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struck. Me, as you know, is Charlie Brown says. I know I thought vote where they come from and it's just apparently they take this just called amidst oath, like when he subdued God for the grave year get Google easier I got to critically moving quickly movie, but then I thought grief was work is at such a specific thing, but then good gracious gracious is very specific to air and, like L fittings, I guess it's just the midst of grief or maybe good gracious came from good grey in some boys like just feeling a little was done. Schnapps they added a gracious, maybe so minstrels good gravy, that's good,

by the funny thing will happen in the ship. I thought that wasn't even that money here where this was not supposed to be funny about grief. You know I'm dumb. I think we should point out from the gecko that this is about grief, human grief, western human grief, but the sight to see that there are different types of grief and that humans are the only ones who do grief. In fact, over story for you Jago annul action to deal with it that was the funding the story took place back in the spring of nineteen. Ninety nine in router, Pradesh, State India now specifically in the town of luck now, and even more specifically, the principle zoo. Okay, there was a seventy two year old elephant female elephant named Domini an Domini was hanging out in her little House said the Prince of Wales to win

when she got a younger pregnant friend. Deliver too name. Chum percale chunk MC caully was, as I said, pregnant she's, actually amateur believe from her regular gig, where she would just let tourists ride on her back and so she was she's taking the prince of Wales, you to basically does have a name. Comfortable term and then give birth. Domini just fell in love with a chump a copy. That are so. She basically became of maternal figure chunk MC caully. They were best friends, jumper we would lay around Domini would stroker pregnant belly with her trunk. I just got really really tight, which is very normal and in the elephant world. So It almost imagine that Domini was growing excited as chunk. Mc caully get closer and closer to the due date

only she did go into labor chump. A colleague during childbirth and gave birth to a stubborn calf and domini yes, they let her come in and like a hanger, The body is elephants, are known, agree there or even far as elephants go Domini stories, a little, that's pretty bad. She she cried over the body for a while and then went mature enclosure and stood still for a week after the week. She, during the switches she stopped eating. She got to the point where her legs swelled from basically starvation. In dehydration, while till she, fellow and then she just laid there for what turned out to be the rest of your life, where she wept and refuse to eat and refuse to drink and grieved over the death of her and finally died. Herself a few days later and the vets tried to.

Per alive. They they did what they could, but they said in the end, in the face of dominates intense grief or treatment, failed cheese, now they're buried next to one another. I headed dog situation like that similar when I was a kid One of my dogs died in their best birds and the other one dislike was never the same and died about three months later yeah and seemed happy at the time, and I went out and lay down the Dark house and cried nice when I was like seven, those devastating. That's a wonderful thing. You do that's working out your grief in here, but as far as animals girl, it really is pretty. They divided among scientists, say yes, they show all the signs of grieving in the weather ring and then others say no, they are not grieving. We are putting that on them is and gathered at I totally disagree with that. Yeah is this. You know it's really two camps

We talk about them before yeah. We ve run up against this before and I don't think either one of us to change our positions at all. I think the grief, but then you here, like this one great ape you know, was famous recently for carrying her little dead. Baby around here, like three days and other scientists came out said. Like you know, this is long gestation period they have single tens having it get is a big deal and social hearing this baby around and hopes that it will come back to life in its like in a comatose state. And you know it's a practical adaptive. Evolutionary thing that's happening, it's not grief, and then I think you are was right here, they're greeting he led the easier if they took the baby chimp and made a purse out of it decided after that, will then for animals, and I get sidetracked, but you have to think like when some clearly showed signs.

Looks like grief in some, don't at all like the chimpanzee in same you know, arena like they each other chimpanzees, while they're still alive and screaming, while those are the ones that Backtalk or they go off the diver themselves in there's no grieving, or they will make if one of them is dying, there were like kill them. I put my own. Imagine you're an outside observer of the human species we we lose. Chemical weapons on one another, and yet we still have funeral practices. I mean as interesting. I wonder why certain animals do in certain. Don't Diana very interesting we're getting back to humans? Yet human realm of grief? There is a man who recently was married to his wife for sixty two years. She died in on the to her funeral. He died

the back of limousine early and beer, which I thought was incredibly sweet and then is his daughters. I they died at the funeral enough. They they put a sign up. They decide to just have a double funeral, and they put a sign up at the wake. That said, surprise the double headed by then reed him next to her like that day, like, incidentally, has a good sense of humor but the point is this year. That is that that's a that they use the sense of humour to grieve, or else they weren't going to grief, and the point of the whole thing is that there is no safe way that grief works, which is great because we can see just about it here, the only in the right, because the other psychology is still failing to define the process of grief here and some very recent studies that you found so that Greece is

not present and everyone here, and that everyone deals with it very differently and there's not really any specific way to handle. It there's some great general guidelines and we should say grief is a very personal thing. Yet myself have experienced the spectrum of grief in my life like, including you know, like family members, passing away not to be too cold. But some are you know, you Superman, for in some it's like. Well, you know they were very old and they had a great life in. We saw this coming in. That's one of the things they yes, when the types of grief anticipatory grief, but they say, is probably easier because you workin that stuff out overtime and it's nothing like an accident or a child dying, unanticipated grief, wealth lately different, yet so you said you mentioned anticipatory grief, that's like if somebody

got a prolonged illness is certainly that you have the chance to say goodbye. I had a time, maybe your these emotions exactly than went to death actually comes here. You ve been prepared for this for days weeks months right. Yet allow times maybe there isn't any corner quote traditional grief going on at all, because you do so prepared right and it's just a matter of executing all the things you need to do. If the person in charge of it can write like you're so prepared you blow the funeral together, restore serial killer, that cigarettes colleges call that kind of grief anticipatory grief. Basically the money grief, because it's it's about his arm is light. As you can get your imposed grief, post death, I should say right. Yes and then again, I want to say, like there's this probably a listener out there who, like help there there

then or their mother through a long bow of cancer here that the person finally succumb to it. Like that's absolutely true, I agree with you haha, they like there again, there's no specific, like no one could tell you what your grief was again. It's personal, this agenda. These are very broad, strokes, Ok then, like you mention unanticipated grief, right yeah met, that's for my experience at a friend that fell off a building and died when it's like definitely the hardest. Someone young, an accident Anna, but still, if you wanna talk about five stages. Another big believer that that's the case, because I didn't experience all the stages law, but again it very someone might experience tinsel It does put, but the point is with unanticipated grief like you, couldn't you or your friend and wake up that morning like he was gonna die right now, but he still died have

and you have to deal with it all of a sudden there and then there's ambiguous grief, which for my money is probably the worst kind of Greece is the canning grief. That comes where say if you have a loved one who was kidnapped and you never hear from them again, yeah or ever felt that one Parents abandon you as a child or something friends is somebody in there's? No real resolution or closure. Yet or you know it didn't, have to be even death. It can be like your girlfriend. You come home to a note on your bad right. You never hear from her again or a wife, I guess yeah, because I guess we should also say that Greece doesn't have to come from death now. Push grief is basically the the deep and poignant distress caused by bereavement, yeah embarrassment. Is the state of being deprived of something or someone so yeah that coffee growers death whatever yeah exactly Yes, this is a three types of normal grief, just off the top of our heads. We may this outbreak

and you mentioned the the different kinds of their the different stages of grief, Yeah, I mean that's a such like a pop trope these days. Yet if I say that who is actually knew just as recently as nineteen sixty nine, when Doktor Elizabeth Kubler Ross came up with the five stages of grief that you always hear about today, that any tenure could probably recite to you. But I have since been kind of deconstructing change in question and challenge. But these are the kind of the roadmap to go through grief, right, yeah, denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance right in denial is basically saying this. Is you you're not true they're, so I like what you say right away and

you don't wanna, be anywhere near you because you're lying to me right now about something very horrible. He had never experience that even with my friend who fell off the building. Like that's a sudden, a news is you can get over the phone and and is not the kind of person who like now that didn't happen. I was like man, it immediately hit me that that had happened here. And they started from there. I guess, but I'd inexperienced anger either, but you know might have been my brother, I might have experience anger. Here is a very good point. There are different, there's different, I guess risk factors, others different elements to grief, and some of it is personal. Some of it has to do with how close you are to the person sure I'm some of it has to do with the type of person. You are you're pretty resilient person, If you are a very sensitive bookish type, you might have taken a little harder. You know I mean yeah You have a very, very, very strong, tight support group you do yet so

I would say that that that possibly help quite a bit. I'm sure you had a group of friends that like helped you through that they were probably friends of the kid to the absolute. So you went through as a group yeah going through something allies is always hard, even if you think you're alone or I want to be around anyone, you probably not doing yourself any they write and, lastly, you had prior experience of grief. U turn yourself down in the dark house when your seven, so you their experience to draw upon an end. No view can be through it does get better, does go away yeah so You're gonna have the hardest normal kind of grief. If you are like you said, a loner with no support group. If this is the first time you ve ever experienced great if you're the sensitive bookish type-

and ass if you were extraordinarily close to somebody right right, yeah, totally in fact, isotope acting exercises in college. I took this acting class and believe it or not when acting glass- and I was not very good at it and they used to tell us the tried you crying exercises and stuff. So what do you think about my book? I used to go to MIKE damage, my brother had got killed or something out just like boom light. All of us here are you remembering guy trying like I cry, if I thought of your brother die, I know is of more than your guy, I'm kidding about your family. Hello step, you should know listeners. Do you want a new year's resolution? That's easy to keep. Yes results, to help protect your identity and personal info with lifelong identity, theft, protection, lifelong alert, you to potential threats to your identity, and they see more, though what you can see by just monitoring your own credit. Like your

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that you feel like you're, suddenly in a position to make a deal with God here to reverse the circumstances, are bring the person back or take away. The pain Yeah fits the so crazy in its you know, like you think of somebody bargaining with God, or some higher power like looking up talking to the feeling of the sky and that It is one of the normal stages of grief, yeah, that's just fine at first did that when I was young with girls, I was having a church, very emotional, kid and girls like you know it was one of those guys. Please you just go back to be abolished the death penalty, the air, but clean Mohammed, if I go out of their pretty quick there is, I realized the me there. Girls, you to come back or issues in the road exactly and got Polly had little. If anything to do with that, he was doing a bigger problem,

the evidence: depression in this one's kind of tricky. Yet if you, if you go through the stage depression, if you do it's not necessarily visit this during the wonder. If possibly you already depressed and if you already depressed it, probably means you're going to maybe get stuck in the stage for a while me or you might go through depressed stage and then come out of it right. It's not necessarily, but the problem with the stages, depression is a recognised. Mental disorder and grief is not considered a mental disorder right and yet in one of these five, widely accepted stages. You go through a period where you're. Here you have a mental disorder yeah, but it's part of normal process, and you know it

basically like taking psychologists and throwing amended a thunder down in Greece and other chicken fat and handing in battle axes and explain that lets the funny thing said the last of his acceptance. Of course, when you were finally able to move on and on on that once fairly interesting article where they they charted this, and they said it would look like a w yeah, that's right, like the high points in the low points yeah which get some denials a high point, and then it goes to anger, yeah up to bargaining. I guess if you feel like you're getting somewhere, maybe it's enough, maybe maybe at the very least manic. I would think you back down to depression and unfair

seeing the w with a nice bit of acceptance, yeah and made them, as you said, that we should have been studying it's like thirty or forty years, and there was always that five stages thing, but recently there looking more into it and they ve done, some studies with widowers and widows and they found that they were We also it wildly from day to day right and it's not necessarily gonna, be a w its I felt great today and really my spirits Robin was even laughing in the next day. The really sad- and it is really it's all over the map right, but I think over all with their finding is that on a long enough arc Merge from it and it's you to be somewhere on the order of six months to three years. There seems to be a man. I think That's the outliers are maybe six months to three years. That's ridiculous timeframe, but the book I mean like if you study enough people you clear problem, create like make up like three months. The five years right now you're told

and then say anyone else's and outlier right. But that's the thing like you can't that's why everybody is very wisely. They avoid yeah saying things like that like this is. This is like comical aspect for the process like no one was to come out, say noticed, shouted yeah aid, because you can't and that's a mean thing to do and actually there's there's the grief is ism. Danger of being medical lies in the DSM five the proposals? There's a theirs. He's been an exemption to bereavement where with depression, right depression, diagnosis. If the person recently gone through the process of grief or is in the press of green. You can't diagnosed with depression. Uk but you're, not gonna, get reimbursed for any measure proscribed right well under the DSM five they're taking away this brave men exclusion so that doctor can get reimbursed, that's good yeah, but a medical eyes, his grief

it says. No, now it's a mental disorder. Well, what is not? To be honest, the sort of story- slope, yeah, you know a temporary disorder that you hope so yeah, very keen insight and his work. Thank you. Psychology to day very got it so she talked about about dealing with it. I guess I guess you know these are, is its good advice, but it's also anytime. I read something where they, like the care of yourself and eat right next to avoid drugs and alcohol yet, but it is very much true, you know the only is going to make things worse. If you wallow in this and abuse yourself with drugs and alcohol in don't eat and you don't think December night, there's an affair repeated pouring like half of a forty out on the curb there is someone who has gone and drinking the other urine sure, but don't do that every day for like weeds,

is thirty. Nine are you I mean, I think me. My friends got together and cut really couldn't ploughed after we got the news about mobile but, but shall we weren't there alcohol my advice to avoid it. After one time, yes, but ok so In addition to avoiding focusing our eating right and getting regular exercise. Does the standard stuff? What was then also in jet lag. Every time you anything the are like some really good suggestions to dealing with grief, yourself overwhelmed by a profound sense of sadness here there are things out there that you can do to make yourself feel better. You can write a letter to add a deceased. That Sir said to help I'm looking gap. Why not

throwing herself into say making a memorial like those roads. I memorial there or a video clip show who knows you actually Noah, and when my friend added today a video see causes we put together website like a memorial website, and I knew I video footage back then of them, and I did a little video for them. But it in every like a great thing for me, the image you feel that an yes, a basically putting yourself into a project there were you thinking about person. I imagine in an article. This is me doing some armchair psychology picture, but I imagine it for since you to remember good things about the person- and so during this time, when you're, possibly a little more emotionally, All the usual here you are being reminded of positive memories, positive things now you know, so you maybe that's why that would help

But a dazzling goes up and overture, because, when you're going through and doing like a scrap book, it's these great memories in these pictures- and it's not you now. You are remembering the good stuff and the like the life right, which is, I think, how everyone wants to be remembered. Sure like these great alive, we have exactly. You know you're gonna be remembered as a life yeah me. I want to ask people that always what once my funeral to be. You know a little bit more than up affair as much as it can be. No where some people I know man. I want people really sad prior, I won't be mourned for days. You taught me, so you want the beautiful here. I can have a party in make fun of me, but not like Gigi Alan's funeral I have the research that when I can only imagine what it was like fifty hardcore pretty much here today at his course of heroin is buried naked down there they live naked.

It was in this research if you ve ever met die like in a horrible waiting. They find em like murdered in an alley naked enlightened found the murderer. Now think he killed himself. I thought it was indeed, I think, is extended there. Nothing so he's the Easter threatened to kill himself on stage. I was his big was that he's like one day it's gonna happen. I thought his big things like pooping on stage. While he did. I want to hear the cap that promise then cyber. Aren't you going to reopen the grief, adversary, burial, and you can do to you. I guess, can have helped through the grief processes the throw yourself in your project that you think the deceased. My appreciate yeah or some organization? They might have been affiliated with right. This remit, the idea like if you lose someone a cancer, maybe get involved with the common values the groups nor were apparently mad. Mothers against drunk driving was founded in memory

a deceased person absolutely killed by June, everyone would imagine right there's a lot of stuff out there that you can do yourself a lot of people pretty much immediately go to therapy at least initially, yet to get a little help to get some men inciting advice. Whatever that's an essentially the case very body, and they they definitely found that thereupon is not even a surly help for everybody right. A lot of go out there who probably wonder if they're dead inside because they dont grieve like supposedly everyone else does, but study after study is finding that actually people who go through significant grief, is a fairly small portion of people who experience a loss. He didn't have a study in here, a ringer they what they do generally as they track groups of widows and widowers fur

creative time and just have them in a remark about other feeling on a day to day basis, in the initial years after the loss, yeah and only nine to forty one percent did and there's a big variability there, but they said it's partially from how the symptoms, last year and only nine to forty. One percent did and there's a big variability there, but they said it's partially from how the symptoms were measured and in another study they found there about twenty one percent experience what you could diagnosis, depression after the loss and right Only by eleven percent had trouble with it; they couldn't shake it after sixteen eighteen months, I believe, right and ten percent of people who lost a spouse felt relief. These were people that had reported being an in their hair. It's right so there's that once a dance on their spouses, great think yourself in so you think it's that gold, but there

could be some mild relief if you weren't generally more happy in your married right and as a meteor dancing on graves imparting, but it might just be like right now. I can go moved it, cover seem like I had always wanted to hang our semi haggard Highlight AIDS, the ocean, and I can do that, but my father, its aim Hagar, but money go hang out with him, yet they also think that men may grieve heavier even though long believed that women do, but I think a study I got a sort of silly. They sell, variable like from person to person, aye, but we say all this to point out that if you don't experience what other people would recognise his grief, something wrong with you anymore than there is. If you experienced grief exactly what I say. Hi a tree in psychology have started to pay a little more attention to is: what's been term complicated grief,

yeah, I'm listening technically, if you go, say several months to a year, If is really really interrupted, you can't sleep. You can eat your having trouble focusing on anything, but the death person the loss of them. Yet you start to seriously doubt thing varying port in your life, may be like religion. Even right have lost a child like there can't be a guide that kind of stuff right or, conversely, You can't even mention the person's name are here the person's name. Basically, if your life is disrupted for many months, then basically everybody from the male clinic to the EPA says. Maybe she go see somebody about this.

Is. It can also manifests itself in aggression and violence. Self, destructive physical self destruction, so it can complicated, is, is an understatement near for this kind of grief and right. So there's different kinds. If you go see a councillor with, what's considered normal grief, they're, probably going to help you, let go of the person while still honouring their memory in recognising them again. When the impasse that they had on your life, but to get out there live your own life, they're gonna trading ray the same goal. If you have complicated grief but are going to to different and they're probably going to encourage you to really free and even greater bond here with the person now that their deceased that you can nurse

and hold onto and carry around with you. That makes sense to me. Yeah, and this can in this case is not like. You can't help apparent whose lost a child like, and you know you need to work through this and get over. It right and that's actually one of the risk factors for complicated grief grief is the death of a child right. The death of somebody that you were possibly codependent, I'm right and very, very close teacher or the death a sudden death, usually from trauma sea like a murder right or something like that right. Those risk factors for complicated grief so I would imagine that if you, if you had a loved one who was murdered, you probably already getting some sort of professional attention and if you're not maybe should We know that what we were basically talking about was the difference between grief and trauma. And when you ve experience it to that degree from is the whole different deal dates. Feels unreal and its can be terrifying, the terrorism of common emotion.

Common. If you have dreams about a deceased love one, but if you're having traumatized dreams about yourself being a danger here. Then you you ve, crossed the line from grief into trauma and complicated grief, yet heavy stuff. It is very heavy losing a pet is, for some people are very, very, very big deal and other people, while people that independent all dont get it, and then some people that do have pets are just more equipped to deal with the loss of a patent and not like its loss of human. Yet, but for people like me and Jerry,

There are enough of it losing a bet. You know it's like equivalent to losing. You know a family member and the grieving process is about the same out. Imagine if it's that impact for- and my advice, you should talk to other people you have similar feelings- is one of the things you can meet office about losing a bet is when you talk to people who don't have hats and don't think it's that big a deal. Railways that, unlike that, can make things worse while they say that if you, if you do experience the loss of a pet and you find that your grieving over it, you should go ahead with the grief. Yeah, don't feel embarrassed her dumb for that we go around the tug housing cry like a six year old you getting out

I ran across one thing: there is a guy in nineteen. Eighty three named Paul Rosen Blot, who carried out a study of a thing like fifty six victorian diaries of people who had experienced loss, interested and dumb so grief is definitely cultural and also historically bound to lie come they thought he found that the the goal for these direst was to keep the person alive around them right, like all the time like they would try to send the person around them or, like maybe sitting their favorite chair, because they could tell they were still there and somewhere whatever and that under those We senses, he found a grief, never really seem to ever go away. There was something, care around for the rest of their lives and in fact, one of the things that the Victorians did was. They would wear black

for a year, I believe and then dark colors after that, especially if you're a widow and the inner on the anniversary whereby copyright, I think so, expected to carry around this grief for the rest of your life. And one of the things they also did that actually still around the day, was bereavement photography which post mortem photography galleys than the thing on it. At the heavy in its didn't we and we got an email just recently today from a woman who lost a child and the head cast made of the baby's hands and feet really, and she said that it was something that has very much helped her crew and is it down yet? Yes, said it was a gift from the hospital while help them to their grief in the hospital said. You know you might not want it now, but we really encourage you to have the down and will pay for it, because you know you're sure. Now. You may really be happy that you have asked she said there absolutely right

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