Allison Carmen talks about having faith in maybe.
Episode 1859: Having Faith in Maybe by Allison Carmen on Handling Uncertainty
Allison Carmen holds a B.A. in accounting, a J.D. of Law, and a Master’s of Law in taxation. After working for a large law firm in Manhattan, Allison founded her own law firm and built a successful practice focusing on real estate, corporate, mergers and acquisitions, and taxation. After 15 years of practicing law, Allison transitioned her practice into business consulting, business coaching and life coaching. Today, Allison’s clients range from owners of multi-million dollar companies to artists, actors, writers, and parents. She's also the host of the podcast: 10 Minutes to Less Suffering.
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having faith in maybe.
some Carmen of housing. Carmen Darksome quote. Faith is not something to grasp. It is a state to grow into Mahatma Gandhi
A few months ago, my friend Joe lost his job as a marketing consultant, the minute he lost his job. He started a panic that all
the savings would be depleted and he won't be able to support his young family for two weeks he suffered through sleepless nights.
worrying that he be unemployed for a long time. He became very anxious
just so happened that on day, fourteen Joe got a short term consulting job and he started to work lost
looking for long term employment. Every week you say that the consulting job was ending, and yet they kept getting extended Joe.
so concentrated on when the short term job? What end that he never stopped? Consider that he was working
actually making a little more money than he had before a few weeks ago. Here
or the job was ending on Friday and sure enough. It got exe.
and it again for another month, an NGO
on himself the story that imminent doom was only postponed for a short time. Just as his wife tells him all the time
but he should have a little more faced. How things will all work out, but Joe clings to his belief that, because he can't know,
What tomorrow will Bree, he can't feel safe and secure. He pressed
is the uncertainty of the situation to foretell only the worst. So what does
those wife exactly mean when she tells him to have faith and how's that different from Jos belief that trouble looms, Sharon Salzburg, a buddhist teacher, says quote:
police try to make it known out of the unknown, they make presumptions about what is yet to come, how it will be,
it will mean and how it will affect us
if, on the other hand, doesn't
of our reality according to our preconceptions and desires, it doesn't
side how we are going to perceive something, but rather is due.
body to move forward even without knowing belief, clings, faith, let's go and quote having. Faith is often touted, as the answer
To our worries, yet the unknown scares many of us and we clean to our fears and worries
sort of letting go and embracing uncertainty as much as many of us
I would like to have faith is around
that can be difficult to travel, but the Good NEWS is that this is a situation where.
the idea of maybe can really
help. Someone like Joe, maybe is an inn.
transit place from belief to face those that have faith may have no use for maybe, but for those of us who gets
I commend circumstances, seem dire or we don't know what to do. Next may be king
mentor lies in comfort. Us maybe leads us to take our beliefs in question them Meiji. Maybe our beliefs are not true. Maybe something else will happen. Maybe this is good. Maybe things can better and it can open our hearts and allows us to experience space and light in the midst of crisis in a way may be, creates a kind of cognitive faith. I can help get us through an unexpected situate,
and if we work to continuously experiences open space of, maybe we start to embrace the unknown as unfolding of all possibilities.
with this in mind, Joan, I am and playing around with the idea of maybe to try to believe
here's some of his stress chose been trying to admit that maybe things will work out
Maybe he will get a new job, maybe he'll keep the current job, or maybe
Everything is ok right now and he will figure the rest out in time. The idea of maybe he's so effective for Joe, because it continuously offers him
or than that one possibility, those keeping him up at night.
she'll realised through may be that there are infinite possibilities ahead, even though he can see them yet is able to relax at times and stay open to whatever life has to offer in his future. Joe tells me he has good days and bad days,
we're trying to stay, and maybe but the days maybe works. He feels a freedom that he never fell before. Who knows? Maybe this experience will lead Joe to have some faith after all, just
maybe you just listen to the post titled having faith men may
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and he is still working at his temper, a job and is making more money this year than last. His wife is pregnant.
he's trying to buy new home. He told me he is getting comfortable with his temporary status of the company. He asked me if he was developing faith I answered, maybe
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and a lot more or else and calm and our come just as a podcast called ten minutes to less suffering. All good things we framing like this can
huge. We often get stuck in these negative thought loops and bringing maybe in your life could be the tool that breaks you free from it
If it works just once it will have been worth it. So try it out something to think about today. Hope you have a great recipe
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