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Why, for the headquarters of Ramsay Solutions, broadcasting from a dollar car rental studio, this is the day rather, where America makes our conversation about your wife. I got your money, you think about your calling the work that you were created to do. We talk about your mental emotional health in your relationships
talk about at all? It is life because its real it's right there in front of you
Two options either participate or you shrink back.
and sit on the sidelines, I'm can Coleman hosted. The can
Home and show to support the rams solutions
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The show on a regular basis with dave- and
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most of the Doktor John Bologna show on the Ramsay solutions that work, and he is, of course, a ray.
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just tell you that were excited to be together now
just a quick intro here. What I do a lot John, does I'm focused on calling career your work work that matters
simply put, I believe you were created to fill a unique role in your work through your work. That means you are true
this limited.
but then Jolly also means that you gotta do it because he purposeful
is it about us set about money and notoriety in fame and power? It's about the
tribulation that we were created to make it so our purpose,
actually not about us, it's about others, always about others it. So we ve got this weird view of work. John here rarely solutions.
Most of the world thinks it's you work to live, to get a paycheck to be able to pay the bills and his little left over makes a memories, but we believe that we-
created to or don't wanna talk about, created, be work. A hologram had put all of your ideas,
in your work accomplished us not war, saying we are saying that you were created to contribute to this world through the talent you have what you do best through passion, which is the actual love of the work, those you loved or work in your hands and create something at a gift to the world and then to create a result from that work that matters to you, because you see the direct contribution. So that's what we thanks,
it's what I focus on in the John. You know you focus on the mental, the emotional health relationship, because if you look at purpose, I think it's too buckets and you- and I cover both of right. One is I've, got a purpose.
To be- who I'm supposed to be my relationships and also in my work
where the relationships in the human aspect talk a little bit about your philosophy. In your methodology, I think the image you nailed it you can't go
life alone, and you and I have we ve grown up and eat
that is the zone,
you figured out yourself. Do it yourself accomplish yourself and
your happiness in your joy in your soul and your completion exist out there right. If you
go achieve it in your sleep, well right and you can do it by yourself, you should do it by yourself
you'll need other people only either people and kin those two things just from
chemistry perspective is wrong, is just deceitful
We were made to work hard and made the can. We were made to connect big time and without those
thinks every alarm system we has goes off. Every inflammation response was up and we find ourselves spinning in achieving an numbing and look
a man, we're c and fifty a hundred years of go achieve
we do. It distracts your way through it and then here we are
so John. You also know this that when you're not happy in your work life, if you don't see that connection to what am I supposed to contribute to this world that can begin to affect all of your relationships of ass, ever
That's where it so and vice versa, when you're not win me and my wife aren't hole at home, for I have not been a good parents home.
you can't be all you're supposed to be in the absolutely not write it works together. It
Since John I worked together, we ve done that a couple couldn't Coleman shows Robert John it and will take hey. Aren't you got some toxic workplace stuff go on and hello, I'm talking to a friend of yours. So today we're gonna, take money, cautious, but Rasa gonna. Take your questions about relate
should ships in your home or in in the workplace and get a toxic leader John and I love to tag team. Those k because,
is a dual response there. So if Europe,
miserable at work.
People at home.
As your show- and I want to say this in those ECB innocent in four Kelly's Daniel today- he'll change, your name will change the location for where you're calling
I what John for people to feel safe today to go. You know what I'm a phone call away from getting some clarity on what I need to do to get out of the rut, a whole that I'm in their one phone call Iowa as right end once
further we're in a moment history where everybody is on edge? Everybody? Oh, you triggered just on edge
and here's the thing I talked about Roma show this morning and I continue to beat this term when you are on edge, is not myth. This is not fantasy when you are on edge when you feel like you are not safe, someone's taking something
You you are Migdol literally turns off your frontal lobe, because it doesn't want you sit in it that in the cave, going at a nice tiger, a sweet tiger it just
Jude, IRAN, man, I just want you to fight, and so, if you woke up this morning, angry, if you woke up this morning in a stay,
of what is happening for my family was happening from our country or cause. Can I even
so my drink and has already we got a different president in and we got a different. What is as I could affect, but
but can I can I can I even in its wake
let's look at my fellows call me- tell you something else:
want to. I want to put the call out for those of you who are hurting from being out of work for a long time must not forget that when covert nineteen hit it wrecked it wrecked
lives side. What John sit me somethin this weekend, I really show I've been told, James's surgeon,
I'm having coffee Saturday morning and does it in Europe a text pops up from Doktor John Bologna? Oh- and this is what he sent me he's doing,
research and others, a guy by the name of Andrew Oswald. I'm scared to you up on
whose and economists at the University of work in the UK and basically says that no others
come stay at produces a larger decline in mental health and well being then being,
in voluntarily so laid off for out of work. So then being nothing is.
Producing a larger decline in mental health and wellbeing, then being involuntarily out of work for six months or more listen to this John. This gloomy way:
It is the worst thing that can happen. He says equivalent to the death of a spouse and eight this direct quote a kind of bereavement in its own right. So John, you and I do,
combined forces on this, this is equally seriously dramatic with it. It is you're out of work.
yes or in work did you hate right
oh you are working for somebody else's pleasure, you're, not
to help somebody right you working for
somebody else's flourishing right. You know unite with. We ve talked about this privately when our friend my grocers summer here and he meant,
some, but I never thought of that. When we told thirty million Americans Yaller Essential, we told three hundred other million Americans. You know what noticed
ethics, we don't need. You will just send you a check and when
read that research. We basically told everybody, listen I'll have less value.
Just go home, Amelia money. We don't need in now
set off a chemical storm in our hearts and minds that have made us to produce, to mention four or five decades of messaging says. If you don't go to college your second class citizens, all the Citys, you go into the trades, your loser euro loser. So here's the deal AAA eight to five. Five, two to five remember trip lady to five: five, two to five full lines or open John and our killer right back or going to help. This isn't a free
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We're gonna started off with Patty, whose join us in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania Patty. How can we help? I? I think you could to talk with you.
I am a workforce, small companies alike
gaping construction company on the business.
manager office can ensure you know everything, and I am in a position where the owner really well
eyes on me to make some pretty significant financial decision
operational decision
he's a very, very good against crafting, not very good at his business, and I really
really starting to regimes that I'm putting that position. Not I can't do it. I have to training
but I don't. I don't think you really understand the importance of what we are asking you to do it I'm feeling
I for one feeling, like I'm, really getting tired of our aid.
I'm a job on the feelings of resentment, but I do want to know little about a background on this. Have you talked to him
this to say: hey you're you're, asking me to do some pretty heavy dew
stuff, and I just one
Sure you understand that that watch your ass
you do makes you really really hands off.
this is what I'm feeling about this. Have you had that conversation with it?
The conversation bad on the ask again, do
do you understand that he's asking me to make pretty kidney decision that I've not delved into the feeling part of it yet so
you're beneath your question is of value question and
Why it seems like on just
senator seems like this guy trust you a lot.
Seems like you really cares about you and has said man. Here's the keys to the kingdom did something about you that isn't sit. There
sit well with you is it. If is he not compensate, knew enough? Is it because I don't want to run a business? Are run, run the books or, what's what's the value question? What what's a vague concern here
definitely goes just me, and I do appreciate that guy. I know that he cares for me because, sometimes of frequently
when I give him an answer or suggestion that he doesn't want to hear like I want
this very expensive item? What do you think I Jake
I think that you do not have the money for it, and this is why and any kind of acts like a little boy.
mom, just told them tat an that's getting old.
Yeah. Yet not so I gotta quickly,
Tell me chump in is: is there also a sense of pressure that you feel he's putting you wonder, he's asking cause you ve touched on it twice and I feel like
Maybe you ve got some fear there, like this guy's asked me to make some huge
citizens and is not my company like feeling their ways at also going on
Don't you have a whole lot of poker? I'm I'm pretty sure. I won't get myself in trouble. I know what you say, but
he loves to when he asked you do something and it works he loved and credit for those moments, but if he asks you to buy some ya can't afford and you tell em, no, he does it important
or if you buy it and you look squeeze it into the Monti, blames you for being an app right.
doesn't really blame evil. There's a lot of there's a lot of unchecked will, let you know a lot of energy floating around in the office should I would rather not have floating around Europe there you go so whenever
you're the word resentment in a relationship resent
is a product of comparison
doing more than you, I'm carrying more than you'd happens a lot in marriage, as I do the dishes I did this I take here. The baby and all you do is and what
tell you is that once you get to resentment resentment, is the death? Is the
trajectory of any relationship in the world and so on
hell, you is resentments, often a choice in its yellow,
out of control over this. It could be
your choices. I don't want this life. I want this job. I want this press
I'm gonna, let him know in a controlled planned conversation, not in a fight, hey, I'm! I'm just got em accountable. Now
I don't want to do this. If you gonna keep asked
who run your business. I wanna be seo I'd, swear on books
and I promise you you're gonna, find somebody in town that would love to have an ethical, great bookkeeper that that personal exist
or you sit down and say I'm gonna stop
sending him, he trusts me and loves me he's a mature
and you ought to line up boss after boss in America under that label radio
I'm gonna choose to not be resentful because on poisoning myself open he's gone die. That's because he's problem,
not going to change, and I think that Patty, what you need or stand is, as you have yet to share with him you're real emotions, and I think, because you guys have such a great relationship, because
He trusts you so much that if you
all this in the right posture just a hey, can I tell you it's been going on behind the scenes. You asked me to guard this company. I feel like I'm, the chief guardian and I love it.
and I'm not gonna blow orders grew up, but when I do what you actually want me to do on your best interests in you, gonna get mad in Conakry,
This tension between us, it puts me
really resentful MO, because I'm actually doing the thing for you that you want me to do, and I actually love to do- and I am the most fierce protector of you in this company. Do you understand that makes me feel? I think you owe him that
regarding sedition trick. Has I think if he hears it in the spirit of humility to go? Oh wow Patty really does have my back, and I am acting like a like a seven year old boy and fire truck taken away. Oh ok! What we get to see right there Patty is you,
to see oh ok he's willing to try, and that will also help with what John say where you ve gotta, expected deflected
decide. Monogamy resentful goes to unemployed, it goes to a spouse and here's. The thing
sit on us. It again don't wait until it comes in
as I want to buy all new mowers, we're going all Nemours
in that way. The moment you snap and user can, if we can't afford basis, I figured out and then you blow upon you ass a
Friday at noon
I want order and lunch. I want to talk about the stay. The company plan on taking things a bit o my heart might give him some preparation for it.
Same as you don't yell at your spouse.
You know when the dishes are done. You figured out there
everybody mature and then that weekend you say we need to talk. Here's, the goodness, the silver lining for this Patty and John, I heard them
it doesn't seem like he's overruling her just sounds like he gets a little party and he gets upset because she's he said she said he couldn't have, as so. The fact
that I believe in you and running the business in the ground. We heard no evidence of that. It's not happen and is not an ethical he's, not so she's gotta. Ok, I just gotta, be
hey that he's a mature on this and I'm not gonna- be able to make those changes for him. He's gonna have to do that by being on
with him in sharing this with him in a safe way, not complaining
hacking little boy, hospitable, ways good way, so that they can get a chance, but even if Peter
fully ever turned the corner
then. Why does he to make a choice to make? That's what I mean by expected deflected boy. He was this
a new show anything we just kind of women.
and I'm gonna gripe about a little bit. But what is pattern O Connor done talking?
two days and then you really
It's me and all of a sudden he gets it infusion of good attitude and we're gonna be ok. That's where John.
You experience is more on your show, but difficult people exist.
Those were the difficult people and we can't just decide to quit.
Because sometimes the people we have to work with consumption
step on our toes or be
noxious or obtrusive, what
We gotta learn how to be big boys and big girl. I think we all have those
course went on the big kid and then there are the whining Brad Course in all of us. Have
recognized.
Entering into anti racism and shut up all right look
We gotta come up next segment. All marries on the line and she's got a question about navigating political conflicts in a family or that doesn't affect anybody else, but will still try to have a mirror. Weren't I've, that's enough acts, and this is good radio, this,
is the day Ramses
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just sick and tired of your job Monday
means are nothing more than sheer misery for you synergy.
the car to head to work,
struggling emotionally struggling with mental health rules.
kinship issues in your life or at the office John I'm gonna. Take
Those calls us where we specialised AAA eight to five five, two to five, alright you're would go. I teased it.
please call from Saint Louis got some some political conflict.
Stress in the family Mary tell us about it either.
They can feel grateful for you guys Dotard, even giving
Tons of great advice about how to handle conflict stemming from political tensions, it's been so helpful,
I'm not I'm not stupid great with it, as you can see her right. So I'm John and I fight about politics every day. The offers us really. I tell it. That's right.
Well, I've been better than nothing receive. Your kind campers. Thank you. So yesterday gave
by a comment about the EU being great assuming the other person you're dealing with wasn't mentally ill. But what is that person does have a
three of mental illness and emotional problems and boundary issues. Can you please, throughout and healthy ways an exit strategies to end
politically divisive interrogation and yet for me it has been interrogation and could you please shares some hand.
Phrases that could if you'd yourself from even going there. I want to live out proverb fifteen one which says again
Lanceor turned away rather, but a harsh words doors of anger. Such a great question, there's a couple of things.
Globally. Here one is yeah actually talk to somebody
today David I yesterday or the call marries, refer
who is David. I use
They talked about an Instagram post. I don't watch the news. Can you do this? You will give me a hard time back. There did Tom, I more
just did in local staff and what's in people's hearts and minds and non tv, and I post
something with the word unity in it, and you would have thought,
now is the second call it was wild stuff. I learned all about myself. I learn more about myself from the internet's colleges and EVA
I can, but on the air he said man, I know you are liberal, thunder defined and on is to grant. As a Dane, I told you a liberal, my in in view we're laugh and carrying on being silly and we
to laugh and about man. If somebody else, if people have mental
this then I can hear you and
I shouldn't we laugh and about the because there's folks like Mary, this folks, like me, there's folks like millions of people whose got people with the ashes role, not
mental health issues is not something to make fun of David. I
get time, but I think you're, right Mary and I thank you,
treat this the same as you treat any hard conversation with somebody.
Who believe some different than you, which is compassion and
just decided not go to war. If somebody wants to interrogate you, you do
permission whether they have mental health issues with it
of any sort of of challenges. With communication, you have a right to be safe
and you have a right to your boundaries, and I often will tell folks mental health,
bonds as mental health challenges. Our contacts, not an excuse
because someone is a mental health issue, does not give them permission to treat you poorly to entail
due to beat you up to be ugly to you or anything like that, and so on
somebody does, and I've got this in my family when somebody com
at you with, can you bill
I will stop the hake we're not talking politics. You're, not gonna. Do that today not can have this conversation. I do, though I wanna hear about how little Susie do only your javascript,
or luscious hug we're gonna do an arm silly about at. My house could also here we're gonna get out, but I I don't enjoy
with conversations with people who are not interested in listening to write and that's the way
I'll get it. That's why I like talking when you can cause you hear different converse.
And I are different conversations in the thing I like
You can as it knowing as wherever the land on anything, and that makes me feel good. How do you approach that conversation
very similar to what you're saying. I think that in a she's well, she's thinking, how do I say it in a very kind gentle way,
that is the heart. You know Heisman trophy stance of star or not doing their cause that can also put in it
situation in. I think it's a, I think it's a pre emptive strikes
I think in her situation it to sit down at your hey. I love you deeply, and I know you like
the stuff, but I actually don't like to talk about now closed, because I d say
with you. I think that you're wrong. I you just weeks,
for a while, and I would just for further, we don't do it size once you know I had a time, it's not even that you ve done it's not you. It's me
I'm just that cover I'm doing this and others of my life any just ages it
nobody's ever gonna see eye to eye
in neither one of us are going to solve? Actually any major national problems or local actual policy problems by fighting amongst ourselves? And so I just think
for our relationship- and this is me my standard- not yours- I don't want you
feel bad about. Aren't you can talk about it around me and I'm not
Interjection. I'm debate you, but if you don't mind
created a thing I wish I could talk about and I think I'd be pre emptive there so that we put up
Andrey up before it
But in the moment for Thanksgiving and for Christmas we have people come for Christmas and actress Anthony militants at here's. The deal
we're not discuss yeah I'd. That's a pre emptive trotted out there. I liked it. We had a great time and a couple of times,
come in there. There were some hands put out we'll do that. I love you and if we can't be civil about it,
I'm not well you're, not what whatever the conquered consequent Macedonia in, and I think you know
I don't think I've ever talked about this on the show. So this is this kind of fun. I think of what I want. The
To know is that I used to be in politics full time what you news
I didn't notice YO, I worked. I worked on. It
national races dated nineteen O. My life, just
saw when eighty ninety four and then I was working for the governor of Virginia at the age of twenty two May
special system to Governor Jim Gilmore and so
there was a season of my life where I thought I was called to politics. I headed
career and calling crisis in my early thirties cause. I lost the taste for it. I was here
both sides of the Isle story by doing too much guesswork models which, by the way,
reading emails letter negative, so
recently right now that some elephant you you can either I'm never gunnery it so spare yours. I will send it to you. You enjoy their constant.
But here's what I found out, I lost the fire in the belly. I lost the passion for the work and the results of the mission
that career crisis is now one informs all the work that I do.
You didn't know any that. But here's my point. Having worked in politics,
A guy.
Though I no longer work in it and I dont want to work in it and by the way I don't want to return to it either. So, let's go back out announcement. I have learned of
really clear lesson that I think would help us all when it comes to political talk and coworkers and family and friends. I have never one time, John, in a debate with a family member.
A friend or co worker.
never one time change their mind. You did you didn't you didn't know
argue someone into submission I'll. Never once that did did the end of it a political debate, even if it was not nasty- and I don't really have nasty once but now
one time of I had a police
discuss with somebody who's on the opposite end of the spectrum or completely on the other side of an issue and now
Tommy what kin boy, I tell you what
made my point, and I really really believe my points but after major points I gotta tell you, I see it exactly the way you see it. Thank you can for life
in me and setting me on the right path set about three zero tonnes
so therefore, I've, never I've, never twitter
launched or look responded, somebody to change my mind, but I will say that at my house
I've had people spend the night of my house that would have made bird
centres go well, that's pretty far over there and I've had people spend the night at my house, but tromp would have been like
While the two for the right, real, sobering MAC, Lobelia everyone's welcome at my table and we're gonna, Sir Food together talk and we're gonna figure sum is out
buddy us an astute listener want of the day. Ramsay show one time wrote in it said I get the sense that you and Dave think differently on some things, and we talked about it. I said yeah, we
very, very matching boundary. I mean values. We want to help people, we love people, we care about our faith. We give our families with different police.
that's beautiful, because our values you together in day was to help somebody's
she wants to help him by learning
but now I want help him by hugging above or below
you're gonna change and if I do the hard work of reading and learning and listening by police, you're gonna change all over my lifetime, and I hope they do from the values can be rude and anchored in, and I think if we did, this value belief work across the country
you'd, see a connection happen from the floor.
Mind. Everybody said that I sail it can convert. You show all the time. The one thing that ever
human being on the planet can unify around that there might be more than one. There are. Not only agriculture use it. You know we can be unified around that. We all want to make a difference in this world. We want to make a difference, but speed up. This is
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I've two to five is the nobles got an actual Tennessee where Jack.
jack. How can we help
I would call in the data as beyond what you do about situation on me and I'm gonna job. Let's get three Jackson,
I really love full time. Job work, Billina both government and
I really love what I do, but I don't hate me
While I will make my miserable
Nobody knew MA. Am
I work for the United States Geological, whereby Andorra this major Rivers inquiry like the water.
But you know it sounds like you're out of the offers, a good bit yes or no yeah, oh yeah!
So tell me how your co workers are making you miserable. I want to know the specifics. Why again,
ever more money going to work that you go into office. Get you work truck, get all your go after the day, not.
let's go
The other is the word mob. Lay into other guys and went on
the hell yeah, we like our
get down there. You like your job,
so much on use. It there's no way that you,
Burnham,
the ten hours. Worse almost, I can't
you get a little touch a burn out, maybe because of
oh Margaret home,
he penalizing when he gives you that much work to do. Are you having no work longer
to ten hours a day to get it done, or are you go on home at normal time and do not get it done and he's bus in your jobs about it? What's goin on
Andrews bargaining longer than eight to ten hours. I replied its job Berman.
only when the rest bomb of more familiar? Well, you too
their jobs here, so so
you love the work. Do you love the work itself and you
I love one another year. So have you talk to them
leader to say, hey the stuff, your pile on me. I can't
all done in a day, and are you aware that I'm working this many hours, but I'm not getting over time here and I got a lot of girls burst? What needs to be done, and I said
the thing so the way I describe
situation? Jack on the can call. Mucho is you're doing the right thing in the wrong place. You ve got an unhealthy leader. It's become a toxic work environment
and there is little to no hope that that's going to change you ve had the conversation he's kind of like tough go pound sand.
So now you resent the very
distance of the guide. I wouldn't even need a diamond and whatever kind opportune doing it's making you so miserable. So the
news here. Is you know what that work? Is that you love and so now
We ve gotta be a big boy. We gotta go our. I can't
walk away from this thing right now, in my that miserable- and if I
put up with it any longer. Can I want
way from it financially the answer's. No, the answers you can't put up with a little bit longer your tough guy, you could buy to stick. You can be the bigger man, but you need to start looking
day and the Good NEWS is, as you know, the kind of work that you want to do so now. Starting
soon as you hang up this phone call. You gotta start looking for that work
where else and you go ok, I
EL the kind of work. I love- and this is an exercise. John, were again. You know Jack into scenarios,
paper like I've gotta here and go all
things. I love about this job of this this this this in this and in
We already know that he loves it, but we want to get real specific and those become the menu items. If you will,
as you begin to look, it offers you pull a recipe and I love to cook kind of reform, and I always love getting the recipe, cart yogurt,
What else in this well vassal world?
for one of the ingredients to this job that he loves
I will now we're gonna go look for that and the Good NEWS is. We can find that now we know what a toxic environment is like
This is what a lot of people do in the
search process for new jobs or different job or in the interview process you have
I looked for the signs that you're very acutely aware of, and so you asked the kind of course it what's it like your, how do you
workload how D and handle fever
He knows now. What he wants. He's got a match it up in the marketplace, and so that's the steps needed to take as Workin three jobs. This is gonna eat him alive. If he doesn't get out there, that's exactly right and I'd love to see him. There is a market for guys who will work beyond eight to ten hours, because it's the right thing to do on the gift. This job done them up.
of excellence on worker, that guy's nor fine work and I'd love to see him have one job that he
he's getting paid. What is worth has put in a hard working, go some tired than it can spend the rest of the energy and focus on its violent. You tell, he loves him loves and a man
we had more people who just want cut out the nonsense and we just want to go to work or work our butts off and go I'm tired.
Roma, which could have man well this this case folks. Listen it jack,
situation is the is half,
the equation. Why so many people are unhappy work pre covered? The number was sixty eight,
of Americans, one happy their work. The number was eighty percent internationally, MRS Pre covered.
There's two major reason for number one: you're, not you're sweet spot, which I teach is where you're using your talent what you do best to do work. You love your passion to produce results that matter deeply that
So people are in your sweet spot of course you're good at it is it becomes. Is this utilitarian function it slowly just beats the death of a just peace you to death like there's, no meaning to this work. For me
the other reason jaws poor leadership like we see here, here's a guy who's,
If we look at a jack goal, this dude rockstar is working
long crazier hours to get the job done, that I've poured on top of whom
called in the cold and we ve been away from his family's work into other jobs and this guy just like TAT.
Man. This is your priority is supposed to go away to say we have work to do or a small team of three,
so I hope Jack not actually begin to feel burned out, but this leader so pathetic. I mean pathetic and by the way this this goes from poor leadership, where you you're not exhibiting the characteristics and you're not good at your job to then it becomes a borderline abusive. You got, ok can relax.
Because you, as a leader as a boss hold over top of people, maybe one of the most powerful
stringent motivators there is and the ability to firearm well,
livelihood as we talk about it,
abusive, is also were holding over them, a core psychological components- farewells, yes, sir their purpose and work
yes and their food on a famous point and their role and the ability to provide, and then the ability to contribute tests and leaders stop stop this coming get here.
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John. This is a this is a massive problem. Rural world absolute is poor leadership.
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