You're listening to the gold digger podcast episode number one hundred and sixty nine, our gold diggers, I'm not gonna sugar coated this cream chasing business is hard and beautiful, and freeing and stressful safe. To say that there are so many emotions tied to really going for an today. I'm not only going to talk about the five emotions. Are every girl bosses felt at one point or another? Not only are we gonna do I've into the emotions of what it's like to be driven woman, but give you. Here are not a capitalize on these feelings when they come weather? It's a seemingly negative trade or a positive one. I'm gonna help you take control and use it for good, So are you guys ready? Let's do this your listening to the gold digger podcast, where we firmly believe work doesn't have to feel like work. So made millionaire and marketing guru. Jenna poacher will help you redefine what success looks like it's time,

here from the experts? Listen in on onest conversations and learn the best tips and tricks that helped others pay their own way and craft their dream career. If you're ready, dig in. Do the work and tackle your biggest goals, you're in the right place. Here's your host educator, photographer and makin cheese, lover, Jenna Culture, a huge thank you to pvc. Four sponsoring today show p. This is an incredible work out streaming channel within insane amount of work out choices as a treat for listening to gold. Digger visit, P, Veo, L V, Dotcom, slash gold digger and enter gold digger at check out to get a people and receive two months of free stream. I enjoy gold diggers, emotion, everyone we have all fell dead, first up, fear that law, simple word that we all felt at one way or another in our career journey. That's right! All of Iceland to in New York,

alone, every single one of us has felt fear at one point or another weather, it's a lady with a perfectly style instagram who seems to have it altogether or the college with a blogger. The multi millionaire see ouch whether you are just starting out. Are your ten years in fear is something that you're feeling something that's held you back that has kept to you from taking your biggest dreams I think it's funny that entrepreneurs often get labelled as fearless when that couldn't be more false. Ford said entrepreneurs are plagued by fears to. In fact, entrepreneurs live in every state of nearly constant fear, a place where risk is heightened and embraced, fear failure, fear of discouragement, fear of him there. My dear health problems, year of everything in thrill and entrepreneurs, life into total disarray. I mean, when I think about

a journey there has been so much fear. Think one of the first two places that I felt fear was putting you may two weeks notice and thinking what if this doesn't work and I remember my parents. They were just train, protect me with their like. Ok here you are, you have this salary, you have benefits, and now you're gonna do in all that end to chase a dream camera and no education and being a photographer, and I think that what was beautiful The fear that was instilled in me was this challenge. Like house I proved them wrong in a really great way, but also, how can I that myself there have been so many other places of my journey that I felt fear when I've pivoted when we were pregnant, when I wasn't sure What was next, when I wasn't loving when I was doing when I did higher before my God was out scary inside there are so many places that we have felt fear and how

true is that like when you are your own source of income, absolutely anything can completely rock your world a healthy dose appear, can keep us prepared and ready to fight in order to prevent bad things from happening, but it's when feared. And a worry and the Allow me to move and that scheme. City mindset that makes us believe that there isn't enough for all of us, and that is she's doing better than were failing, and that's where we have to adjust our thoughts. Now when I left everything that was said, here behind to move forward. I know that I needed to have a net ready for myself. There are some people who like say spear: they diving had burst their ready to go that for me, I knew that I needed to have a net, and so in order for me I feel like I could safely jam without making two big of a risk. I wanted to match my salary for my corporate job and I thought about

all the other logistics. I would need to consider whether as health care, where we were living our cost of living, what equipment I needed but at the end of the day I knew that I just had a job the silence, I fear and better myself and you need to do the same so if you feel like fear, holding you back. There are ways even take charge, sending them those me isn't think what is the worst that could happen. While this sounds dismal adopted, makes us realise that the absolute worse thing is usually manageable, it still be able to move forward. Somehow rationalizing. Your fear is actually the best way to beat it. So I wrote it I said what happens if I fail. What happens if I need to go Go back to that John and say you know why I try to do my own thing for a while. It didn't quite work out that I have is degree this experience of all back on that scientists, yes, I was making it seem zone. You actually start to look at what you will do. What would your ass

Finland. Those worst fears happened realize it's not all that scary to renew. As in? U S feelings fear, I long for you. Right down that big fear and then right down what Hu Jia is actually happen and suddenly. You lose the power that fear has over you and you start turning towards faith. So when I meet so many entrepreneurs- and I hear so many stories so many The stories that they're telling themselves are fear based stories, and so A challenge you to day is to really get honest about those deep dark fears and to create action plans, You have those babies down the second. You can't let that control go. This second emotion that every entrepreneur or whatever eel, is excitement. You know I'm feeling like when you wake up just so excited about what you're about to do that day. You have a little happening

Seven everything just seems a little bit brighter. Aren't you renewal? strive on this feeling in a lot of times is what got them started in the first place? I know that is so true for me, because the beauty of being an entrepreneur, is that we often hear was excitement about our work like how cool is that most people loathe going to work, but rather we have designed for time or part time jobs. Side, hustles projects are absolutely fill us now remember that day when you were just so excited to start your business, your blog, your product, you just want to do everything at once like every time line, just well wait too long his you were so pumped up about what you are about to do. I can think of so many evenings that I stayed up late into the night working on a new blog posts to pricing guy in email template because I was too excited to wait till the morning now. Do you wanna caution, that also made me a workaholic, because I was just excited about everything, but

true? This is like I love that feeling when I am genuinely filled up and happy about my work that I could feel like. I could work forever. It's like this lake Constance Data Flow and that my friends is doing your souls big hard work. Now there are flip side six. I know how in my reading on this parade, but let's be beings, I'm sorry about your work can lead to overworking over investment and out of line priorities, figures. I urge you that, no matter how excited you get about your work, try to the evil were excited about family time about rest in self care, about vacations and living off and I'm not just seeing that you should feel this joy about every facet of your work, but it's then at least be in parts of it. For me, I get so far about writing Recording these shows course launches photo design that a genuinely love, and while we may laugh what we do, we can never forget that work is where

so I want to do a little exercise with you, but I love giving you these tangible things like. I can talk all day, but you guys got to do the work so for all of you totally found your thing and you show excited for your work, as I said over those of you that just feel like you're missing something I want right down the list of as many things in your life that excite you like. If you could, wake up and you absolutely anything anything that day, what would it be doesn't have to be work related whatsoever. I think it's really helpful to think what are those things that you do? when you're procrastinating on something that you should be doing might sound a little goofy, but I really want you to think about what you are doing when you should be doing what you should be doing. I think this tiny exercise is a great way to look at your true passions and what you really feel,

I did not spare me. I love going. I walks my dogs, I dream of Hawaii like time spent in Hawaii fuels myself. I love taking beautiful pair Yours, I love writing. Just for the sake of writing. I loved reading our housing good brows pinterest forever. I love listening to other business, my castle of collaborating with other female entrepreneurs. I love watching trashy tv withdrew, I love connecting with others and countless everything's. These are the things that fill my cab and now here is your chance for clarity. I want you to look about lists the thing about how you can combine these into some sort of career career that allows me to not just gonna Hawaii but to make a profit there through our European Bee and ever your mind that not only allows me to connect with others and collaborate, but it to extend my mission in business and I mean

the right, in a way that serves my audience. Your captions in blood was n and resources in courses, and I love taking boroughs, and now I get it it had to showcase our lives and our home and drew in sponsorships. You name it and I love listen to business by gas, and then I made my own and so what this might seem like two during like for you, I'm telling you that there is a space for your dream job out there that allows you to in a way that excites you. It doesn't have to be what you make all your money. Asses doesn't have to be your full time gig. Could you be a piece of your life, but I want for you, ask yourself: are you ready to go get it really? Are you Eddie. There are so many people in this world that believe that work has to feeling. And if you ve ever listen to our interests for the show. We sincerely believe that works isn't have to feel that way, and so I walked through you to find me excites you

give me something that you never goes about an interim that you never make a dollar author, but when you live in excited lies you inspire, others to get passionate again in that is so contagious goes ready for number three, an English you dear number, free is stir ass. I said it, gold diggers, five letters, one word stress: can I give him men- it is an emotion that we are all going to feel. I never being honest, were probably feeling it right now. I think every single listener out. There has felt stress with your work whether your inbox is over flowing, or it is straight up. Crickets, you are likely stressed and when you are Aren't you renew our you hard? The wine has to keep this ship moving forward and if things are slow, your eyes on you and when I had the ban is also. I knew that

big weight to caring for us. Isn't it for me? when I think of stress, I think, of the summer of burner now, here's what can happen if you haven't heard this story, so when I first started about twenty five weddings and I was willing and able to leave my fault, I'm corporate Josh and that was able to match my salary and, in the end, last year I took I'm more took on twenty seven weddings and the year after that I took on thirty weddings, and that was the summer of burn out. I was photographing weddings literally every weekend in the summer and friends. It was stressful, I was editing hours travelling, rising backtrack, weddings as taking photos. I was packing my bags all the time and I never got like I could catch up or take a breath believe me. I was burning the candle every and begin into really imaginary personalized, my house, my mental, say I was making more money than ever.

But I was more unhappy than I had ever been at that point of my career in those really stressed for time Like I remember the days went, with job like I'm working from Baghdad, but the truth was like I was so exhausted. I couldn't get out of bed and I was just chasing my Does any of you guys, like? I am I alone here, but this is where trust, can either be a good thing or a bad thing. What do I mean here you fell stressed, it is your body and your brain, trying to tell you something it's an internal reaction, saying something that I totally right here and be clear. Not turning out brief periods is during a busy week, I'm turning out the all zooming sustained stress. That is impacting your wife Jerusalem, many areas of your life, for he still like this. Are you waking up in Europe, stressed out daily. Are you feeling anxious This is your sign to do something about it. Weathers transition to a new job hiring.

Someone or even getting professed. You held like thing Stress in your life is a message: what needs a chain and how are you going to do it when I was in that season, a burn out member. We had this family, we can add a cabin and kind of banned because there's one. My only weakens us- and I said and so much work to do. So here my entire vehemently gathered were all together and I brought my computer with because I works would be done. I couldn't disconnect and I was sitting in a corner working while everyone else's together, and I remember just seem so emotional, like I couldn't separate my feelings from anyone else. Is, and I was so anxious just remember feeling like the shell of myself, and I knew I knew that something was about to break and it didn't breaks right then broke of human

later drew nigh the Sunday evening. I book to shoot instead of just blocking off the to be a family. You ve been here with his family. Once again I brought my computer with. I thought I had to keep working I went to this you and I can it in a car- and I loved my couple. I love them turning to drew, and I said, do you think they could tell these? I do you think they could tell what Do you think they can tell how absolutely exhausted I am and on the drive home then I drew his driving. I fell asleep on the way home and I come on. We got back and I realized I giving my clients every answer. My energy, my husband, my fail like. No one else is getting in those very people deserve at the most I really want for you to take a look at the structures in your life. If you need to sit down and jot down a list of the things that are stressing you out there, into side, do you the higher semi do need to get something off your page. You need to make a move a pivot. I want you to do that.

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Is actually dine or your inbox hit. Zero. There is something so empowering about knowing that you put the work in to make your dreams a reality, You are the one in charge of your destiny like how cool is that your allies biggest calling can make you feel a ton of pride and accomplish? it has even celebration when you're? name, is on it behind it and connected to your work, you work harder to make something, you are proud of it comes in all forms. Small and big, smiling things are when you actually get everything done you set out to do for that day, when you're able to close laughed haven't be present. When you get your we're gonna be in or when you make a healthy didn't for your family. Simply put it is. Little moments during the day or your like yeah. I've got this these knowing If accomplishment are what you should shoot, where every day they are the small choices and the little things

show you that you are moving in the right direction, a moving towards the big a moment of accomplishment the most accomplished times that I've ever thought my career was winning an award. For kinds of rain, saying I was the top wedding vendor in the entire state, a huge goal that I almost didn't want to say out loud for so long because it seems impossible. I share I am always felt like an impostor as a photographer of her girl, We never take a single arts isoude in gunning workshops, to take any online courses to learn how to shoot by a happy. For me, and I remember the joy and pride I felt celebrating the banquet winning Basle weddings with my family. Here's the deal this, is like an industry of man. Everyone gets dressed up. Everyone wants mixing mingled over me. I wanted to have my family there, because these are the people that I pushed me every step of the way that believed in me and challenged me and knew that I could do it

and I sat at the table with all her grandparents of my periods may in laws in drew in there. This big sins of accomplishment. It was like, the accumulation of all those little choices I made each day every time that I felt proud across sending off my to do is to end my inbox deserve my high. Its work to give my kinds are photos back to them when they were ready and excited about them all led to that big moment? just remember when they said my name see my grandma Didn't cry. Ass in with tears eyes like shoes, so proud ain't. Just swept me off my feet. Because I had worked so hard. I soccer I so much in the feeling of accomplishment inches. Doesn't leave you it's like one of those things I just wish. We could all be allowed for those days. Is it that are so stinkin hard guys. I don't want you to forget. That is like. While you are out shooting for the stars, don't you

Lawson the enormity of the girl. Take it isn't, what's unity, a break down into smaller action, focused items that you can do single days. You inch closer to the thing that you want. The most big moments of pride small moments a pride in every moment in between they all deserve to be celebrated one. The areas that I think I need to work on in my business is celebrating money is that I mean how often do you like scholar, Instagram BAR time, that good buddy and champagne, where lights, do people actually do that, because like accomplished ending in an onto the next thing right it wasn't always lighter, and so some times as we get caught up in this world of entrepreneurship, we had slow ourselves down and really acknowledge the accomplishment guy Are you acknowledging your accomplishment designer, I haven't been avi the first one to admit it. I remember there

time at my images were published in a magazine, I legitimately dance all the way back to our tiny little apartment. I had it on the wall. I framed that sucker, I posted on in scammers. So so excited, and I wish that I could do that for all the accomplishments and I'm getting now being a kind of just noticed them in them forget about them in a kind of breaks, my heart, and so I want you to make sure that, no matter what you're doing day in and day out that you were acknowledging the accomplishment, no matter if it's big urban small, because you are making things happen. Okay, now, the last one I sang about something we have all felt a lost, my friends, the emotion of lost. We have also then you are not the only one. I just want me a man me too. I remember how's stuck in stagnant. I followed my corporate job dreading every Monday living my life vice

Manassas standards and knowing deep inside that it wasn't living to my true potential, but white direction. Should I go enter the emotion last I remember this cell vividly like not knowing what to do next, what it should be doing if I was being foolish by moving forward regardless and while last Kinsey negative. Much like failure- it is often the launching pad to the right path in periods, whereas felt the most laws, It is because my soul knew that something not right, and it was time to discover the reason I remember I'm a corporate job. They were priming need to move on up. They wanted me to continue moving up this corporate position and I remember there is a Jane or my boss pulled me in your office. She's agenda like you need it

addressing the part that you want to have, and I thought to her first off running catchy is not my outfit of choice. The second off I don't even know if I want that next Pars anything done a lot of times as we get sucked into law. Our climbing. We are climbing other people's ladders for US incident, climbing what we actually want. I felt lost at so many points of this journey. Confuse, I saw alone, I have wanted to quits, but hindsight is. I was twenty twenty right like if we could only like to look into this little magnifying glass and see what's next pressing me like an islamic sense, but looking back on time, it inspires me as I can see, that period of uncertainty was the moment tat I was challenged to start building the life of my dreams. Now also want to remind you I said no one in my family had their own business. No one was not manure, we were.

All traditional workers with salaries and benefits. I There are seventy paving the way for me, but it doesn't change like how hard it was like it was so hard. I remember sleepless Knights, I remember searching job postings. I remember wanting to update my rest. May I just didn't know what I wanted to do, and Periods of laws are still gonna find you want to hit that dream career around. Feeling so lasting abusing eyes burnt out weddings like what would I do if I wasn't a photographer. That was what people knew, That was what I got started without was what I wanted. I was what I had worked so hard like. I also one. Like how can I compete with these people? They ve got their craft and gather their so called the gather. They are brilliant they're all this education, or, I wonder, like what well fill in the bank. Think of my next Greer trends, Are they going to judge me? Are they wondering what the heck is she doing? Why is next, but the

Laskin scientists in big moments like career pivots can also and this in the quiet in between swell scrolling when looking at our planner. While playing that compares the game, there's so much content out there, so many ways to get where you wanna go so much education, so many pass Tartu feel like you're on the right one, sometimes bats, there's hours about. I promise that if you lean on your intuition and trust that you know what you need everything he's going to fall into place, I promise remember feeling losses and opportunity for growth for new chapters. New beginnings, I want breed embrace it, so you guys Why does show right like by the emotions in my goal in all of this, is for you to feel worse. The increase in the dreams are in. Your heart, I know so often is easy to look at other people on minor or p

Will you even knowing your like man like she can do this and I can't but the truth is that we are all facing. Fears were excited about something. Worse. Christ we ve all got accomplishments happening weather or celebrating them feeling a little lost. And when I started this show, I wanted to be proof that nobody has all together that you were mass is welcomed. Here, You are welcome to short, no matter what season you're in no matter what emotion, you're feeling inside What do we that, wherever you are, my friends, you are in the right place, gold diggers if anything out of today show I really wanted to remind you that you are not alone. What ever see ensuring whatever emotions you feeling so many before you have navigated these seasons and a rooting for you looking for more inspiration and uplifting energy to get you through the difficult times, I love

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