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we're just like maybe go play. Some word old buddy. It's not a good day actually in order, if I feel bad fall, the Wall Street does
who jumped out of the window at noon because the market rebounded and it came
higher at the end of the day. So now you know there's that he's like one,
jumped out of the window and then it's like man, you gotta, wait till the end of the day to kill yourself fellers. You never know what the markets gonna do manage.
Out the window and you like and then, as you falling down the building you looking in the windows of your building, then you seen the thing go up and you look all right, I'm rich, but that happened to down the stock markets and I think it's rebounded. They said it ended higher than which started in the day, which must be terrifying for people,
money careers. Think about this from our perspective as humans, but imagine how your money feels the stock market.
roller coaster for your money, near terrifying that shit is used.
your money in the union. Think about your money. Your money buys you food your
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What's going on disease? Mr ever I missed you owe you now, I'm making the most of my January yeah yeah yeah! I'm doing
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we take things off with the NFL sport so good. We totally forgot about the brain damage now this weekend had some absolutely crazy, NFL,
they offer games. I mean football hasn't seen anything. This exciting says that's Superbowl where the patriots accidentally took on it.
People team, your member, that you, both puppies, got blown out fifty to seventy and for all for games. This weekend,
you didn't stick around till the very end. You basically missed the entire thing.
There may have never been another play off. We can like the one that you saw this weekend. The Kansas City, juice and Buffalo bills cast off. One of those wildest weakens football of old time, with all four gains decided on the final play. The thieves and bill scored a combined twenty five point over the final two minutes of regulation, with the lead to do three times. Buffalo went ahead with thirteen seconds remaining after Josh Islands. Fourth touchdown passive, the game, all of them to Gabriel Davis, fundamental Bavaria, Spud Patrick Mahomet, led the chiefs down the field to set up a forty nine guard field, a goal to send the game into overtime, Kansas City, one, the coin toss and marched down field. The homes connected with Travis Kelsey to secure their spot in the F C championship game to the aims of pretty ass. He hasn't got.
Oh my god also going to see that this was a soul
It's a here. Someone say he caught it and it's not about omens cron. While for real guys that game it was incredible. It was incredible. The games where I was so empty. I have trouble going to bed after a huge problem. In fact, I think
when the NFL as a game like this on Sunday night like they, should think about us people who need to go to sleep. You know they should like, maybe always a New York CATS game afterwards, just to help you relax, you know
oh Anne, and you know what else they need to do and then I felt the need to get rid of the sudden death. Ok, but if one team scores, the other team should have a chance to rest
bond, we did this in such a long time ago. We show it's not fair, that what's rush donors watching
and if I play of game in overtime thinking, this is the most exciting part of the game. Oh, I hope it and soon Papa and also to base the possession of COIN flip who came up with this is not fair, its archaic. Instead of a coin, they should switch to Crypto yeah bottines get a bit
and then, which ever site can explain why it's not a scam, they get to go first, that's more fit. Although honestly, I think this game shouldn't have even gone into overtime. You're telling me that the bills defence couldn't have held on four thirteen seconds thirteen seconds. I've had that last longer than that, and yes, my guy, I have seen a doctor about it, and yet he does have some serious concerns, but that's not the point.
what I will say this, I think you can accomplish a lot in thirteen seconds. Thirteen seconds is a great amount of time at the right amount of time that you should try with your kid everyday. It's exactly the amount of time that
CDC as usual, wash our hands it's exactly they amount.
Time that you should spend before sending a tweet out like thinking about a two like can be surprised how much you can do and thirteen second story
I don't think I've ever changed my mind about something and thirteen seconds now. Could the corn the coin flip thing, I'm with you on now, you're rights does
belong in football does not belong if it could belong and other things like I did flip acquainted figure out which vaccines should take like heads. I do find
Oh tales, Adieu, Madonna. If the coin drops into this
I do, John Jay. How I got
eyes are, but it really going on in her room J J. I should maybe figure out a different system for doing stuff like that, her heart, this move onto a team, but hopefully has a better defence than the bills UK
For months now, tensions have been building on the border of Ukraine
as Russia has sent one hundred thousand troops to the region, and now it's looking like war could break out.
time with russian troops massing along Ukraine's northern southern and eastern borders. Europe,
teetering on the brink of war? U S! Officials ordering the evacuation of family members of? U S! Embassy staff in Ukraine. We oughta comes as tensions mountain region with some fearing a russian invasion could come at any time. Despite consistent denials by the Kremlin. Now the New York Times reporting, President Biden is weighing sending thousands of: U S: troops, warships and aircraft to Eastern Europe Secretary State, Antony blinking, reaffirming: U S, support for the ukrainian government if a single additional russian for
This goes into Ukraine in an aggressive way, as I said that would trigger a swift, a severe
Here and a united response from us and from Europe yeah, you heard the man, Russia better, not anti Ukraine in an aggressive way, but if the whole army just kind of chimneys Indo, though we can acute we'll, let that's life skills me skills me coming to the good
Coming to take up their books and not those are strong words from America Secretary of State, but if I may Ukrainian
probably going to hedge my bets. You know I'll look at what happened with Afghanistan and I'll book. My seats on that evacuation flight now, and this isn't just about Ukraine by the way many countries, many countries are worried about what this war could mean for the entire.
help even for the entire world could spiral out into a bigger, warlike world war. Three and personally, I think America's ready to fight Russia over Ukraine.
main America has been fighting brown people for so long, doesn't even remember how to fight white people. At least Ukraine Assent
Prepare, though nothing about war. These days, elements of surprise is gone and got a satellite
you- see them hundred thousand Russians actual border.
back in the old days. You could launch a surprise attack, but now you sent troops
the other border ways just tells everybody hey. The russian army is causing slowdowns on your route. So you probably one of
the freeway, the thing I don't get is why Russia, even once Ukraine so badly like what you want,
be seen on the map of Russia is just
Siberia, the Ukraine sized piece of land,
one guy living on it. You don't have to fight Ukraine just fight Dmitri
I know why Russians doing this
doing it because we're in between James Bonds. Right now I mean who's. Gonna, stop Russia, that's not for having one
british alcoholic guy, we gotta pick a bond gotta pick a bond,
never thought of that is being the region, but it sure we are bundle Sorbonne less. It's not that hard. We're gonna pick swine think it is hot. I mean that so many of them were yeah, but we cannot agree choices. You do now, but you could do it we putting me you could do. No, I couldn't yes, you could.
I don't like. I don't like vodka vacant thou its apart enacting, we're all you can do, and I saw that shimmy gaunt figure to launch it made on fake drinking vodka, because if you, when you drink
It's like a stool, you, tasted and then you like. I throw up shy. Little lsd.
You can be a dry bond but then replace it with LSD. Oh I like that, are clear agents. Thank you. Does you're welcome I'll. Take my lsd shaken workshop at all
Ok, let's move on from or a war that might never start to one that never ends the battle over Kovac vaccines.
After what shoes Sherman AMS, where asking whether exe?
these are good is literally the dumbest thing people can fight about, but they are fighting and yesterday thousands of people
held a rally in Washington DC to hear why
Maxine mandates are worse than Hitler.
In the nations capital Sunday, demonstrators gathered at the Lincoln Memorial, many voicing opposition to the cove and nineteen vaccine, others protesting vaccine mandates. Among the speakers, Robert Kennedy drew my son of the Maiden New York, Senator in Attorney General Robert F Kennedy or, worse as what I call turn cage totalitarianism. They are putting in place all of these technical technological mechanisms for control we ve never seen before, even in Germany you could cross out today. Switzerland can hide and an attic, like Anne Frank that yeah
the man is right. We could argue no one ever talks about how good and Frank
it's free room on board. All the time in the
well to write. Pretty should deal. If you ask me, I will say, though, crazy is relative, because
F K, maybe same wild shit about the Holocaust. But half the people he's talking to don't even believe the Holocaust happened, understanding alike and Frank
realize this guy was such a liberal began its like every
ITALY has that one loose cannon like just a total embarrassment every family has that, although I have to say, I don't think, there's one in my family, everyone is
pretty normal, not like one major embarrassment, so only God immediately
Smet, no am either one. No cod and
shut Hanks said: they're not put out that rap video at twelve is getting so good deleted,
Anyway, I'm I'm sorry, you found it out on tv desi. Are we on tv or at finally movie trailers to question ass, most of all the time to be honest, ardent? Finally, let's talk about movie trailers
thither free sampled at the theatre hands out so that, hopefully you by the whole movie, normally trailers
simple thing that we want and we move on with allies, but now some people are very upset about a trailer that promised more than it could deliver
or to fans of actress on a day Armas, have filed a federal class action, lawsuit against universal basic. The actress was not in the final cut of the movie yesterday, although she
appeared in the trailer pursued, accuses universal of engaging and deceptive marketing techniques. False advertisements on
enrichment and violating competition laws. This suit sinks to recover at least five million dollars Hell Year, give these people there five million dollars given to them. The ship drive me crazy man. Let me tell you something: this happens all the time and nobody does anything about. This
have trailers that have nothing to do with them. With his put things in and then I go there like, there's a better scene in the treaty for licorice pizza right, we're Bradley Cooper. Doing some comfort, smashing thing with a car windows got like a pair of squeeze, but that doesn't happen in the movie. Never happens the whole movie of waiting for never happened. I didn't set of the credits to see like it comes afterwards
nothing I mean seminal. Jackson came out and he recuperative one for the adventures, but otherwise nothing about the car windows, but the problem with movie trailers
they'll go too far in one direction or another data showing me the stuff. That's not in the movie on showing me the entire movie. First, they fell in love with deadly broke up.
and they re united on the Eiffel tower. That's the big fanatic. You never see it coming accept. We just showed you, so you will this summer, stop doing that. Pick my interest, that's it
say at the same time the five million dollars is a big penalty and let the movie studio should pay five million dollars for this. I think it would be enough to just give them a free popcorn at the next movie, but make it a large popcorn, because the lawyers they gonna take two thirds of its soft law works, but there should be some punishment for lying to your audience, about whose in your movie could just get away with that
no punishment than fine, but then I should get to do to make sure to stick around from extensive interview with the ghost of Princess Diana coming up. Next, I really have we're going to sue
movie trailers, for anything it should be for destroying our favorite childhood songs. They always linked put in some creep
slow down version of a kid song like you, yeah right, like they're, like
ring no rail sea, and my great thanks for ruining my favorite,
held her song of people dying in the plague destroyed it forever?
they're like from the creators of, saw it
shoulders and crazy.
Ah, but you better hope they don't reboot jaws it'll be like Bay, be shark doo doo doo
became very creepy when you sang slow right turn. That idea had rather idea they just like someone working through if someone was singing that it might in my house, yeah really like doo doo, Doo, Doo, doo doo as terrifying actually
yeah I got nightmares about. It could be the elastic bet you you should never my or when we come back we'll talk about what
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you, as you can see this thing about West ELM.
Has anybody seen the story so huge story that, like it has it blew up its with its stubborn tik tok, and then
it got bigger and it went from one from Tik Tok too, like tabloids and then from tabloids adventure like newspapers and, like you know the New York Times, everyone wrote about it.
the launch of the story is there's a woman on Tik Tok who posted a story about a bad day, tat she had with a guy named Caleb
then other Women'S- show that video and they thought she was talking about another Caleb, and then they were like I. Yet we met kingdom she'd like will not that came there, but they will have. But what is the who's this kingdom, and so it is a Caleb who apparently worked at West ELM the furniture place.
And then these women were not like gathers Caleb is a dick what he did, what
he took me on dates and then went on a bunch of dates with me?
and then coasted mean disappeared, and then why does
like one of the women of the animals like he also sent unsolicited Dick picks, and this became a
but it became huge online. Like I mean massive and
then what happened was like one
women's videos when really viral and she's she put up killops face and his name and everything so people tracked him down, found his workplace started, threatening like West ELM
about like furniture and should end him and they,
and then like he's too he's gone now. The guys are basically have to go deep under cover he's gone. Is a six foot for white boy named Caleb and he's got
and have to spend this became a huge storyline because people an idea he got what he deserved. You know this is terrible what he did
the judge, women and and would have- and I was going of watching
story of all over the weekend? I you know I was what was going through. My first was thinking like
It's amazing. How much coverage he got from ghosting didn't do anything like super bad from what the people are saying.
The answer to this is unsolicited. Depicts will talk about always that's bad, but I'm thinking he just boasted.
Then the guy's viral on every newspaper in the country and all I kept thinking, was the weakest in check
they should go someone.
I've seen them get this much coverage use like ghosts too few p,
blonde and all of a sudden everyone's gonna be talking about you, but it was wise to me. The like this thing became such a big story, considering it was like a
the dates and a private homes, and only two billion shows among blaming women who went on dates for anything. It's like a commentary on the culture that we live in German, but I I felt like seventy thousand
we present. As going have, we lost the ability to go on bad dates them all a thing anymore, because I don't like, if you, if you have a bad date, you're allowed to feel upset about it and you should be able to talk about it.
I mean you, you and you should be able to roast like if you went on a day when the ship, I wrote him all you want it like that in the constitution. I think the whole point of dating is that you can talk shit about bad dates like that's, why you go and dates as you want to get those stories about. How should the dates were? Otherwise, what the point of dating back trying to find love, that's boring,
you don't love is like what you want at the end, but you want the bed date stories along the way. That's why you're dating otherwise. You just do an arranged marriage, but you just go straight in no stories. You I'm saying, but now like what moves, which mean that the story is
these people are sharing stories that I personally felt you share with your friends.
I've been other them or social media clinic authors. What happened to me personally in my life and
social media jumped from because the algorithm takes the story, which is like a funny story, because
I should also include the woman
who had like one of the most vital video she came out of doors and she's like oh, I didn't want Caleb to get death threats. I thought I was telling a funny story to people on Tik Tok which she was, but then
The algorithm goes like conflict, you know, sector, conflict monster and then put it out to the world, and then the world was like. We don't see anything funny, Caleb must die they'll at whist, ELM Caleb must die, and I love that there was this thing tabloids. Everyone was at West, ELM came up west out, Caleb everyone,
which a shitty in my opinion, I do not know West ELM came up. I have no affiliation with West ELM Caleb. I do not care for him, he some random six for white boy. I don't care, but maybe that's part of the reasons for
able to dump going straight white guys where people are like a kid aim, but I still go here,
human being we haven't heard his side of the story and people can just shut on it, and I don't think it's fair. I genuinely don't think it's fair that like like
in mobs, just jump on you like this and then your job they should went to job modular, your boss is there. I got good sense,
quarter you now, but the streets to sing your boy. No one deserves that's an West ELM doesn't deserve this. Poor people are trying to sell furniture, nothing. They phones are running off the hook. They must it be like. Oh shit, bands are working, they pick up. The votes were no. No. I won't forward your bomb to came a thank you and it's like
This new story for me was like the perfect encapsulation of all the things that are great about social media, but then also are the downsides or social media, and part of it was a lot of the language. The people
using because they were saying what Caleb does because apparently he
and some of the women the same play list that he sent the other women, but he called them different names, and so they were like. Oh he's, gas lighting. Us, as I know
That's just recycling game. You know I mean that that most people
have limited game. I dont know why everyone thinks they fancy most people, everything you think. That's unique about a person they ve done
everybody else that they ve meant well? Is it just
Are you yeah? You ve done this many times. There's nothing spontaneous
but anybody they ve done all this shit that you ve met them doing every sexual puss
every everything. Do you mean been on gas lighting you and then there was saying he's: love bombing
which, if I understand correctly means he was he like just piled on sick at the beginning
just disappeared afterwards, reviews I, like you, I like you, I like you texting texting takes it then he disappeared and they were like. That's love bombing and here's the thing I'm glad the people are going to therapy. I'm gonna therapy Evans going through, but we should be careful to bring the therapy speak into life because we are not therapists
You know I mean I don't like this is love bombing. I think this is human nature. We get obsessed with a thing when its new, we love using it, and that's it. When I was young mumbled me, five truck drove the shit out of the fire truck. The whole house was burning for we,
and then I didn't do the five truck my mom didn't come and be like you're, not bombing them five drunk she's. Just like you, you got bored, the thing is not what you know domain and then the like. This is abuse is a form of abuse,
look man. I take abuse ready seriously. I think we all should you know, but I dont think all rejection is abuse. Life is about getting rejected unfortunate.
For everyone to get a yes, someone had to get to know every one of us here, the fact that you are
relationship with someone is because other people rejected them or rejected you. That's the only reason we get their life is about rejection. People have a right to reject it shit, but they have a right to reject. You, you know
all of these things like people? It's like now we're living in older people. I got no, I
I don't have a righteous, not feel good. No, that's and I don't want you ve not feel good, but people have a right to reject you. In fact, ghosting is not as bad as people think, because the prisoners sending you a message by not sending you a message
in army, like I've, never been posted and be light. But how do you feel about me? That's what did they telling you the telling you
look- I don't know how they feel about. Then you know. Haven't you not. I mean. Don't people who don't understand ghosting is those automatic services that takes you ve been they say, reply stop if you
want to stop getting these messages. Please reply, stop you know, so I don't know. I think it was unfair for West ELM Caleb because look.
I get what they want is doing just telling a funny story on life. I don't think so,
including his face. I don't think she should have included his name. You can tell the story
just as funny, without telling you can, you can call colon furniture boy and that's a great name, furniture boy great,
I think our society is where we need a calm down with just being these like
no, you don't even like detectives, we just jump into viral mobs. We don't know the people, we don't know the full story.
All we know is that strangers are having drama and then before you know it would you
decide to insert ourselves- and I always think twice,
before you in short yourself in any drama like this, ask yourself. If that's what you
would want strange, is doing to you just ask yourself that question has just my opinion on it. You know and then please I know people I'm not talking about the Dick picks just to be clear. I am not including that unsolicited dick pics on never, ok, never, ok, depicts in general people aren't why anyone is sending depicts. Did they not cool German like have you ever seen a statue of David, even their Michelangelo's,
giant statue Dick now, if you don't just don't this thing now, Dixon, like than a cool neurons days of a made better by an unexpected dick pick, you know no one's ever logos really depressed potential. Berries, Dick and I thought you know everything's gonna be ok like if someone wants to see a dick.
She will ask you for a picture or shall watch euphoria, Dick, a minute Demetrio, which is great, don't send your dick to anyone.
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hello, I'm many driver and, oh my poor, cost many questions. I asked trailblazers across different disciplines. The same seven questions, questions about the inflection points in my life, what they like least about and so
and what relationship has defined love for them? This season, I'm coming back with new trailblazers like blondie vocalist, Debbie Harry Journey
and television housed, Jeremy Clocks, editor in chief,
Install magazine, Laura Browned and creative juggernaut. Goldie join me as well.
Continue this exploration on season to have many questions on the island,
Radio that apple plug costs for wherever you get your favorite put costs welcome back so that they show my guest tonight is mindfulness experts. J shitty he's here to talk about his new partnership with the Mediterranean.
Calm, J, shady welcome to the driver me many people see your face and I got it. I know this guy known from Instagram, maybe you nine, I know from having conversation with opera with Ellen all you. You very quickly have become the face of a mean com for many people. You know and end- and you ve talked about thinking like a monk, your new times best selling book. So I wanted to know this number one. What does a monk think like? I know it's an old book? What is a monk think like and sick?
Lee, when was the last time you got angry. So one of the first things that I realise, when I trained to become a monk, is that monks are very normal that we're all
more people. They come from normal backgrounds. They were born. Monks, like you, don't come out of the womb as a month and so a big part of that
was learning new mindset, so we run a seventy
our train journey from the north of India,
south. Ok, guys a monkey don't travel in first class. You don't trouble.
An economy. You travel in the lower class possible
we're on the train we'd. Why? Because you are trying to have as least attachment to your surround,
wind and race least his eyes. Now I stop at the different stops. I get off
edit. I get back on the train and my teacher notices that and he says to me why.
Why you know meditating on the train and he said well. I said it so hectic on the train, but this stop is peaceful, so I get
They stop. I do my meditation, I go about get back on and he said: do you think life is peaceful like this stop or is it difficult like the train
I'm I'm I'm like my first week of monk training right now, and I said I think it's difficult like the train, he said. Well, that's where you practice how to meditate. Wasn't that our monks think money
think how can we be in the chaos? Ok in the clutter, ok, but still look for stillness in that time. Saunas. Last time you got angry.
Lost my by angry would have to be probably like a month ago we angry about. I was angry besetting the Christmas gift. I want
The opposite has thoroughly. We would your monk teachers have about ballads. I'd be very, very disappointing. Ok, you're! Ok, ok! So this is an interesting life that you live J because I mean he decided. You know what I'm not gonna go straight into business. I'm gonna go to to the world of being a monk. What's stopping you from continuing the monk life here, you don't like
most monks go like I dont want for anything. I don't need anything, no attachment and that's it with. It feels like you,
mobs or even monk. But then
I also don't mind boggling, so most of my
friends is still monks and a lot of them have continued to be lifelong monks. And for me it was a pup.
Is the way we were trained was that the greatest gift or the greatest focus of a human is, how can I say,
others all. How can I best help others and serve others, and so when I
This doubt that I had with my teachers, they said to me:
we feel the same way. We feel that you'd better served if you would
one, I think, those a nice way of saying we get you out of here,
That seems like you. It's me: I got rid of Digital Gregor, but but they agreed with me,
and now, when I still going study with my teachers or I meet with them or travel with them, it's really beautiful
to see how they continued with that completely detached lifestyle.
But they're so kind and gracious with how they allow me to be my true self and
It is certain that way and I think that's what we're looking for work
king to be accepted, for who we truly I d, except ourselves, yes, but to use what we ve been given to serve and help others. Let's talk a little bit about the calm app, then I think we all want to be
a more present. We all want to be less shaken by the world every single day, and then you get apps on your phone, that
open you to disconnect from your phone and find the com it like that there is a
paradox in that. An u teaming up with calm now, two to two.
actually curate experiences around mindfulness is that in and of itself
paradox. Are we not living in a world where you should be going like? No phones, dumb, just gonna eat
You guys something that you can read once and then you gonna, not a meditates. It's a massive power to examine Trevor you're ready to come with me to India. Tomorrow, I'm going to pack up bags three months, not use our phones would do a little retreat together I mean I would do that
you little here didn't payment. I would add that would do all in my favor now, and so I understand that people can't just leave rights. They conscious stop everyone as bills to pay for their lives to lead everyone as
children are family whatever it may be. So I think we have to meet people where they are and to me, that's what the absolute
you meeting some where they are in a well that they understand in a world that bacon, contextual, lies and if we can create a platform whereby, for seven minutes a day you using your phone to investing yourself. Are you using your phone to take time for yourself, then I think that's a great star
and that's what it is one of the biggest misconception run meditation is, I think, the biggest misconception,
Adaptation is that you have to choose
What you're wearing you have to change
you sitting and that you have to silence the mind I didn't give it a try to quiet the mind, the trying to stop everything from happening and meditations, not about stopping it's about observing its about sitting with its
the standing. It's about being curious. You now live in that mean the hearts of capitalism. You know it's the exact opposite of what you did
for three years in India. You know this.
Neither is money to be made this a balance between giving a thing.
and getting a thing in return. I even think about this with like meditation I and therapy. Sometimes I go. It's amazing
the thing most people need the most is the thing that you have to pay for so like. How do you balance that
and under him, in a world where you trying to do for others, but then it seems like sometimes it can only be for something in exchange year, one of the biggest
that I've deafening tried to do in that's where the partnership com is also? Is we ve tried to provide these services scale,
So right now, if you sign up, you can sign up for forty two dollars for the whole year. Okay, so that's like three and a half dollars a month. Ok right, like that's the average to its fully accessible, we ve tried to make it as affordable and accessible for each and every human on the planet, because that's the true desire, but the way I grappled with that is, I really enjoy being in
battle and realizing how weak I am and seeing my ego arise. Seeing might
when the money come true and then having to process
and work on a rather than be
remove that. I believe on pure, so I'd rather be reminded,
floors and impurities and have to grapple with that on a daily basis. To make me hold onto higher ideals can be so far removed
then that I walk around feeling like have conquered my mind,
but in reality I haven't so I really enjoy. That. Paradox is quite the paradox. I control
for I was about this, but thank you so much adjoining the on the show and congratulations all of your success. Hopefully we will have
again when the midterms on and then we'll test all of these theories. I'd love to help a very compound. Thank you so much. I love that. Thank you. Thank you. Fish it'd be sure to check out
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