What’s a bucket filler? It’s a person who is making positive deposits of kindness and compassion in other people’s lives, someone who is adding value to their lives. Your words can be the glue that holds your relationships together when you speak positive, faith-filled words to others.
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the term deposits in the life of the people not only with their words with there actions fear sailor is someone who is willing to give there's too many bucket differs in this world too many bucket differs what's a bucket differ therefore someone's who dips the emotional bank of others with hot words and criticism someone who dips out of the life of other you see the thing about bucket differs bucket differs don't even realise that their depleting their own bucket you see when you fill other people's buckets you'll have your butt failed we wanna be bucket fillers we have tremendous power and influence with our words
listen to what it says in and visions for twenty nine it says let no unwholesome talk come out of your mouth only what is helpful for building others have been a fitting the here for you standing rice to those other people bill the people you see it is up to us it starts with we can be the builders can be the one to turn this thing around we don't have to go with the flow we can swim upstream because we have got on the inside of us but we have to make a decision that we're goin be builders you know not only can we build people with our words find the best and bring it out in them but do you know that our words can literally be the glue
that holds our relationships together again laterally bind us together when we speak positive build words over one another when we're willing to pick out the good and not see the bad you see it's easy to see what's wrong but it takes a builder to see what's right it takes a builder to know potentially cut to fix things you are a builder today i encourage you with that big too often we are on conscious about remit orally what we are doing throughout the day and i want us all go out of here say and i am a builder of people because when i build people i build myself whatever throw out it's gonna come to me joe and i've been married thirty years
and we ve learned a lot about building we ve learned a lot about extending grace to one another through our words be married for thirty years you know you have to give each other great grace and you to use your words to do it you see we realize really a good relationship is on what you're willing to give more than what you need to receive we all wanna be loved we all want the other person to show kindness but to get the kindness we have to be willing to give because really you give is really what gonna come back to you are you just looking for someone to give you something in your relationship i'm telling you this is a principle that have we will understand i believe the change in our life when we understand that being willing to
still grace and give grace is what's going on old our relationships we ve all heard this when we were young the golden rule your mom i'll be tied to you first grade teacher probably hadji recited did you know that the golden rule is found in matthew seven well it says this so in every i do want to others what you would have them do to you you see what i'm saying do one to others what you would have them do unto you you don't i think that is when you go by a sure you're going to go by an outfit at the store you don't just run into the store and blindly grab something pay for it out the door and put it on no you choose wisely you go in your get the clause you decide what's gonna work for you what would be best for you you take time and effort
you buy those clothes you take them home and you put him on you take time to close yourself courage ass to take this in time choose wisely the words that we speak out of our now because the truth is this we're are unaware of those words we are to be a product of war we say we are going to be from the of our lips you know sometimes we just throw caution to the wind not thinking it's gotta affect us what can i tell you you say is going to affect you now i have to admit this when i was a young bride and our first marriage or thirty years ago i didn't tell you my words i want putting the glue on my relationship like i should have i'll never forget this god spoke to me one day and he said victoria he said it
you don't began to choose your words wisely you're gonna be sorry he basic he said your own words are going to work against you i was a young i think young guys new to this thing and i didn't know he's way more words right i was used to kind of having my own way doing it the way i wanted to do it and i thought he should get into the program can i tell you this i stand up here day and i remember god speaking my heart was yesterday you brought tears to my eyes it was a serious matter and i am so grateful that ought to heed to what god told me i begin to think about what i was building i begin to think about i said i was extending
you see i wanted a man that successful i wanted a man that believed in himself that had competence i will to be the buoy that pushed ema not the anchor that pulling down began to say what i wanted not what i saw are what i thought i saw i begin to see the good and bring out the good nor can i tell you to this day i am not perfect but far more deposits than i do withdrawals far more than i do withdraw this guy like your bank account if you keep brighton those checks you're going to go bankrupt you gotta put checks in you gotta fill that account before you think that poland anything out so today i just encourage every one of us we can create a life that we want with the words that we speak
you want grace you better extend grace because we're all becoming i think about peter he was a disciple of jesus he walked with jesus and it you read about peters life sometimes she was in a he was impatient he would say he thinks he should in fact his name's simon peter actually means pebble and i'm sure some of the things he did he felt like a pebble sundays but you know he was jesus disciple and she's said peter you're a rock say despite peters personality jesus called the wrong out in him he spoke to the potential and we are the church of the living god we ve got to speak to each other's potential we
building this on a solid foundation on a rock we can't be in what we say we ve got to make a decision that we are builders because i and tell you if you would still grace you will have a grace extended to you we all be better we're learning were growing were becoming we're in the process we are creating peters all around us as we create the theatre on the inside of us remember you're a bucket biller stop and choose your words wisely because when you do that
when you're willing to extend grace that same brace will come back to you a man a man even ask some guy now will be eleven from new york times best selling author victoria roosting her brain new thirty day audio devotional embracing every day in this of lifting thirty day audio devotional you'll be challenged and inspired to start living with greater phase and favour every day we all desire to enjoy life to leave it to the fullest with purpose simple film it yet sometimes we can experience challenges there rob us of our joy but god doesn't want us to live worry or concern about what each day may bring you can today experience all the wonderful blessing he has for you request this brand new resource something primitive torreon gets a thirty day audio devotional you'll be inspired and you'll learn how to embrace every debt request your copy of embracing every day today jewellers deemed whom slash embracing or call aiding eight five six seven job
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