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How can I get to talk about your having a great day? How are you guys rather too much?
What's going on, so I would want
about by giving and it's kind of a good question.
I've gone over and my checking account several times in the past few months and it resulted in a total about a hundred dollars in overdraft thieves and that's not fine, but someone. I love you
Tell me the open and over black line of credit to reduce
the evil I go over. My checking account I wanted to call and ask if they so wish.
and now Benjamin thee.
That limit them. Let me phrase this answer this: when someone is selling you and set up for you fixing Benjamin your issue of not budgeting and live in below your means, less is going ahead and is create a cushion for you to keep falling on, which is open
aft protection and any no. I remember those younger days when it stated aim of the bank, but they have America in it and they would charge me fifty five, fifty dollars for overdraft fees, which was
Nicholas and we get. If set, we get upset with the bank. That's charging us the fees can, but why do we get more set with the bank when we should stop doing the thing that is causing us to go into overdrive? So Benjamin, what I would recommend to you to do is to know do not open and overdraft line of credit
They dig yourself deeper into a situation that you really don't want to get into an instead step back and is really get a detail: budget
tell yourself it's time for you to have discipline and it's time for you to do
things and have discipline when you ought to have disciplines. You could do two things. You
to do when you want to do it, but you can't really get to where you want to go because
really to say you know what I have a problem. I stop. I need you re reset my situation. We need to have a budget and I need to tell myself now Benjamin. Why have you and you set it at the start of uncle? Why have you overdraft it a few times? At least
less romance. You know really small poaching cage
Nothing really major add, and I ask you now: I didn't ask you what they were I to sit wire. Why is this happening? Well, it honestly probably cause I'm not taking you mind budget agreed.
budget, but there have been times I've made purchases that United really think about. I just wanted something I bought it. You know,
I know that's why I need to stop an happen
much read aloud you worried about it, but I know it's a bad habit
that's a very good point. You know we're not picking on
That's what I have just told you, you got it
the issue. You dont need an overdraft line of credit. You need discipline and unique
be checking your budget. When you see that thing that you want you better go, is it in my budget? I gotta tell you that's why?
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Another reason why he kept going over is because he d have a deep enough. Why? What do I mean to our sense of the net shifted my perspective about two weeks ago and I sit down and talk with them
He sees you see, son went when your. Why doesn't make you cried? The price of commitment will make you cry, and so I feel as if, when your wise, not deep enough is hard to say no to yourself is hard to follow
Baby steps is hard to see to the budget because your wise not motivating unity to live blow. Your me, your wise. It is not motivate you to say no, and so I would encourage not just as this young man but everyone for us getting cut off my laptop their island. I would encourage everyone to really spent some time, especially this month, going into twenty twenty one developing a. Why that, when something Tipp shoe to go above your budget, some something tempt you to go by
into debt is easy to say no because your wife, so data, I think, that's, absolutely grow it did that point. We ve heard Dave said a million times on the stage.
the show it to a me. You gotta get sick and tired of being sick and tired
That's what you're saying there you get to that point. We all get tempted you and I both our budge. We see something and we ok boy. I really want that. A key and technically do that:
but when we make that decision, what we're doing is were worried me
to ourselves that we don't want debt freedom bad enough just yet because were willing to delay or
to not form that habit in a pure fashion
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back to the phones we go. Rachel is on the line in Miami Florida Rachel. How can we help.
I can and Anthony I'll call him up.
I got your point or on where I should go next up.
baby sat I've been watching you two per short time during call me because I had lost my job and I won't be going back until next March. I'm looking at fell based on that. I cannot. I cleaned up. I removed not alone bad and basically, what I am left with is currently
the eight thousand dollars in student mon that hurts, but I'm trying to get my steps in order to survive. You know now during my unemployment of uncovering expenses, and once I got a job I could be set on the right track. Awesome
son of a Rachel? How much do you-
any income coming in at all. I know-
I'm getting about
say:
eight hundred a month. Eight hundred armed unemployment, unemployment, ok, cool
and outside
You still allows you have any other debt.
They had paid at all or following disagree with old, watching on you to look at the whole crew ago. Your love, how much money can you haven't you savings right now?
right. Now I have fifteen hundred culprits so
How much do Rachel? I don't you worry about suitable, is right now I need you to
focus on surviving a mean getting
through these next few months. Until you can get your job back and get a good neighbour,
come again
so I love the energy and the passion behind getting out of debt. But right now
did you go to make sure that you cover the four walls and we teach this here at ramps, solutions that cover you
transportation housing?
and electricity. You know you, you're utilities cover those four things you will be good there,
and got a head start: stockpiling cash as well. So we can take all that within a hundred dollars and half witted hours left over to sit that to decide
sure just in case something does come up you have it
the cash there. But what you get
sure job back a
your income coming back in danger,
I want you to attack that using the death snowball method, but our highly recommend? Is
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Some issues Agus some extra income coming in and that is
dinner hour, odyssey start doing right now. Rachel is looking into ways. Maybe I can help you out with this, but how can we get some side? Income coming?
that way. You can guess more incoming eat your shovel, bigger Rachel. Are you first
and then and then you're coming back in March, at what you mean by getting
I will make the
It is that I am basically fine, so I can't really go with any competition and there, sir, and I can really
He can't new clients I've taken on a few that I'm I know, I'm allowed, but its very restricted because of the highly restricted environment. Okay, what work was using? What were you may
in what is your salary, ah fifty six thousand.
here and what industry in Europe
Accounting tax, ok, my
only thing I'm gonna tell you, I got a nose was vices spot on, so you
hundred boxes really tight for
buddy, who fifty thousand and the only thing
we challenge you or is. I think that you could go out and deliver food you could there their health care support,
there's that they need to talk about a nurse or doc. I'm saying just somebody
in hospitals and clinics. Those jobs are booming right. I'm giving you a couple ideas. I
thinking in in Florida, knowing how the gutter gonna run descent
policies down there, the job
he's not very bad down there at all, and I would I would encourage you to
Yet, although these you could do that, have nothing to do with accounting, so you don't you're not in breach of your contract or non compete at all, but either you could make three times what you're making right now, just on the hustle factor and
do everything that ain't that he tell you do so actually make progress
a bit of progress.
I just don't think you should settle until March for eighty bucks and unemployment agreed
have a degree Rachel, I
you have our masters impacts. Okay, so takeaway taxes. Would you say:
pretty educated enough to maybe Tudor some teenagers and get them to high school, a reading math and into basic soften in high school every year
she greeted there that I hadn't thought up, so I will go to tutored icon to dot com.
And they are looking for tutors right now and they're, paying good money. Ok,
and so I was just on a local new say,
just give it some ideas and I think TAT S a good option for you to consider
so it doesn't conflict which occur it John, but you can make an extra effort
three hundred thousand what right there ain't! Listen! Here's
what were you gonna, say any folks that are in?
situation where you been followed or even laid off, and certainly unemployment benefits as a reason for those. But when you can step outside of of your unemployment situation in the benefits and ok, what could I do until I can return back to my specific field and Rachel's an example here where she's gonna be gainfully employed in can't nice can't do a competition situation such kind of stock, but she's not stuck financially or multiple thinks she can do and still make progress
and- and I think that that something that we ve gotta- think about a oh, but I think what happens to people as we go, get well we're in this line of work and whether its covert or something else for reason outside of their control economy may bad biz
this by company they get laid, offer furlough, Davos and they go. This is all I can do
and so we immediately go to that protection. Airy decision, which is
gonna, get nothing wrong with unemployment benefits. However, when you begin to look and see ok, what could I do out here?
and maybe I am work into jobs. Ok, not in my field and I'm not really proud of it. Sets of that I'd ever do full time, its short term and she's. Looking at four months, not even for months now less than four months before
She would get back and I just think that sometimes we have to swallow our pride a little bit and go. You know what I'm gonna get busy and I wanna keep moving forward and not accept this fact that well I've been pressed of kind of input in a press pause situation. May you know you right now? I think so get after
love the tutor com. Men is a lot of different. The he's out there, it ok by me when I hear people say I'm only making five hundred dollars a month of unemployment is you're only making that, because you choose to make that
so many different things out there that you can jump into from
who did outcome to over EAST, like you said to I'm even right now:
today sees you know how backed up you ps you
Ps Fed eggs in these they're looking for delay,
right now, Amazon, they're! Looking for them
right now. It may be seasonal, but they're paying twenty five thirty bus now is to get this package is out there. So, if you're willing to put in a work in the code
put some extra hours. May you can't make a living and again this estimate
down to your safety meter, but the health care support workers so you're talking about the non medical positions in
hospitals and clinics. There is a massive need right now in their pay, good money and they're just
for people who could serve a get the work, that's a lot of opportunities out their folks. Always be looking to try to stay afloat,
keep advancing on some level. If nothing else it you saving money, like you, recommended her really really good advice or I covered up
I'm looking around the lobby- another fabulous, come
we gotta get free journey to share with us in the form of a debt varies greatly
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well go back today. Bradley show good common area at the new meal we are taking. You through today were excited because, as I look across the lobby AOL, I see a shiny, happy couple David. Sarah are here on the debt free stage David and Sarah. Welcome. Thank you. Thank you. You
pretty half. We are really excited our bucket last year that GM free
may you holding a hare real, no seaside baby gulag owing to obey, that's funny man. So where you offer Anderson
Caroline Jackson South Carolina other how much
pay off. We paid off a hundred with twenty three thousand dollars in mortgage debt, and we also cashflow about thirty, five thousand and others.
in three years in eight months, landowners and although we got three years eight months five days so that a total of a hundred and twenty three thousand dollars. Now it's a hundred and twenty three plus the thirty five liquid twenty thousand hours in medical bills one year and then we had you know fifteen. We replace two roofs on two different houses, so
it would have been a journey, was almost a hundred and fifty thousand dollars
in a matter of three years, and I will call one fifty eight- is that the nuts
we want to cheer about today when we believe we can share at thy our you go with one. Fifty eight in three years, eight months, five days that I get that right,
I say so what was the beginning point? What happened three years, eight months in five days ago, when you said I were done with his debt, while it Polly silently bought her first house, we bought her house and we are like ok and David started.
He got about how much that we had and the like are. We need to actually get through this really fast. We don't want to do a fifteen year pay off plan. We need to figure out how to knock this thing out of love and how much money we are making throughout their typewritten, sir. We started at forty five and then we now are making about one fifty
Can you tell us about the year what happened while he's that when we say
he was the only one working than I got a job and three months into my job. They said you ve gotta, go into sales, and I said, don't put me in sales. Do anything else, but citizens had nope sales. It is
really yet so Mama's bring an ulcer commission right. What are you sullen slot machines? So,
This goes to show you everything we see everywhere. It's gotta salesperson behind it as unbelievable, why
ok, so and then now David? What do you do for him? So I work as a store manager retail. So I get my kid smile everyday far and my job that's fund. That is us. I should tell us how hard was it really?
this thing going or was it easy for you guys we both show motivated or what was it like for you. It was good, I think, those hard, because we were nearly done paying off her house in a higher and then he had a job transfer and we moved states and we had to get another mortgage and it was bigger than our first mortgage and we're like this is gonna take ever occur and I will say something discouraging, but one of the reasons that were so avid on why you should be dead free is that we were stolen, baby step, four, five and six during that time. But I lost a job due to lay off of the company that close on the retail division, and then I got another job and then cove it here and I lost my job again and so then I was able to get another job during that time, because we're budgeting and just following days plan the stress was not on what are we going to feed every day? It's what's the right job for me in so that journey span really exciting, but that was also a challenge during that time. You know I like that. I want to stay here for second, because
I want people to hear that because of the baby steps in the budget, discipline and the vision to be debt free, you had some major setback. Cells are major setbacks and end, even just the move, the transfer in some ways it. You know it's a form of a setback. It certainly a challenge, but you didn't go backwards. Norwegian, while how important is the vision to be able to stay with a pot back up like you did, I think, you're. Why is very important because they're so many times like this is just its taking forever, but ok, we ve gotta reason we ve got a plan. We can do this. I think you have. Why has much bigger than just like? I want to get rich guys like our. Why is we want to fund adoption for couples that can afford to one day? And you can't do that when you have house payment everything
maybe I'll talk among which love hearing the word. Why and why has to be bigger? What would you say was a key thing outside of your? Why what was a key practical thing that helped you to get out of tat? It would be doing the budget every month and how I told David this more times than he like that. I can s something popped up and we had that. We had an we overspent one care category we had to cut somewhere else has worked for not Congress. We can't live on whether we make we have to look at this to what we actually
make each one whose spender whose a nerd I am spender, I can send money again about debt scares me cause. I don't like the idea of owing somebody so before the first we'd Conniston Day, Ramsay six months prior to saving up for house and she didn't see me stressing out about death and then we had a mortgage, and I went razor thin on everything less. This talk about this
makers. I'm curious, how do you do twenty eight and I'm thirty? Why well over the youngsters are used
fill all over the world are a twenty eight euro in the thirty zero three years and nine months ago, said: hey we're going to pay off our mortgage. Yes, Bialik Crazy
knowledge is we're both the most extreme thing you did in this process. I mean we were driving pretty old cars for a long time. We finally upgraded this year, but my password tease me because I was making a good deal of money
was driving a ninety six Nissan Ultima. For a long time, many miles Ruth was only altered. Hero like two hundred
Oh that's. A browser steering went out for six months, but I didn't realize it cause. I had Sergio my wrist and I didn't realize that I had no power sharing for six months. You ve always use your Ruth ass a little by little weak. So I guess I got I gotta elsewhere, like that, I had a corn when safety first covered. I could take the key out of the ignition. While I was driving, it was
know what that mechanical problem is cause. I can barely spell mechanical
but it was such a trash car. I would do it as a joke. We'd be driving down. I pull the key out and my wife or looking
you're lucky every right now like? How is that even possible? But I appreciate driving the hoop D. I get that that's really really good who walk through who's. Your support group tell some of the folks at walk through this journey with you. We started with are small group at our church and how they got connected to sort of a shot. Patrick who kind of blood the class and engage with us and then it was interesting because, as we need coordinated now, five classes as well, so we ve been able to kind of walk couples through and then enable support group and, as you guys know, when you're teaching you gotta live it because people are gonna expected of you. So we ve had a lot of support, come from people who have in a walk through that journey with us. So s next, you guys are
a weird couple: where young couple dead free. No mortgage pay me I mean like West next for you to probably travelling somewhere. She looked at her with a heavy hidden YAP at one of the things I wanna do is I want you to Spain into the running the ball, so we're gonna, horror, gonna start travelling. Did you
you're looking at us see how you feel about that Sarah, with this kind of our money and looking down and making sure the licensing
is paid out. I was there, I was going to say you know what this is about life insurance may we need to get a lecture because they may not want to pay for a bone. Headed move swiftly, running with balls, fun, stuff, ass, a
his wife, those I gotta, try my future
I really like yours, I want you to do Roquat, give us twenty second motivational speech to people who are considering starting this journey together. What would you tell? I would say that you have no idea how much your life is. Gonna be transformed with good marriage before we did financial peace and then when we did it, we had an excellent marriage, because when you can talk about money and Oliver Dave says it's not you not time dollars and sensitive during the budget, you talk about what the values and important, and so when you're, getting on the same page with your spouse and you get your values and lie, and then you can think past Friday and begin to think about next month and next year and hydrogen live. It completely transforms your life and it gives you a piece like that. I went to preach. Option
and I was never stressed about the money peace? I was always stressed about? How do we want to make an impact with my work piece? You guys are going to make a great impact wow? What a story?
but Sarah from Anderson, South Carolina pay off a hundred fifty eight thousand and three years, eight months and five
Let's hear your devilry screen ready three two one
dad he's got that that post, scream adrenaline feels really really good, wanna great cowboy yo, and they really are very they're gonna, not just travel they're, going to help fund other companies to be able to bring children into their form. I dont know if anything more beautiful than now what a great story more. The Dave, Ramsay show continuing, don't move
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Tyler is on the line there Tyler. How can we help I gotta figure?
taken. My call, I think my question is more specifically for you can I am
I've had a hard time pretty much my entire life figuring out like what,
debates me or what could keep me motivated careers arm? I worked.
A number of different types of jobs and things like that. I've been relatively successful and am I we start that path off is like I dont like a rocket ship in the night
What did you find out? Ok, let's clause, let's pause right there, that's a really interesting statement. I want to dig into that. Take us in think of those
multiple times that you just articulated that you'll start off like a house of fire in any kind of fizzle out. What is
common denominator. What what what is happening? You recognizes a pattern. Each time you begin to lose the juice I feel like. I figured out the problem and once I figured out the
I have no interest in maintaining the solution. Ass, you
sir, are a fixture, a solver, not a maintainer administrator that true they'll be correct and one thing is: I I got during covert again
much pretty hard into the idea. Myers breaks personality type.
and I learned that I'm my personality, it is exactly fifty to a t how I was right, which is at its gnp and until I walk in work and finance,
currently, which can be very exciting and it can be very boring, but during coded I sort of lost all the.
in that connection, the interactions with people and falling problem.
That I did, I did I had prior and worth going to bury the tick. You notice
repeat process is over and over again and it should draining me I so here's the good,
I think this is a. I think this is a tweak and
a tweak in your focus so that you are in a job whether its finance or not, but where you are solving problems that real
fire you up on a consistent basis. So
the very nature of your work needs to be I'm onto on the
I've, got a slew of problems or challenges where I've gotta be the guy who identifies the issue comes
but the right solution
presents it and then I'm off to the next, and I think that you partnering with
a good team or another person who becomes that execution, part Eureka.
the creative problem, solver
and you need to have somebody who is essentially the admit,
straight of for lack of a better word
problem solver. They take the baton. For me. Does that sound right to you? You're? Ok, so I think it s a really great point and ivory.
We really had that, but will also isolated,
and each other now physical,
locked down, didn't you certain about I'm actually on the California. Ok, Dutch, though we ve, we ve, been locked.
for a number of a number of mine and then I'm in the office and a lot of people are not any out if I choose to come into the office, because that was my personality, and so I have those people were there
far removed from me and so this last month nine might have been an incredible shrug on its causing alarm. Ok,
one final thought so holler also hold on
Now, what we see is it's not just a work issue. This is a this, isn't it
personal issue for you, and it's really really difficult to be isolated. You. I would agree with that. So here's what
say number one, that's not abnormal! That is. We is
and beans, even extreme introvert long for connection relationship, we were created a most probably priest
hundred thousand messages on how God, Creed
to be relational, but whether were
introvert or extrovert doesn't matter. We need that connection, and so I don't want you to confuse the feelings and the frustration and all of the negative junk that you're feeling because of the lack of connection with not doing the work and so
think you know that the issue becomes, you need to be,
a situation and if its finding its that's fine orbits operations, that's fine, but you just need
in a position where, again, you are at a fast pace problem solved.
Role that allows you to interconnect with people now the cove at peace
You cannot control, especially when you live in California, where, let's just beyond the restrictions, are much tighter, so
as for a season. So some
this may not even be professional. This may
personally, you're gonna have to figure out. How do I get through this season or I'm gonna have to. We want
pack up and move somewhere where I can work around people
don't want you to overhaul eyes this, and I think you are in danger of doing that. Doesn't make sense. Yeah I mean
the big joke, like all over analyze, anything for five dollars you now. I had a sense of that. That's why set, and I want to free you, I personally a big time over analyzer. You know
Yo knows that I've taught Rubinstein over some that I just talked to him and you'll: go. Do relax come down
bought on this. I think this is just getting through this particular challenge. I would definitely focus on this particular challenge and look forward to the next season, but get through this way.
with all the right plan, a king gave it the right process due out. Deafening. Do that and I would Daphne sort listened again show more often as well. So that way you can stay true.
The play yeah inelastic, I'd, say on this and I think a lot of people out there that are feeling this. We have to separate. Ok, what is the
the negative, the tension that I'm feeling the the uncomfortable is, I'm not happy how much of it is the enterprise
oh he's not connecting with anybody versus
much of it is I'm bored, and I think that title
you're a person who needs to be challenged and you need to be
move on. You set it right out the gate, so this
is not something that you need all realize. It's in my position, that
I would say, seventy percent of my day or so
percent of my mother seventy percent of my year. I am focused on solving these type of problems that I get Joost about, so I've gotta be solving.
I've gotta be solving problems that matter to me and helping produce solutions that matter to me. That's it! That's the contract that I teach. I would take the correct
clarity, God it's a free resource, it can Coleman dot com and it's gonna walk you through a bunch
detailed questions that we don't have?
I'm doing this call and let's get,
The answers in, if you feel like you need a little bit more clarity. You can call me on the can combat show, but I think you ve got it and I think
you're in a situation we gotta go covert.
What covert is out of a mountain,
Officer, I'm the only one in the office officers. He said
nobody around me, I'm gonna, have to do some of the things to have that interconnectedness and thence
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