Ilan Ferdman of MindBender.co shares why you should stop chasing and start feeling.
Episode 1671: Stop Chasing, Start Feeling by Ilan Ferdman of MindBender on Setting Goals & Choosing To Be Happy
Ilan & Guy Ferdman are the founders of Satori Prime. They happen to be blood brothers and real-life best friends. They coach people and companies all over the world in leadership, personal development, and spiritual growth. They've built multiple 7-figure businesses while maintaining a high-quality life, filled with lots of travel, family time, and unique personal growth experiences. Teaching others how to have it all in every area of life, is their heart's work.
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stop chasing start feeling.
By Jove, conferred men of mind. Bender Co. I've changed my entire life. I've changed, he started innocently enough. My chase, my parents, intention and love I chased, maybe
traveling soccer team. I she's trophies and grades then
girls and accolades and, most recently, a chaste cars houses money in status until that is by stop chasing
Something very profound happened to me into an eighteen initial. Indulge me I'd like to share with you one of the most powerful insights of my life. In
uh huh, so profound- is still feels a bit unreal been dead.
I say a been magical: I've been blessed define person, development, the ripe old age
twenty one years old since that time?
vested nearly a million dollars in my education of travel, the world, so he mentors coaches, gurus and out of this world experiences to the years. I've healed relationships created deeper connections, lost
breathing and build it all back got married, my soul mates been a father of two amazing kids built five too.
businesses, some monumental failures in some successful and many other ups and downs. Twenty eighteen, however,
It would be a pivotal moment, bigger than I could have ever predictor mob
the guy, and I have spent the last seven and a half years building our company Satori Prime it he was pivoted and shifted many times over the years
Today, however, we focused solely on awakening humans to their fullest potential, guiding souls to more love, peas in abundance than they ever dream possible, and all of it achieved through effortless easing grace and is that last par
when a sure about today I was born in over achiever miles excelled at everything I touched. If I didn't accelerated immediately, I would be interested in pursuing it
Now this magazine led me to an amazing life with amazing achievements, but I didn't know at what cost, if you're not renew
in this way of life is probably very familiar to you as entrepreneurs, we're always pushing forward. I was looking for what's next
We have very limited capability to even pause for a moment and celebrate our wines. Everything is
even in our lives by achievement and progress to us, not progressing, isn't just bad can actually feel like die,
after working with hundreds of entrepreneurs, despair and became abundantly clear men rather than pass it by. I chose a dive in and investigate. Why am I such an over achiever
might have been chasing. My whole life is the best way to even achieve results, and probably the most important question has all that chase,
And achieving made me any happier, you see most
or in one way or another looking to improve. We want more money, better health and awesome relationships. However, we rarely ask: why do we want these things?
there's a phenomenon I called the last box syndrome is occurs when a person checks off every box they set out to check in their life the business and money box, the Big house and fancy cars Box, the family and travel Box, etc.
Last box is checked the dark reality says in why.
I still not happy- and this is all supposed to make me feel, happy and peaceful and I feel the most miserable I've ever felt
I'm sorry to be the bearer of this news, my friend, but you can choose.
In the wrong dream, even playing
on game entirely locally for meals fortune
enough to learn this early on and now I'd like to pass it on to you and hopes that you don't throw your life, your health and your relationships, the way start by asking yourself why you're chasing so hard? What are you trying to prove
to yourself to others to mom and dad perhaps are you trying to prove that Europe
not a loser like I was, or maybe you trying to prove that you are good enough for smart enough or just plain enough,
you say you ve been running around thinking that when you achieve
Even when you succeed, though the feeling of being
loser or stupid or not enough, will go away all time for reality check her then
thing you ve done so far in your life made that feeling go away. Has any box you ve, checked along the way, actually succeeded in making that feeling go away or
as a sinking feeling in your stomach or the attain in your chest, or the store nagging back always come back. You, my friend,
fighting a losing battle. What is it you really want offer that it's what we all want? We want peace. We want to
variants. Love we want well being we were
to belong and feel connected, we want to be happy. So if that's true in that resonates with, you has all the chasing
but you ve done created any of that, for you, I mean
long term sense, whereas it all felt quite fleeting
What I want to offer you right now is a flip. The script. What I mean is stopped
chasing the accolades the achievements and result in instead start to focus on the feelings were
realize last year's at the world, in your reality, will always align with how you're feeling, at the moment,
Romania, human being yet they can feel horrible. Increased amazing results at the same time having no
tat when you're feeling like dog? You know what the world response
was giving you more things to get angry frustrated and off about, conversely
you're riding high feeling amazing magical thing seemed it just happened and flow by themselves. Multi resonate with that. Here's an experiment am inviting you to run,
focus not on the goals and results we want to produce focus instead on how you want to feel every moment of every day. Let me explain,
when I did some soul searching my realise that the feelings I am most desiring to feel our peace, love and connection
So far this year I created a new set of goals. Once I can be measured or quantified like every book is telling you I choose to create a feeling of peace, love and connection every single day,
now? Here's, the absolute most incredible part of the story. What do you think that,
who provided me with when I created the goal it provided me with experiences and circumstances so that I can continue to grow in peace, loving connection.
Twenty thousand and eighteen unfolded unwound in the most magical of ways our business exploded. I want a more vacations with my family and
friends than I ever have amid the best shape of my life,
my relationship with my kids and overturn your relationship with my wife is an all time high and the best part of it all. It didn't feel like work at all. In fact, it all
effortless uneasy in a way that I have never experienced before the perfect opportunity
or mentor or insight kept seeming to show up in
Allow me to my next growth opportunity, manly little stepping stones. I just follow them step after step. I gave a future visions and focused on each step as it came
I gave a control and surrender to greater wisdom has led me to more,
happiness, abundance, love and peace of ever experienced before I know it sounds crazy right,
realized efforts on this might sound whew and mom. Okay, with her my hope years, that you being a question and investigate your own life, asked the big questions don't end of chasing, as I did
you broke in depressed unhappy and alone, some worth it just because something is produced, results in your life doesn't mean, is the best and only way to achieve them. So those are the things that are producer. Graze results that are actually holding us back from achieving even greater inviting you to step
the comfort zone and into the magic zone, a zone where money, relationships and health become byproduct of the way that you feel every single day. So how would you like to feel every day this
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I think it is a team at mine Bender a bit of a repeating theme. This week,
any happiness and how it comes from things outside of achievements and money. I really liked it
exercising mentioned something to try- and I do planet add this to the journaling workbook- that is almost done being written. That exercises a think about your goals, write them out, but then think about and right out how you want to feel every day. What feelings do you want to
variants each and every day into those feelings line up with your goals with certainty wire. Why not and how can revise or come up
new goals. They get you those feelings daily and faster the greater.
To say something to think about today, but that should do it again.
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Transcript generated on 2020-10-18.