking, a subpoena, but, as you have to,
such people that you can't control arm themselves, Nunneley, UK actual, but you love oh yeah, yeah, each people you loved or stupid, stuff Hartman's there. Everyone could be used to take another boy, very hard, you're, a good man, you're good part, so hard on your family visions, the rams you you ve got a lot on your played a job, your heart,
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This is because mortgage interest rates of reach some of the all time, low and buyers, are frantic to lock in these great rage.
When you talk about some of the two percent range as pretty crazy. Now three percent was pretty much gold standard on my gosh.
I remember showing Eurostat in seventeen percent market back in the day. Charmaine. Listen! You
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but is weathers in western Salem, high collar power. You.
Dave, I'm good. How are you better than deserve? What's up
so a little. Over an hour ago, I actually drove my two for the
into a tree in its bid that doesn't need to take much
damage to be totalled. Are you ok.
I'm fine yard, where my seat belt were all good
I'm at home anyway, I
got a little p insurance agent earlier this year
now, I'm just curious, but I call my dad too.
Figure out where we go from here, and he just saying much just once we get our estimate
pay for everything in cash and not involve insurance, and, unlike what
Why did I get? Insurance then saw you
I'm just curious like what would be the benefit of paying for cash in what is the benefit of
In Bali. Insurance how're, you I'm twenty,
and I'm just figuring all this out. That's ok! I'm gonna make fun I've yonder's, making sure you weren't like eighteen or something cause the does
fact rage right, car insurance rage show
I mean you should have normal car insurance rights. I do not know why you would not turn in Iraq at twenty nine years old.
Had a bunch of other action. Have you had some kind of violations or something or move like seventy three ticket, Sir
I was driving regularly time in my life I didn't turn one in is I had an ex just in it
access is twenty years ago
noxious.
My deductible twenty five dollars you somethin like that are two thousand bucks and the damage to the car was five hundred bucks was actually cheaper for me to go, pay five hundred box, then it would be to pay out the deductible disown aghast good point: what you're deductible
good question? I don't love me. I don't know.
So I'd, find that out.
I mean look at their Kelly Bluebook value and it's like thirteen hundred dollars of my vehicle, Joe
so, if you have a thousand dollar deductible.
then you may be in the category of John talking about,
the entrance cup. He's gonna write your nine hundred dollar check for your loss of year review of a thousand artifact upon the cars. Were thirteen hundred you're gonna get three hundred bucks and your premiums are gonna God for turning in Iraq on the next thing, so your dad. In that case it would be right
yeah, you would just say cause you're gonna,
if you have an hour to doktor, the first thousand of the thirteen hundred is out of your pocket. Right
Joe, you hope- and I give you the fool- the cavy baby value of that, but if you have children, fifty dollar deductible, you turn it in.
Because not if you're gonna give you an eleven hundred dollar check, then right yeah. I guess
some homework to do them. Yeah. You call if you called your agent out now
your dad zone. I yet
yeah yeah, you need of union gathered from information in your agents, not
in our view, if you're working with any I'll pay to get insurance, that means they shop to several different insurance company. Shall I don't work for the insurance companies? They work for you and insurance broke
and so they can give you good advice on this, but
Yet, if you had state farm recall, stay formation, they have the third day of the tales like form everything. So
the Good news areas that these got the scars on your team and so
my guess is you ve got a two hundred and fifty or and hundred dollars deductible and my guess, is you probably need to turn this wreck in cuz? You probably don't have a lot of money to the car with no
They stopped you. I got a thousand dollars so somehow,
being you did not take a thousand dollar adoptable on this car
shouldn't. I wouldn't listen: uh yeah, you shouldn't have you probably or two fifty, which would be fairly stand?
so you're, don't get eleven twelve on a box out insurance company and
put a little bit of your thousand with this, because this is an emergency and you're gonna go by fifteen hundred. Our car was
insurance money. I think that's. What's gonna happen.
and then you're gonna have to stop your baby step to and get you a thousand
are built back up to a thousand again and then we're gonna go forward from there
the great news is no by sharp. I'm glad you came here. Thank you and I think
the crap out of you die
gonna, shaken off, like a dream won over everyone. Dump me out,
Take a few hours
Your hand shaken little just from the the thing
I would ask for the floor
for him forth, renders corner dead gum. Rapporteur goes completely sideways or just out of just about whipped at all around and it just gotten. It was really been rain, and hence my my heart.
Been right. Now this weren't Rembrandt yards its
wait. You have that, as this is not fun by the terrible good car here,
I'm sorry, man show you been through that, but I think you probably have a low. If you have
hi deductible. I think your dad would have been right and he probably carries out a document which is probably he's a
all too and is more expensive car and more.
situation like John, what
in also remember when you know, if you get the single car action like this, you may have a ticket and after paid at the thing toad. So
there's gonna be some money coming out of your merged? C4 onto to mixture, due to all the right way,
ran from information? The the cars definitely totalled mean if you bumped it
its thirteen hundred bucks totalled? That's right. You didn't take much
Gabriel is whether Suzanne Antonio High Gabriel. How are you
you better than I deserve. What's up
were you with him from user gurney? Three you wanted the Marshal barbary ones paid off and in less than two hours is also paid off and then
the current I'll, never know stole a mortgage on a less than half on it. For me,
nothing. Three years all your hundred and forty three of the four three hundred and twenty,
in about two hundred and forty three thousand. Were you?
between here between the wife,
they mercosur to between two?
three hundred thousand
what you don't love one forty awkward
Making that kind of money you gonna pay off his forty thousand or mortgage
that depends on the business responds out about the moon very good
thanks I'll order million dollars a year?
you do not run the iron ring. A hundred dollar repercussions on me.
Wandering and Ghana electrical contractor now,
you're making a lot of money. You should pay mean you make turpitude thou nausea. Japan is often a year after year shouldn't
that's my job that you agreed without some excited. I you know I was a kid
May I go to a million dollars. I, sir, but
we have taken on doing none other than the wife conversion, or not
the avenue and going into too smart you bedroom Albert.
When I first he'll. Do me maternal looking about nine and a half years. I think that I made in my eyes and looked will burden fellow outrages apple villager? If you want to sell it finds you can sell it after salad. You do have to get on budget. Where are your money in the lobby of Ramsay solutions on a three stage, Zachary and Tracy, or where those guys? I worry up redeeming great eight. How are you doing less, but life is good man good to have you guys? Where do you live we're from LOS Angeles cows?
awesome and all the way to Nashville did those screwing admire.
Tribute paid off, we paid off we're hungry
Fifty thousand dollars, wow
others take forty four month. Forty four! Yes
if I end your range of encounter that forty four months, seventy thousand to one hundred fifty thousand well doublet
Are you go game on what you guys do for a living? I'm a manager at a worldwide media company and I work from home state from that
runner online company. Hope you don't
wash over you gotta, be in radio and who I actually are you gonna do other by before. Well done good, for you guys, excellent work out of debt was the one fifty one hundred
I wasn't that was doing owns between the two of us and in the rest, was credit card and miscellaneous Millcote
you're just come normal. Yet
gathering appalling album. We been married for over seven years now, but together for a total of seventeen hooker show
up and forty four months ago that broke this loose back in twenty sixteen, I lost my job at a company I was at for ten years.
I started there with fifteen people and then we grew up to about a thousand woe.
Basically bought out the attempted to get rid of me and that discourage me going,
to any corporate job. I was repossession manager for auto title on company. Oh, so I used to be the bad guy.
I saw it
the blessing in disguise that I was fired
so after that.
and I had done- will burn, lift an Amazon deliveries
and eventually that led us to starting our own e commerce business. And
Put this into a lot of online groups and communities of people who are like a small business owners, and-
I notice that every time somebody would ask a question about personal finance. Your name would pop up.
I had no idea. You were never heard of you before. Finally, one day decided to look you up online and it happens be during one of your life shows. I saw a couple. Do their deputies,
green. And after that I was hooked. I sort of listening to your. Shall regularly where the total money make over put together budget, but I knew that none of that,
could happen unless we were both on the same page so little about financial peace University and he agreed to take the clock.
With me and at the time we found out that way.
pregnant, so we were very excited at becoming first time. Parents and it gave-
even more motivations want to get out of that. But
while you're doing a few I'm
Fortunately, that first peg,
See ended in a miscarriage, and so that was one of the hardest things that we went through on this journey
because I lost all motivation. I didn't want to talk to anybody didn't want to see anybody and its
time to heal, but we got through it. We graduated from financial peace, university and sack was a hundred posts,
on board and we both started attacking our debt together or the you thought you thought through a lot. Yes, we did
Job Larsen mission
urge everything. While it's a lot to fight the lot of adversity. Yes, forty four months, you keep going to keep going again, go scratch your way through all that you're gonna make it s pretty cool. Our I'm cool,
and you brought your little daughter with. You must turn I rainbow baby fella Glory honour our Bela for beautiful right. Yes, right, she's waiting to see he's ready to see mom heap. I love it way to go before you tell people the key to getting out of debt is was because we're married
couple, definitely being on the same page. None of this would have happened if we didn't show the same goals in the same dreams of running the show.
Your family tree and to build a better future for a family who, for me it's budgeting, aroma on life on Lemme E commerce. So it's a lot of purchasing selling
that communication has brought us here
sir, together, even though we were you were,
for seven years I mean an together for seventeen. We never
about money, and so just a few years ago, and another key for us is a gift.
Generously, or we would only give like a dollar here a couple dollars there, because we were scared that you weren't gonna, have enough money, but when we started the baby steps, we started title
regularly to our church, and I welcome the top line of our budget.
And every time an opportunity came up for us to give Cohen. We word and we we realise that by
being generous and giving in point
kindness out into the world got asbestos in so many ways. So we are very grateful for all of that.
That's fine white ago. What should I mean your church, siege
Osborne, male catholic church in Hollywood coup, and where did you go to financial pressure on Shepherd should prevail in parliament for a very good you guys,
proud of having you we're your biggest cheerleaders
I have a friend that I speak with daily
how he runs on E commerce business as well as they mischief agent,
and we actually we we kept herself mostly because
We know that a lot of our friends and family wouldn't understand
we are going through and we can do
to believe that that is normal, that student loans, that is good debt and that, if necessary, to have a good credit score? And
hope that our friends and family that are seeing this today will realise all the sacrifices that we made an why we had to say.
to them so many times that they realise that there is
so in that they realise that no doubt is good debt and that real wealth, true wealth, doesn't come from a high credit score.
man. Why go you guys? I just want you to
that little baby girl, so cool and she's. Not an experience in the stuff she'll go through your life's hard shack where she's not going to have this roadblock informers regulations, gas and oil.
We gotta copy the legacy journey for you. That's the next chapter in your story for sure is changed legacy way to go and
the total money make over new can, of course,
that somebody and pay it forward and get things moving so proud of you guys, while Guiana Zachary Tracy and Bela Beautiful Bela, LOS Angeles, honour and fifty thousand paid up in forty four months, making seventy eight to one fifty counted down. Let's era, debt reached three two one
Who me fabulous unequal bellows, no scared that she heard her parents, you like that before it's not good that so far, and what a great celebration very
very, very well down open vows
Eight hundred and eighty eight eight hundred and twenty five five thousand two hundred and twenty five
given on Twitter says John. How do I find a balance between being a work, a holiday and being
Davy programme during and after F P, you it's so hard and they give.
but you got to have a mission you got to have a destination in a deadline and you got to do the math and you got to work really hard. That's gazelle intensity right
working a lotta. Ours does not mean your work, Alek
a major inequalities and that's how purblind bunch a drama is exactly that
definition of work, a colleague is
whose and add it to work who's trying to achieve for their self esteem right, and it goes on for years and years and years, and it is not someone who earn their way around to organise its right, someone working to hit a goal and a healthy manner and putting
whole tone of ours for a short period of time or living like no one else, a lighter they can live like normal working like no one else will later thing work like no one else is not by
definition workaholic. That's what somebody calls their friend when they used to hang out and now all of a sudden there worker really hard to get out of debt, and you say
Your initial work of our colleague he's, which talked to him. You know he's, got a goal in mind. He's laser focused on something we I mean
The word is just misused, a lot, and sometimes
it's done. Facetiously and sometimes it's just people give up
definition of my wife has said in the past. She goes you know
back during those times. You were kind of work, Pollack, and I really wasn't. I have never in my life drawn well say: maybe my early twenties idea, but other
I am not drawn my self esteem from my work or my accomplishments. You see, I have I've, had seasons rose on call
If reserve in the joint police force and end was workin initiated you're, not work of our goal, then your work in front of filling empty hall. That's exactly right in that hold, no matter how much money you make him alone, I can wait, are waiting had not fill, it cannot fill. That's that's all that's I work work. How like that's all like something something up all night when you're throwing stuff in that all watch, what you do, but just simply working hard, while you're in financial pressure, virtually Workin three jobs and growth, so that you never have to again. That is not the definition work all the champion to get from this was the rams issue.
our scripture the day, John fourteen six Jesus answered, I am the way, the truth and the life now.
comes to the father. Accept
through me,
Charles Darwin said, life is ten percent. What happens to you and ninety percent? How you respond to it?
John Bologna rooms. Your personality is my co host today, Julia
in New York. I Julia. How are you
Durham. He high John I'm good will nourish and excited. How are you get group? How can we help? Oh yes, so
quick background information and in my question might have been I, where young couple we just had a baby, I made my months ago covering revising it out of an you. Thank you. So much
we're looking to get out of New York were just north of New York City Discreet.
it's going on here. Very restrictive want to move down south to Florida. You just want to know if it's a good idea to fail our house now the mark
so hot army are pretty house port. Eighty percent
those to the house and if we should fell and then went down there, and if we do
that should we throw our money at the proceeds at the dead and unsafe some to live on, and we do have a baby and a big me going down there in all across the damage
I'm just kind of looking for some guiding funny on this is a good move. A lot for ass! Well
if it's a good move, is up to you guys that that part, I can't decide forty. It sounds like you, ve already made the decision to make.
but on an answer and there's nothing wrong with the move or that you're describing area
As far as I'm concerned,
the as far as what
do with money part how much
Do you have.
Not counting on your house. Ok, not counting the house,
have about seventy five thousand each other that right and what will the and what will how much equity will come free. When you sell the house from much money, we have in your hand from the house sale, I would say, at least than between a hundred nineteen fifty attending. Ok,
So, yes, I would write a check that day and be dead. Free
I would move to Florida, and yet I need large put down on something. If you want to buy something, have you got?
lined up.
I am not yet I mean I am not going back to work this year with each of the deaf and going to stay home with the baby, and I have been watching the railroad. So you ve got to keep working
Economic and meat
his income and can he movies railroad job to Florida?
he thinks is very promising. That hope, I don't think. I'm sure you ve been looking into a lot of openings. It's just a matter of doubt of binding, have not stop one week
what a flawed and hope you
I am here or maybe even that I hear your voice that you her or in a panic you ve, backed yourself into
corner. We gotta do it right now, the marketing of an internet and you got a break
because we're gonna do you gonna jump off the dark and was going to be no boat down there and you can have a little nine month old baby and you and your husband trying to tread water there you're good she lowdown cash, Laura. I love it
You're is not getting everything going on with New York inches kind. I don't blame you for wanting to you know
It's about science fiction movie escaped from New York right, I mean a lot of people are doing a lot of people shaping from California. There's a lot of that happening. A lot of migration in America right now,
not do recovered its due to freedom.
I shall logically blots. We were making the decision you're making right now, and so that's, ok,
but slow down to Bates Johns, exactly right so
One is husband, goes
gets a job, the faster he does that you can go to beat too
put the house on the market and sell it. There
you can decide. Are we going to rent or are we going to buy in Florida, because we're gonna write a setting out our Czech and be a hundred percent debt free? She? If you
of large and you have twenty five thousand hours in the bank and your husband has a job and you were a little while no big deal
If you moved of largely have twenty five thousand hours in the mind, any does not have a job. You're gonna burn
that money and you're gonna be
fretting and anxiety, ridden and look
this non month all gone. How we're gonna, faded and you're gonna be all the others have gone on, then he's gonna taken a crappy job, and then you and wish you had moved
and I said whatever politicians gonna get voted out with the flavour of the month in Yorkshire. Had come back to sanity and you're gonna go what do we do
That's what you do to exhale
Just exhale get this out. He needs a job faster. He gets a job
She put the house on the market fashion
without on the market of after Move
and assumes you move your debt free and
you do that then we can breathe located.
For six months and take the shouting of a look and learn the area get comfortable.
get settled in.
Does a new areas tough to buy intelligently in
After months of running, you bought make a much better purchase on home. It does mean moving twice and
but if you got a lot of comfort there, you're sitting or seventy five thousand dollars of just in you
nobody, anything! You don't have a single that then you get annexed
of round, and he has
good, solid job. He called what he's got now. You'll make a very
calm wise purchase of your home in Florida
Maybe it's not of Lord its Alabama. Its taxes earths were its wherever he asked who brief shout.
Some of this goes with your holding a non muddled near her arms Netherlands say that nine one guy only and I gotta go take care of this. I gotta take other trillion walls closing in on you. Now, not yes, just breathe gets him
yet some friends- and I know that's hard to do where you're right now get the people you can laugh with talk with turn the news off and breathe gems in Hollywood Florida high Jem? What's up,
the giant nicer. How appreciated thank you.
We have been aired my questioners job, I'm
Her whole made now occurring currently hot market down here, stop border is worth about seven hundred thousand dollars. I totally death three plus I own, for a candle,
There are totally yeah here on my own
straight out and get learn from that. Your own national, the houses for clear to correct, ok, and so
trained at the candles and so security and my wife and I are living off. We clear about
thousand dollars a year on that. My my question
money to move the last couple of years after lying about four hours from scarf border and dad
the thing is I thought of my wife. You, like she has a mandate from the UN, the Lord to take care of her.
agent Mulder, which is eighty nine years old. She stopped
Messenger came home that she's anther thirty forty,
now and the all the siblings are taking
here of mom feeding. Why not by
My wife is little apprehensive about taking the move and my thoughts,
if we want to move for hours away,
come down at least once a week and take care of her like you know they offer to go back up and excetera
and I'm just gonna get your thoughts on there. I think,
is the bigger conversation that we can do in two minutes, but I think what care look
like and hunger splitting up amongst how she's been amongst our brothers and sisters. What you
Decide aside, you're going to do and making sure you're both on the same page can be, is going to be important,
But, yes, you can live in a different state with age and parents there and you can make some crept back. Absolutely
making sure that moms taken care of
can be a mandate from the Lord, how it's done
I dont think as a mandate from the Lord show.
Done by you making from trips down in a working system of schedule with the brothers and sisters. That's ok.
The other thing is Jim. It might not be that long.
May? This is just to give to give to your wife to just chill for a year.
If you sell your house move into one of your own condos for a year and there's a hundred thing,
it up and running.
But I don't know that there's nothing again. I'm not gonna panic to take
vantages rose by forty seven, fifty thou nor property and Hyper Florida.
not that super expensive. That's mid market,
and so slightly above mid market and show you not that's a movable property and vote virtually any economy
and so you're not gonna lose money on their missing aid,
narrow window of opportunity to me
some major wealth building over there. Since you ve done well your millionaires.
Plenty of money.
Fine might
you just a time that you're just come to your wife does,
just takes care of her mom. If you sit for a year and yet
mom settled you'll, get it
settle than you sell his house for six hundred. Fifty thousand set seven Donald over your wife. Let them go man,
just put a love: it's not gonna, go down! You don't worry
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