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It's OK To Admit You're Hurting During This Season (Hour 1)

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But the headquarters of Ramsay Solutions broadcasting from the dollar car rental studio. This is the Ramsay Show where America hangs out to have a conversation about your work, your life relationships, and even your morning, John Bologna, join here by rents, personality and best selling off their kin, colon we're in your life are taking.
Since right take life, though not be gray very through some promise to show we will take your calls on work. Purpose life relationships, money, bring it on. They all kind of tied together. Interestingly enough, when we lay out those buckets, you know and you two, depending on who you are where you're what you're dealing with today what you ve been dealing with the last week last month. You get all those come together. John. I know that when, when people are happy in their work, there happy in their relationship because it colleges spills out when the guy goes home I'll pick on guys, guys, I'm a dude for Ladys as well. We know from all kinds of studies when you're not doing meaningful work. You feel like you're stuck. You feel economic progress. in the home, and you see that come out as well, then, and then we know that you know hey if you feel you're stuck Actually, you don't feel like you can make a move. To pursue work that matters deeply to you. If you feel like your whole world is falling apart. Relationship lies
money, work that become secondary, etc. They all everything works together. I think, were feeling a convergence of that The country is people of struggle at work and with money and with wellness. In what science mean was politics mean? What is my family relationship look like, and should we stay together? Human landed, Reiner, lap right. Well, you know it look, let's just take a less. You take out a snapshot when the pandemic hit and, of course, in different parts. Country. You have more opening than than other parts of the country, so really is still a sir come stay as that has been hanging over large of our nation and certainly the world for a year still hanging and here's what happens when uncertainty takes hole of us? and I think Debts John? That's what I'd just senses since overcame it. I just there's five
Mitchell uncertainty, professional uncertainty. It has ass. We debated and made worse relationship, uncertainty and boiled We humans, just don't do very well with uncertainty. Do we know- and I think most, thus do one of two things right. We clamp down here try to grab everything we can in any fake certainty or you just take off running right. You yet RO in the corner and just let the world spin Azure right and it's finding the strength community and relationships and the the purpose to get the middle of that right control. Small things, let go of the other things right, while we talk, I believe it was oh, I want to say two or three where I think it may be in early April day, Ramsay Rachel Cruiser myself. We did alive event here from our headquarters. we talked about was called a night of hope, and the message that we drove home at night was that you control the controllable focus on what you can
shoulda so much in this world that we cannot control one of these attacks. What about the king Kaliko in helping people live and work on purpose is what happens when you're in a place of uncertainty or in a place of confusion? What do you do that overwhelming feeling the advice that I give it Did I do my own life desire retreat to clarity, so I'm in a place where I'm in financial uncertainty or special and certainly relations, but certainly I'm realise right now. There's a lot of things spin around me and I can't control John. I started. Ok, I'm gonna retreat for enough from the world like a good or a cave and disappear, but I'm gonna do as I'm gonna just stepped back for a moment. Whatever that looks like it's a perspective, that's it! I call it getting clear, just get clear what were now. What can I be clearer? I'm clear my wife Stacy's count lonely. My three kids are count, lonely, you don't whatever. If that, if that's clear get there, and when I Third, ok, that means archaic wit moment.
Bad I'm heard no matter what's goin on my world? Are there other p? count mommy my teams, kilo me. You can call would show, has a team that their people that are less every day There cannot be two short so for you in those moments, I'm gonna tell you stepped back and get caught a clear financial leeway. Second, what do I have to do to just pay bills the four walls, that's what we teach whenever situation in relation to how the people get clear when it feels like their whole world spin on. I think what I love. We send it to you, a cup for second slowdown. Stop you! I get some perspective. You sometimes kin like and in this weakens a great example you stepped back. Then go to sit down for a second right, so I was telling you offer hope I can get through this. We the world lost a really remarkable guy from a community that I spent many years in a garden for long.
one time they mark Rogers, enabling Texas in a senseless, unfathomable car accident with this, lovely little kids in his extraordinary wife, whose long term friend president brothers, big sisters, a community earlier and get this isn't a store. I don't ever tell it was a dinner had together years ago started. His little podcast was a first podcast. I ever did without been well outside inside relationships. What is wellness? Look like outside what we ve been told and so Kin. my instinct is just like yours to pull back and circular count on me. I gotta go back in some. Does you lose a body? when you lose a light, he gonna sit down and just grieve at man, etc, and so it's been acquired weaken the Bologna house sitting. There reflected on sometimes I've happens, edgy right we're on the show talking now about much advice. We give cardiovascular this and I think it's an essay
its dishonest and not truthful as those are to supper, He's right is just dishonest, not to say life could comes at us to Europe. so we had a crazy thing: it's not a death and with a friend, but we lost our beloved Riggins this mornin long time fit in here's. The thing is that we do care unexpected who die in right. Now, of course, you are my wife said Holmes. He's borrowed till the kit strike school, when an ear. What is happening word, as is happening, was fine last value in boom, and it's like What happens when you hurt and any go? just Wanna shut down? Well, you know it's good to chill little bird, but but but also an alien to the people. But then you lean on others. You you come you say, the sun's come on up tomorrow, I think That's why we're we didn't plan to share that's where we're both hurt in different ways, and it you know what there's no additional murder. If man, there is a lot of people hurtin right now lot,
partner. Listen, you died in you're, going. Ok, we got bologna in common. But maybe you're supposed to listen. They because you ve been through a season of pain, maybe you're a storm right now or just feels like financial storm or professional storm relationships, or maybe there's all three kurdish. Tell you a wii feels like we ve been through all three percent right now we're sitting in it. Now. who has been a heavy season, and I want to people permission to both stop in exile,. take a knee and re look at other people and say This just socks. I wish thing to say and If you are in a season of sunshine right now, that's where you are look so I saw her body else. So here's the deal AAA eight to five two to five us. A number will hurt with you, love on you, come on out tomorrow, our problems AAA eight to five five,
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This is the rapes, show I'm John Bologna Joint here with bestselling author kid common were taken. Your calls on relation Europe's life, whatever is going on in your world, AAA eighty five, five, two to five jubilee: eighty, five: five, two to five Let's go out to SALT Lake City. You talk and talk to Sri what go on. Hey, listen man! I have the chance to talk to you who I am thrilled to talk to you sherry right. Yes, yes, it here our ok. I immediately listen. You have to know the US, the call screener desire, is this citizen for killing. Today in he got all my headset and said it is not sherry, it is sherry and I set great store. I will answer the phone: what's up jury so that not everyone in American? No, that was my fault, not you not his! So go for it! Oh well! My question is
well, I'm trying to figure out right now how I get my sixteen year old to focus on the future without driving her. like crazy in the process ya. I've heard this called fell. So, let's give us a little bit more detail on what this conversation has looked like to this point, then I will answer that: ok well out afresh, Are you a little bit about my daughter, she's, the chief she'll be seventeen in a couple months. She Larry bright. She she's kind, choose witty she's, sarcastic, he'd, articular she's, very artistic, and if she has a big big dreams of doing something like in in Hollywood or going to New York and being with former or being voiced actor or being an artist and I know she's so good at all of this, as she is very good at all of this, but I'm trying to
let her know gently bed, there might be a chance of her having to do something while she's getting her foot in the field- and I don't want to hear anymore- that like what's here, what's your suggestion, but what do you mean my suggestions to harass you to look at things do what you can do for your your day, while you are searching for thus, while you're a lawyer, proving your eyes. I share your view that, quite so, let's, let's recapture, because I want you to hear what you told us call saying guys I need your help. Be my sixteen year old take her career her future seriously. I asked from words fails. Then you went into how bright she is now talented. She she is and how big her dreams are. So sherry. We have a conflict,
We don't need to help her get serious about our future. She's dreaming, big, that's what I would want to give us a gift repair and a very sixteen year old in the world is a kid whose traded bacteria, it's really a cherry. Your safety muscle Europe nineteen gland are making these things happening, don't exist, John you're, apparently glad there is your love. It's on overdrive right now and you're like your base. Telling your kid you a plan for win your dream. Fails! That's what you're telling your daughter- and I know, you're not sending that, but that's what hearing in the reach she's hearing that sherry is because, when Europe acting so sherry. I love you. I've got three endless, sherry, taken on you, but guess what this kid knows that when she goes a New York or allay, she will have to pay rent and she will to come up with food. This kid knows this: don't you think? Yes or no, she D,
as I solicit. So that's what I'd call a day, job before waiters, gigs or whatever she's gotta do, but that's not what you're talking about you're trying to talker into some type of safe career back up. Like being you fill in the blank, and that is true her bananas she's gone mom. I don't want to do that, and can I also just set you free, sherry cause you're, the one unease? Yes at free, if goes for years dreams and I hope and I hope your her number one year later- because if she goes for it- and it doesn't work out for whatever reason- she'll go back to something, but we don't- we built in your kids. If they play a sporting event or they play a musical instrument here your recital next week do a good job, but have a good using your back pocket. If you don't play well, would you ever dream of tone you kid? No that's what you're telling her in her life
mom. You need to relax and new to say how can I support you and how can I help you and I hope you find a job. I hope you find a place. We can re I'll help you find a second or third room. I just want to support your dream anything at the dead. I can do to help you stay afloat and stay the game, while you go for it, I'm all in baby. That's what you mean we tell and who came to make your hartfield a little bit lighter here, cause you're gonna have to do your work here since you're older, sixteen ripe sixty year older sixteen, and so when a parent goes full in support on their dreams. Like kid says, one of two things will happen you will. You will help feel that rock it would jet fuel and it will. off or they will really is not a school and mom thinks it's cool right opening here, The second thing is this sherry. If I look back over the arc of my career. I've done a lot of schooling and setting a lotta classes if
to tell you the number one thing that I have fallen back on as a sea. during the administrator it at multiple universities. Now in this cartoon job, I have right now, living at this fantasy world has been my experience in theatre, my experience playing with music groups, my experience in full other people that will help her. If, if she decides can said if this thing doesn't work out down the road. You will ever skills. You learn working on a team and on a film crew, the skills you learn speaking public having to come up with learn lines in project them and to help learn from all these different bosses. All things will go into her repertoire and she will take over whatever else job she wants to do so you can lose by encouraging your door to work as a team work on a team as a part of her art work on her art. What you can do, though, is hit and she was a girl in May.
Let her know like Matthew, met, Mokanna high tolls. Dad said you can go all in You're gonna go all you can work really hard? Don't screw this up, here's the deal, sherry, you gave me of evidence to believe that this is not a delusion that she does have the talent What is he doesn't make it only Ellie level or the New York level? Who cares? Maybe gods got a different place for, but it was pursuing that path. Letter to her ultimate position. If a kids do general parents year, shoot him straight, let alone the real, real okay, but this this girl's, not delusional she's got a dream. It she's got talent back it up, so tell you sherry. Maybe an apology might be necessary here, not that you ve done anything really wrong, but you say: hey baby. I care so deep, bouchers your mom, I'm always trying to protect you and the reality it is. Maybe I tried to protect a too much here's how I'm gonna support that I think it is necessary here in the letter fly I love. Can the idea of
parent, taken their kid out and say, and you know what I've been the brakes here. Yes, and so starting today, I'm gonna be number one fan. If we're gonna do this, we're gonna go in and you gonna get really good at this. You can take so you're gonna worked really hard and Andy and right and I'm- the front row of your plays and I'm gonna whatever that looks. Like we're gonna supporter, search online. I love it back in let me take up the ideal of a dull to call the can comments you every day that are thirty five and forty five and they feel like they dont know what they. as I began to dig and asking questions. I've had so many just break into tears, men and women Why didn't you pursue it? This thing that we just got out of you, and I can't tell you how many times have said because Mamma how much they told me to do Sultan, smart and safe and a smart and safe is sucking the sole out of people. That's what's happening. You are correct, to fill a unique role. You are
you must do and parents we got a wake up, because if we try to push kids into a safe college in a safe degree and a safe job, we might be stepping they're very soul, I can tell you that nobody, I'm fired up law students, premium students, Medical's, that I've talked you in that set. As what are you doing here, they can't stay after only way smallpox Minister students any teachers reaching it only kids right. My mom said this is what we do in our family. Parents follow your heart, not recklessly not idiotically s, kids, that you'll know I've met with a lot of students are ok, I'm supposed to be a singer than her singing you like? No, not you're, not, but if your kids the talent get behind. Our support on the world has plenty of people I'll tell him that they are not good enough, that you be their cheerleader Hitler corner. This is the real issue.
This is the ransom, I'm John Aloni, jointly with King Comin in one of my favorite things about the reins he show standing here again. The lobby on the debt restage is bright. What's goin on brother now man just want to say I'm grateful for being here. So thank you guys for which do we're glad you're here majority from ours. We from Illinois just moved a Houston Texas two years ago, modern times the boots boots? Look! Those are debt. Free boots by the USA are you're right. You got it. You gotta Jeffrey stance about you are mad, so Would you pay off twenty? thousand seven hundred fifty dollars of student debt, while twenty eight thousand Fifty also no other debt, no other than just love what you degree and men, occupational safety and health
patient safety and that will take you to Houston. Yes, Sir Man, How long did it take you six months? Why Oh, do you not even a rat? Luckily I get job coming out of college and threats. Thing. I had at what you arrange income, seventy five thousand to eighty two thousand, a boy and that's that's Tirana, I have heard rumours that was gonna messy year, two yeah yeah. So what happened? six months ago that you said enough man, well, I came out of school are transferred into my my first do that free. So Once I got into my university, I then gradual I didn't want to have their debt lingering, so little bunny transferred into university debt free and you thought little rock, you're, not a mistake or a kind of a mistake to get back into debt was a party money or was it for
The area girl you'll that over the years, and here the lobbies it here. I sit here a miserable and a little bit. There are limited some grief jointed out there. That's right Sonia one guys get popcorn out three ensuring that line. So much so you decided a I've got one left two years left: let's live it up. but you lived really nice in it in a really nice apartment, no, not at all So what you spend the money on just stupid stuff man had a boy So then you get this new job in what so I got the new job Bob from there just started, throwing money at the dead, and I wanted to get rid of it. I wanna be. It will have a life that I could enjoy because, no moving down there at less than a thousand dollars or my family's back. up to now annoy so rude enone body and sworn make sure I got that debt other way. So I could live life on city people. Give you grief
or make that kind of money drive in the same car in the not goin out hanging out, oh yeah, I co workers, Sir pretty much everybody that I know is minimal. Fire purchased a car, but for about twelve hundred dollar rabbi. Luckily I mechanically inclined, so they also mean it's. It's gonna go down in a few months, but a fixed it announce. Look at you over forty thousand miles down the drain did you did you ever question this decision once you start to get that negative peer pressure to startle man? Do you really want to do this, or were you a rock I'll every step of the way I mean I had that lingering thoughts I well. I could be doing that and then and I got my stepmom paid off and six months so how'd you like them. Apples right! Ok, you got you on this programme, so actually back in. School, my grandma Grandpa bought me a book and it was you know
about what not to do in college, silent through college without any credit card stood I have card so really there. withdrew, financial peace, university and stuff got me hooked on it and then once I went to college, I had a three hour drive back and forth from home, and really the pot Dave, Ramsay Podcast kept me awake gum, can forth from himself. Let's get it puts a lot of people to sleep. I'm gonna get you awake deadline, while you no danger here today just feel very brave, so big fella, I get a question for you. What what? What is it feel like now on the other side of this intense six month run the huge silently falsely in the grand scheme is the things I wasn't there much debt For me, it was a lot sure I listened to the show, and I hear you know some people talk about how massive that they have in you know, I'm grateful that
do you guys parties presume, so I don't want you to everyone, the comparison game starting now. Debt is debt, and twenty thousand dollars can feel like two point: eight million right in its way you down the capture from moving through life we want to who, biggest cheerleader who worked alongside units crazy six months, for sure my parents and then my grandparents, as well as what was it like, calling grim Roma Grandpa, let no egg as a transfer, devilry I'd, know credit cards. and then I decided you know what I'm a handsome guy. I need about twenty thousand dollars of just play money though they were super excited about that. But now I'm kidding, super stopped. There had four so what now? What do you do now ago, Johnson, Vacations gay. Why I decided to fly here, because I wasn't turned down the chance come here
You got us also that so called the key people or lesser. I know other young fellows young Ladys out there there there in the prime they're out their experience in the world. They can do a lot of fun things, but if they do it you did that choose a sacrifice, big time and it's not so far, and what would you tell him? The key is to get through. All of that just be weird don't listen wherever by us does pick your own path. Then you can be deaf in stress, free, very cool, who you get with you that we have here a shiny white boots behind the camera. This is my girlfriend Mckinsey grimly she flew she's, moved into Houston with me. She flew in with me as well. I wait a minute you're telling me you can be on a budget and pay off debt and have a beautiful person chase you across the country, I thought that was me he'll exclusive, not now Big plans you'd like to announce here that IRAN's issue live using the Rams Asia. Looking
What new, under pressure, I thought we could have a moment here? I listen, I'm not trying to put pressure on you. I'm just selfishly trying to create a great broadcasting moment, yeah This is all about us too. If you would actually make this happened right now, this clip lives forever him and I've benefit. I lose more embarrass her hill. It might be a tie. This fair test thought about it, but my best mankind got the ring. I love your deflected blended in another place, will Bryce from Houston Texas paid off twenty eight thousand dollars in not one year, what six monster in the middle of a pandemic, making seventy five to eighty two thousand dollars and he kept his girlfriend rattle, it offers brothers
the fire was blood. He is undergoing boy this. This this is really happened. You see that that was the pause you Alex up. He's going while I actually did this sets the reddest face. I've seen on that stage, I think. Well, we did. We did put a little extra pressure on because we can in a double apologize to almost every little but not a shot man here, you don't do it like it. I dont really wrong you now later on nine years court. We try to help you out here Selina was before the shown. So to pressure. You know, that's not true. It's not my goodness. Who imagine Walter you, I didn't make anywhere near that when I grow Dominica, oh yeah, this young man is it's got a bright future. I got out it up in more debt linking their money he's making between seventy five and eighty two. Let's say that eighty two right now he's in
shape now he's moving? He just moved along through the baby steps before he knows it he's in there millionaire s. Whole life is His whole perspective. I love that he's taken trips, I would say to you, young man, when you take trips, are you time not just to to cooperating and cut of risk. door yourself from a time of great sacrifice: rewards but also think big? What could you do if you have no debt? What could you find now that you don't have that mendous burden that so many young people, your age, have, I gotta tell ya, as a guy who's, always preaching live and work on purpose. You know now there is really nothing hold new back somewhat. Your dream is what your contribution that you're going to give to the world for your work and through your relationships of metal, proud of you thanks for share in that debt. Free this is our fate. part of the show and always because at the moment when men and women step triumphantly craw across very impressive finish line, and it's all
freedom. So thank you, Sir really good stuff right in you. Don't know what this feels like yet, but take it from two guys with kids It will never know the stressed out dad who does it, and that is if we're about losing the house, because you did stuff on your own, Good for you with legacy changing stuff man good for you right. This is the Rams issue. Eight hundred and eighty eight eight hundred and twenty five five thousand two hundred and twenty five, this is the Ramsey show I'm John Deloney with KEN Coleman and we are taking your calls on work and purpose and relationships your money, let's go to in Cincinnati Ohio Zack was going on.
Various working during my gonna go. So what's up, men are queuing up to a few months back I bought thirty thousand dollar car basically, just because I needed something that was gets on one or other real transports. Car car. I bought a followed your I've twenty seventeen jeep. The point about large debt. I want full time and make about thirteen hours. Now, I'm a full time students, but much schools paid for So my mom kindly said: hey what's buyers car and you can be sure Randy plan at all, but after watching more the conquering on you too
not the reigning, when we are not just what we should clear the suffer every body parents included, we are not for you buying a car and then using the debt snowball to get out of it. It's not it's out alone to punch it's kind of a five year Manuel played on her part in ice movement. So what you can I guess my question: if I looked at the Kelly Bluebird value like between twenty five and twenty seven, twenty eight currently Should I at this point just so down to devalue and saw the car or I can do that at the moment arm, or should I just try to take the snow? That's not all approach to give us the numbers. When you say you can pay something on what's that number, so I goodbye about twenty eight hundred dollars on at this moment to get me The range of colleagues value. I make sixteen hundred hours more. Roughly could make more
more get another job over the summer to help pay the call off, but like to offer one going off now: unexpected large, not I've heard our car payment yeah. Well, it's kind of above. So here's what I want you to do you you need to the twenty eight hundred on it, but you need to working extra hours. You can do that now, you're, young guy, just go, go, go, go! Go! Let's pay more of this down so that when you sell it, you ve got something you and you get so to play with you can buy a car that you know. Four five thousand dollar car them easily take care of you and in Zack I died. go one step further. I would see a few could list. Thing tomorrow and see what you can get for it and if you can end up bomb Fine, you taken on a small loan to pay the gap off indignant. Twinning, her boxing goaded by yourself, a car with cash, a beat her car. And then work really hard to get that small paid off because you gonna go from a nonsense, weird for somebody,
eventually take alone, but you go from owing what twenty five thousand dollars on depreciating asset to owing twenty six, for it is a sucker somewhere and you can open two thousand dollars you gonna, take that one. Eight hundred gonna pay that two thousand dollar gap and then you're gonna save up over the money and then buy yourself. A cars can get you to and fro. You got no business man being a twenty five thousand dollar car making sixteen are all jointly the elegancies. If you do Johns point, I gotta have a car or you're gonna have to plan somebody's, you borrowing a car. So if you any transportation of there, couple ways to get this thing knocked out, but knock it out very very quickly. This is not but I want to take my time with. This is let's, let's not get out quickly, Michelle much cheaper car enduring start building back I had forgotten our saved up on each truth, be told. I thought it was a bad idea, but I seen the jeep and then got cancer. I listen, don't read yourself up, we all had that happened at some point or our lives. Were you know that
looks, really shiny and starts to whisper pipes, pipe avian and and if you get out a life with a you're stupid taxes for hours three dollars year come on, decision taxes. Three four thousand bucks man you ve won- are Dave talks about his his stupid taxes. multiple commas in it, so you're, good man, you're good, learned his lesson: ass, a young man and move on man. You're, never gonna this again and you ve got a bright future ahead of you good for you. I can't you. Spent the last year during a k? EC season, walkin with people who have been followed, been lost their job had this base. There page rattled enough to go. I've been living. Somebody else's lie for so long and about doing anymore his life to shorten the what's come our way, I'm gonna makes changes here you ve, been taken. Hundreds of call throughout this year
so much so that the world is essentially demanded. Hey. Let's do something big want me through what here was working to bring back a very popular Reims II solutions. Events we did last year believe it was June of last year's people were really beginning to feel the shock in the job market. Is it contracted so quickly and so we're bringing? to get hired event, it was wild success. Last year we gotta bring it back, it's the first stages of my seven staged a meaningful work on the CAN college of your new too. To me as a part of the Ramsay solutions, personality group and, of course our show is apart arranging network, so I'm ill People figure out what they were created to do in their work and in making that meaningful. Work, a reality and so there's three stages that start off our seventh Eighth get clear: get qualified get connect so we're really gonna Junta on those three stages at this get high
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Now we are a lot of college kids. John Gonna hit the world May June its people. looking to switch switch careers, its people that are saying hey. I got followed or laid off and I've been doing too. Ray part time jobs, I'm ready to get back in the full time situation and get that we'll beggars. I can get out a debt, so if you knew They get hired you just let that sit for. Second, I want get hired somewhere else than this it is for you, it's April, twenty seventh eighties from seven central tickets, Dave, Ramsay, Dotcom, slash events, and I would say you wanna, come the nationalist, be great fun triple producer, really special stuff for the live crowd become people very limited, very safe, very health. I think there's a fourth purse like to throw in there that I learned so much. I always like a fourth person who could biting so here's the thing you have bet there are untold people. You know we talk about. The last year has been. Really people living in and out of a crisis
Is this owner small business owners, big business owners? We had the election, we ve had the market rollercoaster, we ve had just chaos and up a chaos summit in chaos you find out. Who your leadership really is they emerge right and you been distant from your leadership. You may have been closed to them in times everybody smiling right. In all the sudden, something catches fire and you find out People respond in chaos. You find out how people respond when things get hard And suddenly you realize values don't align here anymore or I won't be a part of a single and forward, but you ve put your time and you put your years in you ve on a career tracked in you. Don't know what to do. I love that here and G S being able to see to back up like we talked about the very beginning of this, our you gotta back way up, slowdown and start with part one of your plant getting clear him. What's a great point,
One of those folks ajar just describe what you're feeling his basic I'm too successful. I've got too much money invested, my four when K here been here so long. I've been very successful. This industry and here's to It happened of one you feel like you can't move on we my late forty seven, my early fifties can no one's gonna want to hire me debts that golden hair cover you, young people are watching and listen show today. That's what comes from I'm making too much money, I'm too successful success the change is simply not true. Certainly now economy. Booming the way that it is now and technology becoming easier and easier and easier to get into everywhere, What are called can cope with Georgia, MID fifties and, though partner with Bethel Tech, one of our partners here, Ramsay in and the king Kaliko within nine months. fifteen grand. They start
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