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many things are, will matter a lot less to you in twenty years, part, one by March turn off of Mark an angel star. Come too often we let the little situations of each day, blind us to the beauty. In front of us, we get caught up our own heads and literally don't know our lives to be any better than a few things that aren't going our way we call people complain or we spew out Our graves on social media life is so Unfair. We yell and everyone agrees. Closer to sense into the Gaza pool. Other times we talk about, talk about a lot of stuff that really doesn't matter that much we scrutinise and dry but I see a significant until were blue in the face, and then we sit back and scratch has in bewilderment of how unfulfilling life feels but older we grow the quieter. We become and no less pointless drama chaos. We Jen Life humbles us gradually as we age, we realized, What nonsense we wasted time on truth be told the afternoon always

her stands with the morning. Never even suspected here are some things. We tend to expand lots, Mental and physical energy. On my were younger, though event they realize matter a lot less than we really he thought number one, the inevitable frustrations of an average day. Ninety nine point: nine percent of was dressing you out today, more matter a month from now, sir, her or later you will know this for certain. So just do your best let go of the nonsense. Stay positive and move forward with your life number to the little fail Do you often feel self conscious about when you set goals and a calculator risks in life eventually learned that there will be times when you succeed. There are times when you fail and both are equally important. In the long run, number three how Quarto grow perfect everything could be or should be understand the difference between reasonable strive. An perfectionism is critical to letting go of fantasies and picking up your life perfection.

Not only causes you unnecessary stress and anxiety from these superficial need to always get it right and actually prevents you from guinea. Worthwhile done at all number for having complete confidence before taking the first step Confidence is at inner inertia that propels us to bypass are empty fears and self doubt on the road of life. We come to me lies that we rarely have confidence when we begin anew rarely move forward and tap into inner an outer resources. Our confidence gradually builds a collar mistake. Many people make is wanting to feel confident before they start something where there is a new job. A new relationship living in a new city, etc, but it doesn't happen like that. You have to step out of your comfort zone and risk

your pride to earn the reward of finding your confidence number five, the intricacies of what's in it, for you time teaches us that we keep nothing in this life until we first give it away. This is true of knowledge. Forgiveness, service, love, tolerance, acceptance is so forth. You have to give to receive such a simple point. It is so easy to forget that the giving of ourselves without a price tag has to come First hits the giving that opens up to grace number six be an online. Only activist for good causes online is fine, but sooner or later you realise that if we truly want to make a difference, you have to walk the talk too so largest my aunt online for a better world love your family, be a good neighbour practice. Kindness, build bridges, embody what you preach, number seven, the pressures of making a big deal

and all at once when we're young seems like faster is better. But in time we win the power of slow and steady at work? We come to learn that no art of love, kindness or generous, no matter how small is ever wasted. The fact that you can plan to see you, then it becomes a flower share a bit of now, Origin, it becomes, and others smile as someone receive a smile in return is proof that you can make a big deal, since in life in business, even if it can't be done all at once. Number eight. The temptation of quick fixes the older. Your eyes grow the more clearly they can see through the smoke and mirrors of every quick fix anything worth achieving, takes dedicated daily effort period, honestly, They used to believe that making wishes and saying prayers alone change things Now I know that wishes and prayers change us in. We change things all details.

I want to come to making a substantial change in your life building in business earning a degree, fostering a new relationship starting a family, becoming more mindful or any other personal journey that take. Time and commitment. Wanting you have to ask yourself is: am I. Going to spend a little time every day, like many people won't. So I can spend the better part of my life, like many people can't think about that. For a moment we autumn They become what we repeatedly do: the acquisition of or doesn't mean your growing growing happens. And what you know, changes how you live on a daily basis and John, I build daily life, changing rituals with our students and the goals and growth module of back to happy number nine heavy account or jam paired with. It citing a labourer plans jam. Your life has plans leaf space overtime. He'll learn that many great things happen unplanned, and some big regrets happen by now. Reaching exactly what was planned so keep your life ordered,

Your schedule under booked create a foundation with a soft place to land. A wide margin of error and room to think and breathe every step of the way number ten being in constant control of everything. The older we get the more. We realise how little we actually control and there's no good reason a whole yourself down what things you can't control, learning trust a journey and when you do not understand it, oftentimes what who never wanted or expected turns out to be what you need number eleven here that in tomorrow's episode, you just listen about one of the post I twenty things are: what matter a lot less you in twenty years by mark turn off mark an angel dot com will you're the Ex ten in tomorrow's episode and thank you to talk space for sponsoring this episode. They offer an amazing service.

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