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This is the jackal underground. Podcast were on number sixty two dozen number six
mason here with echo jars,
I was talking to a guy at camp, but pretty much been to been every camp that I think I've been to do to camp. This is by the way, origin emerging camp
and the good guy we ve, we ve, always hung out, and I've kind of
watched. His growth and journey for lack of a better word
over the past four years anyway. This time shows up the camp. We're talkin
and he's going to really are done like us,
pricing. You know the you just you see someone on a trajectory and you're watching their trajectory like all. This is a good directive year,
and then all of a sudden there is off that trajectory like it's like
The space shuttle colombia, like you, think, everything's going good nipple it just it just go sideways
So that's what's going on here is a former military guys been outlawed
terry for a pretty long time, but you know he said
it is own. Business needs, don't pretty well, but you know a lot of hard work like a tough business. A lot of hard work
kids, all mine yards everything's. I mean this is just the trajectory like, oh yeah, you're doing well, you ve caught up pivoted a little bit made some adjustments. You got to go
If you got a bunch of kids,
and if you were to ask me if you said hey, we know. Where do you think my life is right now I would have been like okay. Well, you probably expanded your business a little bit more. You probably know this, but it was like no
wife wants divorce like just just total change right to drastic change in direction in ITALY.
if so as we're talking through it, and we spent like an hour talking as
talking to it through it like at one point he's like you know I might have to sell the business. You know cause they built up this business and he might in order to settle with her. He might have to sell it just to sell the business,
and which to me was weird cause. If you sell the business
You have no more income
So it's not like.
you can sell any goes, no well eager,
probably have to sell the business, give her a big chunk of the pay out
and then I'll have,
work at home depot just to pay child support
and are normally do
I just can't figure out. You know he's a smart guy think about it, but I just can't figure out what to do and some sitting there listening, I'm thinking about it for awhile and do-
Finally, I said you know: I'm not smart, but I know what I would do
He was like well what I said. If I was in your situation, I know what I would do and he was like what I said. I would start walking music. You know what he meant. I said here. Let me explain
this is? What's going on with you right now, you just woke up like you
came to consciousness and you're gonna know where you are and you're in the middle. The woods.
and you're looking around ten years,
trees
and it's like thick
you can't even tell where the sun is right, but you you know you're in the woods. You don't know where to go, and so what I would do is. I would start walking
I would just pick pick like a direction and I would start walking and as I'm walking, I would eventually find a little terrain that is going downhill and I'd fall, that terrain, downhill and eventually I'd hit. A stream
and the stream would actually be a tributary into up
river and then from the river fall the river until I had a road and when I had a road events had the road to town somewhere in a things out right
figure out where I was and I'll be back.
I appeal to get food and I put everything together, but I said what you're doing.
And this is what, from this conversation, what you're doing here just standing there looking around
And you're trying to figure out where the town is
where civilization is
and you waiting trying.
Guess
looking around and look for clues, but within freaking closure in the middle. The woods there's no clues.
there's no clues bitterly you
have to go and find it civilization the town. The thing is not going to come to you, you have to start work
So that's what I would do and look there's a
obviously a hint of like
with decision making right.
You don't know where you are ya know what to do start moving in some direction and that'll give you see.
clues or some
the or some
immediate feedback about
where you are, and you can start assembling
a picture of what's happening. So I know
I'm not might not be the smartest person a world and you're smart.
but you're not can build it. Do anything without doing something
after walking, and then we are
back to this home depot peace- and I said, listen I've. If I was you sure I could get a job on people
and was again you know what
my job at home debo, my I'll would be the
again, squared away I'll it and after
but we can have it be the most squared away I'll in home depot
and I said in a few weeks the store manager would look at me and he was like hey. Can you run that these three isles they'd give me three files, and then they give me seven isles and then they give me twelve miles and then they give me the front of the store and then eventually they'd be like hey? Can you just run this store
cause I'd be bust. My ass and I've been making things happen. I be bone relationships of people and then
eventually they'd be like hey. We want you to run this district
with all the home depots in this district and then they go. We want you to take this region and eventually be like a. We want you to see you of all people and we're laugh and right,
I'm not that arrogant, but where I was making a point, but I too
this guy. Like look, you see work
at home depot,
punishment and
I see it as an opportunity as an opportunity and by the way,
people there. Thank you for the home depot millionaires right. The real thank all know what is
poor people millionaires like in the early days of home people you could take stock options, went home
Wasn't that big and a lot of
without work cashiers in reno.
cleaners in the aisles they took stock and you know now they're millionaires, but
that free framing or the way you look.
At things and.
seeing opportunities.
Instead of seeing punishments and instead of seeing down
turns in your life, seeing opportunities
you're just gonna, have such a much better impact on the way you you'd, where you get to cause.
You know, go into like the
Your jordan petersen talking about like aiming and gotta take aim right.
This is a version of that right,
when I get in there and I think pay homage to make this I'll look awesome law.
We'll look at what I'm aiming at aiming
in improve and get better and do a good job
If I go in there, this socks, what am I aiming at a maiming at the sucker?
Actually, where I'm gonna use
then we would we
you are often of driving
and when you're driving a car
if you start looking at like
if you gotta go between obstacles- and you start looking at one of those obstacles, you're going to hit that obstacle, that's there's like a tendency that you're going to hit the op's gonna, go where you're, what what you're looking at yeah
same thing with this. If you think this job is going to suck
what the job is actually going to suck now
and you're, not gonna. Do it well and you're, not gonna, get
promoted and you're, not gonna, give be given more responsibility. Now can be given any opportunities, so just
be careful that I've got a good lesson for everybody. This happens to me now
more got silky one hundred
Back in the day got silty and one that, like clean, toilets, I'm like cool
blunt lenny rock in rome, and do this really well? Do you think I want?
I clean toilets, of course not. But I was like okay, that's what we're doing. Let's do this at one of my friends out at a different team made like his web gear into like.
custodial attack mode. He put like a bed like a holster with cleaner than ones like a toilet brush and he's running around ready to respond and he's having fun with it, and he
He was just poking fun at it. It would happen,
Well, that might be a risky move. What he was doing it like. No, I'm ready to go lucky
actually was right up about itself embrace it. So that's what I'm saying if you're in
spot and you
know what to do
not sure where to go.
Don't know where the right direction is start
walking and started:
for opportunities and they'll show up that's my word of the day and which are also agreed that in some people talk, but
where it's like a he's far more ahead than it's, because it's not some people, they look at it as oh, my gosh I've gotta start all over whatever and a common that thing that I've heard is you're technically not starting all over, because
all of your past experience and knowledge or whatever so even wake up in the woods. Like that's perfect, such a purveyor watch the movie momentum. Yes, I did
my memory of it's kind of vague oddly enough right, yeah, yeah exactly so, and the way they present. That movie is like in backwards clip right, which is kind of part. They try to mimic his thought process in the way his brain works, because he doesn't have short term memory, so he'll just
sort of come to just like in the woods, whatever in something's, either going on or he's at a certain place, and he doesn't know how he got there. So he kind of refers to as too,
it for as like notes, so that's kind of like in your analogy where the tattoo
is your past experience and knowledge? You can look at them and whatever you don't have any assets, you don't have like.
everything that you lost is gone. It's gone
Alex, was more powerful exactly right. Only the knowledge in your head that you don't have like the business. You don't have. You know the access to all that. So that's gotten us like the guy's memories. You know
those are gone. He knows only what he can do moving forward and he can use all the knowledge that he has tattooed. So it's kind of the same deal in a way. That's when the thought struck me anyway, so yeah, it's kind of starting
a head. Oh deftly story had the of an starting with no baggage
Nobody's if another way to look at it age and kids and stuff like that, those are factors or whatever, but a man. That's a good, such a good way to
get it, where dot, when you say avoiding the need that
I think the thing where you're like yeah, what do you call it offensive offensive driving? Don't look at the obstacle yeah, so it's like you can't actively avoided schools, just don't look for. They also look for something else. Like look for how you see the opportunity- or you know
driving terrain. Have you heard me talk about that? You have to be driving you're like a box accident and to you and you just look.
Four drivable trade white work and I take this vehicle- were a mock him die.
that's a real positive thing, so that's not nothing. You start walking in the woods. You're looking for drive all terrain terrain, you're, looking for a way out of there, you don't know
it is, how can you tell in the middle the woods it feels like the challenge there? You have. Some mental discipline is too like avoid thinking about it,
things you lost the I like that. We don't want to focus on, in fact that's like,
and everything right. When something that happens like that snake, you could.
literally you just had at last week and now it's gone,
thank you so used to having something, and then it's gonna, say: brow,
Can you avoid thinking about all this stuff? You lost, you know, so I guess that would be one of the big challenges as well, but if he meant it is kind of the same,
I think don't focus on those obstacles or the bad part of whatever focus on the opportunity. How you say, that's good thing, choco, definitely
when we had Jim serves the on the pond gas to who was the vietnam guy. That was wounded, really bad law
both of his legs and lost one arm.
And his
just talk, and afterwards you know about how he had lived this incredible life. He done a bunch released.
about. How lived this incredible life know done a bunch real estate stuff, you roofing company, nine. How do you
go. You come home from vietnam
you go to nine months,
rehab learn how to use a wheelchair learn how to like survive without legs and war, and only having one arm and
get some of that and he just carried on with his life
you talk, we talked about louisbourg junior and they were in. We have at the same
louisbourg junior and they were in. We have at the same time
lewis puller and they were in rehab at the same time and lewis junior ended up killing himself
recently, but he lived up living incredible any
unfortunately died recently, but he lived a really incredible life. You know had
what the difference was and he was like he said that lose. So that is a little excerpt of what
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