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Find the Blessing | An Intimate Fireside Chat with Tony and Sage Robbins (Part 1)

2020-11-19 | 🔗

Tony and Sage sit down for an intimate fireside chat to personally share what their own experience has been during this time, and also share a message of hope and unity during this unique holiday season. Together they tell us how this is a time to move forward, to create, to be able to step into another dimension of who we are. Because what we get will never make us happy; it’s who we become and what we contribute.

“We are not the manager of our circumstances, we are the creator of our life experience.”  – Tony Robbins

About The Fireside Chat Series: In the 1930s and 40s, a time when the country was struggling even more than it is today, we had an amazing leader named FDR. He began doing evening radio programs called “fireside chats,” designed to communicate directly with the American people. 

At that time, 90% of people in the U.S at that time had a radio. Today, 96% of people have a cell phone and nearly all have internet access. Instead of being unified and watching all the same things, and having a collective experience, now we're all kind of separated. And we can see division in our culture. We desperately need a form of unity, a form of connection, more humanity and more kindness in the world.

Tony and Sage thought to bring back this time-honored tradition of a fireside chat as a means of unity and compassion. We’re entering the winter season, drawing inward into our homes and into ourselves, reflecting on the hardships and blessings alike this unique year has brought. In this three-part series, you will hear them dispel their hopes and dreams for you this holiday season, as well as share some of Tony’s powerful tools and strategies to not only survive the coming months, but to step up and thrive.

This is an unofficial transcript meant for reference. Accuracy is not guaranteed.
Welcome to the Tony Robins pie cast. This episode is part of a special series of fireside chats that Tony and Sage Robins created just for the holiday season to share key messages of support. During these. He need time to watch. The video of this episode go to tell your Aubin Stockholm, Slash holiday and check back there, and here on the pot cast for future episodes coming soon. Hello. There, everyone it sage and Tony, I see you all listen. We want to be a blessing to you in the season during a time of such uncertainty,
just by we share from our experience, what's been happening and find out for some ways in which you can take this time that we have here this covered time, a time of uncertainty in fear and a lot of frustration and anger and see if we can't converted into something that's helpful for him once definitely just for my home and hides tee. I see now we ve all been navigating such a unique time of life and our own selves individually and collectively. There has been such a tremendous amount of growth and tat inside and just learning so this time and so that we shot without, but we share some of our own experience. So it's gonna like fireside chats, you know last our country was in this gonna shape is probably in the thirties and forty. and we had an amazing leader, then called Sdr These fireside chats ninety percent of the country had a radio at that time today you know ninety six percent of people have a cell phone and instead of being unified watching all the same things and having a collective expire.
now we're all kind of separated, and we can see it culture, and then of course, now what that fearing that uncertainty, its being magnified by social media without bad intent, but have you seen nothing like the social dilemma, or if you read the books about what action? happens today. Social media actually reinforces us to believe that things we already believe any kind of demonize, the opposite the longer they keep us on line more money. That's me made, and so we You know me we can punch through together and just take a few minutes, and consider some simple things that could perhaps help us get rid of some of the Ngos were we're done. Really meeting some form of unity, some form of connections, so much more humanity has some kindness in the world and so on. Without me, Our conversation, may we have a couple real brief conversations with you and others on behalf of the EU. They ve been helpful for us and for our family as well. I think way to think about this is that everyone
brought to their knees, covered right unless you're selling toilet paper you or your Amazon, You probably had a pretty rough time there. I don't care who you are, and you know we have come that are at home or tried to give our kids and be teachers and when our lives and many of us have been separated from our mission in our work in some ways we're in a place. You know if we have family which we that are in their seventies or eighties. Very often, what happens? Is those people been separated out and Cavan being next them are them? It's a why time never did we ever dream in a million years back in February, we're all together we had my wife produced an unbelievable. your birthday party and we used it to really serve and raised. Nineteen million dollars for underground rail road, and so you know we're in this flow about to do our big event. As usual in somebody called me up, and I couldn't believe it they said cancel the unleash the power then about in San Francisco, which, like five days later, and I said, are you kidding me? I've never cancel that last year I mercury poisoning the rest
ass. Well, I the doctor, I'm leaving us like a seminar in I did it in a wheelchair. So who could have guessed, the governments around the world would suddenly stop us from being able to connect, and so it's had an effect on everybody and the effect has been deeper than covered you ve seen, but the United Nations is now talking about. There's a doubling of hunger around the world is tune and fifty million people, though unlikely I have hunger, because there are many countries that they rely. upon tourism for fifty sixty seventy some eighty percent of the money, the remedy for food in our own country, though The airlines have had an impact and madame it is not just the separation of us and the fear that happened there, but right now we're seeing people all the world over the United States at least turn the drugs and alcohol like never before overdoses and Oregon just in the first few months, Europe. Seventy percent from drug overdose is to give it perspective, or you know,
an unbelievable number of people opiate over use. Once again, there's I read in John Local Medical Association USA today, in an article on it, showing that women today are binge drinking the one percent more than they ever have to try to cope with things and then to meet US areas. One of all, maybe or at least up there with a hunger, is one for young people again according to tube the CDC as consent suicide in the last three months. What that's, as is well known, compelling future. You know when things are great peopling, burglar, great forever. They don't prepare. Things are bad human being it's gonna be bad forever and it's just not true life, a cyclical and history is the good of you study what always far who's the night. Thank God he time right. What follows winter is spring and we're in winter. And how can you just disappear? So I thought maybe we could present about the processes anytime go through was going into a death or
a family issue, or maybe loss of a job occur. It we're all going experience extreme stress in our life. Nobody escapes and I don't care how smart you our heartfelt, you are, how spiritual and how much money you have an intelligent. You think you are. We we're going experience. This extra stress outside of covert is going to happen. I wives, we're gonna, have family prisoners are diagnosed, you know. What's the building disease, or in some cases you know telling matter terminal we're gonna, have experiences of losing jobs are gonna of losing businesses. We're gonna have leave. All these things have more have crimes that occur. Aren't you gonna do this happy moment, but when I getting is when we go to those times if we can make it through them, and we can briefing happen, number one, you start to realize we experienced severe, stressing you push through it. You begin to realise our strong. You really are, and that is something you again for the next year, the decade, the next stage of your life, and it makes opening rich. We can help others Anna help yourself and if you can put, those incredibly tough times we are living in
governors. Who are your real friends, because you know when it's the tough times you know you to see who speaks around, who takes off whose there to support who just into themselves and in third thing you learn when you go to extreme stresses. You really start to develop almost like a protection. It's like people, I know I have a friend was in Vietnam, decades in decades ago, was locked in a vietnamese prison ways abused over and over again tied to the ground, beat Seven years we came back. bothers announced. The IRA is coming after me, give your best shot of the north Korean in the Vietnamese gonna get me within UNESCO. We'll get it so there's a power in going through stress and the goal is to learn how to use stress and still less stress, use you and so one way to help you do is I'm sure you ve heard that when people go through major loss, there is kind of a pattern, might save the loss of death off of a business loss of anything in the first stage. Almost always is that stage of white shark, like you know what came to us like
Suddenly, we can't help people the timing. Eaters, most in every country started shutting down all the United States and my Scotland one DIN and Sydney Australia in Amsterdam down in in Peru. Suddenly everything was cancelled six months was a shock like this can't be amended stage we tend to go through after the shark. Whereas off is you know this angle a frustration like not like it's impossible as much a shark, its third. It can't be there's this. This is feeling inside of us. If not right, it's not fair, and course life isn't fair or the time, obviously more than four times at other times? Not so much in the eyes of us is the beholder looking at the moment. Is that in the long term of what it means and then after you go that there is usually a period of deep sadness that comes MOSS. Some people get depressed some people. What do we get stuck in these stages for a long time, but it can get over. The shock hold the anger and you can experience some of the losses and few it
and eventually you'll get to a point where you start to pardon Ok. What, if I do this God? Will you do that or you know, you think about in your life, for your business, it's just like is still trying to make the old come back, but the old really doesn't and so what we eventually have to do is get to acceptance. Now, I'm in achieving I give my guess, is you have acceptance? It's not right am, I could accept it will. I know example: that's right, but accepted years and therefore we have to deal with it and when you get it substance there is a release of pain and most people don't even make there they stay in paints along, but if you make it there, I think there's a six that the no one talks about and that's a step of creation, which is why we're here today like. If you can Let go of the past try to reignite and create the same thing we can ever be better than it was, but economic are we gonna let go about once we can brand new create what is in store for us. Instead of sitting there and saying, oh, my god, we can't help anybody and you are we kind of things, get moving dates. We call governors and say you know, wins the date.
We can really count, may tell us and of course things changed and the dates didn't work can change. in changing there's, like ok, rheumatism movie theatres will do. Thousand movie beers, whereas excited pig. Screens and won't be in person, but smaller groups will reach. Everybody will help them in and then shut down movie theirs and we're gonna churches and they have become churches, then we can go anywhere. Gonna be ten people with masks, and so I find it. the thing I said, I'd never do it can do this in people's homes because, in our view An event of european event is like a rock and roll concert for twelve fourteen hours a day for three or four days in a rather mean it's incredible. I only then somebody's home with them in a letter computer. I want to do some old man's you no kind of webinar something and so went to the creation stage. Recent! Ok, we have to help people. This is our mission, and so we to, and that's what I'm hoping you're about to you and if you're, not you can see what stage your him are. You the stage of accepting shout you gone through the shock and to be gone through the anger and sadness, and have you stop
arguably accepted I mean I'd appreciate, I might even agree what people have done, but it is what it is. So here's what I want to do now with it. That's the moment life can change and that's the moment, we have two pivot or find a new way or explore new options or move onto something so yes just causes at times at that time? It's you know that the grief comes from the loss of what was you know. And the accepted comes from. The recognition of what is you know in creation comes from the place of recognising what we actually can do, how we can touch life deeper and a lot of times in our thinking of our own inner dialogue on my own inner dialogue like, adventure, will we ever be able to You know serve again, will wherever they do alive event again, and you know you things internal narratives. But it's too that place acceptance of what is their sparks there. You know thing dies, there is also the birth of the new
a lot of tens who really focused here this way that direction on what was and what can ever be again, indecisiveness reverses work and then they fear the future of oh, my gosh. What if this? What if that rather than like this moment of recognising what is and and and seeing how we can connect to life and in that place of creation. This conviction and that place of convey then there's determination, there's, there's unity of a team coming together, like I think of time as much as it was painful and uncomfortable and uncertain, is beauty, and there is beauty and because of you know the willing hearts do not give up and to see it through and and to see the birth of something new, rather than just keeping the focus on the death of what lies in trust me. We were there, you know and in all the uncertainties of what does this mean, but there's also, you know what does this mean? Is a higher meaning and finding the gift in finding the blow
singing, and that's pretty why we're here today to share some of our own just gifts and blessings from this whole process program. If you think about it, as so many people have got caught up, making a living that they don't design their life and now the life they had not their didn't, really decided anyway, but there's a sense of what I'm missing. This is the moment to recreate. It's like I was people were not managers of our circumstances, the creed of our lives we ve been given that give by our reader by the universe. So here's what we did. We said, okay, what do what I say? I would never do that's what I'm things like teach people, it's like if you we want to achieve what you really want. You re done everything you wouldn't be willing to do to achieve it and then look at each one, and I am willing to do that and if I don't have to do them all, but that willing to do whatever it takes, will free you get you out of the box and allow you to become the creator and through the manager of the circumstances and so long story, colonel do story, but ok we're under these homes, I'm going to do it this way side. Looking for any avenue when I went to this one organization- and
What will show you how you can do this? They had like six, fifty twins Tobolsk. this little square it doesn't matter stadium. This is not going to. People are gonna, feel this, and so I took out a tape recorder, my team, as here's we're going to do we're gonna find a building. Would like forty foot I'd ceilings, our boat. Sixteen foot high fifty foot wide curve Ellie walls that have like I want to make it so that it it's Same quality is looking at your followed, so we can really see and feel each other. I wanna see hunting degrees in front of me and behind me, science, three thousand people at a time and swipe in the next three thousand. I want to be able to call them in and look and have a conversation with a worthy on the world, and I want to have these devices so butter was done in the creating mode, was like there's. No more pain now is how do you do it at once? be done. Much, like but six organisations together at nice and we're gonna do this, and I have also take six months later. We got nine weeks and then we, why did we do it in a vet for peoples? We did free event for foreign thousand people for a week and then we started
think how we can use this technology more effectively and that we do not first unleash the power, then virtual, but and it was unbelievable in some ways, and if you read the social me, some people like a better life one, because we're right there with you in your living room with your family with your kids, and I can't scribe what it's like to see. People from a hundred thirty nine countries play for Rowan different time zones, and just all of us together with family and support and kindness and watching it's getting involved in watching why workers women will never forget this indian emigrant India, obviously turban. Anything else is clearly. but what does life had commandeered the big screen a few hours use dancing whether maybe did what breaking Duna would break and participating. So it's to become a new way and were actually reaching more people. Now that a five events and you the average amount. We ties. Thirty thousand small than spend twelve thousand five hundred people all over the world. So what I love about the experience now is. There is no limit to helping people when they need it and we we train
eight languages simultaneously, so Has opportunities? I know, I don't want to think about it that way, but we have to other why just gotta live and aim right and to be able, stand whenever you doing and delivered home levels that so here's what you really want to say to you. the quality of life is where you live emotionally and that's the one thing you have total control over. How do I contrived replied? Kaliko sound a bit overwhelmed if your stress understand, but all those feelings come from meetings and other words, this is the end of the beginning- end of relationship to be very different, leaving at the beginning of relationship right. The end is, are you being punished by? God is a challenge from God or is this, situation a gift from God was, and I got it all with our job to figure it out. If the mean determine how we feel, if you think, someone's disrespecting, you're gonna feel really different than if you think they're challenging. You are coaching, you are living on you, You have the power, the one power we have
if you really want to be inspired during this time, you have a real rough time, go pay. Man search for meaning by Viktor Frankl, when a classic books about I'm in here is a man who would literally was captured put in Auschwitz. Witnesses family being taken from you, murdered, survive, all that, but would you learn to do is create what he called and what we call a compelling future. He came but enough reasons his believe what you can take. My clothes you, dick by food, but you can never take away my ability of the freedom to think and feel what I want, If you do a little box which you and I can do it wherever we are in the world during this difficult time, he was a whole generation. We called the great generation. Why? Because they face the biggest challenges, people could imagine life. Is they look like it could be extinguished by Hitler and get them generation rose to the occasion, and we have an opportunity now, it's like we don't usually grow. Unless we have some people grow after we're being but if we want to go to the next level, we gotta take this challenge on here.
All the other day I was talking to my father. as a man of few words and normally- and this is actually a first holiday season- that we won't be together as a family just due to the border closures, my pet, my parents, I live up in Canada, and so the beginning. There was just a moment of frustration and we are both venting a bit and I was like Popsci. I miss you and he's like I miss you too, and, and I said daddy what's been a gift for you and mom during Bless and jeering during covert and during this time and he's said, you know, thought about it. He's, like you know, he's likely slowed down. He said many times your mom and I will just sit on the patio and we'll watch the goes by he's as more pictures of clouds and every life, and I said you know dad. I said I can relate. I said you know many times. I said: if we're having breakfast outside linger that much longer you know, or for saying grace will hold each other's hands and feel the breeze on our face or watch the bird thanks. Just simple things are pop, like playing in the water, whatever
and their justice sweet moment of exchange and hear my mind at the bidding of the conversation was looking at. You know what couldn't be or how I couldn't be with my Father and Oliver sudden my dad was sharing just the beauty of his state of being, and connection that my mom and dad have had you know over the last number of months he's I kinda my whole life. I've been pushing and I've been going in feeling so responsible, and he says this is force the hand and he, like your mama and I in is what just sit and, and you know, watchdogs outside and hold hands and as you telling me this. I was looking outside the window and others clouds going by and I just felt so incredibly dear, they close to my father that moment and it just so demonstrated and prove that there is no different there's. No, nothing that can separate us, you know were truly connected and oneness, and I experienced that statement. father there? They do this, which just like two days ago, and I and I was I caution of if, if what
then for covert. I wouldn't shared such an intimate moment of my father and experience a different state in my dad. You know just at this stage of his life. Recognize that I felt that beauty inside of me and I have the following. I went and shared it with my family and die. You don't just became I just I just all day you know just that night, just like looking at all the blessings and all the gifts and actually give slowing down, even though there is both per se those we slow down and then conjecture when we started create, we had two speed back up again: budgets, spaciousness of being home. You know home has such a different definition. Now it's our it's our home itself, it's our sanctuary at their place of work. It's our place, a prayer prayer, it's our place of prey of play. You know it's just become this. I don't know it's it's a different life. First, all and you know for myself when I stopped resisting what I thought should be different. I really started to be blessed with just experiencing that grace and that most
an exchange with my daddy. Their day was, is dear at any moment. I've ever heard of him Can it be together this Christmas, but that Longfellow Christmas to me so yeah so conclude what? Let's all, three steps of some action. If you want, if you wanna, take these principles and apply them first. Just remember the principle of its time to create is not just time to manage what you got you create, then you will like all the pain, and you will step into another dimension of you are. You know what we get never met this happy anyway, who we become excess Mary, very appear very sad, and this is not we become well we're being called, and so I think the three appear some of you will know that, where this little baseball capital at the time, it is convenient. Our future air quite frankly, but it has not been a symbol on the front that lucky symbol that it is really about lucky. For me, it's about being blessed view is, if you will be a blessing, you will be blast, and so I think it takes three simple steps.
We like you to consider a maybe after this or that you ends you sit down John a few The first step, I think, to free yourself is defined the blessing find the blessing, and all this I am not suggesting that it's a blessing people died, that's for sure or that we ve been cooked up or that people have gotten more dignity. Drugs or you know, kids bring about what they want, suicide or men about is beautiful. but in the midst of pain we have defined beauty or there's no momentum to create something new. And so- find the blessing? That would be the first step to sit down and make a list of five or ten things really feel it that this has been a blessing, and so I may last year We did a one hundred and eighteen cities, sixteen some countries than multiple times of doing that for decade after decade, this european home bloggers and never time in my entire life since seventeen and there's, while theirs this poor. Now, I'm still able to reach people, those for six months was those I felt like. I was a pleasant. Do my part
the blessing of being about my body here. You know us being together our ability to create something new, because there was a pause was so huge, have just my meal times together. You know we're going for a walk on the beach. I there's just different rhythms. eating, I mean just taking that time. So many people that I speak to us. including myself, and I have better health at this stage on sizing. Why unlocking more I'm reading? Why there's just more spaciousness to do that? For us, we would have been on a plane or traveling are going to an event or flying from the back of a different country, and no just some of the simple mundane ordinary things have become so beautiful cause just appreciating seeing through a different lens and appreciate, but is making those moments matter. Value season right. Why do we have winter when to remain everything slow down and strong survive
strong enough during that time, you can nurture each other. You can be together as family, always say. You know winter, some people or freeze the death. We want to do our part to make sure they don't, but also People learn to schemes that border be with their family or prepare create what's new, because the this dying off winters, Bobo springtime like you got what you said in that way. You know where, after that, how many times you you have this new experience of growth, an opportunity, an expansion and winter forever remember that these tough times are not forever were resourceful as human beings. So find the blessing make west it may be shared with people that you love most and ask I've, been there people tell me everything it's horrible. I listen Ok, I get that would help me to find something to build on. That is good. What what is the unexpected gift if you really dug for it? If you really dig it, I know you'll find it and then a is be a blessing. My
that's what it says and are either says inside the blessing and says blast rate is like I really leave, as I said earlier, if you can be a blessing, my prayer before I go on stage every time I call my eyes, presence, and I say Lord use me to be a blessing everyday, my life, as for my forty, years that I've been my prayer. My heart prayers be opposing. Sometimes you can be a blessing just by your presence for someone, just caring for them and listened sometimes you can be thereby offering a solution. Sometimes you can be that by this being an example what's possible, for so many ways with somebody, just your love, that's a blessing, but I can be as simple as I mean, my father was a blessing to me the other day and just with his presence at him yeah. But in that exchange, I've had different level of conversations on both sides of where we live our neighbours in I've just bumped into them, because we're walking and it has been a little people, pitiful people and our life that was so busy. You know, I said hello to them, but
she'd. Never really had such a meaningful conversation, and you know to be a blessing, is also just our state of being, and you know if you are in a state where you're feeling, you're in a different stage in Europe that, like twenty talked about the shocker, the the anger of the sadness staged? You know still just know that waves? Don't last forever, you know and those waste come in and they go out and you know it's beautiful to bring our state of being to our loved ones, never mind to life. You know, so we can touch life deeper, and you know when we let go Anne and accept the reality of what is all, sudden. One moment you might have been crying and can actually laugh at the same thing I ve experienced that, like we ve experienced the loss in the pain that ended in that then we laughed till we ve had terrorists in the same breath about the same topic. You know it's it's just it's it's failing to be able to just allow yourself to be what's true for yourself in the moment, and let that waved pass and be surprised what comes next and they give to just No, that our state of being our stay,
being affects those that we love and affects life around us and is just a beautiful notion. Tat is simply just to be present for each other, and so the first step be a blessing really is to realize, there's always simply whose content more difficult than you have no matter how much suffering when I was you know, sleeping in my folks wagon and trying to survive the things Bring me out of it is when I get out- and I just see somebody I needed something I could do so. I didn't money, but I can help them like a go movie. Shopping cardigan, album across the street just stupid little things that are not stupid there, their acts Kindness and that's a kindness unfortunately, and our culture- that's been so polarize, we so judging other people by whether they believe what we believe in that's my life is everybody. Please turn things are different stages and part of our medication, is have some common values and kind and love and growth and contribution of the things that make human beings most fulfil, like I said it's, it's not what you get it to. You Come so doing something for somebody else, like you go to a homeless, shelter
and work for an hour with your kids in your kids will no longer be word about things they could be seeing other people on seemed when were called. We get out of our self suffering is always about ourselves. I remember once it knows no about me, I'm worried about because you're not doing little schoolmates. It met with all due respect, If you would just worried about goods in school, you be working on that you're upset, because you feel you failed your kids and you have it. kind of yourself. But what can you do find something to help. So you know we ve been feeding people's most of you know four. Since seventeen, as I said when I was eleven, but we also good people, sober called notes from a friend presents eddying logo and we were doing disputing programme in the morning and we came back for a second run- was more food and we gave up the subtle can I wrote it gets a little time like low cartoon book, gives people some skills, not just give a fish teach him to fish and this young man early twenties so broken up and everything else and he came back and I came back. A huge amount of space is helpless, pass up the food and turned out
the food we gave his job, ask any divided amongst five people himself and for other people. Can you read this little book and realise the secret to living is giving? And you just saw this joy in this energy in hymns- is his circumstances haven't changed? What has into will experience a change government? two worlds: the master, the extra world, the internet isn't going to gonna master. First, the outside world can be perfectly to be miserable now outside to be challenging and can be euphoric, I think the euphoric I'm just saying I find the meaning that will move to the next level. So who can you serve? What can you give something simple press time energy might. Whenever you got, you will find it. Alfred and lastly, find the blessings. If you'd be a blessing, you will be last and you- and I we be blessed put your field last you'll feel they are in the little things like one approach, zags age, and you'll feel the joy that comes from just being present with your life so much we're missing we're going so fast. So perhaps perhaps this can be just a reset.
You, and if you do it now our second or maybe three. These, though fireside chats and you can see there just flowing us discussing with you- hope it's helpful to you, but Third, we talk about how to create twenty twenty one of your best. You're ever has to meet again story of mankind is the come back story in I'm somebody not to their knees. Every does not need, but they come back not just to where they were better than they were that's what we can do. So, let's start with this little bit of homework. If you will not, do it, don't wait, don't wait forever to change change internally before opening changes than the outside and you'll already be free, so homework simple, finally, things make a list. Five, ten fifteen making insights or feelings are things that could be precious that have made. This can make this special focus on it and share it with some people find out, what's been a blessing for them and then be a blessing? How can you- serve. What could you do something simple in the midst of all your business and then enjoy being blast because we all are for living at this time in human history is difficult, as it may be worth.
Technology hopping blind people to see creating a world where literally access any information. One at your fingertips only two. It is more gratitude, more love and more kindness. I would say that if you want to be free, give up your expectations and replace them with your appreciation expectations, make up sexting always get fulfilled by people by the world, but only appreciate were free. So that's our little, Fireside conversation was helpful free. I hope it was this from our hearts to yours. We just feel free. We know that so many of us, not so much pain and some are still are better. The end is in sight, I say the end. I mean the beginning, that's what it really is. So thank you. Thank you for allowing The pop into your home, where we were on the world and we send your love and blessings it's been beautiful, to be with you.
God bless to just coming into this beautiful sacred time coming into your holiday in our holiday season late. We look forward to being with your next time. Ok, take care, but by everyone wasn't that lesson suggest Theatre far everytime Tony Infested s Fireside chats the holiday season. I always feel so grateful that based their time with us from their home in and walk through their personal distinctions on whatever is going on in the world and this year it just feels so fitting. It's been a little crazy and you know we can all late to that, so many different emotions stages of grief that Tony's talking about and I wonder, for you? What's the one that's out the most true? Was it anger or was it sadness or was it accepted or were you creating? You know? A lot of us have had that frustration at the external limitations,
in this community. We can relate a lot of us. Our do orders are we want to make things happen, so not physically being able to go on the world and make an impact is like Tony not be able to have lie. The lens back. Its frustrating like Tony, was frustrated, and then toning. Does that thing right worry says the perfect thing at the exact right moment, and he reminds us today of a message. He said that there are two worlds that we need to master: the external. Dear Rembrandt and the internal, your outside world can be perfect and you can see Les miserable you know. People like that, you hang out with them. You date them you're, married to that you don't like the year. We have is been a little crazy and some people are still euphoric. I'm sure you've seen people like that they had awful things happen their life and, for some reason, they're, not negative and they're, not complaining. So what's their secret nor holiday campaign is about being a blessing,
but recognising these secret sets its understanding in knowing that inner, knowing that life is just happening for you and not to you, people like that. They understand that there is a higher meaning. Everything is happening or reason. They seem beauty inside of pain and they give up the expectation that we have and they replace those but just appreciation. That's what makes them free, but the question becomes: how do you experience that kind of freedom and comfort and knowing your purpose is greater than you and it's about a few things? That's about consciously, creating and designing the life that you want it's about, knowing exactly what you're purposes and making sure your actions every single day. Actually in line with what you say you want, and then, when you have that purpose, you know there's that feeling of excitement of
liveliness. It's like you have this conviction. You want to get out of bed early in the morning and day up late at night. This determination this leaves are like focuses compelling future that that is driving you and the question now becomes. Are we managing our life or with the creator of it and not as a two millimetres shift? We want to become the architects of our lives and, as Tony would say, not the manager of our circumstance discovering are true purpose.
and I'll tell you it's not just sitting down with a piece of paper and writing out your goals at the end of twenty twenty, getting ready for twenty twenty one or not just going to wake up, and there is going to be blue skies and everything's gonna change, we ve gotta, put in the work and that work, Tony's, favorite event that we have a state with destiny. Emma take a few moments right now to walk you through. What that event is it's a sixth day only immersion about with Tony and its favourite event for a reason, so real, quick, real fast? I'm gonna walk you through this because in our holiday season, this is the event that we want to invite you to, and so it's about doing the work to figure out in a why we are the way we are it's about deciding what you want to change about your internal world, and this is the line that we want to invite you to, and so it's about doing the work to figure out in a why we are the way we are it's about deciding what you want to change about your internal world true truly rewiring you're nervous system from your butt
from your beliefs and your values, figuring out your life's purpose. Does that sound so photographer right now in our lives? a purpose every single day. You'll do the work and take with us need to set yourself up for fulfilling your life with what you enjoy, and in a year where this world, when upside down
with what you enjoy and in a year where this world, when upside down and it with Tony a day with destiny, is favorite of that. So you can go into twenty twenty one, full of purpose, conviction that you are creating the life that you want, and the Good NEWS is schooling to be one hundred percent virtual. It fully in verse of experience from the comfort of your own. How we could do this with your family, with your dog, with your lover, you can say baby we're doing this thing. This is my Christmas gift my holiday give whatever you're celebrating. We have holiday pricing right now, so we want to give this gift to you today, and this is an offer. You're not gonna, see again, we do this with our fireside chats it's a gift from Tony and sage. We want to give this togae sitting so go grab your tickets sedately destiny. I cannot wait to see you there. We love you guys. Thank you for sharing this time with us, and we will see you in December.
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