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1762: Fake It Till You Make It: Your Life Matters by Krista O'Reilly-Davi-Digui on A Life In Progress

2020-10-07 | 🔗

Krista O'Reilly-Davi-Digui of A Life In Progress encourages us to fake it until we make it.

Episode 1762: Fake It Till You Make It: Your Life Matters by Krista O'Reilly-Davi-Digui on A Life In Progress

Krista O'Reilly-Davi-Digui's mission as a Joyful Living Educator is to help messy humans like herself quiet the noise of perfectionism, comparison and fear to show up fully to their imperfect and beautiful lives and/or businesses. Her message can be summed up in 3 sentences: You're imperfect; Life is messy; Show up anyway. Krista will help you figure out how. She has a new Seasonal Mindfulness Journal available here: https://www.alifeinprogress.ca/52-mondays/

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This is optimal living daily episodes. Seventeen sixty two fake it till you make it your life matters Crystal Riley, daddy degree of a life in progress dossier. I am just a molecule, I read you articles or put excerpts every including holidays for over four and a half years covering personal development or self help had a little better, I feel, a lot more. It's always with permission from the authors or websites. Just at this subscribe. Follow, but in your podcast up to get new episode for free and without let's get right to it answer optimizing your life, fake it to make it your life matters by Crystal Riley Daddy, be of a life in progress. Does here Did you look around until ourselves the story that everyone else's happy, thriving, confident But no matter our age or stage in life, we carry insecurities and walk through seasons of pain We learn as we go. We come across rose where we must make
The decision to live again or try again or reach out again. We fake it till we make it my adventure awaits, but what, if I don't have what it takes The world is brimming with interesting possibility, but what, if I'm not good? enough at anything. Everyone else appears to what they are doing, but what, if I fail I thought I knew where I was headed, but life threw me a curveball, and now I wonder if I even fit anywhere, everyone else seems to have figured out this thing called life. Why do I find it so hard? I failed again. I don't know if I can keep going. Sometimes you need to just show up and fish till you make it. You dream of motherhood, only to discover that this gig is painfully hard Sundays. Four seasons? Are you weren't even sure you, like your own kids, you feel like a failure so ungrateful here he received what you'd desperately desired, and yet you feel depressed and talk she died. And now you don't know if you want to live without her.
getting up in the morning. Hurts it takes every ounce of energy to just brush your teeth and forced herself to ease Chris, this coming, but it feels meaningless. You feel no joy, only the pain of separation, your offers, keep getting rejected, your boss tools out healthy doses of criticism, never praise, then you message for real and is only confirms this. Vision you had all along the you're, no good, a failure. James is heavy on your chest so that you have a hard time functioning. Maybe there is no point and even try. Aging now and wonder if you'll always be alone police before you had your use and that offered you suppose ability of someone finding you desirable. You just want to feel loved wanted cherished even his at honestly, too much ask the chronic illness has finally caught up with you. No more hiding in your body doesn't work properly anymore. You came
pretend to keep up with everyone else. Is this small your future holds? This is as good as it gets. It hurts to move You don't want to appear needy, surely one by one. Your friends will drop away. You ve built a successful career and patted the retirement fund. You are so incredibly unhappy dying inside you want a different path, must simpler path, but if you tell the truth, she I leave you with the kids. Might resent you. You see no way out so much pain and suffering. It isolates a look around. surely there is not a person knowing around you that walks unscathed? This is part of the human experience to be touched by pain, by insecurity, to walk through valleys. You are not alone in this. You are not a failure, because you struggle you're not too broken to deserve life, and there are no quick fixes. Magic bullets me the answers. Sometimes life hurts and you aren't you don't know what to do about
so you fake it to make it. I mean, lie or pretend that all is well. I mean put one foot in, for the other and do the next right thing, and then the next, until the tiniest tangible hope, begins to why his self through the darkness. Until you see a flicker of light far off yet, but you see it nonetheless do the next round, Thank you get out of bed in the morning. Open blinds, make her coffee, he forced herself to express gratitude to notice beauty. You grieve but decide that you are at a crossroads in your choice is to live till you reach out, you permit another broken human being come alongside and love you for awhile, because who told you that. You have to do life alone. Anyway, you lay those broke dreams on the shelf and remind yourself that if your room is closed, dinner or other good plans for you beautiful plants, your worth is not wrapped up in mud.
You tell the truth about all your anger and frustration. You practice Self Karen tiny ways. Maybe they feel in never again, will you do it anyway, because you read that in matters you take nap sing, the babysitters. He can take breaks from the cause in need of other people. If one small conversation about how you are feeling just one. He began telling the truth. the life you want, you stop trying to keep up the perfect image he stopped working so much and decide but even if you can't walk away from it all right now, you can take baby steps closer to the person. You want to be you smile yourself in the mirror, it feels fake meant, it is right now be doing any You realize no man can fill the deep the king hole in you. He practiced speaking to yourself with tenderness, like you would your best friend. You can be your own best friend for now you get a Christmas tree and decorate the house not for you but thirst
the children in the house, and they need to keep a living even if their mama's gone, and they need you to keep living to fill your home with truth, answered all over on sticky notes, scroll. What's on your mirror life, giving music pulsing through the place just fake it till you make it. One foot in front of the other one breath and then another. you are needed. Your life matters You just listen to the post, titled fake it till you make it your life matter.
by Crystal Riley Davy degree of a life in progress to see a real, quick thanks to anchor for hosting this pod cast anchor is the easiest way to make upon cast they'll distribute your pod cast for you, so can be heard everywhere: Spotify Apple, podcast, Google, podcast and many more. You can easily make money from your bike ass to with no minimum listener. Ship anchor gives you everything you need in one place for free, which it can use right from your phone or computer creation tools like to record and edit your podcast. So it sounds great download the anchor app or go to anchor dot fm to get started. Thinking Christa she's been through a lot. This post shed some light into that.
Come by a life in progress. Does he ate a check out her work as rapporteur, and I'm glad she made the distinction of fake it till you may get verses lying or pretending that all is well, because that wasn't the message of running away from how you feel if you please, over this sword, just read the title you might get the impression, but it's far from it of his message brought you some comfort or assurance that nor life matters, or maybe it be great for someone who's going through tough times and needs to hear this message. You can send this episode or the blog post alone to them I'm sure they appreciated. Thank you for doing that. Thank you for listening and being here every day and subscribing to the show a great rest of your day and also, back here tomorrow. We're optimal life awaits
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