You're. Listening to the gold digger podcast episode number twenty eight today my mind is totally blown while I interviewed just lively, the lively show join us as we talk all about justice adventures, her current no man, I style and how she learned A truly get in tune with her intuition and listen to her got trust me guises, episode, absolutely change my life, and I think it might do the same for years. You listening to me gold digger podcast with Jenna Culture, the live workshops, child business, podcast, procreative girl bosses the train from the experts how they dig in do the work and tackle your goals along the way. Here's your health, but Tom Refer educator artist and MAC and she's lover degenerate cultures. This episode of the gold digger pod guess is sponsored by honey book. Honey book is

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I welcome and why don't we just kick it I'll? Tell everyone kind of where you're out what you're doing how you got here just as one of the most incredibly interesting people we will ever have on the show, and we were just chatting about all the directions is episode could go so? Who knows? Where will be forty minutes for now? But I can only imagine it's kind of saying I think we're going to be as clear time where my own alleyway quantum physics out. Ok, I can say that I grew up Michigan. I started a jury visits when I was fifteen and took that full two. I did it at school to get full time after business war being pretty miserable in business. School was like there's gotta, be a better way to live life than just chasing the shiny, pennies of achievements and outcomes, because I started that passing was like this is making me happier fulfilled. There's gotta be another way, decided to take the business full time and move to Chicago, with, like seven hundred bucks that I had made and saved from the business world,

was doing it in college set up shop, did it for five years. People may know it. I guess I'll see you in the audience and then did and business coaching for awhile as a sort of blogging and helping people with that whole other way of approaching my thing and now years later I have the power to pass and my classes actually teach you approach to life. I have transformed my own life and many many wonderful ways and also help hundreds of thousands of people around the world. Do this thing through the show and through the class. So just is incredible. I mean you're incredible for many many reasons, but I think what I am The most about you is that I really believe you are unapologetically. You and just was the inspiration behind the EP is, though, that we did the ten I'm afraid to tell you and just we talk about you in that show, but what I love?

about your approach is that year, sharing really I mean, while you're doing life, and you ve been doing some incredible things that just tell us about the last few months of your life and what they look like for you yeah, it's very different, so I feel what I look at the personal side of that whole journey, that I just Professionally, I was in a relationship out of the end of my college years into my mid twenties with single for eight weeks then started dating someone who became my husband. We worked together for five total years married for three and then last s lake. What was this now? The ears are getting a little like November, two thousand fifteen September. We decided to lovingly on couple. I guess and be the Turks are really dont look at as a break up, like he's still a wonderful part of my life. So it's not a break up in the way most people like have that negative attitude towards it. It was really positive evolution and a new chapter for us. So once that happened, I state aid.

Michigan we had bought this house. I have this whole typical kind of what I expected. I wanted my life to be like with a big house, an addition, kids and all that stuff. Instead, I was in this little house thinking right now, I'm single at thirty one. What am I going to do now? like I'm happy as happier than ever in my life, and that was really positive unfolding as wild things was kept, getting better and better from their, which I think is huge and amazing that something like that can come from a beautiful place, rather than a not so beautiful place, and things can get even better and better and better. So as it was getting all that good stuff fluid, I decided to take a trip to Europe in May two thousand and six in in one week before I left someone calls that new that I was leaving and she was a real estate agent and I was not signing the house or anything at the time, but she was the K. I know someone who wants to buy your house and

like now, I'm leaving next week for Europe. I can't do that and one thing went to another and flow with the same amount of grace and fluidity that basically she brought my house in all my furniture. The day before I left, and then I went to Europe's I've been traveling the world since May of two thousand fifteen full time I'm in Australia at the moment. That's insane somewhat is life looked like on the road and also I have to assume that in selling your house in your possession so quickly, you really as an things were important to take with you in what things to let go of gas, so I had been so my blog so I have been so my blog for all those years- and I was blogging- was originally called make under my life, so is always talking about its fully aiding was the terms used for letting go of things. Kind of like a but not merely as Spain depend very. Two interior designs lie like love into resign. My home has been over since I was twenty. Five have been short like we're magazine, sounded pretty living all that, like

the neighbouring herself. I did a lot I was down girl like this- is why me living out of carrion suitcase now the hat ironic art like that. I sometimes still. I won't make myself last so hard realizing like who am I like this? Why who I was late and that so fine to just go you are No idea who you are cause? You don't even know it's going to happen next. I really just glowing with white life is unfolding for me and I totally lost the point: your question, so we went what's important to me. So I sold or everything I just you know because under the break up. I saw my tooth brush in my shoes they put in the basement. You gotta. Let me leave my clothes in the basement, Henry with me in my carryin suitcase. So she did.

Let me do that and then actually came back three months later, and so my car that enough time to deal with that. The day before I left and I went through the set that I had put in the basement and decided like personal effects. Basically like pictures of my grandpa or my clothes that I could carry may infer that trip. I looked at it and anything I I link straight at worry condo like if what I bring this to London, because I don't know where I'm going to live next, but I have a feeling it's very likely it could be abroad, and do I want to ship this stuff and, as I live with, basically carry on suitcase a backpack Anna Duffel bag of stock? That's all! I can carry it for flights of stairs Paris. Basically, if I get a longer term ring it, so every violet

jewellery now, because there's really late way easy to carry this kind of my my purchases, I travel because otherwise everything is about wait for me more than anything, and I just for import like the things that brought me joy that I wanted to keep were things from my grandparents are like a few things, my parents, then pretty much like that. Anything from my past with my relationship, ironically, are not even ironically. Interestingly, I didn't really want that for my next phase with my next family that I haven't the future, none of that stuff really seem to resonate for me. So it didn't. You know some people. Might I gotcha can never do that. Well, that's great for you, and this is what was great for me. So it really was just finding what's bringing mean joy and what I bring it to London. That's where I lived or when I bring and toss this is where I live. That's amazing and I there's a lot of symbolism in me, tween like what you can carry on your back and what kind of thing you have in your life and really

looking at it from a place of do I want to carry this with me, and I think I mean I did capsule wardrobe a year ago, nice just messaging, someone today thing. I need to do it again because now I just have so much stuff, and I still look into my closet and I feel like there's nothing to wear and it's like. Obviously I I am in my life- and none of it is your right for where I M in my life, and I feel like in your train in addition, you realize some of the things that you had been doing or goals. You thought you would accomplish change so talk a bit about the transformation, not just traveling, but in business in your heart, in your mind like where your headed now and where you thought you may be we're going while before the trip, I thought Ok, so really, there's kind of like there's two phases here there was where I got. My life was going before the break up, which we can all stuff that I just I thought I genuinely wanted. I don't know how much of it

a society induced wanting or if it was genuinely. I do. It was genuinely me, but I think I genuinely absorb societies wants so I see I ve been traveling the world, so much has been able to see so many others. Ways of living and other cultures, so America's specifically compared to Europe or Australia, or a lot of places, tends to get married younger and have children sooner than a lot of people outside of this raises in you know, and then Africa's like the opposite of that. So you know it's all over the boar bite compared to Australia or at the Europe they. U S tend to get married a little sooner and have more of those american dreams of the house, and it gives its. I think I had it and that I thought my path is heading in that direction. I think also have that step just later in life and maybe not in the U S and in a different context, once the offer of by the house happened. That was a huge shift professionally, so

when that happens. I had no idea. I still have no idea where I'm going to live, and that was a mind bending they do that around it. Actually there's a blog that we filmed so my videographer happened to be at the house that week. This is of course low rate like happened to be. There exists a foaming, some stuff about candle, making a mockery and making ends the house door. While we build the house to a finish, the house got it perfectly set up and then a half hour after that video shot, the woman came to buy the house. Basically wasn't unintentional open house, for this first and using all my guy so weird moment of like here is I finally decorated ain't got a perfect and now I'm selling and a half hour later- and I am starting over- not knowing what was coming next and where I was gonna live Naxos really emotional. So if you want to see how I actually process it in that that moment, you can go to my website and see that. So it's not

now I feel like a different person than that girl. When I watch live video online. Oh my gosh, look: austerity is the cow, how nervous years look how uncertain she is about the future that turning point for me was I'm very tuition like I've, been talking about this for years. If my number one underpinning of everything that I do and teach because to me, it is the bedrock of every thing going well in our lives or not is how much wearing alignment with our intuition, so I've always kind of had this England indication of where my vision, my everything, conscious, potentially driven vision, is for what I want that, was a moment where I had no idea why it was happening, and I have no idea what I wanted to come from it. I just knew this is something that intuition is telling me yes to but I have no idea where its leading, so I've been basically walking. This is kind of the way to describe it is in the fog, so I can see Lake sixty feet. I had in mind I have no idea what the seventieth foot looks like and I've just

learn to. I don't even know where I'm gonna be next week. I think I'm in abeyance be any more, but I might just I my good Melbourne. I might I have no idea like I don't have a plan for the rest of this year at all. I have a few places. I need to be better I have learned how to allow things to unfold and their perfect timing and away, and that has also played out in my business so I don't know where the business is going. I allow it to unfold in perfect timing and, as I ve gotten better at that, the timing and synchronicity of things is truly incredible, so it's changed my life personally and professionally in every way possible. So I'm curious what kind of advice this would you give to entrepreneurs? What do you see newer entrepreneurs doing like for me? it's coming to mind is how everything seems to have a plan or a map or some sort of

destination a b c and d in order to be successful in what would your advice be for an entrepreneur when comes following their intuition and how to do that in a world that seemed so loud. That's a great question. I really like that. You asked that's Edith. I beg a lot of emails lately and impossible for me to keep focusing on the recent I'm doing at the same time of answering them all about. Someone recently asked- and I was like surprise- she almost ass- if to me a little bit, because those who I thought guess what my answer will be thought tat. You see, ask me whether or not she. What has this idea to start a blog introduce is walking dead. I dont know, and I'd like to hear you think she's like I think. Maybe it's going videos of high costs. I don't. I should start this if it's worth that I'd love to hear thoughts, and my first inclination is like

does not matter one iota where blogging is going. Nothing is importance or worth are not worth doing from an external expectations standpoint. If your intuition is calling you towards doing that, you should do it. If it's not, you should not. There is no question of like what is the trends in the society so you're saying on these road maps. What people are really trying to do is eliminate or their thinking, there's this facade of the elimination of uncertainty with, so they feel like their safer to take steps if they follow the footsteps of another, but what they're doing is ignoring the guidance is actually going to taken to where they want to go. Most deeply in truly in the first place, doesn't make sense so they're trying to follow it works for someone else when there completely ignoring the source, it's going to actually make them sink or swim, no matter how well they implement that plan or not. I love that and I think that

even thinking in my own life, like I call it my God game, which is very similar induce year, I know that you know the answer to most of your questions without having to search Google or ask you know your friends. Are your audience. I feel like deep down allotted as we know what is right and what is wrong or which direction to go or which thing do, shy away from, and I think that nowadays with so much immediate gratification on social media and all the plan from that we're on anything that we forgot until listen to that voice do agree on oversight and that's, like my whole, shall it be listened to oil. Is it all right it? How to do this because we are taught from

young age actually were taught the opposite were taught to work outside of ourselves. For answers were taught to look to adults into experts, into external expectations of others for guidance, and that is the opposite of where guidance actually lives. The internal, as I always talk about my show into alignment over external expectation, so yeah we're just not taught it from a young age, so I've actually working a lot with my audience and with the people in my classes, especially those that are mothers to talk about how people can start to prepare their children from a young age to be able to do that so they're, not this disadvantage. That many of us are an older periods because we're just wanting to do this for the first time it's we get trained out of it, and hopefully I'm hoping that people were learnt to instil that maintain and develop in home that for their children, so they are not having to have the same disadvantages of learning. This

later life. So what would your advice be then, to how to kind of quiet the loudness or the clatter? Of what I mean we're just bombarded by a million different directions and a million different ideas and things. What would your advice be too quiet that so that you can really get back the listening, so you're got game or your intuition, so whatever the thing: is I always tell them my strongest way of doing this is writing to my intuition and I've. I'm writing a book honour actually, by the time. This episode comes out dismay, I may not already done so check it out of my sight, if it's very Riyadh or if it's not divine. So I was you'll be out of the attic. I can say that that is the most fluent way, at least for me personally to hear and converse with that point of view that perspective within me, so writing to intuitions really powerful. However people they try, it sometimes those two hey. Just I'm not sure if I really her from intuition, if it's just my ego talking

How do I now, and in that case they need to develop the awareness, so awareness is kind of you were noticed, sir. It's the part of you, that's able to learn in time. If you mean you can have this awareness yet right value, maybe so attached to the egos voice. You may not even be at the point of being aware and being able to step out of that voice and observe the boys so that ability to set out of your thoughts and watch them. That's annotations all about That'S- why it so popular right now and it is really powerful. It's not about sitting there so you don't know, follow the Joneses on Instagram that are meditating right now, I'm doing had face like us.

Now is not about doing it. Has Marie Folio? Does it it's doing it so that you can set out and watch that voice and, as you become very familiar with the egos voice, then when you do this, writing exercise or you just ask a question internally or something from within. You. Has this including you're goin, to notice the difference of the quality of the other, not ego part, and that's when you're gonna start to be able to pull apart the two voices and tell the difference between them. So if you're totally tied to the egos thoughts of what it wants, thinks and feels all the time, and you really think you are believing all the things that you think all the time and that's really true for you. You're awareness has not developed enough to recognise that there is not their contracting point of view if they knew it so soft and subtle, often because the ego so loud and ever present, when you

have awareness, but, as you can, step away and start to observe for while you're just gonna observe the even though not twenty four seven and Mama call that radio station K, F, K D, as you said that one eventually something else is going to pop up. You're gonna go wall that fell different, that had a different quality to that had a different point of view or feeling or take on this situation. My ego feels acts about, and when you get that that awareness is going to help you honing and listen to the intuition, though intuition there it's just the awareness is often not developed enough to differentiate it from. Ego or even ask the questions in the first place. That's really really I open, and it leaves a million question, whether any way, okay so

what does your work day or work life? I should say, because I don't think you really have workplaces and what do I look like compared to when you were living? Your almost almost Repass life are not really but your life before change they wanted to adopt. I just think you any time, but they can't live like that's really what it feels like. So I pass life. I think ok, so up to the point of leaving and make things are roughly the same in terms of the business rights. I add the shows six episodes a month and I had my class twice a year and some other projects and my team was roughly the same size so eight to nine people on the team, so with that in May, with that looked like for me, was in the typical way of approaching life too by the way, so

is the worst sort of realising the power of energy flow in frequency and quantum mechanics than her lives, which is also shifted. Why do things differently now, but before I think I kind of follow just like I said I had those internalized external expectations right, so I used to want the house and the kids in the area can dream- and I did want that like I wanted it, but I have seen it around so communism. That looks great. Let me do that to what I think I have the same kind of thing with career. I saw people working roughly ninety five, but they have their own business. I did the same I state when I was working. I do a massive amount of research for podcast guests. I would do the park half and I would state like tied to my email, I would say probably a lot too, was most of what I spent my time on now since I've been travelling and as I have made this new shift from the traditional or I caught a classical physics versus quantum mechanics so

Particle physics is physically like Newtonian. So when you throw a ball, the Ark is this way and things unfold. Physical world, according to classical physics, but when you get down to the quantum level of physics which is this atomic than the sub item at particles and level of that, the walls of physics changed dramatically and what I have done in twelve years of studying all this personal development stuff. I finally got that deep, deep down like that, you know keep micro scoping in and when you get down to that level, I realise that energy and frequency of the whole game, so I've shift in my whole life cycle and career to suit that so I spend right now my current thing and I've, I would say over this trip. I would work two to four hours a day. Maybe sundays none and it was not

very little comparative before and at the same time I say that I was spending too five hours working on my frequency and understanding of the stuff that I'm seek teaching now and that does impacts. My show You could say that I'm still working, but I have do, I feel like I'm working at all, no because I actually would be even if I didn't have to make money whatsoever, so I we do in all that frequency south, because it's so powerful to directly affect the quality of every moment of my life. So what I do it is the thing that makes my life great so that, like thing I wouldn't eat you know. Of course you don't eat, that's how you survive. Well, it's like this is making my life like incredibly awesome, so it does not matter whether its work later not it happens to effect my work, but I don't even see it as work at all. I would do it either way, however, its great that it

as benefit at sea. I worked like not how much I have now spent up till two p m right now. I don't set an alarm. I wake up. I start to do my research and get into alignment and do things that make me really joyful until around two to three and then I do two hours of work and I stopped working. That's I've, read them it's funny, because today my husband narrowing your conversation and he just It is on business left his ninety five. So yesterday was our first stay home working together. And it was funny because this morning we woke up, he said in alarm for seven a m and we're both like grumbling about it, and I make what are we to thing like? What would it look like if we just woke up when we naturally woke up and were arrested and then got to work in it? funny, because I think we ve had such a schedule with his normal ninety five job. Where You know we get out together do things together, but I am like me

I feel like I would feel more arrested during the day I feel like. I would probably get more work done. I wouldn't need to take a nap mid day, and so we're already, starting to just kind of stop with you, no stop with the routines that are unnecessary, that art serving us any more and start to really just take a step back and say like what does our schedule actually like? I not even a schedule, how do we work? That's? How do we feel best? When are we doing our best work and list to that more so than trying to cram a traditional schedule with, non traditional job. Yes, so what love about that is what your essentially thing. If I was to translate it to my point of view or my frameworks here, it would be that your rising that your frequency, which is your emotional state. That's it

I just didn't episode if you can linked to this. If you want so you people now for us, but I just didn't episode that aired today, as were speaking there's about quantum mechanics and the rules of quantum mechanics and how Einstein's Photo electric effect and his Nobel Prize in eighteen, twenty one for that paper wrote in nineteen o five about how electrons move in a current prove that it's not how hard we work. It's the frequency of our emotional state that creates the outcomes in our lives, we want to hear the science behind that rolling fat in the show notes. You can get a science, but what you are saying is yet. Why are we doing this? I would get so much more dine. I'd be in such a better mood. My life would flow so much better. If I took this arbitrary structure out of the equation, my frequency would go up and if your frequency goes up, that's when everything works, you don't actually have.

I've read your intensity. That's why, by the way, when I said my work schedule changed so much, my business is double so I dont have and I have no goals. I know you're physical, the gold, digger puddle what are they gonna talk about I've no go far more accessible and overshooting any goal they would have had by doing this frequency work, because this is the science of quantum mechanics the game changing splitting the atom atom bomb is far more powerful than using the physical bombs in the classical physics you know at the you know, you can like have a starship destroyer. I saw that in the ocean here, Australia dislike battleship, and I was wondering how can it be that, like that used to protect a city- and I was thinking how funny is that so dinky can Are you an atom bomb like now that doesn't even matter like that? Little ship is like the plague tool. Comparing the bomb rights of this is what's so. What I've learned after twelve years of this stuff is that you we're doing all the things that are tied in the classical physics world on climate, classical personal development.

Work, hard, hustle and all that stuff, if you're doing that and you're not realising the pieces at play in the quantum level, which is our your thoughts and our emotions, that's the atom bomb so that the different is when you learn how to tap into the frequency and energy stuff and understand the principles that underpin the physical reality. You change the game so dramatically. Nothing looks the same because they dont work. This ain't there totally different rules and what's happened, is just we haven't had the consciousness and awareness of the smaller side of things to truly hone in harness. That's where sometimes stumbling upon it, but often not and we're trying much harder than we need to just yours. Ivy like or sitting across the table like drinking coffee and I'm just slamming my coffee unlikely filling it back. I begin to give me more, so there is a good question for you, and this is something I struggled with forever and I realise that it is sending that

It's me very successful, on society standards, but it also is a detriment. Just my every day is. I feel like. I have a very noisy brain I feel like I get so many ideas and I absolutely love, but I do like I would work seven days a week if I didn't want to have anything resembling a real life are normal life, but how do you start to just slow your brain down, because I've tried meditation. I've tried oh god, during yoga, unlike thinking about lunch or like my old gymnastics days and how I'm not as flexible what are some practices just easy to start slowing things down for you. That was great. You gave me some detail, there there's two pieces of what you shared. So why was this

I wanted to have so many ideas. Okay, so that five lights you up and brings your frequency higher, ok, emotional frequency with imagine if the scale okay. So when you said that stuff I'm my first thought was going to have a different answer. To how you then followed up with when I'm in yoga, I'm thinking about lunch than think about not being as flexible. Ok, so those elements are brain. You down on the frequency, that's dragging your emotional state down so, You have a quarter. Brain is really accurate because it's a mix right and most people are living life by default. So they have this next that you're talking about so their excess vibrations there a mix of frequencies, and so when you have that when it comes to this quantum stuff, I'm talking about it's very hard to see the results of it. Because there's a mix of oceans writes a summer cancelling others out, so you might get stuck momentum and than others

so then you ll say what I'm talking about. It sounds crazy and doesn't work in your life is not that it does it work. It's that there's this is I'm not gonna get into the details, but interference waves will cancel out particle stuff. So let me just say that, like your high frequency, thoughts are really good, but when it came to need to encourage those, these low frequency are the things that are cancelling out. Often those high things and those of the elements that you want to learn to adapt over time either. Let them go, let them drop away. Is there not serving any purpose or elevate and to the consciousness of your intuition? So your intuition always feels love in peace in the present moment. Does that the energy tat so while writing to it, because when I do that, I get all the perspective that my ego doesn't have about that situation. That's why? I'm writing a writing to me intuition, because, where I'm conscious,

My awareness is at the level of the ego, not the intuition. So when I write that question- and I get an answer from my intuition- I'm able to tap into that emotional standpoint that frequency of the intuition and once they have that awareness of what that fought hard for me. What that perspective has unable to act on that and my outcomes are from that frequency which are good, Those are the things that are ease and felt and flowing sell for you. So you said meditations not great it's not that I don't think it more in the practice of it. I feel, like my mind, wanders and I recognise that its wandering and I try to pull back, but then it's like I'm just has never become part of my routine, and I even listening to your one, podcast real, like I just kept going and doing it in recognising in, but you spend most of your time just trying to get to that place, five hours before I lay takes, needs all three to really feel it got a great momentum going but thine once a half of momentum, those too

I'm doing work is ok, so it most people loving, cannons balls from their eighteen hunt. Chip ray and though it oh, my god, I just like. I shoot: seventy million cannonballs. I get this result well. What I rising is, oh, my god. If I just spend five hours can integrate frequency, I only have to spend two hours and I can get ten times a result they're getting, because I doubt that makes perfect sense. Simeon it's kind of like the analogy is firstly, as somebody who loves home the core of that you get them was cleaning done in the twenty minutes before somebody shows up at your house like when you are having. Go and you have a deadline and you are really wanted to be re. I feel like in that sense of, if you're, waiting until you're really ready and in the right head space, and I mean I'm sure this is really made. You assess what's important to be working on in your business to re. Yes,

take nearly as much action and, like I said I double my business rather than ever like it's so funny. We have no deadlines. I've been pushing off this book. Things like going with what's flowing and right now it's flowing is quantum mechanics and research, which is wonderful. It's going into my class wherewith intention which, as this will air is actually wrapping up. I think for this round of the class right around now so with interest, As I had this more aggressive kind of plan, I had a lot like you said earlier. I had a lot of ideas that were really driven from like Surrey. My honest: it came from the wonderful it was no evil, but then they also I'm not willing to sacrifice alignment for the output, so I have used It is, but I am unwilling to sacrifice my frequency for it, so I will get done what I could get done within the frequency I have and the time allotted to that frequency and the minutes. Some things are still hard. I stop working that's gonna blow. Seventy five p

mine's right now, like. Let me do it white. How many times have you heard? Entrepreneurs have to keep pushing push push pusher Bush goes into that Quantum mechanics episode about frequency and intensity, and it will literally show you how, if you're frequencies, not high enough? No, oh output, that you want is going to happen its physics, it doesn't move the current only moves in your frequencies high now what's interesting about that. Is that a lot of people value hard work so as they see themselves working hard their frequency, their emotions get higher because they kind of pat themselves on the back upon the hard work which makes them feel good. So then they get results and they blame the hard work. When really it was their good feeling about the hard work that was the lever point four them. Does that mean eyeing yeah? That makes perfect sense. What really sit out to me there and what I teach in the whole podcast is. Hate the word hustle, I really do. I hate teaching people to keep hustling, because I don't want

and work from a place of hustle. I was anxious I was stressed, I was burnt. And when I finally work from a place of rice that when I was a creative, can an inspired and excited and lit up about the suffice doing in exploring and nowadays they look at everything is an experiment, because there's no success or failure, there's just result that you can move. Where can I order you did? You chose to stop focusing on your intensity and you focus on your frequency. This is what I am saying to you get when you did it you, without you. Don't have to actually know what these principles by the way right, like I'm, sitting miser ain't, you and I are yes. I listened to your episode with Aaron Lardner, the one hour you're going. Do that you're terminology in like please make sense because I feel like we do work in a similar had space and even this year, I'm just freeing time? And I'm not saying it's a sabbatical in the sense of I have to rest. I'm just saying I'm giving my

space to choose what I want to do during that time. So I'm not booking a single phone call or anything like we feel are what I feel compelled to do, but I think it so interesting how you're talking about alignment and intuition and such a traditional setting for so long, and so I am, I am anxious to see how I feel are what I feel compelled to do, but I think it so interesting, how your talk about alignment and intuition and all that what I'm curious mostly about is what does it look like for you in terms of getting aligned for the day. I imagine you laying down with like candles all around him. I know that's probably not well. I do start with fifteen minutes and meditation in the morning are you about the meditation thing to go back to your questions. I don't really address like how do we deal with the thoughts ok so, like I said earlier, Doats focus that much on deleting the part If something is inviting you up focus

mood of the things that you are having their thoughts are having that bring you higher on the emotional scale. Those are great, that's bring your frequency up, and this is not just about work but what you frequency is like how you relationships go. How like the person at the coffee shop Treaty is leading part, a function of your own frequency because the law of attraction is literally like like attracts like so things, vibrational frequency are attracted to one another. If you're in a crappy mood in the beginning of the day will usually get worse if you're in a good mood at the beginning of the day we usually get better. I wake up in a girl. Is this a good email or able to maintain, but here's the thing good Instagram despite default, they wait for something to trigger an emotion and then they follow whatever happens died. Mind boggling rate there? That's true. I wake up in a girl. Is this a good email or about even my inbox? Is this a good instagram closer at that is imposed? Basically, people are living life by default, they're waiting for some stimulus than their lives to trigger and emotion.

A motion. Frequency is what's going to create the rest of the attraction to down in that day and what I you is like these that new curious and I'll get into it, but it's like I decide what I want my frequency to be as much as they possibly can, and therefore I get ahead of this stuff impacting my mood so then my mood impacts, the stuff that happens to be disciplined. Oh, it makes incredible sent and it's funny, because my husband Is he sometimes skin a glass, half empty kind of person, and I a glass half full and I'm a big energy person. So I feel like just like you. You said, like I m, very attractive to energy, and I am highly empathy sometimes to a fault into sometimes I will pull people's energy or try to meet them where they are instead of you, know rock in my own energy and so on,

drew's in a bad mood and my duty not to stamp out this cause, you're calling me I'll be ok. I think this is something that's coming up for. I may venture to an episode on this, though this may be another step thinking for the Israelis it. So and telling me that's like my co are dragged wherever or this and passing. Ok, you know the whole the impasse. So I can't speak to a knowledgeable point around that, but here's what I can say, principally speaking, when you're saying that China you're actually probably here's them and gas? And I love you? Ok, this is not here. This is just knowing the way the ego works than my own brain and everyone else. I am, in our view that says, there's a part of your ego or anyone's ego. That's like I'm, really sensitive person, I've so great intuitive. What people think and that's not at this could be a fact right. This is to say that that's not true, but the illegal can get this identity around it and it feels good.

But then move freely access to a kind of feels like it's kind of got a little identity, their it's kind of like a little perker view or whatever, but really what we are saying is that their energy is stronger than my own point of attraction. I am not strong enough to create my own point of attraction, that's awesome just set up in Uganda. Ok now I also want to change that like when you say, oh, you know has then I gotta you gotta change, you're gonna impact me what you're saying Your energy is stronger than my own and that and so this resale rights like yours, and I think I just acted- tries to my own energy, more and trust they are trying to meet people where they are, and I think that now, it is something that so hard as someone that is looked on two as a leader or something because you know how it goes, your inbox is flooded everyday with people who need something from

and I'm learning to Ino create things like the podcast, where I can direct you to an episode without feeling like I need to meet you where you are and give you answers because, like you said a lot of times, the answers are within and all the of growing you're asking dont know where they are quite right. I mean What are the low frequency remain not even asking you to do that. They actually want to help you to help raise their frequency. You know frequency hires, with their coming for war, your husband's. Ok, let's go, the husband think that's very good analogy. Okay, so when that is happening, he's in a bad mood, I would get. First of all, we haven't even answer your question about how I focused on the alignment, but focusing on your alignment before you can get into the day in setting or frequency deliberately your energy or emotion, deliberately at the beginning will actually change your experience

the day, so maybe, if he's in that bad mood, you're not going to interact with them that much, maybe he'll leave early for work or you will have a call that takes you away from in the bad mood or even a somewhat aware away if you selectively, focus and just stay away from him for a while, like just don't be around him. When he's in a bad mood, he will eventually flow out of it or when he's around you, your energy may be strong enough to lift his. It's not that you're trying to force that you can't he has to choose to move his own energy, but if he's in there Of state just stay away from him and grants or self, with all the things that way you up, so your experience is not actually need to be impact it if we do not have the ability to focus and select what we focus on and we do. If I tell you, but for all the red things in the room and then you close your eyes,

an you remember them. You think about all the things that we saw a red and then, as your eyes are close, they said what was blue you're. Probably not, can remember the blue stuff as much because you're able to focus on the red. If we were able to focus on that kind of ability at that level, then it will be like impossible. I'd say you know, you're constantly sitting in sorting every single piece of information, but turn

our realities based purely on our perception. So even if you don't even buy into the whole quantum mechanics level of this, you probably can say you know she's just ignoring the stuff. It's not happy. Yes, absolutely! That's the whole point, because you're gonna think that your life is happier that's the whole point of what you're doing things in the first place for sis dot, thinking that everything has to be an alignment for you and realize it's just about your own perception that has you have that perception? Your attracting mrs Entangled particles, quantum physics! This is what you are tracking is other things of that vibrational frequency, the more you get more of what you think about and if you're thinking on the good side, you're gonna get good and just a big, the easiest thing is to stop expecting the alignment, that positive frequency to come from the partner come from within and it doesn't really matter what mood he's out. Obviously long term, you may, if you're totally illogical, that China there might be a break up they're, not that you would but long term.

On matches the frequency will probably evolve away and if you are too high frequency, when you do that, you're probably do and in a positive way they may not, but you well, if you're in a high frequency ends in the day to day just stop. Attention to some extent, that's awesome if Jews listening to this baby are really not that bad. I just think that we have different energy and that's normal. I mean you're sharing a house and his face was empty and we have very different working styles and it's been so interesting, even in a few days that we both share this space to work where my we definitely needs for a time in separate activities in separate things, because I dont want to wake up and had breakfast lunch and dinner, and work out together and be work out partners, and you know it's like. We need that separation and, I think that's a good thing. I think that its super healthy, but no I think that the ultimate, what a good reminder to that like we're in control of how we feel and our situations and just how we

life, because I think that a lot of times weakened make our own excuses for why things aren't working or what's going on. So what would you say to seventy? That is s getting started, or they have an idea, but they're not sure if they should go for it. What advice would you give them after into which no one else in important? No one else? No no consultant no coach. No one else has the answer, except for the answer within themselves, so to develop that ability and courage, really to act, because the ito scared of asking it doesn't want to leave the eagle fears, uncertainty and. Asking your intuition is in some ways actually opening yourself up to the idea that what you once or you think he wants- may not be. Why you deeply want at a level that deeper than the ego and that's terrifying for it? So it scared to do that, but having the courage to just

open to seeing what you hear and then following it is actually the path to everything you deeply one anyways. So that would be my suggestion, amazing, so Can anyone find you I feel like I could argue for days? I cannot wait to read your book and everyone needs wasn't adjusted pod gas. Do it is so enlightening and even just watching you transitioned through this next phase, in what you ve been up to it so inspiring, and so where can everybody find you there you can find me the lively show, dot, com or just lively dot, com and also obviously Itunes future for the show so they'll, probably the best places to go perfect raising. Well. Thank you so much for such an eye. Opening up his note. I am so thankful that you joined and how fund is it to be? it gets done upon guess when european gas there, I think it is such a relief, sometimes do not be in charge that they combine these things now, if I may give them a dramatically thanks for listening to gold digger

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