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if we want to talk about Europe. If you wanna talk about your life and your money, we know we do cripple eight eight to five five to two I've that's AAA eight to five five two to five ah starting is often Norfolk Virginia is photo. I Fabio an approach that correctly baby. I'm sorry, ok, you're gonna mess it up. When I saw how can I help. I'm well on father of fires, especially children, were in the process of setting up a family farm through my boy, is on an burglar, actual work. The farm as part of their extended lies, you're too early Tom and through at your tell ye relationships with how they feel on things like that. Good, and so there have. I have the other actually the barn.

One element of diabetes and he thought about all the other one. regular or to limit the other, want to bilateral amputee, an autism Roca, though work novel, partly by all three hold a hundred eight. I don't really have an illusion be like the mortgages on the land and house were all. I got how leave on two hundred thousand Ireland relieved of armed forces. I have another. Thirty thousand another type of iron then all or you're, an incredible man. You ve done a great job while I learned on absolutely comes about you wanted fifty thousand year. What do you do for life? Well, I'm industrial mechanic and my wife the beast GPA, behavioral animal life on earth

there are no more suddenly saw tat. You thought I just wanted to know if you thought you know, but I have a good plan I want you to show a lot about a lot of people and I, feel very unfair spot on what what is it but your stay plan on how you're setting it up to survive you and take her these ghettos year, new so What's on Saturday, I don't know, I just don't know I don't know. I don't know. I don't know I just said every dad who loved his kids ever. so always make shoes and the good dad column, ok none of us. They are good enough, but the other part, the other part of the equation, is regardless of the type of challenges that he's gonna have every one of our kids has challenges and we can all

there's so much to get them there and you're doing even I got some extra challenges so you're doing some extra staff to get them there, but the truth is a part. She's got beyond them in a part of this is gonna, be on guard at some point, you gotta in this regard. For my problem, there you're, gonna, do is you're gonna plan and scheme and stress the time away. You do have with them you don't wanna, be seventy or eighty and look back and think I worried my way through those connective years. So now, really hard- and I have a big estate and I have spent hundreds of thousands of dollars, really believe it or not. Over the years on my estate plan and we have a meeting once a year. We go over what happens if Dave Dodge this year meeting its very detailed and very complicated, we call them Python mating I'm feeling much better and safer, The meeting as a whole things about when I die and presupposes I'm gonna, die before all the people in the meeting. So I don't know about this, but you know

bottom line is I've spent a lot of time or, like you, have and at sea point in the process. I gotta go. Ok, I've done what I can do, kiddos bureau what you can do, God, you're under You do and I'm a big just the the day Part of the equation is only part I can manage, and releasing their number one. The number two, let's just talk about the Mccain. on the tactics of what you're doing so you're leaving this stuff into these assets into a special needs. Trust, and you have a trusty to me- the trust of the assets that you trust thus the name trusty to take of and oversee these property and investments for the good of these kiddos as they become adults and managed. these issues I write up, that's really mean and then the details of that trust you can get down into that. My trust is pretty detailed. I'm per annum. I'm not even gonna be a bit of a control freed from the grave show, but

african money, that's my job to make sure that that some by doing cocaine, does blast with my estate, United, that's my job and in Europe. since your job to make sure some do Investment adviser, doesnt screw up everything you spent thirty years building and mess it up in your kids. Don't have food aid after you're gone right right so you're putting some safeguards and stuff in the in the tree. To say this is how I want the money invested. This is our far managed at any point of the child. But- two debilitated to manage this or ass to have too much assistance, Comes a burglar alarm blushing. The farmers liquidated put and assets to manage in the nose. Does mutual funds create cash, bow to feed the kid because I can't run arm for some reason, whatever you just try to think through contingencies and ours, if somebody falls off the falls off the good

I've wagon and deserves to be a narrative. Well, they don't get to participate in the wealth because we too want to finance goops with gods, money and so case were drowned a guard against the other, the reality, show child showing up in the Ramsay Heritage somewhere right our kid could hear all that, but so much I can invest into the kid and teach them. Let them build character. Spiritual I can invest in our universe from time and money and other process, but at some point You gotta tools down rest. What John said: ok can, I make sense, so Mr Holland I haven't seen every page of your stuff, but mice in talking to you is you're, probably eighty Ninety percent there, which makes you lack a thousand percent ahead of most people because most people beings on this issue, and can I tell you: did twenty per here's, what you gotta! Do you ve gotta, be

just with yourself in your wife, your kids are gonna, have a rough go that when you are gone Nobody will of those three kids like you, too, Nobody will know their special needs peccadilloes. Nobody will know their little things like you do. The thing that sets the eighth day, you anyhow, nobody don't know the autism or the bipolar, or that nobody will know that in short, they can have a harder run of it. You up and you got aggrieved and then you got enjoy every minute you got with em Otherwise you end up burning now minutes for a future. That's that you can't control you're gonna be gone there going over of time, but you are doing such incredible job certain the foundation for now beautiful, so keep working on it. don't obsess over it and the fact that you cannot getting piece about. It means your count tipping over on the obsessive so mine one might say: I'm upset can spend some time and money on it every year email this morning on it, but I'm not sure

ring my hands about it and I feel inept because I know I'm not had a ninety nine point: nine percent the crowd- and so are you, sir? I'm proud of you you're a good dad. Absolutely this is the Dave. Ramsey show people for the country, are discovering a faith based and budget friendly way of meeting health care costs through christian Healthcare Ministries, Christian Healthcare, ministries or c h is a non profit organization that helps members carry one another's burdens withheld here expenses and they have successfully share in each other's medical bills. For nearly forty years c C, h, sprite bring you by visiting C H, ministries done more see. Age is a proud sponsor of Dave. Ramsay live events

Doktor, John, the lonely rooms? Your personality is my co host at this hour here on the day, Ramsay show one of the many blessings of my life is that, because of the act on the radio show many years, I ended up getting to meet people that are like iconic, that in they own an entire space and there because of their ex because of their intellect and there the things done who they are, and I am just always fan darling, I'm just like, while in there if I'm really lucky, I get to hang out with a little bit and then, if I'm really really lucky, I get to become friends with them, that is what has happened with probably arguably the best one of the best anyway marketing minds on the planet. My friends, Garden is in New York City, and I

has written books like tribes and purple cow and Lynch PAN and the damp, and if you ve ever heard phrases like a viral marketing, that's his or permission marketing, that's his. He invented all of that and you use it every day and he is always about ten years ahead of everybody else, which means I'm way back in the exhaust fumes trying to catch up. So now are you my brother, I want my calendar, we were talking today and I went to bed last night. This is the best solution. happened to me I do is I get the checking with they haven't. You got to say hello to. You is what you do for the new book. This is great because it's got all your stuff in it I mean I can. I can see how things come under point here. It's called the practice. Shipping creative work, good, you're famous for saying ship it get it out there,

ship, it put it out there. So what do you mean when you say that there were called to be creative and were called the ship it? Well, if we're lucky, that's what our job is. Some people till stuck in job their compliance costs? industrial system, but even then your best data the days did something that people didn't expect that maybe weren't asked for import each summit and made a difference for somebody else. That's creator in color. The guarantee go around doing this book is help people see, created, doesn't come from outside the EU, creates, doesn't come from a light, bulb or creative comes from a practice. You show up, we do the work and that we do it again. Songwriters don't hit ride, hit songs if they only right. One saw yeah where they wait

for it to be hit before they write anything most yeah, it's gotta it because I am only going to get the right. One saw it better, be right. You know instead guys here in Nashville that written thousands of songs and you know them if your country music van for four of them. You know- and that's that's what you're talking about you. Have to get out there and the problem creativity and putting yourself out there is rejection right, but we and people from a young age to say well this beyond the tough because the document I have only to pay attention to emulate trade you so my attention, bogeymen, ay. I love this whole mind set off with what the outcome can you guarantee the outcome just about that you dont end up with a day Ramsay to day, Wendy didn't start with all the radio stations in the empire had he got there, but he started with just one

in that way. Everything start with just one person. Until we can't get hot and the outcome we have to get hooked on price. you're right, I started one list or my wife and she was a troll dirty weather hate or pay, So the because out in November, what's that maneuvered idea industry date on it. Roy scheduled the launch date from my broken in without telling me they scheduled a national election on the same day. Go figure ridiculous. Well, that's nothing! It's on Tuesday! So after you go, you can stop by and pick up a copy well or you can. go to a Lord, I mean somebody in marketing should a cot that at the at the book publisher. But what do I know about book bubble? June I'll talk about those offline. So no so the drop date is this day, which is traditional and publishing. It just happened. B on the election day

If you really want to focus on something good to go in order, the book and only ship to you and it'll come out there in the book is the practice. Shipping creative work. Ok Oh, I had a guy, I would turn place and Show me his kids on one of his grown kids was work leadership and we went into the crew native section the art section of the business to my daughter works inherent in ocean, so she runs the rose, the creative and he said oh no! No! No! She is a creative and you say that's exactly wrong. I agree with you- create create poverty is an act of leadership and the really can't be much real leadership with our creativity right. Does leadership management are the same thing manager power and authority. They tell people what to do. We need them leaders cannot lead from authority. Could the nervous managers leaders have to die? internally choose to go into the unknown It's in the unknown there. We have no choice Do creative work

you wanna be manager. That's fine and there are some managers lead, but I think the opportunity is too short. I think I can make something better. I can't prove it. I can't guarantee it. Let's try just numerous by showing author one of us, getting minds on the planet is our guest, the segment. The new book is the practice. Shipping creative work. John just finished- That we're getting ready to put out we haven't, announced it yet a quick re, just a couple of chapters just put something fishy, started and people showing the who he is and he gone through this whole creative process, and it was, it was a joy. Wasn't a John man I am not as smart or savvy or as good a writers. I thought it was right. Creativity was or was it was a joint process and you

they hear south. All all criticism is not valuable. How do I know the difference when I think I've written gold and the group of people around me say that's actually pretty terribly gender race that part hotter, no one criticism to home in on while couples who shows law. I want you to add one word Julia to your vocabulary, which is the word yet. I am not I thought I was yet. Is that open? your door for what you will become an issue for all of us, but it My criticism is it unevenly distributed and most of it is it useful to you together. I made a couple years ago. I was walking, and the abolition of Manhattan and attaches little pocket. Parker playground. but here this wine it can't be voice. Coming from the playground. Clearly, belittling someone over to see it come on get bullied. Realize startled criticising me, Ethan in front of my hair cutty, making fun of how I walk

fifty years old, he's making fun of me Oh yeah, you didn't let her glove on me. It had no impact, but I was shoving it. What a crippled me now, I now find you also get no say in my brain them does not listening to the work, realize the people out there who know how to give criticism where the kind of peace Are you trying to serve that is precious need, seek that out in all the other criticism, not for you just walk away. That's good good. So I run their gamble not only on the air here with people when I'm trying to get them to move from sooner, but also inside our organization and inside me, brain between the lack of aiming Sadly I call it ready fire aim. People start before they aimed and Other ones get paralysis of the analysis where they say, ready, aim aim aim aim a name pull the trigger. Now come on,

and I was young shepherd item- and I quote you, but but how do you get the balance between that when you ve done something that is creative. We're doing the work for other people. If you want to have a hobby do a hobby, I love is, if you like, the work is not just for you, so we started whose it for this by the to my seeking to serve one if they think it's good, it's good. Now we catch although cycles before they see it. doing what they say, but we also can't ship whatever comes to me and because then we will lose trust and your party, here, the high wire between the two try. This is work! It's! Why not a hobby work is dancing with the fear of an impostor dancing with the water s edge.

Bill sharing it when it's ready? This is why he's called self government, Gordon dot com. You can get the book, you can get it in a great book, store and Amazon. There'll be on the shelves as you vote for president unless you voted early so there you go Thank you for joining us. My friend, we love you brother, look forward to seeing you soon broken bread with you again. This is that I am shocked, every twenty six seconds. There's a break in and this country think about it. That's why

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Five right chosen, green by Wisconsin, high Rachel welcomed the diver empty Shell Highbury than actually you thanks for technological sure. What's up. my husband and I are between four and I looked into by our for growth in cash, and we are wondering if we should still require an appraisal to avoid overpaying. Not necessarily appraisal is an opinion. I value the work an appraisal is done in residential real estate. Is the appraiser finds three properties that have sold that are close in maybe it's close and square footage number bedrooms and have sold ray suddenly and their close geographically. Ok and those are can't comparable. Sales are comparable sales. And then he had just for the differences. In other words, if one I'm twelve thousand feet now sure binds forty five Then he'll take five feet worth of value. Per square foot cost and adjusting ok based.

this five thousand square foot out you're forty five hundred square foot out should be worth if that makes sense. Yet thanks that's how an appraisal is done. However, a first class world class real estate agent does exact. We the same thing when you're purchasing, property is called a comparative market analysis. The only difference is it's not Don't use it with a mortgage company because our not technically certified by the state as an appraiser, but it's exact same math and oh by the way it's free. so are working with a good real estate agent like one of our yell peace. We are actually. So I changed the real estate them mocha know that were part of what you would request. You're getting a new buyers agent to work with the Czech with our area, I'll pay, click, Ethiopia Day, Ramsay dot com, part in what you would call request is I'm pay.

In cash, I dont want to pay for an appraisal. So I'm going to want you to give me a good, detailed, comparative market analysis, the initials in the industry or see em, ay, a competitive market analysis, and that's what you want. Also you can do that they pose. Nonetheless, it really takes them about forty five minutes to build out an opera I'm not that much to it. It is not rocket science, that it is always an opinion, a value based on those last three sales which, by the way markets are moving in some places. The property might be worth more than that indicates because prices are but up in some areas, pretty quick show, that's that's, but you you want to avoid- is how much you talk about paying around thirty. Two fifty look. What you want avoid is not paying to fifty something is worth one. Seventy five, you know you're not trying to avoid paying

fifty four something is worth to forty eight, because no one knows the difference in those two things. There's no such thing thank them, and so it's not a slot. You're not gonna, get within two thousand dollars. It's a gps lands within three feet: it's not within three inches. And so that its the same causing here it is an estimate. It is an opinion of value good real strategy can provide that honestly, when I'm buying real estate you know my real estate team, my son in law runs and they ve got access to demolish statistics in the tax statistics in the area, and so will pull up camps in the area are and do our quick analysis on it to decide what we're gonna buy. An you pointed out you're too smart. Absolutely do you have every properly inspected, yes, don't, but I would recommend that anyone does know. Yes, yes, I mean I walked around. I've done probably not a thousand. We have some alive not personally by manage them, and I know it look foreign, ok that roof bad humming United Nations, it's not

discount the crap out of it for those gutters hunting and feel that kind of stuff and show might miss something by anonymous made staff may welcome through or once than for that matter is new and I've been buying stuff together for decades. So he's he sees it, and if we got a question, Some appalling engineer orange background something therefore bonnet Randal Hangers will walk doing up maize paint Garbutt got a crack in the foundation over there and in a way to but recommend, but about three thousand properties of my life gut So I would recommend that if you ve, if you're buying a pace, a real estate and you ve only owned two or three or four five, yes, all you get an inspection let's get a land survey to make sure that exactly sitting on the property and always get title insurance right, title insurance. Mc Neill, though not the pastor. I didn't because I had title and but I did by a property one time that too ago too, stir sold it out of an estate forgot that they had a brother,

either one or two he wanted his third and he didn't sign off on the date inside imperfect title on this property. Brother comes up one, his third in my house, and so are you know, call the title Male godchild problem cause. You ensure that this title was clean. They paid off brother Are you always want title insurance and the idea that all title is clean and America, because it's all done on the internet, a hawk, kick you bleed. What's on the internet was wrongly you Paypal of bad idea matters where those match in New York City, high man, how you around the doktor, make your internet great men have oil. though, my waited her final year medical school and she has that directive. Ninety one thousand two hundred and ten of the law, but the last letter here who know my question is: what can

I do and then what can we do together to help tackle that that when we have a Europe which will be for another year? Well, I am hoping that she is studying a field of medicine. That's going to pay very well, what's the plan, while she going and pediatrics which isn't the top of the list, but should know I mean what she go: make a hundred a quarter on an half year, depending where he is stay in New York City no, that's not whereabouts, you think you'll be living, She her dream of, being grown, rapid, Michigan that labelling a completely different world than when you're living today, except for the fact that it is shut down like New York, but because it is in Michigan, well. I mean

she steps into a practices make an hundred a quarter hundred. Have she picked up a marquis, our stuff on the weekends anything she can do to add to the income? You do the same. What your career, looking like, what your income gambie? Well, some a throwback ballplayer but the market. I know, but the market has been or will this year because of the virus, obviously so teams, Don't have a lot of money again, I know right now, a thousand a month plaza incentives, amidst all alone, I don't have to pay, so having three blue Teresa without about intake I'll, show you, playing at what level like NBA. Now, I'm in Ireland currently: ok, ok, not a young man who worked here the window that ok for your your back and forth a lot, and you can be back and forth from their if that, if, materializes and becomes what it should be. You should be making a hundred a half as well Shouldna, yet they go

That would be around the normal. Thank if I remember from the young man had worked here, so ok, cool, and so If we get to three hundred between the two of us we're gonna live like we might fifty. Repay this, often two or three years right. That's what that now! That's how you do it minutes just I'll. Go verses, income, the problem! you're in two fields that do not of a peer said. going to like you living on nothing both of people you're hanging out with broke doctors who were put on the dog and they don't have a house to put the dog in, and and you're hanging out with broke pro athletes who were acted like they're, making six times what they're making we work with. Stop him all the time. They're they're perpetually stupid with money in those fields- and you're gonna have to just walk away from your peers. In terms of the pressure on how money is handled in your goals and have a very very

front mindset and say we're gonna live like broke college students on forty or fifty grand and Grand rapids. You can do that and we're at everything else on this colossal debt. Otherwise, you wake up to struggling around your neck. Now, John, you better hurry. You got Phd unhurried. What should take on this yeah you The most common thing I hear is: I deserve this, I'm a doctor, so: you're gonna have to use you ve done

of a mighty big hall. You're gonna have to never say the words we deserve. You cannot get a one bedroom apartment and share Honda Gourd, and you can have this figure it out, and I think you can do it a couple years, but you can have no real real fast because that's it Jesus Car, that's all the disciple Haroun Monochord for this is that I Ramsay Shep

Doktor John Bologna Ramsay personality is my co host there's our our question that I come from blinds dot com find out for yourself lifelines dot com is the number one online retailer of custom window coverings. You get free samples shipping and with the new promos they run every month, will save you and more years the promo code, Ramsay its magical you'll get the best deal John Today's question comes from Amanda in Georgia. Amanda says I find myself struggling with placing expectations on people and outcomes and always being let down what would be the best way to stop placing expectations on the situations that you have control over. That's a good question: Dave you You manage a thousand people you ve got. Expectations

individually and economically and for your business. How do you manage this Down Miller the route that is our friend the Wretch marketing books and as such a great job has a great joke. He says: M studies have shown that the danish the happiest people because they have the lowest expert joke beer. I remember a an interview. Somebody have, I think she was danish and they asked her. What would advice would you give to actions to help them be happier, and she said lawyer, degradation jobs that cigarette happiness was low expectations. Tat was what I say every day when applied off I'm not gonna get upset about golf. I'm gonna learn our player. I just started two years ago suck yes and the secret low expectations and it is kind of a joke, but the problem is- and you can speak to this therapeutically more than I

the problem is when we expect imperfect people to be perfect one thousand personal, the time you're gonna be let down because the ape man, you know holding the guy gaol in your mirror right right, and so I expect excellence and I can be ups. With a lack of actual wants. Without saying this person, let me down, they dropped the ball on that that I'm the day the sullen. So jack, the shrewd that I was dealing with this mornin ripe and southward jack. people are getting some stuff done around here. I'll, get real passion, enthusiastic about excellence,. Kill him in humans and the process bright, separate the human from the dropped ball. now, a series of drop Balmie may mean that the human has a pattern of not being able to carry the ball, so we made it never humored, but right right. But the point is I mean you don't pad involves is one thing. But

A singular event is of If action is called humanity, a love that who would somebody says the phrase, I'm always being let down? One thing, I thought of- is this idea between? Where am I going versus? How do I think I'm gonna feel when I get there, and so when people talk their dreams? I have a dream of going to an article climbing this mountain going to this be you're having this third home. They often are thinking about how it's going to feel like when they get there and they forget that that beach, it's gonna be hot and is going be greedy to ride or you still gonna, be you and you get to the top of the mountain, and so when I you feel yourself, finders of always being let down. I want folks to be, real, clear on where it is your action going. What are you actually asking if people have you told them here is what I'm looking for, not finance with my kids, I say we are just chill out. Will you know that To a ten year old

a whole host of things different than me, and I am asking them to be quiet, stop banging around chill to him means little met with, let's mess with sister right may, not too much to my daughter means something totally different, so it's me being clear, otherwise find myself always let down cause. I have this feeling of what is going to be like and that's not real. It's a fancy area. If you think that you're gonna build your dream home, you're gonna find out that some of those boards have not sent him. That's right in some of those nails were bent and people did stuff in that house. They shouldn't have while is being built and and and and show you're gonna find out. Your dream home is be a let down, because you had this fantasy, that you were in Heaven and you're, not in Heaven and the worst part about go into your dream home is that you go with you, you move in they write in all of the securities and frustrations and that knucklehead at a husband and those loud kids they move in

dream mouse to night and those neighbours there can be just like the last night, exactly four height and you're gonna respond do the exact way, and so- you, find everyone or when you find everyone around you always letting you down for the mere you're the common denominator here. To answer as rights be honest about what you're asking: if people are, you clear when we say Ruddier clearest kind? Are you d have different expectations? Real feelings is where you actually going right. I think I think that to differentiate, though they were clear. Everyone always indicates that your expecting perfection of all humans- and that is that's a recipe for disaster- is giving us an appearance happy, therefore, emphatically the other side of that of your swing, the pen you, on the other way. As you know, my husband comes home. Drunken beats me every week. He keeps letting me down.

I guess that's being a doormat back with the other side of that is I'm not willing to go. I'm observing a pattern in someone who's misbehaving, inform setting, there's not a can't set the bar low enough for that scum Perker provides right, that's gum! Barker! You can't get a Barcelona for him to make because he's not you what you gotta get away from it, because you know, if he's hit new than this time, to lose it's exactly rightly, and that comes to that clarity right. He let me down once after that. It's you for them in her in him down this institution, and that you're. This business show an example that around here in business, getting your leadership setting a shot of businesses. We will, with the exception of some kind,

extreme moral failure or someone stealing or something like that. We never let some one go here for a singular mistake, but a pattern of ineptitude or lack of carrying or lack of competence. A pattern evolves, that's a problem, but I also know that that Pattern is reverse engineered with very clear expectations. Are we are talking about all now we'll be here on time Bologna, whose a conversation that may or may not have happened? you will fill in the blank in here. Is the expert Asia and if you're not doing that, then you aren't, you know you are not rolling. The ball towards Japan sets right. We're not gonna. Take you bawling in turn out the lights there you're outward outside that there's the target. There's the target. You keep mission the target, there's a target.

stay ever gave me the target. You can stay with that attitude attitude. You can stay with the average got leave you now. You can't anagazanders a good people, but I just can't do the thing at right. You know and an so things are caribou right and you too, harming do that. You're not too far me for incompetence, and so it's not. The incompetence is not an evil thing now, just major conditional, that's exactly right, and so sometimes but that's a pattern, we're looking for an butts even then on the leader. You asked me about leading here on the leader its the first time they dropped the ball on their humanity and I've reasonable, lower expectations, because humans mess up the sixth time they dropped the ball. I'm not it's not it's! My fault, bright, as I will allow this to continue the second time. Some drunk and beat you it's now. You're fall, not shaming you, but

your tolerating a and observable pattern, or maybe not your fault, but the ball is in your court right here. You gotta do shortly OB to move if if this happened six seven times at some point, you can't say: oh people, let me down no year you're, pretty supporting it and observable: shut up patterns and you're gonna get em observable set of results because it happens every time you plant, corn, don't expect means there. You go. You know it's! It's! It's predictable! You're gonna reap what you so as a cause and effect thing here. So I know when I act this, why do this thing this response and if I keep doing it, it's gonna keep You know. That's right is not issues its, but that that involves emotional iq. That's right What do you want about situations it? You ve got no control over, like let's say politician or or leaders in your community. How do you tell somebody like that Personally, I have no control over the fact that neither one of these presidential candidates are worth

human being? They both suck? That's my opinion. I have no control over I wouldn't know. I wouldn't want either one of them in my house for dinner. With my shit, you I'd be worried, hissing care for what You know what I'm gonna be president, that's right and whatever ok, all I can give you. I have no control over. That's right. I have no control. So what am I go? Spend my time doing nothing, rights, management any energy on those groups the born of the good Country on a wide out away. It is more within an amateur What I can do is take care my family, my friends, that I contrived right now not been my energy trying to control the people's crowd This is that I Ramsay sham

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