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get ready to maximize your potential with optimal living daily to plant. Guess that brings you the best and personal development and productivity. Every day of the week, your optimum life away. Now here's your host just in Molly S, Goin labour devised, is optimal, living daily gas or blood chest. for audio blog or whatever you want a collar really also know. As the o, L De Podcast or the old par guest, makes you and all the men. I'm excited for today, because I avenue author to share with you and the post from call right, who is basically running his life as an experiment. If you dont know he is the very short version, the first parent if I was about age really, is that he's a professional? author and international speaker who found the publishing company and this is worse getting crazy. He also travels

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my first day of ultimate frisbie practice. There is a lot to be played, running to be done, stretch to be learned and idea so the ingrained on such idea. I still maintain until today, because I found it being credibly useful in nearly every situation, are thought to use it in the ideal. Is this an ultimate frisbie? You always chased the disk It doesn't matter if that thing is thirty feet in the air and cruising way too fast for you to catch and already out of bounds because of the floaty Finch. He properties of a frisbie, there's still a chance that the discord catch, a burst of and and fly back at you slow down for you to get under it or maybe only that's enough to get you regardless. Whatever the case you don't I've just because defeat seems inevitable, and since I see I replied that same guideline to all aspects of my life. I've learned a lot that I wouldn't have otherwise achieved many victories that I would have walked away from an had a lot of fun than I would have missed out on. Consider that with every

failure. You grow as a person and faster than you would with success. Winning is easy. Compare a losing learning. It takes humility. an grace to be able to look at the broken remnants of your plans on the ground and think why I sure learned a lot here today. Nice. Let me show They are particularly mortifying moment in my personal history in college I started operated a culture magazine called stem. I plan. Poor thing out with a friend and colleague who I had worked on another magazine with, but after all while the planning on add selling and blood, sweat and tears. She had a pull out before the first she had. The press is short for local newspaper, threatened to fire her if she took part set back and a half, I worked extra hard to get that first issue out. The first had sold to set up and run the celebratory first issue event stem one long story short, the first issue had a lukewarm reception but still An event was a huge success. Hundreds of

What showed up the bans all had a good time. The combination concert in fashion show and we even able to pay the bans more than we initially thought out. Uncloud, nine, I'm thinking this is easy, but all the fuss about enter stem too The second event for stem was to be a rock the vote event and even grander than the first we got, issued to set up in the centre of downtown. We got them. this is the paperwork filled out the right hand Greece in the right ban, signed up the sky. who is behind us and several clubs contributed their time and money and prestige to the project. It was gonna, be big, then, on the big day, rain, lots and lots of rain pockets of it falling from the sky. I was mortified, rushed into damage. Control. Months of hard work had to be undone and redone, and before the vote, sign up deadline- I had one week I'll say, Secure new location and article

re all of two blocks when the downtown square, that was the original cancer location after a whole, out of negotiations, a reallocation of my supporters money. The event finally took place, The bands arrived and set up their gear, the doors were open to the public and openers tore into their instruments. It was a hell of a show and in total about eight p bull were there to enjoy it. They would safe to say that I didn't want to show my face after the stem to event so people who put their trust in me that their money in time would be going to something exciting, a productive and I delivered something pitiful. I wanted to die a few days later, I took stock sure I was crazy and bears and humbled in all the wrong ways, but had also learn a lot about what not to do how to handle situation when everything goes wrong and really how to with failure. Great big failure That's the real point of all this most People are so terrified of failure that they don't even try if they see a frisbee.

I gotta bows daring to think about chasing it does a guarantee loss. Why even put it Darwin S, situation I'll. Tell you why? Because again very little from a win, but everything from a loss If you are someone who avoids being losing situations at all costs or even someone who just always wins try this goal a game of someone in lose, you be or game or basketball or pool which my Spirit, It is very, very easy to lose at whatever you like. Just get the experience. I know it sounds very fight. Club but it really helps to intentionally face. I fear and realise that this thing that we are so innately afraid of this war, case scenario, is really nothing serious. It's pitifully a pansy, become graceful, unproductive loser now and you won't have any trouble winning when it matters. You just listen the post, titled on feeling, gracefully by calling right of exile, lifestyle, dot com. So pick this party,

post. As my first read from him, because in my last weekly newsletter to my email subscribers, I mention a quote that I've been pondering and that's one by Bill gates where he says is find a sober. Success. But it's more important to heed the lessons of failure network is really stuck with me or the last few years so far to read this post in share that quota. My short, clean his letter, which, speaking of that if you find value one on providing here, you can very easily support the show by visit, my site, all Pike s dot com, and joining that exact weekly newsletter. Its, and has some quick life hacks and tips, and all a little bit about what I'm doing with my life also give away you stopped my mailing list subscribers, one of which, get immediately after joining so to get that had on over it. You owe L De Podcast, Stockholm, therefore, today show a nice quick one. If you join us, oh stand like to hear me, read more from call and let me know or better yet let us

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