From the quarters of Ramsay Solutions broadcasting from the dollar car rental studios. That's that day, Ramsay Joe we're dead, his dog caches, gay and paid mortgage has taken the place of the W Ass, the status symbol of choice, and I ran through your hosting joining me this, our newly minted Remsen personality, Doktor, John Bologna. We call in doktor d He is a mental health Professional, I think they're, probably accurate, downloader crisis, counselling and- to answer your questions may be. You are pretty afraid,

now that wouldn't make you unusual today. Maybe your even beyond afraid, maybe you're over in the panicked or hysterical or whatever, and- and maybe you ve got some issues with just relationships right now in the middle of all the stuff, because there are so many people that the way they. The way the fear or the uncertainty in this situation manifests itself as they get mean and some of those are your relatives- are your friends and you're dealing with Maybe your ball shouted out. Maybe the English were stuff, so we're gonna. Take your calls about your life and your money and doktor D is here to help with the life side for sure No we're talking right before one on the air that John, that the one of the things that people can't stand- and you said you might have profound statement, things are people that human psyche has trouble Tolerating uncertainty, ambiguity and you were saying, like most mental health, falls in that category.

That's right, that's it we're going to steal the mental illness or so much mental health challenges in the dome sets this evening and other uncertainty in euros tomorrow. An attack was not knowing what to that there's. We don't need to predict the future in great detail for extended Brigida, but we need to have. Things that were everything's not moving. That is not an emotional or a circumstantial earthquake. Under our feet. That's right in were finding out. You may find it. We identities pegged into right, and so, if you're, a generous pegged into your sick figure job or your ebbs or yoga class or whatever that goes away, then all of a sudden everything's certain and everything's ambiguous, and so it's finding out where you're gonna repay your identity into its really disturbing via your yoga teacher.

Does not have inner peace, throw you out right now, as you could tell a gave me, I'm big on yoga yeah meteor huge on the other big yoga. I touch my tears of fourteen years ago now. Who's usually do not put my shoes yeah just finding ways to find certainty in ambiguity in this in in in each day. Right now, in each moment, right now, and I think when we were when rejoin can a common- and I did the message of hope last Thursday night a week ago, it's been now while thou fast. You know what we were saying that control the controllable, because that gives you a sense of power network and also it is all you can do anyway. You can only control you, you can only control your attitude, you can only control the money that you actually do. Have you can't control when we go back to work.

If I could. I would I can't control when the Irish goes away. If I could, I would, but apparently God has not given me the assignment of being God and so he's in charge, thanks and I can't control other people Make someone behave? I can't make crazy not be crazy. I can't like someone, who's being mean or nasty, not be mean or nasty. I can't control those things and bombing rendered all that in this beautiful isn't really. It is still not what today's gonna be and what your thoughts in your minds in your hearts can be one of the few things on earth. You can control. We told our kids when there are growing up. We didn't allow them to say he made me mad. You chose to be met. You chose to be met night, Hazel, jerk and enters injustice. You're gonna choose to hit back, tat may choose to jack him up, but but but he didn't

Make you doing you get you have control over your emotions, ears posted you have the right to its. What a few things you actually do have complete control over. You can just decide You can decide and you can and you can set him down right. You can take the historical stuff, the current stuff, the fear, the scare there would like I posted company down and let it go, I'm not gonna. That's not gonna define my day define everything were doing so tonight. Our message of hope Series continues with Doktor John Baloney, As I said last Thursday, Rachel crews and can coordinate did a message of hope that is still posted on our Facebook page. Can you can still watch and it was there job on. Thank you rather longs. Fifty two minutes, I think we're supposed to be shorter than that, but we didn't finish so we would endanger the day it was. I mean it's got millions and millions of millions of years or more.

I didn't Rachel, did requested an event, a message of hope that went out over all of our socialist well Chris Logan there Tuesday, night Christie right last night tonight is Doktor John Bologna and so are you a little nervous about that? I mean it's like one of your first big things as around you personally, like millions of people are going to see. This is at that freakin, you admiral, but No, the the video editing team is extraordinary you ve got a bunch of precursors down there. They ve taken a bunch of ink marks and they have created a good picture there.

Get. It looks good now these moments that you playing your whole life or rights. You find yourself in situations and you get the right man towards the right education in you, quietly impatiently. Putting your time you work in a sudden. This this moment happens in than your neighborhood says: hey, we need you to pick up a shovel come help, and so it's a neat moment were very proud of you to be part of the team and broaden. The message has got to put out tonight, so mental health and relational during times of crisis is what are we talking about tonight so be sure and watch the video on Johns Youtube and Facebook channels on my? U to invade, but generals you'll be to see it on all of them. All of our instagram everywhere were pushed in all of these message of hope across all our platforms, because her so much negative out there we're trying to at least put some clean water in the glass love it at least put some hopeful.

Going, and it's not based in Pollyanna. We're not saying if you just think positive it'll be ok, because it will be just because of that, but one hundred percent of the time that you think negative. It doesn't help the problem, that's right, and so at least looking at it positively in going ok. What what can? How could this work out? How can we get there? What are we gonna do? What moves of we gotta make one of the things we can control that we need to do, and people get a sense of power from that I get a sense of power from that when I'm cornered- and I see at least some steps I can take to get out of the corner that that that Paul sudden I've got energy again in its knowing that fear literally turns off the party, your brain, that makes good decisions, it just shuts it off right, Gus neurologically neural right so, a thousand years ago, if we lived in a cave and a tiger showed up I'm

over and over four tiger showed up we didn't want, are bringing Wanna go and set a nice tiger? You think we could pet that take it just hit. Iran man's would shut off the question asking for your brain into get out there, and so when a company like Ramsay circles up and says we're gonna put a plan out, they're gonna put some positivity out their organs say: you're right things are tough. We have some steps you can take. It lets that figure partly ring shut down. What's your critical thinking come back on line now you can go get em when you're panic, you never make good. And it's a neurological fact. That's an interesting points, biology, biology, Doktor, John Bologna, weathers this today and tonight on the message of hope Series we'll take your calls for And all your financial questions as well, the phone number AAA eight to five five, two to five triple eight eight to five: five: to do:

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involves US hours. We talk about your life and your money. This is the day. Ramsay show for being with us, baloney, is whether she is well answering your questions about. Stress and life and boundaries and relationships as we go through and enter your fragile questions, you'll be jumping into those questions lobby jumping into some of his mental health questions and messing up. The answer the phone number triple eight to five, five, two to five or starting with Cameroon in Kentucky. And welcome. The driver. Amnesia oh, they Bowman's grandma was up camera Can we all banks will take him? I saw.

Yesterday was actually my wife, and I was our third anniversary inside these played out the way we I use ago, when I spoke to you day, we would have an added babies have to buy now. So would be no lot of fire fighting over the past year to about what difficult marriage and looks like far family many before we were married, she want to be a stay home life, a mile which are supported by you, not gonna wanna be added their first or stone based on two on the war closer to below that when we started, but it's the comments from experience. Mental unemotional, hell shovels with my wife and my and our marriage. I m talking about well we're not wanted to sacrifice those parts of her and our marriage, because just how important so in your pocket here, you gotta start on that issue, the town to woman. She was too monetizing things out there and we will have a hard to be faster parity. You know them.

The waiting for all Jews, and we can t but she's afraid to leave our job right now. So you haven't, you don't have children at all. Motor Nokia idea, ok, and so why is it she wants to be at home So she wants to be at home. Dave see, shows called you before. We married she felt called to be a stay at home, mother wife and to work from home they were your home and make our own do. You know if the whole maybe raise kids and go to work from home like that outcome, we get that averse, kids, there get it all less when they're not just to be very blunt- and I'm not saying here that that you know somehow I'm not I'm not discount, the thing I'm just saying, I dont get it. If I cut as well. So what does she make?

that's the thing on her income as fluctuated throughout our marriage and started at like thirty two, then to drop down to part time and was only bringing home a baby for five hundred a month now she's up at thirty nine, forty okay, and what are you might make? Forty five You got your household income and have for her to be at home. Yes dear me sounds like something else is going on to us or somethin else. Besides, just this dream, she's had to stay at home. You should some about momentum. Often you release reopen how's that are being broken down by her working. I don't understand, normally doesn't draw your mental health in your relationships. Assure insurance, so she has to travel thirty minutes to work takes an hour for her to get home when she gets home. She literally has no energy to do anything. You know that a wife or-

A woman who takes cover has been or tax. However, house wants to do those things to do this. You know anybody do sees no suffered from the pressure or are you participating in that the run two I am as much as I can yes well to start with number one if the only way that she can be well and avoid depression is to be a home. There's, probably other mental health thanks Goin on ok, because work does not cause depression and being tired does not cause depression. Depression cause was being done. But it doesn't work. The other way round show I would want to dig into the route of which is what John was doing their of what's really going on and underneath, if I were in your I'll shoot for your own good, if your wife were ill in anyway and her bed

at home and working on have the income made or not be ill in a heartbeat, we'll figure it out you don't you work it out. This can be in that longer you baby chapters technological got household income and have your budgets can be a lot easier? below the household income average household income in America considerably on your income alone, she's gotta, get your option. And your career track, and what you can do to get your income up to offset that. But I don't want you to free these symptom. Ah, if there is real problems with your wife, I often tell folksteads That is the biggest challenge, and I get a new job. Is that you go with you, and so my concern here is that a change of location, a reduction in work or change and an x and why she just gonna, have the same hardens. Challenges at home in so until, like invective, said until you really

dress. What's goin on underneath. That's that that's can scan the volume and draw up like pop psychologist, cause it's really dangerous by the stuff that I've read indicates, and I don't know if it would apply there or not, but just as a general statement that on that inactivity is a gasoline on a far it hurts depression and other help. It that's right activity helps it right, even exercise, because it releases proteins endorsed and adrenaline in your body and genuinely help to fight it. That's right in what you mean you, working with with patients with true clinical depression? Now, its little winds right, don't say I want you today to get up and make shower linen bareback indirect about tomorrow yeah. It's always moving towards achieving goals, solving problems and being active and and really dont. If put too fine a point on it to work, club Patchy Claremont does at her talk on fear. She was

refer begins, homebound would, by the fear and sad opened the door loud there. You and she said God she should. I was lame, Abed, praying and ass a god. What do I need to do what they did? I'm tired of this and God told her. She said real clearly in my head, I heard from God make your bed and ensure that means I have to get out of it. It's it's a funny line and the way she delivers it, but it began her healing many many years ago and she had been homebound by fear and it was a big deals are huge thing that she had overcome, and I it's wonderful testimony, wonderful story, but that that one will establish what you said. I thought about that because always laughed she said I'm lay in a vanishes make your bad that mean together two things one I gotta get out of bed than I gotta, mainly because I can't make it while a man and so the others lost so activity in coming home to hide its weight, felt and me Logan

It just feels Cameron feels unwanted discount. What your wife's going through. I think the pain is real. The challenges now yield of yours real de everywhere, hates ninety minute commute That's all real, the other, side of it is, as you always want to be running toward something in working towards something not running away from something and stopping work too help with your mental health issues. I've never seen or heard of that being effective unless using an abusive situation or can can shift and pivot something else. Something to look at Alexis is Withers and Michigan. I elects a shower you are you? What are you doing better than? I deserve your question for doktor. Dear me, Now you know how I'm supposed to keep strengthen and peace. In my life in the season. Being among the two year old. I just found out two weeks ago that I'm pregnant again address

you're, not out of fear and anxiety, I'm unemployed and them. I am new to believing, in God S, China, like. They are, even though, in my trust him, it is very hard in the season of a large margin after a long area, our aid me I just and out and others obey their clothes. I can't get into an appointment, covert nineteen So who do you have in your life that you can lean on or talk to or tax star all are faced time with. Often we talk around here that your king, the people that you rely on in these moments, when you find yourself the water rising around your Thatcher at your human emergency fund. At your life emergency fund, you ever accrue that you can reach out to No doubt the latter,

Jerry, isn't gonna like the same another family firing on their own everybody will mean Michigan is like very toxic, illegally employed, hey. What are you hold? Our second we'll come back in his brain will. Keep talking you stick with this is that IRAN should give and working hard to get control of your money. But if you do this, one simple thing that we all do: you are literally at risk of being hacked and someone stealing what you ve worked so hard for. Do you ever use public wifi hacker,

Can you use a simple device to mimic wifi and with just a little bit of scales they can take over your financial life? That's why I trust cyber ghost VP and try it for free for seven days, protect up to seven internet devices and keep all of your internet connections secure, download cyber ghost Vps today from your appstore Dr John Deloney Ramsey Personality- would call him Dr Jones me the shower answering your questions with me: the phone number eight hundred and eighty eight eight hundred and twenty five five thousand two hundred and twenty five welcome to the show, working with Alexis in Michigan Elect what city or u N? In Michigan Battle, Creek Battle, Creek, ok down down South Michigan, then right, ok, cool! How do you Alexis.

You, twenty twenty in so here in your family- is located where in Florida in Florida, ok, but but they are cannot push you to the sad. You said before the break and show you ve got a baby on the way you got a two year old. You ve lost your job. You are a new person and your faith is that what you're told us yet? Ok and your twenty What were you doing? What was your job. Virginia Window manufacturing companies as the executive customer service you're, the wounded and they just like everyone off because of the growth of our shut down. Their company. Actually, it is down brought about a month before this happened and I'm just a little on the job. Now discovered night venuses super hard. What is what are the true? What brought you to battle creek.

So I actually just moved from Florida Me finding out, I was pregnant with me up here, because I didn't want to be a single mom and dad is English again, MR plug them saying there No, it's not what brought why why battle Creek Well, my my aunt phase out there They knew not where there are you There are no, I'm sure you I'm on the way here on the way I mean in Vienna right now: I shall you're going to show. You do have an ant there, then that is supportive. Yes, you know she's she's yonder, and so it came in order that godly What's the matter, I jobs are well,

well, there's two things that sound like they're in the crash. Three things are selling their ungracious mode. Dumay one is as quickly as you can an appointment with obey. Obviously, that's that's number one number, two, You need a job. And there are lots of people, hiring freshness, grocery stores, most. All of them were hiring right now: Amazon's herring for deliveries, peaches bit the delivery. Our note, you know the two euro. Why you're doing all that? I don't know what you are planning to do with a two year allow you're working anyway, you ve gotta work. That through and then I think, most importantly, what John was saying earlier: you ve gotta get Anderson Community shall immediately upon getting up there. I want you to find a really good church to plug into and get in touch with the pastor of that church. The counsellors at that church and let them know, situation, so they can come around you and walk with you through this time, unemployment and another baby on the way and huge time of transition. You just gotta- have some protection. We all do at differ.

Terms of our large, and this is the time or you need help. John. What am I missing? I think the most important thing Davy the snail that all those does, the big picture things I think you're gonna feel some control. If you can sit down with a piece, paper. Maybe when you stop to get some to eat this afternoon or this even and sit down the piece of paper and ride out your plan and, like Dave said you gotta, protect your kids, you ve got a protector relationships and if I was you

beyond the phone with the health services about Craig beyond the foam, local charging and plugged into meet somebody face to face and say what are your resources and plugged into a group? Does you can not do this by yourself? You're gonna you're gonna get when you got money shortage, you ve got relationship shortage, you ve, gotta, income shortage and so on are all of those resources, and the Good NEWS is this: if you plug into a decent church, they're gonna do a great job in loving you and are not perfect. Blame me imperfect people are all that are in churches and or know perfectly well. There are never met one there, but But but they will, they will try to help in some way and are you began to gather up not that you take advantage of them or something like that, but you just gotta. Some margin you ve got no everything's on

your edge with you. Every single thing is already read: you ve got to get some some margin, some room, some wriggle room in a couple of these categories that are just wherein you out the child care category, that of category the income category, the food and shelter categories? You got a lot of stuff on your right now and so so make sure You're, not just running from something that you are running to something and shall, if you need more help, you college bagging time get overall, anytime, open phones, a triple eight eight to five five, two to five. It occurs to me. I've never want someone be put in a hurry Leave are highly toxic situation, but There is at least some possibility. She might need to go back to her parents in Florida. Absolutely if there's any redeemable part of that relation,

up on. Others. La shame involved lot of condemnation and both, obviously some harsh words have been said. But if your best shot is your aunt, whose on drugs in a town you ve never been to it's, not a good shot, it's not a good shot. That's bothering me Is everything their strange? There's, no familiarity, there's no, nothing, and so on. The devil that you know might be better recommend folks, if you're, if there's physical harm, if someone's gonna get her of Latvia Dunkel back their nerve, it's because they,

she delivered by the rules under their house or they have some restriction on the car. You borrower things like that, and this is, I think, all of us heard or haven't, emit, look in the mirror and make some changes about how we operate, and the though I want two's are gonna have to be overshadowed by the half dozen Anita right now, you're, not a forty. Two year old, that's been living life along time, you're a twenty year old and that scare and may rise as basically a teenager, raisin too she beautiful babies anthrax. I thanks for the Calcutta. If we can help you back any time help be honoured to be in your corner and fight for you open phones, a triple eight, eight to five five to two five, seven years in Florida, I showed you I can do that. I raised Sonia Clear Ramsay. Thank you so much for taken my car. Our pleasure. How can we help? I have a few questions, but I want to try and make it as quickly as possible.

First of all, I want to say I've done a lot of dumb stupid things in my life I model usually only to get in line four hundred years on your box for over twenty years ago, and out back into my twenty eight you're all suddenly morning. I wish I had someone in my core them, like a cheer of eager to sake. You need to do they said now. I have your second bulk since I find upper class at my church. I mention these university and I just finish Europe up to days ago and I am so excited by likewise in it. I have a home that I bought in two thousand, War with my and then has finally been divorced. Ten years now I paid a hundred fifty four, the house. I a hundred and seventy two thousand are after in your book I learned a lot of things I wish I'd ready to earlier. I have a blog on those type which is I found out, is not good.

And I dont know if I should sell the house refinements, forget my ex husband name off it plus. I just got my job. I worked at a hotel here in China I don't have a job and I did a stupid thing again by taken out some money from my firewall carry because I was going to open a retail store for my gift basket business that I've been going from home. The good thing is then Terry and one any money so itself at the bank at an airship paid back. I was trying to put it back if you can- assuming you can get an income coming into were found on, wants you to use that money to up to avoid foreclosure of bankruptcy, not open a gift basket sure as far as the house, I think, let's get the other side of this career crisis that you ve got right now, you're, not having anything with no job, and so we ve gotta. You know you got look at yet, on the other side, a groan of our shut down, achieving it back over the hotel and get you know, get some Come coming again, didn't you tell me,

You owe me or on the house than its worth. How did you pull that off. I think it was in two thousand and eight when the boy out a lot of people. Those that their home modify the no one. Likewise, so you ve not been paid I belong to modify. Give added to the principal with modification. Your trouble refinancing it. If you owe more on the network, there's not a lending programme for that right now, child we'll be paying on that awhile. So, let's get your career going, get your income going to draw back on a budget which put that money, I can therefore one carry him began to chip away with the things you ve learned about. It should go through Financial Beach University. I think you're gonna be ok, but you didn't get back in them back on track, and I am sure that a relationship,

programme of the programmes you show drawn Bologna, Ramsay personality our latest to join. That team will be doing One of our message of hope Series tonight on mental in relation to health during a time of crisis, judge of hope, Series, Rachel, cruisers Monday night, Crusoe, going on Tuesday night risky right was denied not run. Lineage night can comment more night Monday night, his aunt, this coming but he only your last Thursday was me and Rachel and common and all These are posted on all of our websites on all of our Facebook and Youtube, and they're. All pretty amazing, so mother you can control during the pandemic is your inputs.

She put into your brain. Another computer saying is garbage and garbage out here, the shooting and watching over and over and over and over and over all day long than the typical feed of we're all gonna die of the crown of Irish and the economy is going to become the great depression. If you watch that when over again a normal human would eventually become terrified. Absolutely because of inputs and so they that's- why we're pulling out some other inputs out here and do not yes, there's real things out there there's real problems with the economy with the shut down and they get here. Every day, there are real problems with a virus and it gets worse every day discounting either one of those things. But when you are in a crisis factual, your friends Doktor John

is that right and you get to choose which do so. We can grow up in a ball and is keep absorbing this, this negative energy or can stand up and control with Control Mc Plan and they get after it. So we had several financial peace Vince, scheduled for the end of this month and in May on April, thirtieth were scheduled to be in Dallas. To do a thing a piece of aunt me and Anthony Yoni, Yum ham. California, crucial Anthony O Neill in Annapolis Custodian Anthony only all should cargo, Logan Anthony only are all in the month of May. In addition to that were scheduled to be an batten Rouge April, the twenty fifth about weeks away and do an all day long, financial peace, university event all in one day, locker cram course kind of a thing with Hogan in me and Anthony and Rachel All-

Of those are being postponed, the places that were holding them in every case for shutting down and, of course, some of those inside the month of April, and it appears right now the month of april- is shut down. Will she had exactly how this turns out, but all of those events are our postponed and what that means is, for instance, the away in Dallas on April, the thirtieth will be held October, the first and all of you that have tickets will be transferred doktor over the first perfect, the other events we do not yet have the dates for the postponement, but we will be holding them. In other words, we will be in Anaheim. We will be an ending up, as we will be in battle urged doing that event. We just don't know exactly where or win at this moment, but we don't want you guys to southern wonder if, with decent or stolen books, obviously were stopping ticket sales.

Until we have the new date and location. The one in Dallas does go on sale again today, October, the first foe and all your tickets are transferred, and so you know where I in every case we're going to honour our obligation to you by holding the event

and give you the arbitrary these are many of these are beyond our control were not up to us to cancel them in terms of weedin similar situation. We have the courage a few weeks ago, we didn't the crews provider had to step in and make that decision with us, and so that's what happened in these cases. The folks folks, a first bout establish, were rolling that rabbled already give us a contract and a new date, so we can announced that they will get these others lined up and get back to you, but I'm just be expecting emails and contacts for those of you that have tickets to those events, and we will be coming to that area and we will honour those tickets and move those tickets transfer those tickets in every case, and we will provide you an event as we promised we would. It just has to be in a different light,

having control over this love it and so on, and if you know, if somehow that's inconvenient or something with you, you talk to our folks but be nice to our people when you call him yelling and screaming at our people. I've already told our folks that if you're gonna be crazy, that word is not enough that that that doesn't earn you anything. We don't. You know we don't respond to yelling and screaming so you're, just gonna have to act like like an adult Malacca stuff, so you got some kind of legitimate problem. That's fine, we'll talk to you about it and they were not mean or mad and we're not ribbon people off or something like that were just trying to exist through this, like everybody else, so our moving,

events we're gonna come. I know that we're gonna be able to go on. Oh, the world has not ended and in other be the other side of this ban, and so we will be in your town if we promised we were, and there will be an Ramsay event for you to come to as we promised and if you want to come, you ve our we'd love to have you and that's the planet. So thank you. Thank you. Thank you for all understanding and for being kind. In your interactions with us right Blake is whether in Texas I Blake welcomed the diver amnesia How long were you did what my birthday right? How can we help subtle? I'm afraid I probably they may read a book. The indicator with my wife alone. We have two young children edge, and

about their showing you say about a year and a half energetically scattering wandered purchasing dirtier both on a Christmas. I should realise Uganda in which he aware, or would you know it is and now I don't think she's on the same page amused. China be ginger, yeah I'll entrench, show. Will you have ninety thousand dollar, ninety thousand three hundred and fifty eight thousand sharing five sunshine and its auto. It showed that the car? I gotta go into four, but I did Kirchner I'll shoot out to show each hour we had one. Am I just I do I gotta catch of future. So now we have five thousand dollar income driver mood, drugged only thousand not recur. Catherine does Eighty five thousand dollar, not I'm in your! How old,

I'm sure you Jennifer strange watched I'll I'll. Remember I do we no longer security earlier than the other Shore Coca COLA. Let me tell you wanna. Let me tell you when I did wrong when I was your age, because Turning to you you're, you shall like you. Like me once by and on something you bit all away into the apple. You don't do anything half way. You know wide open or not. And when you went wide open, you went straight to here's. What we're going to do? because you had already gotten why it's important, you didn't bother to shut down and talk to her about why this as you excited instead, you all excited and ran in and said, hey we're gonna get on a tight budget, live live like like we're broke and would also your car and that's it. Real exciting to people when you do that, so you totally screwed up, if you're like me on how you talk to her,

that's what I would have done anywhere. You did that, but you didn't talk about the. Why you talked about what and she don't wanna talk to you anymore. Did I miss something We know that now you know you don't you I wouldn't want to. Does it developed on their lay offs that you just turn laughed stop him. If I said you talk to her about what we're gonna do not wide but I do too. I do talk about the right Dave I do get excited. I do explained that I, like nice, things as well, but I do know we don't have to have everything right now and I just feel sometimes with Catherine in the way you think he's just because it is not good enough and we were doing good wealthy during astronomers on work in everyday life hasn't changed much I am not sure, were grounded on a good that the only change is that right.

I'm taking advantage of the scorching dates, retry offshore financial instrument mercy and I'm trying to get a kinder brought. You with me, I'm playing on the lad chop and you didn't you, ok I'll watch what you will and she let her cell phone, and I just do it so hard, and I listened to all your episode in so hard. As do I stop dreaming together, one under John. What should either only control himself, Dave and so number. And it tells me they ve got a communication issued its way bigger than financial peace gap, and so he needs to look as wife and hold her hands. Look, and I say I'm not connecting with this matters a lot to me and you, looking at him with my hurts, my for you, I'm gonna, guess, there's bigger conversations that you too have beyond financial peace will surround occupied for Roger Marriage, brother. Absolutely that puts us our that I ran to show in the books

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