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Over their evening. Some super crackers, which means business definition of terrorist violence, was sitting down at the death of ok, dangerous to Egypt and crackers. Rivals Spock Ray, you could sit somebody often they may go crazy on you and you that's right. I would like to just right off the bat say that in checks book driving their three kinds of drivers- ok about about this- there are good drivers, but give it me which are generally just capable, confident you make mistakes but you're just uncontrollably vehicle defensive driving. That's me there, drivers. That's me nervous drivers of Europe in a car with someone they just as if you'll confident by now notice is not me. That's the worst. It's scary! now is not the worst. Actually that's coming. Look about us. People who are just in their own, like I say they have their heads up their fannys

I say that a lot in traffic and get your head out your fanny right, so that counts is a bad. Burgess in your own world, basically, nine thinking that there are other people around there's still the second one, yeah yeah number two then the third is jerks. That's me and I think jerk. I think we can reach people in the first two categories with this red of this podcast yeah but you can't reach jerks. I don't know man, because I definitely consider myself a jerk and traffic yet reached jerks and- and this reached me in a loud voice. Well then you're, not a jerk, his Yorkshire, once you re like feel completely justified to like get up in front of someone and slammed on the brakes. If the as punishment that is a jerk

I wouldn't slay him on my breaks, that's stupid and juvenile. I would go around somebody who cut me off and may be cut them off, really, which would make me a jerk right. It makes you a dangerous driver. Ok I agree, and I realise that that being a dangerous drivers are really stupid, dumb thing to do and this article like I was already on the road. You me hate the way I drive a lot of time, man shortly as far as driving gutter, like a majority in the mindset The reading this article helped drive home even further. Like yes, is really stupid. The thing that that the light bulb that went on over. My head was like. If you drive aggressively it's bad enough right, it can be dangerous. It just takes a very stressful situation, makes it worse for yourself, hand everybody here, but then the one thing I hadn't concerned

As you might run a foul of somebody who is like a genuine psychopath yeah, There will run you off the road to kill you it actually weapon on you and try and shoot you right. There is a video of cell phone video of a guy who is driving and there's a guy right. Raging next summer, whatever in the guy was this filming em and in the film the guy pulls out a gun while and all of a sudden, a puff of gray smoke comes at the end of it that's being pointed at the guy shooting the video who's driving in I've been fired. Unless that gun just worked right, they cover the doktor and can, keep the guy who shot at the other dude. So you or know who you're going to run a foul of another was one thing I have considered. Now, I'm like! Oh yeah. I should probably add this to the pile of reasons why shouldn't drive like a jerk well and here's my heavy here, as I think that any of those three drivers I could describe can be, you can be

those given certain circumstances given their sure, but what I mean by jerks or people that had just out of the car there jerks personality wise, their jerks right investors who you are and that's not who you are thanks. Man as it were to put you on the spot, but you took the initiative about that. This is written by Jonathan Stricklin of text of who, ironically, does not have a driver's license. Now he doesn't driver, and I can tell the stricken wrote this kid he talks are. Early on about how dangerous and stressful driving is and how basically Ex consorted extrapolate you're a fool. If you drive a car, I pretty much yeah, that's why I doubt and dumb road rage over talking about here is it of a fairly recent provenance. It means it's kind of one of those like since cars have been around Europe even more reason than that. Just forests, as far as I can tell the trace the origin of the term back

Only nineteen, eighty eight, how we didn't really becoming nationally renowned thing until the ninety- and there is- is this idea that there is an epidemic of rogue reach going. I think a lot of people still suspect that there's plenty of road rage, but you don't hear the word like epidemic used any longer. Yes much, I think now everybody just cause driving yeah, but it's it's also concur Chile. Bound right does not like a strict definition of it. No, but you also, you can avert rage without having a car and the more and more, I looked into this more more. I realise that robbery does not you can't you sick shrapnel. On the other conditions, it is a very unique, very specific type of mental malady. Basically agreed. You know, like people behave in their car and we see this over and over when they talk the psychological experts or psychologists that it it's you behave in your car. Much did

like the things you would do in a car right, you would not think of doing like an elevator yellow card bestows on new sense of not invincibility there's a little bit. There's like you can see the other person, but there's a barrier between the person that gives you the confidence in the arrogance to be like here's, my middle finger, it where's like you, said if you are in a very good idea that you would not do the same thing I said for to get your head. Are your fan middle finger cry so they if that doesn't work for a certain sort of psychological aggressiveness rights, become ok It's also also when you're in a car you're, almost always plopped into a set of stressful circumstances. All this together leads to a the potential for road rage. To just kick

yeah. Well, there's someone and boy what a name Doktor Leon, James Studies, this a lot and he has even known as doktor driving, because he has been an expert witness to Congress on traffic psychology. That's all it takes to get a name. Might doktor driving a bet? You never get talk that with that vanity plate and after driving so arm. He believes in tend to agree with them that one of the big causes road rage. Is it too many? or traffic or whatever, but the way our culture views aggressive driving year. Any pointed out that children who see their parents are nice and sweet. Oxygen when they get in the car. They see them driving, aggressively and yelling things and saying things, and this brings kids up with this idea that wait a minute when I'm in this weird ten can on four wheels are when my parents are their personality. Changes gets a foot. The bird of people here and it's fine yelled

cream and cuts, would never do that in real life. But the children see this and then it becomes or if you just watch tv, your movies, you now aggressive driving, as is the norm. Yeah? Have you seen the transporter bullet yard fast and furious twelve or the best car chase ever please brothers, who that's a tough one, but no that's it. That's the one! That's tough, flew on fridge connection oh Ronan Kerr, asleep no better than the blues brothers, you kidding Berlin that there's a some great carcases. So so you got you have children seeing their parents acting hastily and aggressively in the car. Learning that right you have it he said fast, driving being glorified to a certain degree. Also it married with this idea

was around for a very long time. Our friends, Sigmund Freud, came up with this that, if you have some sort of base, emotion like anger, whatever it should be, it should be vented yeah and that's not the case there. Finding there's a sphere held catharsis theory that if you have that, basically as Well- you say that, like you, if you, if you're frustrated, shout and link bang on steering wheel and you'll get better and studies have found that no, actually you just practicing to be a better being aggressive in real life and that the supposedly the best way to do it is just room. Nay, diet is basically sulk until it goes They were ensure a couple of other thing come into play are especially here in the United States, a tendency to not back down, because that's cowardly, we're talking

and firm and a sense of justice is that's a big one for me well, plus also, all of that is the psychological. You can take it even further down to the neurological bile. Go levels where, when you are in a situation where you perceive that you are being encroached upon, are threatened or something like that you fight of flight, the syndrome is going to kick enter and you're going to react badly, you're going to have the opportunity to feel aggressive yeah, because again, your flight aspect is probably diminished because feel protected and separated from that driver by your car and their car. You like this is my area, so fight is probably going to be the one that kicks in the most right. And when that happens, anger kicks in and anger is this article puts his very seductive most

yeah that adrenaline it might. I feel good in the moment, but adrenaline you know is that it's a rush and yet it is seductive people they seek it out, but when it happens, it's not like that felt bad. No! You like, I feel, like a million bucks a month ago, tell my boss. What's what but the end, if your kind of getting that like this, this seems like something of a hodgepodge you're a kitchen sink of like pop psychology. It is very much, but I think one of the things that his kind have been pushed to the wayside is the idea that, road rage made up by the media or that it is just nothing but pipe psychology. It does appear to be a real thing it's very situational in context specific and yet because it isn't fully under all the mechanisms and processes does allow

room fur morning, talk, show host to to interview fraudulent experts on it and their that become factor theory or whatever. Yet my advice is to not watch those shows ever unless we're on it in two. If you need proof, look around driving a big city one day and just do that for an hour break, and you will witness some kind of road rate. Was re. Read this article from like the late nineties by this I think, a sociologist you something you like This is completely fabricated, grow rage, epidemic, road rage itself doesn't exist, fired by the sky and the person who interviewed the guy went about just totally dissembling his argument here, the guy he was like strictly didn't drive

Retrain, admittedly, never never experience them road. Raider wondered what it must be like, or what people are saying is low rate and he was too sure didn't exist for the dope. He did back it up a little bit with them police reports and all that stuff. But now brokerage defiling does exist. It happens so I think a break checkers before we go on because I'm getting excited and I need to combat, look, here's the thing save Money with Geico was almost better than playing pick up basketball, because there's always that guy who joins your game. He never passes the rock he constantly bricks theories and who completely you and then put his hands up and say no foul, no foul with Geico, it's easy to switch save on car insurance, no the vacant fake, an ankle sprain because you're absolutely exhausted, so

which in save with Geiger it's almost better than sport, I feel calm good, which talk about a little bit about what just what goes on in a typical incident which you're looking at is used in almost always an escalation, a trigger an escalation and aggressive action right. One person that some someone else does something back like a punishment and it escalates from their hopefully not too much, but, like you said it can lead to murder. Well, Yemen there's this there's a guy out there, whose called the road rage killer has apparently kill how else pull people, including this

a Timothy Davison who was who was chased for fifteen miles in Maryland through Maryland and Pennsylvania crazy before the road rage, killer, forced him off the road And got out and shot him to death it while he was in his car. This person probably thinks there making the roads safer place right. I think they're also disappear. Killer, who, as is an unusual Emma that do so Doktor James Doktor driving. Excuse me He identified a bunch of aspects of driving that that can contribute to the economic sense immobility, because Europe you're stuck there, you can't MIKE You know your home in your stressed out and got sick jogger something sure go pit the boxing bag, which has again been discovered, the heavy bag in when you're behind the wheel, the car. You can't do that stuff in right. You have a speed back

king in the driver's seat. Similarly, you're also feeling a set of constriction right like we are on the road to the open Rhone, it's a big road, but I mean really it's just several feet across yeah you gotta, stay on. Yeah. You have to stay on your box, then so that makes sense lack of or even if you are one of the good drivers like a mention in control of your vehicle, you cannot predict or have any control over the drivers around you or that's right or construction or whether or anything else that can add up to a cruddy commute right and what's more, you don't have the option: of just abandoning your car or in traffic. It's bad! So you're stuck! Oh, you can. If you're, Michael Douglas Info that right. But that's what made Agatha so radical, kicked off and establishes character. He just leaves is car near in traffic. You people don't do that with

contribute further to that lack of control, you're stuck there, whether you like it or not, unless you want to give up your car driver ballade people like the cars, the most expensive position, they own it so they're not going to abandon it. So that to me, though, of control. That is probably the most dumb weekend. Situation or aspect of of of driving that can lead to aggression and hostility and stress is like if you, if you need to be somewhere in you left in time, and you made sure that you got up early in you- got out there and everything's great on your end, but all right into traffic. You know you're going to be late. Well, this affair, yes, ass. With a start. This isn't it's just try miss everyone else in front of you that's right territory. Reality is a big one. Like I said earlier, this is our space and, if you for infringe upon that space, there's trouble

denial and loss of activities of pretty obvious one, because no one, it's never your fault were hate. You know that's how you the other jerk gets out. That's not true for me. I will then Kay said, do about had move or when that happens, was very quick to say, I'm sorry, what that I will be very mad if they they continue to yell at me, for MIKE I'm sorry about that. I was yes, my birthright and then there still yelling Oh yeah right then I don't like you have ever have the secondary apology or ignore it I think if they escalate yes, I like what you wanna put me in stocks and flog me right. I'm saying I'm sorry here then I do the same thing check like if I do something stupid like I most every time. A very sorry, throw the hand up sure Ngos are thinking about there

predictability. You never know what's gonna happen out there, so that can make it stressful if you're not confident yeah, especially if you're not confident measurements. Terrible way to drive and then ambiguity. I never really thought about that, but I'm stricken points out. There is no mutually agreed upon way to say you're, sorry about I was so the hand of a night the hand in. I think people are perceptive enough to tell when you're sarcastically waving When somebody wouldn't let you ain't, even though you had your blenkiron, that ILO you're, like I'm, forcing my way in front of you and then you given that sarcastic way like thanks, so my son, I'm in front of you, even if you don't want me to think people can distinguish between that wave. Unlike her sorry shoulders, hunched yeah, sorry kinder or the I appreciate it wave is great what you're up assure your waving you're turning about in your seat, maybe turn your Winchell Wipe resign and salute to the people

You can tell the difference here? You don't let let someone over I found more and more people are intentionally dont. Let people in its sums like omits matters. To jerk gonna get in there and people like what kind of psychopath we can have. Sociopath, also thing it is as a mother you gonna now let you want, but I'm not gonna do the roads are allows you, people like when I see somebody else do that I'm dislike I'll, be like you piece of garbage a person. And let the other person it, but then every once in a while in I'm really shocked and dismayed when this happens. Like somebody, we train to? Let go ahead of me in another gonna get in front of me and I like look down, and I didn't really but I've been accelerating here rather than just in the same spirit, I was before unconscious

like Hell, you're not going in front of me. So, unlike speeding up in its just such a horrible thing to do here when I realize it out of stock and let them go or wherever by Thomas Unconscious and have some people you can tell it is very much count Is there really are leaving the person in India, but I think sometimes it's also unconsciously people. Don't they don't want to be behind somebody yet also point out to you that you know you should let people over in safety to be nice. They afford, but here for it was that so funny that never get your aims it funny. I didn't see that movie. That's He'll turn new envisage that you can use that term if you'd seen the movie, but

times if someone has even out the Miss their turn and their blocking an entire row of traffic. That is trying to turn. Sometimes you describe like you, MR turn like take the right turn around right and start over right, like there's forty people behind you, yup that didn't miss their turn, the trying to take that right May and totally greed and those people who, like nope, yet tenders, gonna, sit here or blocking the boss and an intersection yeah. You just said everybody back a big fines in York City, not not only in its a free for all here and a lion. Anybody can pull into an intersection. Any time and block is much traffic. Is they want s partially the traffic planners or partially responsible for this check There are plenty of dumb lights out there in dumb interception system sure they need to be improved. But

rules are those ass. Is you just? U? Dont? Black Box, if everybody agrees not to block the box, then traffic actually move a lot faster for everybody else Actually take a step back. The real rule is don't enter an intersection if you cannot get completely through the intersection. Well, that's the thing: don't block the box here, but sometimes people think like a well. I think I see traffic moving, others go ahead, get out there than that light turns and then you're sitting in their like a jerk. What we need is driving cars. Do you think for us or people without their heads of their families are eight. So is it road rage? Is it aggressive driving it's hard to determine that because you ask a hundred people and you're gonna get a hundred different answers. Like some people say like now, drive and driving

forty and thirty is fine. That's not aggressive! Yet supposedly forty, seven percent of Americans consider driving ten miles an hour or, were over the speed limit to be a type of aggressive driving. That's for the primacy of wildly different opinions on what aggressive driving it right. So, but not only do you have different opinions on what aggressive driving is, if even if people all agree yeah like tailing, somebody is following way too closely. The as agreed, driving did it in pretty much. Everyone can agree on that. There is still no quantifiable. You say that? Is it like three feet? Is it a car length? Well now car lengths like there see their actual laws. That say the amount of Carling source must be behind someone. How many dwell depends on your state? What's Georgia, while having taken the driver, said thirty something years, but

If I remember like they teach you in drivers. Ed like two car links is safe in those unless it's raining and then you're supposed to increase it by one. But I mean there are rules this not just indeterminate people follow them, but like that's, where you'll get a ticket, if you rearing someone right once you rearing somebody big people very rarely get pulled over four. Just follow, notably of course not unless you're following a Coptic closely, so ok agreed like people, there's no real definition, necessarily robe rage. Other Stricklin points out that there is a lot of people say what would constitute aggressive driving is road rage right and he cannot sticks to the definition of road rages when aggressive driving triggers a situation where people are committing acts of violence it's one another, either using their cars or because cars are around their cars, yeah guess maybe,

there should be more than One interaction like one person, having someone off unlike flippin a bird, not nice, but I don't know that's road rage, but it then that person reacts to them back and you haven't said that situation on I'm trying to people road rage to me my definition of road rages when you are with us, set you off and you go with it even if you're not like. Even if the Person doesn't see you and you're not trying to get the person to see you, but like your pounding on you, hearing we'll because somebody cut you offer they didn't user blink they're sitting there in their cell phone at a green light, is bad and you'd you're. Just that moment of basically temporary insanity, tat candle you're. One off to me, it doesn't even have the necessarily overtly include two people can be one person being set off by the behaviour of another person yeah. That's me as wrote, rage

yeah I've, I've gotten much worse. I have to admit about em. You know when the light on screen that used to be just a polite. Let likes one does notice just a little bit the light screen, but now persons are invariably looking down at their phone and I don't just do a kind of deep anymore. I give him a hawk and the other day. Oh man, I had a lady sitting at the green light on her phone texting. I could see her heart good at her. She flips me off and continued to, like I'm gonna finish my tat, oh my god, they had to like channel every. Like you know, CAT Stephen Song on the planet tat. I had not go nuts yeah, because I found the tragedy or not figure out. I was so angry at the injustice of may I know I know its green here shut up, I'm gonna finish,

to explore. Similarly, all noticed people who are not quite there hostile but like your beat and the look and they'll, see like oh it's green and then there they start to do both. Right is still on their farm, but then they start dry felt like slow, going like a half a mile in our in it that much better than flipping you off the earning their continuing the text TAT lady knew where she stood? Maybe I should give credit for this. The inner self here the doktor driving he live, some he divides aggressor. Coming up in the three areas that I think you're, pretty emblematic of. What you see every day, others impatience and end in attentiveness which is sort of what our stock talking about earlier. Your rowan through signs your block in the box you're a near Sidney. Your cell phone, your speeding me, have you had up your fanny or your your other excuses, super late, I'm sorry! But

really late here. These are almost to two sides to opposite sides of the same coin. But they are. They constitute doktor driving the lowest level of aggressive driving, right or road rage, depending on your your definition right there, Finally, the little disconcerting that, after all these years, we still have a distinct definition for road rate and others a doktor driving at the vanguard of the security of this year are either escalates into number two, which is a power struggle, and this is big. You know there's a big deal. This is when you are. Flip in someone off their flippin. You off you ve told you when the down you're making that I contact did not recommend you make much more passiveaggressive. I never make the icon debt write to you.

Scratch decided to phase out your middle finger now do their utmost with anyone. The bird that's just like you never know who that person is like. I don't want to have someone run me off the road and drank he'll me basically right see there never even occur to me. I am a passiveaggressive southerner, that's right, probably why tailgating people cutting them off acts of retaliation, and basically he says that this is both an unhealthy mentality when you think that you're the target of someone else like that person is after me, which can be the case. My that happens to me. Not like anyone, who's driving slow in front of me in the fast lane, is purposefully not getting over. They don't you like, they have to end it. It does

After that I am behind them. They re just they don't have to do it. They don't care the there it's their right to be in the family, just as much as mine, even though their driving slower there is that one of the greatest chance. Here's my entire life is just feeling the lifeline. Yeah yeah, that's what you're big piece! You know Georgia. As the law? Now, where you can be fined for driving slow in the family there? We are. We actually talking about that. Another son, I think we're we were talking it up and we got some mail from people like that's ridiculous, dangerous law- and I know it's a great law yet response to all of them were get out of the left with the problem solved so that one's mine, where it's like, I have to remember the there's, nothing personal. Any rethink Isaac was my civic right to be in the fascinating to jerk. It has a to do with me. Your person doesn't know needs not only thing to do.

A day and a we. I was reading this thing and pacific standard. Did you read the article yeah? It's called the psychology and biology vibrate they are talking about how it potentially one of the things that people with rage have is called intermittent explosive disorder, where you basically disproportionately rage toward us. It was right yet it to any given stimulus, so they were saying like I got. The impression like is a bit of a stretch, their thing that people with. I e It doesn't necessarily mean that if you have a great you have I e right, saying that road, which could be a symptom of ideas, but the thing that I got that part of this energy. Intermittent explosive disorder. The thing that set out to me was hostile hostile attribution bias. Said seems to come up a lot and road rage yeah, and I think I guarantee you that's tied to narcissistic personality disorder or get it just sort of way.

And in hand the basically like there, the injury Threat is not an accident, it is purposeful and personal right. That's what I'm saying when somebody's driving fast in front of me me being a narcissist Apparently I have for you. I have to say like has whatever I can just go around and doesn't matter if they are like. I know who you are you. I know you're, not a Marty environment slow in front of a really changes, nothing now we're still going. Wendy eighty miles an hour down a highway in metal boxes, which means tasty first, no matter what yet Did he get up in front of him and then do the elder douse them with Euro? When shall I preferred now don't do that people do that before, like our, I guess I gotta turn my wipers for a second now idea. I've never taken. That is a hostile act, although people do a thing, I've seen people do that now, like some or cut you off they'll get in front on the highway

where there is little blow over the car in a high speed- and I know you mean children basically acting like children. I will I have gotten to the point. I've come way better Chuck. I really am have learned just keep my aggressive driving in check and just let it go. Let it go and like They'll be a spark there, but I'm gonna point where I can be like it. It doesn't matter go around em, but your lip right until it bleed yet fulfilled that work their way. All the way through, I see, come in the mornings you're dead lady, in the faith by if it's really bad. If somebody is clearly this being like an arrogant jerk like this, my fast lane to my taste, his pay, for this are to get around you and a real thing. I this thing now aware, as I am passing them pass through the slow

commonly inevitably safe, but I'll be like staring forward with this huge over by the likelihood is this, I'll. Tell you that at the end, but it works really great. That's it you're, pretty meteor feels more clever than like shooting someone, the Birgitta. Anyone could throw the milking shirt unless it gets. You know the middle finger, a problem, so the final bit, the final category is recklessness in road raging. That's when escalates too on violence like a news, my car's weapon or have eleven yeah in this same Pacific Standard article Bum reference to an article in the journal, sexy Sexy Journal accident analysis, prevention from habit found. Madame the presence of a gun increases row raging, aggressive driving behaviour like even if it, even if the person isn't pull it out

just knowing it engulf compartment via makes them more likely to be hostile. Yes, as there are more likely to make obtain gestures at motorists and follow aggressively behind the cars and they're saying, Does that mean that you have a gun? You are going to drive more aggressively. They can't say that, of course, or do you or are you if you're in of grass of driver you just more likely to be the same type of person have got right, exactly interesting studied for sure, and in that of that same guy? Actually, what's his name of this other dude Emil, Cockerell he's burka, Carro he's professor audibly car. He's a professor at you receive Chicago, and he makes a great point he his advises. Dont assume the other person is like you, yeah like they may be. Easy, don't assume they dont have a gun. Yeah, don't assume that their rational, unreasonable and that like it, can stop escalating at some

yeah. That's what I tell Emily all the time. I'm like. I trust you as it, but you don't you dont know if you flick someone off like that, may be it for you and that would really be upsetting. If I asked you to road rage, because you hung some crazy guy bird Cecily like this, I'm a senseless one of the more senseless waste the die, then you say yes, which number which leads to their which leads to preventing rage check which were gonna talk about right after this What are you know about your neighbors. What do they want? Who do they love? Are they good neighbours to you? Are you a good neighbour to them neighbours our people live close to each other, are able to talk with each other and be with each other, and that's what you and I

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Or a Josh with we rented a lot here today. I now, even though this does not help, but I do feel catharsis there boy peer this with our traffic broadcasts in its drive and goodness knows that making bubble the other brickbats. So I, how can you avoid road rage? Everyone makes mistakes behind the wheel you can. Actually. There was also a born here about these guys that came up with. Vehicle signalling system, yeah to say I'm sorry, it's not a bad idea now because horns depending on the horn in your car, it can aggressive itself, even when you do not mean that we are even a tap tap yeah. Worn, sounds like you yeah thanks

Bad idea to have a little light, the pops up. This is sorry and then, if it forgive you another one that pops out this is. I said I was sorry one last threats, but people. How to use a sarcastically yeah like cutting, went off inflaming on the brakes were flashing. I'm sorry you're someone will someone would use it like that. Three lights when this says I'm sorry to the said that you said I was sorry in three. This is your dead to make and then they would have one. This is I dont care, but then, like the to me, would be without you, knowing it only to say, you're dead, you go out of knowledge, killer rights. Everyone makes them our whole! I did read an article about ay. I think, afford executive who's in charge of the horn. Oh really trying to figure out how to make different types of horns it's like in Europe, apparently they have only their horns available. Two thousand just Europe. There was european nineteen ten pages

so what do you say that can become like that when you gotta bikers? I want this gonna horn yet or you comes equipped the horn that has different functions and capable of a different situation. That's a great idea like supposedly Tesla, has one that's like muted for use with pedestrians. He don't scare the did Dejesus out of them yet her, so there's other ones like a chirping one, that's possibly friendlier bright and then there's the year that say my truck airborne, which you can get it, but in your car that liquefied Syria year Canal yeah, my problem was with the original cars. Their horns are always lame. Oh yeah, the tiny, like that even much of the sound supposedly handy release the sonata and like it was a great car, but everybody hated the horn because they feel they found it to be to wimpy had degree release it with a better horn. I believe it do. You remember: did you watch a little more sunshine, nine oversight?

maybe there's a running gag that their older beat up. The double van has a horn that will go off occasionally just without, but it sounded exactly like my old be doubled. Had a horn that was like in an hour, and it would serve time whenever took a hard left turn. It would go off but it was allowed or dislike. It sounded like a dying person gasping for air travel, TAT Rail horn, yes, good movie should check them. Death rattle, look well that death rattle two and three and then little sunshine catch. You should check out pay it forward to see wage and stop saying opinion.

I have no desire. Are it so everyone makes mistakes back to that, but you can avoid this escalation in conflict. If a? U dont, you don't do that. I contact deal. They say, that's like just like a wild animal, though looking in the eyes near or wait up what they should do. Look at many eyes staring down, and now we get the pants. What am I if it's a rat sterical, but it's a sign of aggression, yell of someone you look, I'm hardly I that year on year, exactly rumble, keep control. However, that no brainer Someone is no brain over that's tough to do it is envisaged. Duration is especially if you're justice bells ringing like minded right like that person shouldn't get away with this.

Lady and run it means harder was, should not get it. We ve got away with it. Are they didn't have done surveys? Even they showed the drivers, don't think that their being, they think, being assertive and not aggressive, so the bay there can be a lot of mixed communication and your goal is to just I don't care what they're doing I'm not gonna match what they're doing right now. You're. It's also call being the bigger person yeah. You know this lead it. Let it go, don't let them make you hit the gas pedal to think about all the gas will save by not driving aggressively and in return, yeah stricken points out. That will see an unnatural to you even to just say you know what they're drive and like that. It's not my problem there. There are sad, angry person. Well, he also points out that they're, probably under much stress as you are,

maybe late because of apparently in follow up to two aggressive driving incidents in rural regions that incidents people free They say they were all they were under stress outside. Their car already work. She s lay stress that kind of stuff right. So When you carry that into the extraordinarily stressful, a national situation of driving a car, especially in traffic, the aid, can it can ask your desire to set up for it. So if you stepped back and think, maybe that persons having a rough time in their life, it will make it easier for you to let it go and vigour person yeah, it's a win win and we ve all been there, and I think you, you can admit like if you're having a great Dana billings coming up, Josh

you're, probably much more. Lay back behind the wheel, sir, you know, but if your super uptight about some, I think all of us fall into that trap. You know so so there are steps you can take to prevent falling into the trap. There's one in here that correct me up, but is totally true. Listening the relaxing music. I listened too easy listening music like basically radio the bottom me yeah in it, actually helps quite a bit here. He said Katrina breathing. I can't do that here I mean that's your board anytime. I tried it.

Focus on my breathing yeah you're either get it at your not right, so I've opted for relaxing music. Instead, he recommends to get enough sleep. I guess it makes sense. Here's one that you have to give you some plenty of time to where you're going church. Don't leave Laden expected just have a pleasurable ride right right. You just can't you think the worst expected yeah and if you show five minutes early, whatever that's fine people of punctual people. That's nice! Right! If you, if it's out of your hands, though, then you should They came and believe not, oh god. I need a cut through all this year, which is kind of like you may is rolling on the ground. Laughing right now, hearing me say that there is a link with the other airports. First,

We are fully two and a half hours before our flight yet and I have to drive like a maniac on the way to get there. Even if we have plenty of time he had dropped his flight, you gotta deadline autonomous that flight nope. I get it. I get super stress with the one I know have divided the because you don't know me, you gotta get the traffic map, but times it feels like. You can't leave early enough right. I've actually gotten a lot more relax I'll! Let you know think about you mean like this walking volume. For me right show me out and traffic. Yet he showed me out about like missing a flight knowledge stuff, so yeah have killed out tremendously, but I still do DR aggressively. Sometimes that's right. I'm a work in progress, to my friend that happens and we ve already talked about avoiding venting that can actually increase your sense of danger and frustration. Instead of coming you down,

you're in there screamin and yelling that that's really not alleviating anything. You know I do now I can tell you afterward. Whenever I do. I feel terrible about myself like I was asleep queens slipped echo. Now you look like Has anybody you saw you, let go and you feel like a jack as too. Don't you? Yes, I do that's what I say to myself so what's fuck a few statistics here, too close Shelly. I wait. There's factor driving this point out. One thing that I think is probably right, but that one of the best ways to deal with road reached prevent road rage is to teach little kid: from an early age. Oh yeah: how to drive safely how to avoid road rates that kind of stuff here an hour, we're going to safety city Jericho to save deserve your heard. That never heard of him

it has been like in Ohio thing, but the danger city. It was regrettable that those lessons Jennifer earlier safety City was the that that there were dangers there, but it was all a plastic miniature stuff so like there's, a jail our town, unlike what? What is it like? A tiny city with like streets and sidewalks, and all stuff and then buildings and alive, and then you're on your big wheel, riding around learning what traffic clause or like really so it's to teach kids how to drive yes, but so how to cross the street safely stuff. But you learn about the danger of walking out front of a car by being a car yourself in having won your peers, walk out in front of the invalid, Firstly, although time to try to run down within, you learn like notice, not cool, because they send you to jail, was at part of school,

I don't remember what it was us pretty young. I just remember my dad taking me to it being like a decent drive away from our home, so I'm not exactly sure where it was when I went to it. I just remember it was. I got to bring my big wheel and I thought it was pretty great. Its awesome, yeah yeah, it's funny to think about parents. Server is still happens today, but seems like in the seventies stuff. What has gone on in the car is like a man. Far from UR teaching experience, you were looking at, like old child safety, here. They looked like they were worse than nothing yet, but I think that this metal bar there were just cut you too fast. It enough. I mean like these. Things could have been sick liquor all rusty spring. Like pointed at your temple here, just bad news yeah, I got a

you know I mistakenly flew in on this last tour to Baltimore said Washington DC. So I had to take a cab. Was gonna take like a bus and a train that right now I'm running late? I need to get a cab. You got in a cab to go from Baltimore DC and it was the grumpy us all cabdriver of ever met my life in thousand mid seventies and immediately started honking at the cab in front of him in the airport guy away. They do that and do this. It was the perfect guy for what I needed cause. He drove like a bad at a Haiti's to get me they're on time, and it was. It was comical and scary and awesome I'll, give you see: Volor, yes, yeah people who don't put their civil and because in a cab it's like you should brain yeah I used and that where much in the back seat birket better about that, you need to hear I figure, like other set the scene for me right

Maybe so, but you make a flying over the sea and kick the person in the front seat to death here such as you take him to death. Can we thought that you dig out this cities that are the most courteous and least courteous yes, last year, Otto Vantage survey. They did one citizen only devoted two thousand fourteen, and this varies from a year, but in two thousand fourteen they listed used in Texas, There are only number to lease Courteous Baltimore DC in Boston, as least courteous, very and from two thousand nine, which was New York Dallas Detroit Manner The only hold over was Atlanta. In Minneapolis, which surprises me, yeah and then how the mighty have fallen. Baltimore

does a nine was the third most courteous into doesn't fourteen. It was the third least courteous out of like twenty five major cities. It makes me wonder what kind of study this is to be out, so they say they surveyed. Twenty five hundred drivers who drive and rush hour traffic at least three times a week and then ask them questions that attained, like aggressive driving in their driving courtesy, not terrible yeah. It's not, I mean, there's a phone survey, each participant spend about six minutes or whatever, but I mean it's about as legitimate as these can things get because yea to study of road rage, apparently no one sees about those actor driving me can even be serious in this cancer Doktor James well he's to be MR driving so deftly taking a little more He went back to school, most courteous cities that last year, where Portland is number one Pittsburgh

Saint Louis from Portland was often number one into those nine. Yes, where there are still people out. There has been my experience: Portland Pittsburgh, Saint Louis, San Francisco and Charlotte North Carolina. It's the most prettiest cities. So about that you got anything else there. I know one thing: I did see those surprised Strickland sites, a study that found that women and men are pretty close in aggressive driving, behaviors self reported aggressive driving in road rage. He experiences is like fifty four percent, a member forty four percent of women out a guess. The the disparity would have been a lot more but apparently were rage strikes both genders. Equally, I definitely see angry women out there. An angry did

both yet so a storage dude, few guys wanna, know even more about road rage. Take those words into the search bar has the force that common sense has had searched by simply listener mail, yeah, and if we didn't imparted settle down there is dangerous, yeah we're all gonna get by here. Everyone, get their online stresses that the brain of the road really monitor it and they didn't mean to you personally, so don't take it personally, Josh and Chuck and Jerry had seen her DR oh yeah. I've never seen Jerry driver. She, like an aggressive driver now carriages very safely. She takes crazy routes. Like I'll cut through this parking lot, because this lights thanks in over a year, but I said to me the commute rout she has just. She had mastered it for a much and he felt like it. I will do that too. Oh yeah me too.

I call this while signal from an approved a cool guy a radio astronomer Yeah right actually mean The field is radio transience. I e radio signals detected once and never again weight. Is this person going to debunk Thou Signora here now is actually nothing again, I felt like I had a right it about the well signal. I'm really glad I listen to the absurd. She almost didn't, because you guys really did a great job nicely bouncing science and speculation So thank you and when I get us in the future, we should refer people to your wonderful coverage of. Thank you. Gotta get a few more details on it. If you're interested, on the it might be real side of things is also worth mentioning that the big ear telescope used to look at two points on the sky, the same time separated by small distance like two separate pixels while signals detected one, but not the other, which is another get in should that it might indeed becoming from space on the it might be side. However, some recent,

that I do not actually showed that some unexplainable signals that we detected at a radio telescope in Australia turn out to be coming from microwave ovens at the telescope site. Man make signals, can sometimes interfere with radio telescopes in ways. We don't expect so hard to know something like that could have also produced a well signal it's hard to say either way I don't have a strong opinion. To be honest, I mainly steady things how fast radio bursts, but I just wanted to say a great job and thanks for making my job easier, rock on Thank you rock on, and that is from Emily Petrol or only from Portland. Thank you. We owe courteous driver, probably now living in Melbourne. I don't know about melbury driving, moving to the Netherlands in January. If I pass my phd defence in October man, good luck, Emily, wait! A girl, I hope, to see you in the Netherlands.

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