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Anything you want to talk about money life Relationships you're married time management hate near everyone's speaking of men, urgent money tonight fast. How are you feeling about where the just awesome myself about Rachel and all that grew at last one day that but like? I can't tell you how many people I have only just hear this conversation so normal to complain about something you struggle within your marriage, but then we don't do anything to fix it. Really. And tonight as such, an opportunity for people to come together someone in the last hour, and it was literally a marriage question and we said: hey we're gonna, give you a ticket to this event tonight you and it was her fiance come together. Why this live stream event, and it will give you conversation starters for maybe some of things that are struggling with a thank you for a transition into the pit. That was really good. That was awesome, financial, and let me ask you this question, so you,

It was people these have. For years you ve coached people trying to start businesses. They got an idea, but they just won't. Do it and one of the things I hear you say a lot is you're, never which go just start is get in there. I want earth and have never had a Scottish Willie. I wonder if there is a similar train of thought as to why people know their marriages and great. They know things are struggling dinner. I don't feel right, but I'm just not going to. Do anything about it and you look up in its three years later, five years later, some years later, I wonder if there's a similar, similar trajectory there, why do people tell you at the end of the day? They don't start that business. They don't try this site Why did they not do those things? I think with? I think, with business I make my cheers, it's much more fear based. I'm scared you're putting myself out their, whereas in marriage at least up you know anything that might not have we ve gone through tough seasons. It is binding, Greece, so gradual me when you, when you're a newlywed, everything's, exciting anew and easy and then and then

hard and your kids in its harder and you're tired and got it so incremental that things might get hard, and I think that it what's happened so gradually a lot of times that you We even notice it's happening, and then you look up one day and you just accept it as the new normal like well. This is how we interact, or this is good it is it get. I remember when met now, we're newlyweds. We were in this small group at church, and someone had someone. Older, had recommend this marriage book as a christian faith based marriage broken, and we read it, and it's like Star reviews mistress like a hugely successful buck, and we didn't wait at all because it was literally talking to people that, like don't like you to them like we love each other we will always be. We were told that we will never think about each other, that that's so me and then it's like been it's like you know three in the morning in your child has like peat in the bed and you're like but but you're screamin agenda is that this is not a word So I think it just happened so gradually.

You start to a kind of accepted as normal, but what I, what I love about stuff like what you guys are doing tonight or or really successful marriage bucks. Anything like that. A package where were you get help is that when you have an outside perspective we can literally breathe new life. Into your relationship, there's something by their social norming, where you realize I'm not crazy our we're not broken or were not. We may just be this functioning, but we're not forever stuck on this. Trajectory yeah. Here's the goal for tonight, I'm gonna, say some things. Rachel's gonna say some things that I know one of You two on that couches thinking I'm gonna say: there's my enemies, me elbowing, eaten Rachel's gonna, put it we're gonna put out of the universe, and we can t it up for you and I It's like a giant red ball on a tea. I got news is headed right and that's the goal, how can we help facilitate folks to look at each other building? Can we just? But he said

MRS D Ancona Bert Work, we're gonna be one other thing I would say is: if you HU. I turned the event tonight if you're, if relations are really want to go, but I'm scared, my cell, so it doesn't mean your marriage is broken. It doesnt mean something's wrong. It's like this can be a proactive hey this. He called a like, you know, get other ideas and advice. I know some people feel like accounting, for example its oh, you must be like something's wrong with you. If you go to companies like you could go proactively, you should to a member at a grad school counselor. She said the shame of counselling. The shame of an event like this- is only go in there and crisis. As he said, it's like waiting to have the flew to go to the GM. Is starting to work up, people would look at its own say we are killing it right now we can act. Go meet with a therapist, an Oracle your whoever learn some skills. We can actually here we're not crisis. We can practise in laughter

You'll be curious about things and the angry whenever and we could actually be an help. By so if you are struggling or if you are rocket, it needs, and I will end coastal areas Rachel's funny and we're level last, but one or two up new thing: all new technologies, TAT, whatever sacraments about relations were gonna, get into a good people give asking about guide. We can avoid it. Isn't I when things that they deal with that they don't want to talk about you? Don't know how to talk about going back you you said of gradual for me like what you said, people are scared opponents of out there. I do too reliving and I've found. My filth, indifferent, seasons, shoe and also right, nineteen years next week and their seasons. I I just scared, yet now? So I just don't try right and I dont know where this fear comes from those moments. I've had to remind myself over last, almost twenty years, She said in front of all of our friends and family. She wasn't gonna leave. So I have to say this robot I mean it's this I got it. I got a build myself up for it and how can we had

tonight as we're gonna tickled era, that right speak, facilitate I've got a feeling of about something. You show me from right or wrong in this. I feel like counselling. Or and or events like or talk about tonight, but third generations baby boomers older generations for them, it's done. Much more of like this is a bad thing. My generation, I feel it is much more open to counselling to self help to personal development. Part cast books, events that type of thing have you seen that we're like? Maybe some people who have been married a long time there that much less likely to attended like this because it means you're broken means like something's wrong with you, or is that just I'm off makes no you're you're a hundred percent it in almost more think now people are starting to get the message you not broken or not just for crazies. There would have been right, but they also

I don't have the energy or the capacity. I do. I feel like I'm too exhausted to even think about doing something different. Besides it's her fault or tariff fault, a magnet right. What chemicals tat you can fix my spouse, and now they re like Athenians dear that seen its ear, the thin. What alone remind people. Is having sword knees. Have forty five pounds. You know I've got out, that's just it hard. Having a hard conversation with your spouse, been on a hard trajectory. Just return The lights on entering the music often see when you talk that's hard living less then feeling like you can't breathe winter spouses in the room trend to avoid that Sunday afternoon, dad cause he just set. Hulking presents that's hard to at the end of the day, you're just choosing your hard and outer Their people choose to walk a little taller and breathable deeper. Instead, just looking down the barrel. The next eighteen twenty years ago, this is just the way that it is right. Now,

thing breaks my heart more than that statement. I guess this is just the way that is Joan have either its victim. Its thirty bucks is fifteen bucks, a person he ought to leave your house right, come up so easy joyous and of your question about marriage, Kosovo, eating relationships, mental health, starting a business, friends, olive and give us a shout. This is there ain't so.

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I have also had a challenge for you for those of you that feel, like you. Never have enough time like. We all feel all the time I want to give you some tips. It's going to get you back twenty four hours in your week. I promise text time finder, two hundred and thirty, three four hundred and forty four that's time. Finder two hundred and thirty three or for four take the challenge, and I promise you- you will get twenty four hours back in your week and you can do whatever you want with that time? Are it we're going to go to? Sarah in climate falls organ where I have spoken before, hey Sarah? How are you I'm gonna. U god how can John and I hope, to die all think pretty my call. My question is what advice that you give someone who loved their job by recognizes that that job, may not be good for their family when he met up.

So I'm a while then firefighter and lake? I have. I worked like fifty hours over time this week as a little kid heck of a weaker, so is it just the amazing amount of ours and the unpredictable schedule. Is that what you mean and for in terms of what's not good for young kids primarily yeah? is this seasonal and I don't mean that in a silly way, but for the four responders that I've worked with a know. Personally, there is a fluid miss or fluidity to there their home life, meaning at any moment they can get after walk out that door but there's also seasons where their home a lot right and now? Other moments like I know, but his reply, officers at work. The third shift in that stinks, calves are leaving for work at midnight, get off at seven, but also they tiktok business Glover morning. So are their trades like

You can make, or are you started to feel mortal anymore starting to feel? I don't wanna make this ball time. Yeah yeah, so she's. All my winners are way more flexible. Which is often I was there- yeah, like you said, take measures to school every morning and theme in the evening and kind of come and go but leave, but during fire season. I am pretty much and the whole summer ears, there's a things I want to suggest, Sir offer. Sarah, you could tell me if this resonates with ie, not but I loved it. On brought up the seasonality took because there are a lot of couriers alot of industries that have a seasonality to let slip to use a completely opposite type of work. Accountants count, it's an inspiring working all the time in taxis and like they dont similar kids alive, and that just three out of season, but they know actually use that exact example my, but they actually know at the end season when Taxis is over and everything's wrapped up, there's going to

a lot more freedom, flexibility and times. There's this ebb and flow to it, and I think the thing that you have to think about, Is- is that of seasonality that you're? Ok with that you it's worth to you, because you love that job or you want some more stable and predictable Atlanta go out on a limb here. Sarah, no pun intended I'm gonna, live and suggest that if you took this work to begin with you're, not the type of person that once this prudent the ball. Ninety five whenever you like this type of work, but but what I would encourage you is, is what I really try to teach people in my book. It is to take the pressure off that you to do everything for an equal amount of time. You ll be a perfect I'm going to school every day of the whole calendar year, but instead balance from doing the right things at the right time to wait. You're in this season, the right thing right now is to do exactly what you're doing and then the right being in the winter, is to take your kids to school and go on play dates and have fun in the afternoon. But we

You begin to realise its? Not that one can do everything from echo. Matamoras do the right things the right time, then, when you allow yourself to be present for those things which are happening. You're not only more proud of those things because you're doing right things the right at me like a rock. Did it work, because I was able to do this thing and make a huge difference, because this is what's right right now in this season, but you also shake the guilt feeling like you should be doing anything other than that, and so, if there were a seasonality to it to Johns Point, and you just worked fifty hours. We can never saw your kids for years and years on end yeah, that's a different question, but if it's like hey, this is the season for them, This is the season for what I do like an accountant or like anyone else that has a really hard season. Easier season. I think there might be something that that can set you free to be present for and not feel so guilty invites the work that you want to do, but you can tell me I mean if, if, if a more predictable, Joe is appealing to you. That's it. That's that's an option for you to know I

I love my job and I think the stress come from my husband. He he hates me doing. His job and so that the added stressed trying to balance. My and knowing that he'd ever mommy donors yeah some whole jobs through review and of any guilt. What? Christy too said is dead on and kids are incredibly resilient. They need stability and predictability and honesty, Oh, I see this with parents to doing deployed parents who are ignorant taxis, and in my home I looked on the calendar. This week I was hosted. The Ramsay show three times of a money, marriage event. I've got chapters of a book you I knew this because when we wild and my family taken quick vacation next week, so

we had a family meeting this week and I hey Hank, I'm ugly, illegal fishing, Josephine, we're not gonna, be all about. The woods apply baby dolls, whatever it is crazy thing, she cooked up here's the season and they get it it's way. I try to pretend that I'm just being the symbol dead, this week's not been so cage a resilient, yet to be honest for them and you got some predictability and they know hey we're heading two fires season, we're gonna this great adventure. What kills me importantly, your kids is when there is the disagreement or a couple who are roommates or couple who are not on the same page and you is the kids as the excuse and much rather you face when I would consider a bigger dragon which is now your husband at him, saying I'm scared to death that you're gonna go to work and die or

can't do my job of I've gotta be a fault, a dead plastering theses that those are more honest conversations, the kids, if you're honest for them in your predictable or can be great expense. If they ve got another parent? That's picking up that slackened, those off season it's when you and your husband start have that tension. The kids are gonna absorb that in that plus missing. You is gonna, get a whole new layer of them trying to solve for that gap for the rest of their lives. It's a! U gotta, sit down your husband say we ve got to have this hard conversation is, he said, have you dying, as you know, like your schedule, because he's missing as video game time. What is it? I don't think he's pretty. Get me dying and by its schedule is the fact that he has to pick up the slack and he has to take her the kid twenty four seven I mean I don't get it. Do you know any of free time for himself Yeah, that's an issue that you only to address sooner rather than later, what's really going on in your question. That's actually really your question here

that's really going on here, because I can't imagine how you go to work guilt, free in you, busier season, Sarah, knowing not only as your heart at home, with leaving your kids of all that is naturally goes into that being a mom, but also you know your husband's supportive than that eat away at year. End and so getting on the same page you in your spouse. Having those conversations- maybe it's maybe it's. Ok Counts are certainly stay on the line and will give you a ticket to the money and marriage event. Tonight the doktor John Bologna and Rachel crews are going to be leading there. Could I'm sure there's going to be some teaching in some content? Some tips that you can see to give you a job, this conversation, but that that piece of this is what needs be fixed, and so that's what I would look at em in the those the true jerk, We hear you know they. They say it's one degree in the car will eventually turned away around. The trajectory here is man. This is It is on a path towards

frustration when he feels he's gotta go pick up the kids resentment you're, helping somebody, and then you get that tax from him and you're frustrated that you feel like you have a job. It's got meaning this a recipe for resentment, and you felicity me for two seconds: it's really hard to come back from relational resentment, Just tell me you're really relationships and ash, and yes, Christie will dressed as specifically tonight. Sarah stand alone will give you a ticket to the money in marriage bed tonight with Doktor John Bologna and Rachel crews, and for anyone else that wants to get your ticket Ramses solutions, dot com. This is

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and we have about twenty. Three thousand dollars saved up We're just wondering how well we need to do with that money, be a good thing to do better, keep it in the bank or do invested or something else yet so art Let's walk through the baby steps. Aren't you have debt? You now know that very common asset motor. Do you have an emergency fund of three to six months of expenses year over the point you that's a year's work which funds it I'll go off. I'm ok and do you own a home? Are you planning to my home? guaranteeing right now, but we plan on buying one and a few more years. Ok, Well, here's! How do I know that you don't have your timeline totally nail down if the timeline moves up for any reason where you want to buy a home sooner than what you want to do is just leave that money and savings part of it half of it

so we would be your mercy find the other half could be going too a down payment on house. If it ends up being you no further out words, gonna be fine, here are three years: five year, seven years it's gonna be longer. You can certainly work with an investment professional that Ramsay solution. Dot com to just get that invested words earning a little bit more money than it would be in a savings competent. That's the whole point of savings is that you have access to it. It's not too early, interest, and so, if you think you'll be barring a home in the next year or two, they just leave that money and saving and then went home comes viable, certainly with the market being crazy I think it is right. Now we can keep an eye on that. And then when you're ready to buy home, you just continued added that savings, and that would be your downpayment. Does that make sense here in in a college in college. Your number one job is invest in yourself and get a college debt for a yes and the number of students who have some come their way that last semester, whether its hey someone,

A blue is gonna, call you for a job interview in some weird state, but you got a fund it to get there. Your cars gonna fall apart or they're gonna Jack, your rent up, whatever the goals to get out, get free, so Yeah, I presume hand money, don't over thinking. Dont overdue at your job is to get out debt free. One of you can say hey what about grass, but whatever happens your job to get out debt three and then get into those baby steps and you're in your doing so for man you're doing it now. The other thing that you make up a good. You make a good point. John enough. Dimension. When your group, awaiting college. You are in a transitional stage in life, so, whether that's what job you're gonna take or if you're gonna buy house like there's gonna, be a lot of things variables that are at play and it's all it's good to have that cash in the bag and you're not talk about a huge amount of money, we're talking about a very reasonable amount of money, and just had that cash in the bank to give you options, get out debt free and then whatever you're next step is that cash is gonna, help fund that step, but great job way to go

all right, we're gonna go to Sarah and Indianapolis, hey Sarah. How are you I wonder you God, how can I help Christy AM. I am a long time power and a young and actually night you last year at the business BT com during the VIP lunch, and I ask you a question about like how do you know when it's trying to throw in the towel now I remember that, thereby I remember that I was there. I was writing. We were on dry. I was growing up. I took her advice. Caneback leader, acted like field are like literally on fire. This year I advocate the month off because I had surgery, but over the first six months, I've gross dollar, thirty thousand, which is more than when I last year. Basically

I'm at the point where I am ready to hire help. I do know that my time you know is being spent too much on the business. But how do I know if I need to jump, hire some hope to come into my house and help me a little bit here and the air burst with actually taking on getting the bricks and mortar and all of the explanations that then come with overcome, mortar yeah so I want you to do something really simple, really practical to help you decide. This is something we have time to do on this call, but you can do it on your own and I'd be willing to bet. You haven't only because it's kind of a pain to do it, but I just you to compare what the role would be and what it would bring you so. For example, hypothetically, I would hire someone into business for twenty hours a week. They would do this type of work. That would give me back this much time and make me this much money or hypothetically out here, someone in my home. That would do this type of work that would free

this much time, which would then free me then work on a business that within bringing me this much money, you're. Just You kind of a comparative analysis in its literally to call em. Sarah, like is not complicated. It's not fancy! It's just comparing which one is more beneficial to you, and it may be something where you split. The difference in say amateur, bring someone in the business ten hours when a home ten hours and then in the that's gonna kind of divide and conquer, but I just really, the EU to compare them, because we can think, oh, my gosh like drowning in housework. Honey to have someone come into the house would wish, may be true, but really feels overwhelming when it may be better spent to hire someone into the business that could actually bring an extra income and- and then you, you know you get your car as in your able to kind of take care the house a little bit better, does that make sense yeah I'll tell you what the Bergen, what are eating out of the house now, I won't have to be working out twelve hours a day, but then are you really

I think that the work on one are: you still are like if you on vacation and replaced by down, will you out of here I gotta get back out now, and so it's like a really trading in stress in time in getting giving more time back. I guess I'm down It's, like John Bologna, said a little better go. It's not that it's not hard is just a different kind of hard. Stay on the line. I want to give you a ticket to our business. Boutique event this far enough, you have a ticket. If you do already, you can go hadn't gift that someone, but I'm so stinkin, proud of you. You are right, king it and what a great problem to have your business is taking off. You need help. I just want you to literally take a notepad, a pin and re a couple columns go if I heard some one in the business, what would they do and what was that bring me in time and in money and then, if our hearts, when it's my house to help me. What would that bring me in time

then obviously potential money assuming you're doing something else. With that time, that's now not spent in hopes of two columns compare both option It may be something that you pick one or the other, and it may be a little bit of both thou think. That's give you a little bit more clarity, because you could have actual numbers and not just a hunch and exhaustion to go home, because I tell people all the time. Tired decisions are never good decisions, but one other thing to consider, as when you figure out what this person is going to be very clear on what the results we want to achieve review. Clear on your job description as we call it in contributors, key results area. What are they to do and define success for them, for you, whether you hire them in your home or in your business, and then you know what you're running too. You know what expectations are. How do you it put a premium on your time? I couldn't do that like the site, I'm worth as much as our well being talked about that

The break. I mean it's, not it's not a formal, it's it's a bunch of variables, you consider and, as you consider these variables together, you come up with a range we can, but we cannot that's a great idea, one pack, that, after the break this is the Ramsay so this year I join me today is Doktor John Bologna. We are taking your calls about life, money relationships and time management. All the things give us call triple eight eight to five five, two to five. If you want

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dont. None of us do, and so I will help you, but that some before its break, you asked How you put a value on your beyond your time is up for that. So I come from a background which is, if you hire somebody, because you lazy, extreme, but it go on work. Christy Helen. You can only do so. Thank you view. If you, just figured out, do yourself and no, your own yard fix your and our cage on oil and then, where I begin to hear a few years ago, before folks who were beginning to leadership, her running their companies who were busy your mom's, your delicate. All that is, you come up with our view like what is an hour of your work time worth benefit, exceeds their hearts and we ought to do that because your time is so you can make your yard. Two hours to do that and you think that you're, like you, didn't often eurozone five bucks, an hour you to patient, but exactly thirty bucks to Millyard. Rightly I never.

Unable to rationalism ahead? What does it actually look like how to come up with a with a within an hour amount for my I am also going to hire and employ right right. What's What's the right way to do it, I think I think it depends on several amid the way that you're asking. Let me back up when I teach women to price themselves too. Their products and services through business boutique, for example, in a business environment we through several variable soap, ass, the good soldier you're your talent, the quality of materials, the time it takes you you take all these variables into consideration. The industry or end. So when you come up with a range, what your competition starting its own, but we are talking about, is different. I actually use this interesting example in my goal. Play here have content a monthly themes, content throughout in the month focused on time actually believe. As this month for those people who have the goal plainer, I tell story of this woman on a phone call. Whenever we were, I was doing research and she was telling me about how adorn up look at our house and

now you could go down to the local hardware store and get adorn. I'm first, maybe before dollars like these are not expensive things but she really wanted to make it like like make a door of from scratch, fix it make it something so she's like googling and new to being and she's getting older. The little springs and all the little parts and peace where, after about thirty hours, she makes this door knob for, like I don't know what on twenty seven and she was so proud of herself that she saved like two dollars right, Unlike ass, she told Mister. I'm gonna, like I feel like, may she's missing the thousand dollars thousand dollars sole right, happy right, but I think there the interesting and again not to pick on older generations but from the older generations. Certainly my mom's generation mats pair see this and am happy to do it yourself. It's a do it yourself generation. They grew up, they didn't

have as much and so there like. No we're, not gonna waste food. My debt is not waste food. At the dinner table you better aided or your ungrateful and because of that, Culture in that context, and even world view that they grew up in that experience that they had. It is harder for them to are you there time, whereas Matt Night, it might be easier for us to Pay someone more alone because we're goin: why could pay someone this much money or I could you now have the evenings with my kids. So can you put it so for me and your nipples Should you like our grandparents were the great depression they didn't, they undermine it. Wasn't a hundred percent or have that kind of assent, but even if they're out of that, even it like my dad has money, but it stays with still rival, don't want spending, and so I think it's interesting how that shapes your worldview. But you have to ask yourself: it's again: it's a cost benefit type of thing: it's not just what they were if I'm gonna put only four dollars an hour on me, for example, your lawn example. Then, if I pay someone mother wanted thirty dollars, it doesn't mean I have to go, spend that time, making

money, no suggestion but its, but but what is the value of time and the kitten evening her time whenever selfish and have also learned it? I use do it to say that two dollars that her story reminds me of me. I'm gonna spend a week doing a thing. The hit should have taken five dollars and thirty minutes once a ship it from a scarcity mindset. If I defy dont a there are five dollars here because to you not like, I like learning hard things like figuring stuff outweighed the hot, a hobby totally then I love it, and I can I find myself, but it's not an identity anymore right and it's not a cost. Saving myth is that this is a fine projects, may have in the different differently to our project, we're gonna go to Brenda and Amarillo paper into. How are you hi? I'm doing? Fine? How are you today gray talking John and I help ok I wish try functioning artistic tire

ere I m each only challenge a number of areas. I write I pink. I define I design wrong I got you call outstanding and nobody thongs also, but I just don't know trying to make my cowards. For me. What are you gonna do with one of those, not that you have to totally pick but is there one of those that you enjoy more than others that you want a really focus on me? I like it. I, like my back, ok cool I'm gonna give you some really simple advice, Brenda and think this is gonna help you make progress in this is the advice by the way, I would give any woman in your shoes. This is not differ. Are you because your high functioning autistic? This is just what is a good step to take. If you will do something you that you're not sure how to do, but you have talent there.

And that is to spend time with people that are doing what you gonna do. We talk this earlier with, can comment in his book the proximity principle, which we can send you as well. If you stand alone, Kelly will soon that to you, but the eye. Is: if use in time around people that are doing what you gonna do you're gonna learn so much about what you need to do. Most pray Brendan earned. Ha. I heard about that time around people may say that my work should have been published long ago, so Are you asking how to publish a book or just in general, how to make money at your your talents Aren't you may be sure to get my strong there. I m not good with computers. Picture year when I was ready to bind them down the stairs ah I compliment

the ban are surely whenever I was early in my career or trying to make my career, I I met Bob Sugar she's, the guy you get those the Japanese she'll be there were four have already production and, he gave me a card. Surely there are other folks stumble over an outstanding eloquence. Brenda. Would you like to be my understanding here at the street you go first to jump over. I did not. That was an offer, Well, here's the thing by that, whether it's that or something else? You have the potential you have the talent, The opportunity it might just be take some very small unimpressive steps and maybe that's finding her

call student that can do the computer side of things for you getting your blog or social media, publishing your work where you can start to get exposure eyeballs, because even if you published you need someone to self the two sell to so creating.

Little bit of an audience and certainly online, it's a great way to do that and there in west taxes you can play a thousand different places, play your songs, Yankee itself publish, there's a million different things. You can stay on, align, let em at Kelly City might, but business beauty is well. That's gonna show use spit step by step marketing that you could do to get your work out there and then watch how those small steps begin to snowball, and it turns into that thing you want to do, but it might just be one small step at a time. I think really sustained tiled associate producer Kelly, Daniel and Michael Housetop Attack Aloni. This is their ranks, so did you know you can listen to the Ramsay, showing your smart speaker just tell her legs, Google assistant were SIRI way. The Ramsay Show podcast check at all. Ramsay network shows money, isn't the only very we talk about around here? Get life. Changing advice on your career, for my good friend and career expert can combine all my can com and show. According to a recent Gallup poll, nearly seventy percent of Americans are disengaged at work. If you dread going into work every Monday morning and you're, just trying to make it to the weaker can Coleman show is for you, everyone has a sweet spot. You're sweet spot is at the intersection of your greatest talent in greatest passion. We will help you discover what it is you were born to do and then will help create a plan to make your dream job a reality. You matter and you have what it takes, joined the conversation on the can com and show here more from the Ramsay network, including the current common shop. Where ever you listened about gas, hey it's James

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