Hi everybody. I'm Alina Cardona I'll, be one of the speakers at the ten ex growth cause. I can't wait to meet everyone there, but I do have a very special announcement for all my Ladys out there. We are going to be having ladies night, which means Ladys all and I love to meet you there so sign up. If you go to tax growth, con dot com forward, Flash Ladys. It is free when you get the ticket and I'd love to see you there. It's a ten ex growth conduct com forward. Slash Ladys are really look for.

To seeing you there. Thank you. So much of your business family should extend Asia starts. I am only Lena hardy. Welcome today me so no fear of getting caught off today, the only one I have to blame. If this show thanks airs myself, but I'm so glad to have you here with me today. There so much go lawn I'd like to get back out of the way. First, we of course have the tenets of growth con coming up February. First, second and third, at the Marlon Stadium, which is why grant is not here today he's going to go, walk the Marlene Stadium today to make sure that event goes off without a hitch

we want you there. We are looking for people around us who want to improve. one their lives who are interested in meat other similar minded individuals and get around each other and develop a network that not only last for this event, but continues to grow and friendships and beyond this and make a difference and impact your life. So even you're at a place in your life right now, where you think you don't have the funds, you can't figure out how to get there. I encourage you to look at this event as if your life depended on it and then approach that mindset of how would you you get it done if you had to I'll tell you why to do that, because being where I am today and in the successful shoes that I am now standing in which I have not always been, and I had to

Do the exact same thing: I'm telling you to do whether it's with the growth con or something else in your life once you step out and start to dictate, to life. How life is supposed to work around you? That's when things start happening for you when you actually take the back seat and wait until you get the money wait until you have the time, wait until this factor that factor this factor all come together to make it magically appear in your beautiful little fairytale life. It never shows up. You know what happens years, go by of you doing having the same exact results as you always have once you can get into the place in your life, where you can actually say this is impossible. Yet I'm going to make this happen,

and you make it happen anyway- and new practices that muscle over and over and over again before you know it- you are walking amongst giants, you are becoming the powerful player of the world that make stuff happen, and that is how It happens so again strongly advise going to the ten Ex grove con. Not only do I know it's gonna be an absolute epic event, but I think it will be for you as well so lesson also: if you do go to the ten ex growth con, I'm hosting a Friday night Ladys only event. It will be all right next to them. Ireland stadium- you just walk across on the same property and being beautiful tents, it only hold a hundred saw. It is free with your your growth com,

ticket. However, you do have to get on the the guest list, so you can eat male Natalie at grants. Cardona dot com shall be happy to put you on the list I did not exclude men to this event, because I am a man Haider. Lately the opposite. I I love all my guys out. There, however, I really wanted this event to be for all my lady friends who are interested in power. Bring other lady friend where we could get together and talk about maybe issues We are having in our lives that we wanted to be able to discuss freely without having to edit ourselves because our spouse or boyfriend Sutter is around. I really want to help us all kind of get on the same page as powerful women and go out there and make it even better, not only for ourselves, but for the men in our lives as well, so

Go to that event to what else I have a book out. Do I have the book anywhere, it's probably in the next door, but is Build I heavy you have these guys all around the studio jumping defined this book Nathan Nathan Francisco. Thank you so much. This was something then I am then I'll get to the shop. Ok, I'm not even to the show. Yet when so many things to talk about work, twenty years and I've been looking at what we have accomplish this. Here. What I wanted to do the show on this this particular topic is maybe my three to five take a that I've I've had for this year. So this bears another announcement,

got this book completed this year and build an empire how to have it all. It really is structured for the entrepreneur or the person living the entrepreneur, men, women, who are China's figure it out and get ahead of them, the ahead of the game and really start thinking in terms of empire, building and on a big massive scale, I completed this book and hopefully it helps couples. get better aligned and on the same page, I've been hearing great success stories. I really appreciate and want to thank everyone. That's already purchase the book. I've sold out of the first five thousand copies went out like that. I cannot believe it. I thought it was gonna. Take. Six months. I did it in two and a half weeks were already ordered the next back, and if you want to get this out to your special loved, what you don't have to be in a relationship to appreciate this book, it will

get your mind, sat ready to take care of yourself as an individual and then, of course, down the line. Maybe it'll give you some tips for for you to grow your empire in your family in and what not. So you can get this in time for Christmas. You must go to eat, lay not card, don't die com forward, Slash empire, and we can get that out to you, but it's also on Amazon, audible, you know of any other ones. Is it what is its on our website? It's a great cardon dot com forward, Slash store So how do I get that when we come back for the break? I appreciate you letting me get all that out of the way when we come back to the fore. the break, I'm going to discuss the three to five, take away that I had from this year and hopefully impart some some helpful tips for you as well Give money sitting in the stock market in your word about it or worse, you have money sitting at the bank earning less than half a percent, managed Grandcourt

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dot com. If you love real estate, your qualified investor, you like the idea of passive income and believed that income producing properties will appreciate overtime, go to court on capital, Dotcom, that's card own capital, dotcom, allow and welcome back to the Genie shall I'm so glad to be spending the day with everyone. Thank you. So much we're coming to the end of the year were wrapping at a new year is approaching holidays or coming a lotta distractions, although it is a very alive festive wonderful time it can and Does very oftentimes create a lot of extra pressures that mount on people without without maybe even them being aware of it, and the stress can develop and- and I know people are reflecting in looking at what they have accomplished in which they can do differently for the future and certainly I've I've taken a look at that as well.

And so I wanted to do the show today and if anyone wants to call in and tell me what you thought of were or what you want to do or how you want to change or whatever you can call in at three hundred and five, eight hundred and sixty five, eight thousand six hundred and sixty eight I'd love to take your phone call today. I'd love for you to call, and I left fighting with everybody. Also follow me on Instagram at Elena Cardone, I'm very good with responding to the direct messages there, and I just want to tell you you know. I can't thank you guys enough for all the acknowledgements and support that you have given me throughout the year. It really does make a difference, and I take it to heart, and so without further ado, don't want to get into the three hundred and twenty five.

Take away that. I have first the biggest thing that I've gotten from this year and probably the sneaking Nicolet you one hand that all thanks Nicolet is the best handing me a little shy t laughter. is this you know so much in society? here. Do what you love follow your dreams? Follow your passions and Certainly, I am not against any of that, however, without disregarding feelings cause those are important to. However, it is important that you do an show up

no matter what, and sometimes that means putting on a little facade or a happy face and charging through it and you might feel like that's fake or whatever opposition you might have to that, but I call it getting the job done like no case on post, like no b s on post like when you come to show up at a job, you can't show up at a job with all your drama and wet fight. You ve gotten into with your husband, your wife, your roommate work, The person fender bended hit, you like you, ve gotta, show up and make it work, no matter what so on, not side of things. The biggest

take away. One of is that I've really developed and worked on a muscle of showing up with a happy face with a positive attitude, make things go right, even when you don't want to or you don't feel like it and that's. Ok, that builds a muscle of of composting your goals in your dreams, because it's not always going to be easy, not always gonna, be a better roses and any you do in life who think it about this the other day like of what we have to deal with as human beings, It is not easy. Ok, first of all there, as this universe, that's called Alina cartoon and inside my universe. I have this idea of the way everything should work and the way everything should look.

And the way everything's, everyone should treat me and what I should and this in that, and it looks like this world and I love this world and it It was showed up in that world. Like this, I wouldn't be like a hundred per cent Happy one hundred percent of the time, but that's not the reality, then I your work, and your universe to deal with you know in a relationship or in life. The person at the grocery store has their way that they think is perfect in that area. one should treat them and what now and then there's nay and I'm in a hurry, and I shall come like hey. Would you have this or not or this you know, and maybe I'm not what they want, I'm not showing up in their universe and so our universe. kind of collide. At that moment, I have and then the physical universe, I'm trying to deal with the reality of the situation. I wish then, every and got along, and there were no rapes and murders and raw

The reason is not, but the reality is that exists in a world where that exists. So it's not easy being human. Figure out how we all like fit together. So it is an easy, but regardless of all of that confusion and chaos going on, you must show up for yourself try to make a difference for the better. impact the lives and reach your goals, no matter what which brings made a number to become a friend to yourself, be your own best Ryan. That sounds. So easy, but it wasn't until the last couple of years that I really was like wait a minute I am not being a friend to myself. I was so hard on myself like internally. I would beat myself up over this stupid.

Things and then I realized I would never treat a friend like this like. I would never say to a friend the things that I would say to myself inside my own head and it wasn't until I actually figured out how to like really sound hokey, but genera, genuinely love myself as a person and who I am that I could actually be like now. You know why I messed up here. I can handle it and one. I dont need to get myself a gull trip. I don't need to do all that extra like pounding, that I would do to my. that that alone has helped me so much in life to like to treat others better. But yet Let everybody sly, like I don't take it easy on myself being a friend doesn't mean liking, you let yourself off the hook. It means holding yourself accountable to a higher standard. However, forgiving yourself getting back,

got picking yourselves. China learn trotted, grow, try to give better all of that under the befriend of yourself. This one came from Francisco, but this one, I think, is an absolute must, which is part of the becoming a friend to your solve, is investing in yourself. Francisco said when he had the courage to invest in himself which men, which means a sacrifice of forking up some money in order to self enhance self improve, get better

That is a way to contribute to become a friend you yourself. So if you are taking the time at the end of this year on how you can elevate and get better for the next year, look: where can you improving your life working? Who can help you? Who has the statistic in the area that you want to improve it, and what does it take to get around that person or that course, or how can you benefit and then how can you fork up the dough to make your business and yourself better, ultimately nor own brand? Where are we on time. we gotta get on top of all. We have a collar on the phone and they will take up the next on that. The next view on the next segment because I know this is a lot of data come in and everyone whose on right now Malcolm how're, you doing yeah. You got a girl.

What what's goin on are you? Are you looking at the holiday season making you look at where you ve done really well this past year, or are you mostly looking at your failures and how you have to look forward, like which angle? Are you goin for failure? Therefore, our have you have you even love to hear accomplice? Aha, why a new year's resolution to really one thousand years old when I started out, but you didn't really think of him. I really over the past year, a kind of just been stopped by working for matches and due to believe him where I can be, I hope I can give you some good guy in the board room. While you know the only you know expert. I know one sales happens to be my husband, grand Cardon.

So I mean that's very good that you're even interested in improving yourself at twenty years old and not thinking you have the rest of your life. I had a view in and you're fine, that's. That admirable- that's very mature, but Something that I know that you can do is set aside time. I mean Grant, has three thousand videos on the subject free on you too, then he has all of his books. Seller be sold, annex rule be obsessed your b average. There is a polite throb of knowledge that you can go into grant cartoons materials that I know will give you insight and spark and make a difference to double triple ten axe yourselves for next year, but it's not gonna happen without education, but at least you have the awareness that you are in need of change. Most people are happy with where they are and dumb.

you can set aside time and be willing to do it a little bit everyday you're, going to see significant growth and real applicable changes that have that will occur four year for your new year to them. Nineteen? So keep me in charge? I wanna hear how it goes meeting you guys and getting some advice. Wow Malik, I'm a very impressed. I can't wait to see you and you were very smart, not only because you know you're on the grant. Cardone the 10x gravy train, but your your twin there's old. I know that doesn't matter, but it is admirable that someone at that age is already considering putting a really promising future ahead of you, so can't wait to see

As its annex growth gone. Have you always want to invest in real estate, but didn't have the time did know where to find the deal's couldn't get the funding and didn't want tenets? Calling you own a company called card on capital. We currently have eight hundred million dollars of assets under management. For thirty five years, I've been by income producing properties in great locations that provide us with consistent passive income, while we as qualified investors, wait for appreciation of the future and take advantage of the tax laws, while we're waiting check out court on capital dot com, if you like the idea of investing in real estate, if you like the idea, passive income partner with a card on capital, dotcom, that's caught on capital, Dhaka alone I'll come back to the journey, shall always a pleasure being with you every Wednesday, the business of marriage, we're not perfect, but we're figuring it out. We really developed a really good team and system in partnership, and I really want you,

to see our lives and be able to make take advantage of the things that we ve done right and avoid the things we ve done wrong. So I appreciate all the collars. If you want to call in, we have several on the line right now: three o five aids five. Eight six, six, eight talking about the end of the year, reflections on what I've gotten out of two thousand a teen. What what I'm looking forward to in two thousand nineteen? I do suggest everyone sit down and really look at what they ve done in two thousand: a team and really fight against all the things that pop up. That are the failures. I'm gonna say try to find everything that you did. That was a win

that wasn't. That was something that got you to the next level, some some situation that you handle where you wanted to act this way, but you did this instead and it got you a head weather in a relationship or arguing over a parking spot in the in the king lot of the shopping mall. I don't care how small it seems if it was a win write it down, The reason I want you to do that is because I want you to make firm the winds nor the losses and make firm the winds and focus on winning the war and how you can create more of those times and those opportunities. Yes, we all learn from our failures and move forward itself, but we don't have to harp on him so another thing from this year has become an asset not only to yourself, but for everyone around you, the more of an asset. You become too you're solve them more valuable. You become too not only yourself in your family, but

who you are and society and the social difference that you can make an influence and the sphere gets bigger, hence Empire show become an asset. How do you do that? Confront the things that the you are afraid to confront and do them anyway learn something new. I know it sounds cliche, but it really does help operate and carry over into the entrepreneurial world or into the family life, when you can have access to more than one way to handle a situation rather than just real acting on the one way that you always know, and every time this happens. You got raw and everything This haven't you go raw and you have out one little thing in your arsenal when you do other things and you work on becoming an asset all the sun. This could happen and instead of going.

You can go, you know what I choose to go or I can choose to respond this way or I can choose to respond that way and you add weapon dream in your arsenal so that you have different ways of dealing with situations and problems that you can rise above and actually manipulate them to work in your benefit, so become an asset confront the things you don't want to. I took up my Ty this year. China do my shooting on China, educate now of eight women for empowering themselves. To consider conceal carry I mean these are just personal development. things that I do that, I'm afraid of, Yet I do it anyway, I felt were taking place. fighting in the ring with you now multi degree, Blackball guy,

I don't even know how to say. You know it feels ridiculous, but you do it anyway, so find something challenge yourself become an asset. How do you become an asset in your relation How did you learn to let the little things lie so the yoke and achieve the big picture in the big mission? It sounds so much easier than it really is to do and real. but the more you can do those kind of things, the bigger the leaps and bounds you can grow together and actually hit your targets. Rather, sitting. At the end of the year, and just everything the car to mine is how many failures new had over and over and over the friends grant- and I did a show on this- are your friends, assets or liabilities. Do you your guard when you're around people do that empower you to better yourself, do you leave them feeling in secure leave them feeling confused

do you leave them feeling bad, because you ve done things around them that were a little on ethical and you don't feel good about it, and then you carry that until I that's a liability, no matter how much fun that person might be to hang around its a threat. It's a threat to your growth of your empires, a threat to the year growth with your family and you gotta, look at who your friends are and be willing and have the courage to eliminate the rats threats. Don't just come into the form of obvious threat. Somebody holding a gun to your head would obviously be a threat, but there are other threats of the people that are in your life that are encouraging you to do things that are not conducive to your growth, and you can't lighter yourself, and you know, Those are you know if it's why they are drinking too much you're taking drugs. You know when you ve justified those things. You know your cheating on your spouse. You know your cheating at work

No, you should be work and what you're doing your own, like Facebook or whatever it is the euro. going and cheating your boss out of work time You know what it is. You're doing have the courage it takes an this amount of bull, nasty and confidence to achieve your goals and your dreams, and you have to be bold enough to confront yourself and others. If you want it really hippies big massive winds and life and reap the real rewards of like separating yourself from the normal and actually feeling great mistake, saucer from on. What's going on here and I put the Pentagon, whatever pause. Now I can hear you I find tat. I gotta talk to you

and what I was hoping for a little bit of advice on forty four and I've got a fantastic new career that I just started two weeks ago My family keeps winking at home because I was at home base, pay their whole lives and my whole marriage. I was at home, I got to school and now it's time You haven't, I wouldn't have done their after Begbie self, employed and Bio Mass ready and available to the family, and now the failure to exactly massive hours. It may occur yeah you know by for me, it's like time. Toujours have a converse: with them, and so you know look you lie the ban, urine be there, maybe not as much as the time, but this is something you need to do so failure obligations to yourself to becoming a friend to yourselves to having confidence and dignity and self worth and pride in yourselves. and if a family member who

truly loves you. They want you to be happy. They want you to do well and their willing to be in a sacrifice mode in order, for you and a loved one too to achieve greatness, and so I dont see a family member having a problem with that, unless they're afraid that you're gonna, somehow maker and go on often cut them out of your life, and they feel threatened some oh that way, but again If they know you an year sharing them, hey, I'm goin off. I won't be here for this time, but I assure you I am here you I love you that Bonn. That pact will never change. No job could ever take. That away but I really want a need unreal. We desire your support in helping me do this, and it would mean this to me I would be shots. I would be shocked if they were still in protest over, because I, like

I've been like so super available and now I'm gonna be super kind of unavailable for a while. But the point is Wanna buy a house for cars. Twenty nineteen thirty do that Hitler, hardener yeah. I mean, if that's your dream, and not your gall and you need to fulfil that. Then you know sorry, you you can't really be there for others. What this is the thing I've kind of learn from where I met my life. Is you care really be there for others without having going through with appears on the surface to be a selfish phase?. And that means you need- support all attention on yourself for a brief period until you can get yourself up to the point where you know your value, you understand that you are an asset to others. You have, developed in the monetary. Means to take care of yourself at that point that

When you can go out and focus your attention on other people and really how can you really help them on a massive scale, not just by showing up and watching soap operas what them all day? commiserating in the sadness son, this beautiful this of your world. You know like it's just what has to happen They would feel that put my requirement, my haven't, I I am so important that mean My lady I happen to be but prepared. That's right! Now, that's right! You're! solely and I'm glad you're not living in a fairytale. So I would say: look Get on board, I think that they will I really do, but there be one or two, the dawn, and you know why you have to be bold enough. You have to be bolder even eliminate a family member if they are not going to support you and actually-

it's not that you need him to support you, because you can become a friend. You can become an asset. You can be that for yourself, but when they get to the point where they are act surely holding you back and actually doing things that are detrimental to your survival and your ability to arrive as being that's the one that you might need to have the courage to eliminate from your life- and this is worsens after you, ve tried to handle them. You have explained everything you you know if it continues you might just need to cut em out for a few years. I've done this with me. Own family members, it's not easy, but it was not. this area in order for me to grow and develop into the being that I today and still pushing myself to continue to be going forward. I say this all the time I feel like a lot of times, it's easier to change the world than to change your family. The truth were made.

Thanks for call it and we have another collar. Ok, we don't another Carlos I'm gonna go over this list again, so be a friend to yourself. Invest in yourself have the courage to start saying what it is that you want and making it happen. You do this enough times the universe. Just surrender see you eventually goes. Oh she's, and she's gonna do this screw it I'm not even going to mess with messing with her in the physical universe, she's way too hard to take down? I'm gonna go further, victim over here, I can get them everything I'll just give him a parking ticket and they'll crumble, parking ticket and I'll overwhelmed and the universe is like. Ah, but what it looks like you, it's like. Oh that's, a ban, yes you text back and all I get so given the universe, an old you know like BO

bigger than you. You might be as big as the earth, but I'm even beggar, because I'm spread you're being and I can conquer at all, and I love that loved. I quote, Steve Jobs said on. Oh it's on my inst stories. If you gonna my stories rocard, he said you ve got to say it to me. Let me have it all Europa, because I know that silly right in my camera, I wanna leave this thought with you before we go over the last little. Yes, listen to this the thing about smart people is they sound crazy to dumb people? Do you not just love that I mean That's all. I feel every day I feel a little insane every single day, and then I go. You know why. But I'm happy in my instinct world doing what I'm doing, creating the effects that I have, rather than

where I was in my life, which was, I couldn't even afford a Starbucks at one time, bouncing checks. It was miserable was unhappy. I was drinking, I was doing drawings, thought I was happy. I thought I was being creative. I thought I thought I had a lotta. There was a miserable existence. I couldn't take her myself much less. Anybody else had to go through the selfish phase. had to go through. I need to work on me. I needed to become an asset to myself I needed to not hang out with the people that were so fund, loved me that love parting with me. I had to stop all of that and say no, I'm not gonna be around these people and their work on this. And here I am today now I can get back. I can be a contributing members of society in and actually make a difference. That's how you from here to hear I prefer here here has its sets of problems, but I ve given up these problem to have these problems and

these problems are better, so get yourself, some new problems this year stuff like what is the same problem? but you ve been dealing with, and how can you in two thousand and ninety make the problem so much bigger, much more exciting, so much more fun and go for that problem. and leave without one in two thousand eating become a friend here self assets and liabilities who are they warrior friends Where do you want to be around if you got it get so busy, making some work for yourself at you We have time for anybody. I ain't gonna hate you I ain't gonna be mad at you. You know eliminate threats, you know what they are. You can't lie to yourself, you what you're doing that is not creating

an empire. You know what you're doing in the bottom of your heart, with every decision that you choose to destroy your destroying your empire and I'm sorry that was the factual either creating or destroying your empire with every single decision that you make even down to the desert. You point in your mouth: if you ve said you're not going to do it, you do it anyway. You're destroying face have confronted. You know too, however, beg you wanna make it go for a bold not to go after what, with what you want, have the courage and, lastly, end on this. No to all the people that are in relationships fill the metaphorical bank account. Ok, some relationships might be in that sacrifice. Phase most are. I have certainly been in it where you are you're not during his many date, nights you're not doing all those of cuddled The time our and sacrifice phase, because you're trying to get to

We all need to be monitoring to take care of yourself and your family in your community. I understand that, however, Are things that you can do for a woman? for a man that contributes into the emotional bank account I don't need he'd go overboard with this, but you do have to and all the distraction of what you're trying to accomplish and all the entrepreneurial success that you're going on keeping not pots still stirring. Still, while not losing sight of that. You do also and you do have the strength and the ability to also create on your relationship you dont have to create financially. There are things that you can do

know what they are their easy. Your work, your man or woman, has told you what they want. They ve said say thank you. After a meal, they ve said, shut the cabinet doors. They ve said, let's have a movie night knaves, they tell you deliberate, provide, was needed and want to fill the bank account, especially for the person that allows you to do this crazy world time and time again, even when you attack them you know you're still stuck in this world, but there are still loving. You know. I treat him right very important and you can do it all. You know we're not a candle we dont burn out at both ends. The only thing that makes you feel barked out at both ends. The failed purpose when you failed at something. So if you're, tired in your relationship, you probably failed figure out what you can do and went on it.

I hope you have a lot of success. Looking over the past year again, please look at all the things you ve accomplished. It doesn't matter how big, how small really give yourself that gift of pride in feeling good will. what you ve done- figure out- how to do more of it. If you are going to go down the failure at avenue, don't staying long, only look at it from an outside perspective, as if you're watching a movie separate yourself from it, if you are a failure, you messed up. You betrayed people, you cheated, you lied you. What ever I understand, we have situations in life that are not easy and were not perfect. All the time figure out how you can improve it, go in for forgive yourself and move on,

Let's go create a big beautiful two thousand nineteen we're here for you February, first second and third, at the Marlene Stadium for ten ex growth com. Not is going to be a magnificent way too. the letter file and keep in all your new year's resolutions, be around people, create a network of individuals who understand- or in mine, but the normal the label I faz develop at community and really create the life and the empire that you want that you deserve and that you ve always felt you had the potential for, because, if you ve ever felt that way, it's because it is inside of you get around the people get around yourself. Give yourself the belief back it with action. Doing this and

For you know it. You hit your target. I can't wait to meet you all the tenets growth cause. You haven't already got a ten ex growth, con dot com and I'll, see you at Marlene Stadium in Miami in February. Thank you so much hi everybody, I'm a Cardona I'll, be one of the speakers at the ten ex growth con. I can't wait to meet everyone there, but I do have a very special announcement for all my Ladys out there. We are going to be having ladies night, which means Ladys all and I love to meet you there so sign up if you go to tax growth, con dot com forward- Flash Ladys? It is free when you get the ticket and I'd love to see you there. It's a ten ex growth conduct com forward. Slash Ladys are really look forward to seeing hey there. Thank you so much for listening to the tree and Asia subscribe to this project, leave a review and check out read on Europe,