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get ready to maximize your potential with optimal living daily to plot gas. That brings you the best and personal development and productivity. Every day of the week, you're onto my life away. Now, here's your host just in Mali, let's go on an old friends, welcome to optimal living daily task, where a fine amazing bloggers asking for commission, then rhythm, to use that you don't have to. Where else Gideon, something like this anyway. This Justin and back with opposed from from David Kane of to two dark com. His sight is awesome. Besides blogging as life experiments and then post results like he was vision for a while. He did one where he read a book a week every month and right now is There are many with getting better sleep, which is something I am passionate about. Some curious what he finds us. We do something awesome called camp com and season is just now starting are she registration, open,

today, and basically what it is is a thirty day no experience necessary virtual workshop for learning the basics of meditation Unmindfulness again that stuff, I'm super interested in and what I truly notably life changing, so do check out his page to get more info, as I mentioned reservation opens today, so you can check it out at old, podcast, dot, com, slush camp and I'll. Tell you re too. It says it was jump right in and start optimizing. Your life with was all along by David Kane of rather too dark com. I keep having this idea. Not that I think is true But when you die, you appear in a talk, show studio and everyone is clapping fix your hand asked you to sit down and the both of you go over how you think you did a large screen they play along montage contains on the more significant moments in your life you and the house With the audience look on as you make

but our choices overcome dilemmas and meet the people who had become your friends and partners the film. lose a lot of personally defining moments such as when you the choice to embrace what became your art or you're, calling if you had one or one took on a long term responsibility that became a part of who you were you also get to see. for only the second time, the moment which your most important relationships went from superficial too true, every one studio is moved the members of the audience has seen many episodes of the show and were once on themselves the old I'll tone of the production is quite pleasant in earnest. Clearly, the one is happy for you celebrating I, rather than judging it and probably murmuring, similar moments from their own, real, the Montana, also covers things you missed many. The expense This is a relationship that didn't happen but could of if you had accepted or extended a particular invitation. If he had made a fortune, effort at small talk instead of sinking into another painful silence. If you had bought up here,

now. After all, if he had attended DORA Climbing Centres Open house instead of telling yourself you'd go next year of all the miss possibilities. The mist human connection stand out above the other kinds. The Miss career and travel opportunities, cultural experiences, even the creative achievements by the end of your life. The only thing that seemed relevant was the people you loved or ended up loving when you died all value in your world resided there in the simple and all important fact that you really new other people and other people really knew you and his part. last forever, because, as you are quickly many more connections than you made, maybe fifty or a hundred times more. In fact, many times wonderful connection with another person, was just one simple action away from you, but you pulled back such an incredible wealth of human connection, the greater part of life you know. Now hinge on a phone call. You didn't bother with a congress should you shut down or apology and making an instant they sent you back now. There was some

available to you. I was so much closer than his seemed at the time. In most of these mom, he pulled away from a budding connection because he wanted to protect yourself from someone only uncomfortable moment they might be bored and acquaints his party and have to excuse yourself early that a conversation, you start might be difficult to escape from their your active openness. My taking advantage of statehood said, no more excuses and avoided many conversations, the small amount of uneasiness you avoided. You realize now costume many friendships as deep and rich as best ones you did manage to have, but Not going back and there's nothing left to cling to nothing left to protect yourself from feeling you get watching. All these miss connections isn't regret its abundance. It seems really wonderful, that a human life could have contained fifty undeveloped relationship for every one that was allowed to thrive, given how rich in full filling some of those connections. Were you happy to see that

Kansas, were there even leading quite recognize them in time to take advantage. This already I with you knowing that you don't need any more life advantages, because you're done with a thing, your lifelong wish of being so from everything you fear has been granted for the first time, there's truly nothing to worry about, it was all trade offs anyway, wanting didn't do allow for something else to happen because denied there is a pattern in these tradeoffs you frequently Those another doses, predictable, uncomfortable overdose helping a relationship with another person after you're saying the finishes new guest come the show, and you see the same thing and most of their eclipse. There are a few well, who apparently had no reservations about being open and proactive towards others and a few people whose reticence clearly help them get by, but for the most part you see people who really value friendship, connection more than anything I'll stay would say now, but let it pass them by. I again and again because of some comfort related concern that seem more important at the time. It is the perfect

couple of John Lennon quote, making other plans remark. Happily A little bit of this kind of wealth goes a long way. Even One great friendship is enough to make a person feel bless that life went the way it did so for the new yes, but it is an. really fascinating. Watch people learn that there was so much more out there. Just a little it beyond what fell perfectly safe. you do listen to the post titles, where the wealth was all along by Davy Kane of Rabbit. the dark arm alone post I'm on his email lesson, I saw it went away alive. I read it now like I need assure this on optimal living daily in arise, we have the mood tracking spreadsheet I use where I tried my mood for probably about a year on a scale of one to ten and AL no doubt what I did that day and went back it makes it all the eighth, ninth and tenth and found that those were always associated with times that I hung out with loved ones. Those were the best experiences

so I fully agree- and I think we should take this posed to heart and once it then he is a really cool virtual camp coming up and registration just opened today. You learn about fullness meditation and, more so, to check it out, visit old, podcast, all calm slush camp, and I'm not an affiliate and don't make any money everything by telling you that link is just a short links as these, defined in. I just really blew will be very valuable. I wanted to help him out and mentioned on the show him lasting today is the last day to be in a drawing to win a book by the minimalist and to be entered. All you need to do is beyond my weekly email list. I give away a book on. first of every month. So be sure to join by April, first and you'll, be in cold podcast, dot, com or the fastest ways to text. The word optimal to the number four hundred and forty four two hundred and twenty two again that's optimal to forty four thousand two hundred and twenty two or visit podcast dot com

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