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other James Canary started, selling off the families land in preparation for a move west. First, he and several of his children and their families move to poke County Iowa one of these children with his son Robert who married Charlotte Birds and ILO on June thirteenth. Eighteen, fifty five, He was thirty at that time and she was fifteen about a year later on May first, eighteen, fifty six, they had a daughter named Martha, Jane Canary who, with later grow up to be calamity, Jane Calamity, would eventually have at least three siblings, possibly others who didn't survive childhood that we only have a lot of information about really two of them. People talk about in a bit just for the future. Calamity Jane was born James Canary Reese, the family a second time. This time too Mercer County Missouri, he bought a bunch of land for less. So the Ireland for and then he turned around and sold it to his children for a steep discount. Once again, most of these

standard canary family lived near to one another: calamities: parents really made and we're gonna collar calamities, full episodes, that's one to say, calamities there. Really made an oppressed, an impression on the residents of Mercer County Charlotte Canary in particular, was remembered for being the cigar. Smoking found mouth woman who was known to get there public and where really flamboyant clothing on the other hand, was remembered for being kind. A lazy and people looked down on him for not being able to quote control. His wife plus allowed her to browbeat him or not, being a very good husband or provider. So they made an impression in eighteen, sixty two Jameson, Mary, who had apparently been living with Robert Charlotte and their children since the death of his wife. Some time before also died shortly thereafter, calamity with six or seven Robert sold the farm and the family moved again this time away from the rest of the canaries.

Little unclear as to why, although to prevailing theories, are the civil war and the need to dodge some issues with the late James Canaries, estate yeah seems like Robert pretty much withheld something from James Canaries, a state that you needed to hand back over to then be divided up among his heirs and instead he the way from Ohio, the family went west and they eventually wound up in black that City Montana, in December of eighteen, sixty four that winter was a real hard won and a lot of solemn settlements in Montana, we're straining under a huge influx of people who have moved West, basically, all at once a story in the Montana Post, which came out of December thirty first of that year, talked about three children who were begging for aid from one of the commissioners of Mass and County Montana, the article described there, mother ass, quote a woman of the lowest grade and their father as a gambler. The children in this they gave their last name as canary and most historians believe that this news,

article was about calamity James family. It's not exactly clear what led the family to follow these hard times, but things only got worse from their Charlotte died in eighteen, sixty six, then Robert reportedly took the children south, having heard that the Mormons would take in and care for, needy children. Unfortunately, he also died in eighteen, sixty seven somewhere near SALT Lake City calamity at this point was about eleven and, as the oldest she needed to take care of her surviving younger siblings. According to her you see arranged homes for her sister Lena and her brother Eliza, who was known as LIVE Lena later, went on to marry a farmer when she had seven seven children that them died in a farming accident in eighteen. Eighty eight lie became an itinerant farm hand, including at some points in places where calamity also lived, and he did spend some time in prison some time between the death of her father in the summer of eighteen. Sixty nine

calamity Jane, made her way to Piedmont, Wyoming, which we know from census records on which did her age as fifteen, not thirteen from here, the age she told people is consistently different from her age. The first time her parents reported her on the sensitive sea, consistently told people she with older than she actually was according to census, records Piedmont was one of the many towns that had sprung up along the transcontinental railroad as it was being built. It had about a hundred residence at this point and most of them male laborers by the time of the eighteen, sixty nine cents, us most of its buildings, had recently been upgraded from tents to shacks in Piedmont. The calamity lived and worked at a boarding house and she sometimes earned money as sort of in house babysitter. However, many Jane bucked expectations for what a fifteen year old girl should be like she flirted and she danced with soldiers who came through the area she cross dressed in soldiers, clothing Her behaviour was considered to be wild, so much

but she was fired from the boarding House and Emma Alton, its owner insisted later that she had nothing at all to do with calamity Jane, in spite of many witness reports to the contrary, we're not sure exactly how long calamity Jane State in Piedmont or exactly where she went when she laughed it's not really in the newspapers or census reports in eighteen, seventy and various other Accounts like interviews people gave later contradict one another. It's really that early eighteen, seventy before there were reliable reports on her whereabouts. We have kind of a general sense that she. Traveled from one wyoming boom towns you another finding work where she can doing anything from opt I've jobs to almost certainly prostitution. There's a brief gap here, what we know about calamity vain story. So we're gonna, take a brief pause and have a word from one of the sponsors who helped keep our show going, look at the third step. You have been history glasses, brought to you by love book if you ve ever

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you by multiple sources and is also when she became known as calamity is from her time in the black hills in Dakota Territory and Talk about that part of her life. We're going to need to set the stage a little bit. The black hills of South Dakota had set aside as part of a reservation for the Sioux nation and the Fort Laramie Treaty of eighteen sixty eight. According to the terms of this treaty, fighting between the? U S, army and the Sioux nation was going to end, and the Sioux would have exclusive rights to the black hills which were and are sacred to the Sioux. How in eighteen. Seventy four, in defiance of the treaty's terms General George Custer, led an expedition through the black hills to look for gold and found it spread, leading to a gold rush and the minors in prospect or to flooded the area demanded that the? U S, army, protect them from the native population

even though they were all there illegally. As the government started to waffle on upholding the terms of the treaty stead protecting non native minors and prospectors from the native Americans, the office of envy and affairs and the Department of WAR sponsored the Newton Jenny Expedition into the black hills, this eighteen, seventy five petition was meant to survey the area and to evaluate the reports of mineral deposits that were there, this expedition departed on May twenty fifth eighteen, seventy five Calamity Jane tagged along this is real written documentation of calamity James Life, rather than just things gleaned mostly from census records in interviews, conducted much later, really get started. Three different writers, chronic the expedition not only talked about calamity Jane, but also called her by that name, so its clear that Martha became known, This calamity, either before or very early in the process of this expedition she became so can

the well known as calamity that it wasn't until later, historians, peace, story together that people actually figured out tat. She had once been called Martha, clearly seems to have joined this expedition in disguise after asking both Colonel Dodge, who was commanding it and the doktor who is going to be in charge of medical services for the expedition, if you could come along both of em told her now, so she disguised herself ass a soldier. Unfortunately, this disguise is reportedly what got hurt us Bird fees deleted an officer who returned her salute and the soldiers who were standing around and knew what was up started laughing about it when they remain to explain themselves. The officer was quite angry and, through her out of the expedition but at this point they were more than sixty miles away from the Fort calamity, Jane, certainly resourceful. She was now nineteen years old and she'd been essentially living on her own said she was eleven, but this wasn't something could easily survive on her own. She was in understandably hostile territory. The written accounts

the expedition do very little on exactly what Jane did at this point, whether she kept sneaking and dressed as a soldier and falling in with men who are sympathetic to her or what see rode along with the Teamsters and set up instead of with the soldiers or some of both either way. The expedition doktor described her ass quote crazy for adventure, it's not entirely clear. Whether calamity stayed with the expedition throughout its entirety, but afterward the? U S, that all native peoples in the area in and around the black hills needed to move to a reservation or be considered hostels. Many refused in the army began sending troops to round people up and move them by force. General George Crook commanded one of the units being assigned this task and on March first in eighteen, seventy six he departed for fishermen, which

eighty miles, north West of Fort Laramie, his force included. Nearly nine hundred men am calamity. Jane calamity rains. Own account of this expedition is highly highly embellished and in all likelihood she came along as either a teamster or a prostitute or just a camp follower. However, this expedition wit terribly the weather, awful the whole time and they have an encounter with the Cheyenne went so badly that crook wound up filing charges against one of his officers once it was all over reports place Emily. All over the general area, following the failed expedition, often driving of animals and dressed, including more associated with men. People described her is tough and brave, and she developed a reputation for being an excellent shot in May of eighteen. Seventy six calamity having given a false name and the matter was invited idly Army County for stealing a bundle

clothing and other personal items. She was temporarily put in jail before being declared not guilty and freed. Reportedly, she celebrated her freedom by writing a whore all the way to Fort Laramie, which was ninety miles, passed her intended destination of what Russell drinking heavily the entire way might explain the woozy dizzy and where she lay a bit right. The next month she joined up with general crook again on another mission to try to round up sue resistance. This time, falling in with them after their departure, dressed as a man and working as a teamster. When she was discovered she was arrested. She was given woman's clothing aware and kept. The guard until they were back in town Her own version of this story is that she was a scout for general crook, but that can't be substantiated and after her death Captain Jack Crawford, who is also part of the mission flat

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five percent or more off your first year, go to Norton dot com, slash history, that's Norton, DOT, com, slash history for twenty five percent off the next phase of killing James Life is by far the most famous end, notorious in June of eighteen. Seventy six. She met up with James Butler Haycock, also known as while Bill and Charles Utter known as Colorado, really they were on their way from giant deadwood. They made a number of stops, including outside of Fort Laramie, about thirty wagons and roughly a hundred people were waiting to join them. Coming but he Jane joined us well after the officer of the day at Fort Laramie asked them to please take her off his hands. She was being detained there and she was quite drunk. Fortunately, Eve, utter brother, Colorado, Charlie new calamity, and he said that he would take care of her she's been allowed,

this journey drinking and entertaining the travellers. With really tall tales about her exploits around the camp fire. You were peppered with lots of profanity, we arrived in Deadwood around delights, wealth and they paraded into town with wild bill. Charlie Calamity and others closest to them for their little click All wearing new buckskin clothes just covered and friends calamity had we borrowed the money to buy hers because you don't have any money of her own a day later, the Black Hills Pioneer, which was one of the two newspapers that had been launched in Deadwood, proclaimed calamity Jane, has arrived like many of the other. Places calamity had lived previously. Deadwood was a boom town whose relation with surging as the result of a gold rush when wild this party arrived. It was still mostly a collection of tense, with only a few solid buildings constructed at this point, it was also wild and virtually lawless, saloon.

Theatres provided much of the towns, entertainment and calamity found work as a hostess and dancer she soon reach the money that she had borrowed purchaser buckskins. She also contrary to the pictures that are almost invariably used to represent her, often dressed and more typical them. And clothing. There are more than twenty photos of calamity dream that still exist and she's away including more typical for a man and only six of them, but there's are the ones that are most widely used and most widely available. So they are almost We are the ones that wind up in articles and uncovers of books and things like that, though they will also be on our website, because I can only find one of her dreams when they are quite striking yeah. She she cut third, a dashing figure. She just you can feel attitude offer those fix. I love it, although

I'll billing calamity Jane, are often presented in novels and movies is a couple there's really nothing to substantiate that limiting herself never claimed that they were made thickly involved and most of the other accounts of dead would agree that they were seen together very often when wild bill was murdered. On August second of eighteen, seventy six they had been dead wood for less than a month and they ve known one another. For only about six weeks. Calamity stated Deadwood for two or three years: finding steady work in the woods dance halls were fitted, lots of dancing and lots of drinking and really stood up for herself in an environment that could frankly be very dangerous for the women who were working there. One of these places was the notorious den of iniquity. The gem variety theatre managed by elsewhere, engine who we discussed in a previous to partner she work is a dancer, a hostess.

And a recruiter travelling to other towns to bring prostitutes back to the gym. I tried to find out more information about whether that recruitment was really on the up and up, and I could not yet we talked about some of elsewhere engines practices where he would go and like make promises like now, you're gonna be

answer in a star, and then they would get back in. It was kind of lake they'd be frosted enslavement yeah, but with we didn't connect whether or not Jane was on those particular recruitment missions are right. I really wanted to follow their things that I really wanted to resolve for my own peace of mind, and I could not, although she is most famous for rowdy body, tough behaviour. Calamity Jane also worked as a nurse and Edward and some of the other places where she lived. She gained a reputation for having a good heart and for always being willing to help somebody who was so sick or hurt this included during a small pox outbreak in eighteen. Seventy eight when she worked at a pest house that had been set up to quarantine, the sick. She looked after patients who were so sick that nobody else again

them in the late eighteen, seven, these calamity Jane became famous beyond just the area of the black hills. Local newspapers had been covering her exploit for quite some time, but people began writing biographies about her while she was still living and she became a character in dozens of dime novels. One such serious were the dead wood, Dick books, one of which is called Deadwood Dick on deck or calamity Jane the heroine of whoop up. I love that title, but there are, there are dozens is not an exaggeration. He is a character in dozens and dozens of cheap novels that came around. That came out around this point, and so a lot of people became more familiar with her. As this fictional sidekick, wild West, at, like quote, cavalry than Indians kind of character than the actual person write her caricature kind of superseded the reality of

life, she left Edward, an early eighteen eighties and she continued to travel and explore following the railroad, the different parts of the frontier and moving from one gold strike or other mineral rush to another and in eighteen, eighty four she started performing with wild West chairs she had at least one child. A daughter named Jesse, married to Jesse's likely Father bill steers in eighteen. Eighty, five, it is the bull that she had other children and she also described other men as her husband, but the marriage to bill steers is really the only one. That's documented her life, to have really gone downhill after the disappearance of her husband and the death of her sister, both which happened in eighteen. Eighty, eight. She continued on in the same pattern as before. She was still travelling and drinking and finding work Russia can, but it all became, does the whole lot. Darker and less apparent

fine. She it's not really clear where her daughter was doing a lot of the time and her excessive drinking was really starting to take a toll on her health and just her ability to take care of herself following the panic of eighteen. Ninety three calamity Jane, apparently helped garden engine that minors were trying to commandeer, so they could join the Cox's army protest March to Washington D C. A picture of this is one of these surviving photos of her, and so the protest March, where out of work laborers from all over the western Midwest, like thousands of them, marched on washing and to protest in October of eighty ninety five. She briefly went back to Deadwood with her daughter s, Gliddon Burke, who she was describing as her husband, the following Here she went on to her as a performer with a traveling museum, and it was for this tour to kind of promote her and promote the tour that her autobiography was gazed, written

which is why it is so heavily embellished and sometimes flatly fictional once this. Sure, was over. She kept travelling, trying to make a living through appearances and autographs but her health really started to suffer as a result of a life of alcoholism for a little while she travelled east and she appeared at the PAN American Exposition the New York in July and August, nineteen o one afterward. She joined the Commons Indian Congress, there's another travelling show that was mild after a buffalo bills. Wild West show, but whereas low bills share was focused kind of other quote cowboy and of things the commons anything Congress was more focused on various native American I'd calamities role with kind of an old west character before long. She wanted to go west again, so she borrowed money from Brussels. Okochee, who she knew from briefly performing in his show for her tickets, and she wound up in South Dakota, where she stayed through the winter of nineteen o too.

And then she resumed travelling in failing health, making her way back to the black hills and again to Deadwood in July of nineteen o three He became ill and see, refuse to see a doctor when a friend finally called a doctor for her, she refused his care. She started to tell people she was dying and she did die on August. First, nineteen o three she was buried next to while built a cock, a little unclear whether that was what she asked for or whether part people thought that would make a good tourist attraction. The name on the grave soon is MRS Emmy Burke calamity Jane and if you're one what happened with the black hills, fighting between the army and the Sioux and their allies continued, including the battle of little bighorn in June of eighteen? Seventy six, which was the site of clusters, last stand

in eighteen. Seventy, seven, the? U S, government reclaim the black hills land previously set aside for the Sioux. This eventually made it to the Supreme Court in the United States versus soon nation of Indians. In an eight to one decision, the court upheld a previous court of claims decision that the Sioux were entitled to seventeen point, one million dollars which the Sioux actually refused wanting instead to have the black hills, as they have been promised debate over this whole thing continues with the United Nations Human rights investigator, recommending the return of very native american lands, including the black hills in twenty twelve kind of that. I wanted to make sure to include that, since we only included a portion of the black hills saurian, it seemed like at the end of the episode, was probably where it would fit the best make sense to me, Do you have a bit of listener? May your view start there with a very brief for action after I find miles normal? In our view,

episode about the child migrant programme. In great Britain we misidentified Kevin Road as the perimeter of Australia when he was really the prime minister. I would like the guardian for having not one hundred percent wrong in the article that, as using as a source, which is a source that I thought would know what it was talking about in terms of lake leaders of of countries are now you know, everybody has a day when the bureau were well enough. I started clicking on things to be like. Did they it wrong everywhere, and no literally, the next sentence after the one that I was in the article that I use a sore

links to another article on the guardian, where its rights and clearly some people there. Now what's true, I have an email from Jes and it answers the question that you and I had talked about in our episode. I'm Doctor Virginia APP car about why doctors were so focused on the mothers and not on the baby's before Virginia after made it clear to everybody that they needed to look at the babies are waiting for you to say it. Could you love that re, so I like the people just as highly these in your recent, had cast on Virginia after you wonder about the focus on maternal health, over infant health and early twentieth century medicine, Edward

border talks about this historically shifting focus in his book, a history of women's bodies. He points to the significant danger of childbearing for mothers, who are already passed, the treacherous years of childhood mortality and therefore likelier to survive generally as the reason for the maternal bias and early medicine. He also suggests, however, a shifting, focused Ward feel outcome has been taking place recently, sometimes to the detriment of mothers as without win women's medicine. The social attitudes of the time, often combined with knowledge, to form best practice that it can be difficult to reckon the choices of others, even in the not too distant past. Thanks for all you do ethics for other medical topics, the algae, be tissue history, other stuff relating to disabilities. Does deaf. President. Now is my all time. Bathed episode chairs Jes. Thank you checks, indeed

have we sort of thought, probably things along those lines where why there was such a focus on the mothers? I did not really think about the progressive shift to the outcome for babies that I think we have definitely seen even in our lifetime, yeah, more and more focus on on babies, health and even fetal health, rather than mothers, health. Yes, yes, so you would like to write to us about this or any other ass. We are missing. Or accept harm browser and basically, at Facebook, Budmouth Industry leader I missed in his great work, is this misery got tumbled, rotten interested, Bickersdyke blacklist industry red shirts floor admits in history, tat spread for Don T shirts and happened. Like you would like to learn more about what we have talked about today are apparent. Companies website has done worse, Dunghill put the words calamity Jane in the search bar. You will find

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